Faithful1234:
must u talk

Asin

JBArokonkwo1:



I am an atheist. My wife is a christian. We don't have any issues with it. I don't disturb her religious practices. She uses my car to go to church and if I have somewhere going,I use train or go by bus. Sometimes I go to work at Birmingham and I have to use train if she's using my car.
I don't discuss religion because it's of no use to me. She invited me for her programs and I sometimes attend. It doesn't change my beliefs. It makes her happy when I attend. I do it because I love her and want her to be happy. No need grandstanding.
She respects my indifference.

I'll marry her over and over again!


Religion traps u...love liberates u.

Peace !

Nigerian men need to read this over and over again!

Klass99:
I dated him for a brief moment and it remains one of my best dating experiences ever

We sort of both knew that there was no next level or permanent stuff like marriage in the works for us, because of our different beliefs.

Just writing about this elicits fond thoughts of him and makes me smile. Why did I date him? You may be wondering......I did for different reasons like;

Una too like amebo. Bye

E no pass his big gbola he shags u with

Doradorwa:
Im actually going through a trying time right now at school with my boyfriend due to my non attachment to any religion.... but I believe true love must respect decisions especially personal ones. Just like that Namaste Wahala thing.

I feel you sis, it must be lonely as a non religious Nigerian woman

Are you willing to compromise?

aroundtheearth:
Not at all! Most of my closest friends have been Muslims, then one agnostic. I get along better with non-Christians than I do with Christians (and that's coming from a Christian.

Ok. I have some good Muslim friends too.

KingKingKing:


It is any of these three

1) It's a fiction
2) you are Non Nigerian
3) It's a Movie

Why must it be those 3 things?

pocohantas:
Date?
I will marry him and be cooking his favourite food everyday. In fact, I will pay dowry to his people.

Sarcasm?

I'm seriously looking for one to date.
If l don't see, l will marry a Catholic or Methodist girl.

Last option is to marry a Muslem.

Klass99:


Lol . I dated him because;

1. Dude spoke my love languages without me ever revealing what they were - the thing bust my head die

2. He had class, great taste and a strong sense of responsibility towards self and family I admired - he still does.

3. He was older and mature, I actually like my men older than me. Like fine wine, men get better with age is not a myth at all. Younger men or the ones in my age group are in the habit of sending photos of their peepee, calling you baby or sweetheart within a short time of meeting you, it's a huge turn off and there was none of that with him.

4. We could carry on delightful conversations via chats and in person, he never texted in short hand (another thing that tripped me to pieces) our conversations were meaningful, they had depth and substance.

5. I'm a health and fitness conscious person, I liked that at his age he was trim, fit and healthy not to mention good looking and he worked out every week. It was easy to get him the ideal valentine gift last year.

6. Our first date was so cool. We did a movie @ the cinema, sat down to a light meal of pizza/ drinks afterwards and gisted for 2 hours just getting to know ourselves.

Please tell me, how could I not have dated this man? Atheist or not? I decided a long time ago that I was never going to deny myself the company of good a man, simply because a relationship won't lead to marriage.

Just answering your question has me thinking of him and all my memories of him are pleasant. It's his birthday April 1, I think I'm going to have a surprise gift delivered to him, even though we drifted apart and haven't spoken to each other for a while, I like this guy. Have I satisfied your amebo curiosity?

please what's the age difference?

I'd be glad to get a reply...

milann:
You meet someone, got along well (you two almost dating). Next thing you found out, s/he is an atheist. What would you do? Would you quit? Would you go ahead? Would your belief in God hinder you from marrying a great person? Share your thoughts.

This is a no-brainer.

I'd quit on the spot.

Two cannot walk together except they agree.

It seems more like most people commenting need help by the way they sound.

"I can't date and atheist". "Oh, God forbid I date a Muslim." ...

You people sound like these sets of people would have no option without you. Lolz.

And in the real life, chances are you'd be living with these people you sound quite spiteful towards in a pretensive manner. Funny lot. What a set of compatriots.

Who Religion epp?

Religion na SCAM..

Proudly Atheist..

i926:

More like her fantasy.

Exactly

I would really love to meet and date one in real life. I only get to meet religious men, and I'm sincerely sick of them at this point.
ps: I'm agnostic

1Sharon:


Why must it be those 3 things?

Cuz her experience sounds too good to be true

It will make a good movie script

I even think an Athiest woman, would raise up more thoughtful and intelligent Children, and Spiritual belief( based on religion) from the father could help children having an understanding that gives peace regardless of any circumstance.

Regardless i think an Athiest woman is more thoughtful and intelligent.

1Sharon:


I feel you sis, it must be lonely as a non religious Nigerian woman

Are you willing to compromise?

I'm a woman whose decisions can not be easily influence... at least that's the kind of woman I want to be... I have my reasons for not being religious... if people I love are not going to support me so be it... it's my life after all but sincerely it's so lonely... I've lose some friends and I'm about to lose someone I love...

Zzor:
I can never date an atheist, I'm a believer

Naso

Zooposki:


Oh yes. The people I want to avoid are religious folks like your Christians, Muslims etc.

The liberal ones are actually cool, don't write all of them off

I am a full blown Atheist

Who is going to be worried that you married an Atheist,

1. Would it be your parents?
2. Would it be you?

If you don't really care personally, then I wonder why you didn't choose to continue.

I really hope I don't meet a lady who is actually in love with someone else as you are right now, because they will continue to compare me & everything I do with that person. So nothing ever satisfies them.

Klass99:


Please tell me, how could I not have dated this man? Atheist or not? I decided a long time ago that I was never going to deny myself the company of good a man, simply because a relationship won't lead to marriage.

Just answering your question has me thinking of him and all my memories of him are pleasant. It's his birthday April 1, I think I'm going to have a surprise gift delivered to him, even though we drifted apart and haven't spoken to each other for a while, I like this guy. Have I satisfied your amebo curiosity?

1Sharon:


Sarcasm?

Nooo. Babe I am dead serious o.

Doradorwa:
I'm a woman whose decisions can not be easily influence... at least that's the kind of woman I want to be... I have my reasons for not being religious... if people I love are not going to support me so be it... it's my life after all but sincerely it's so lonely... I've lose some friends and I'm about to lose someone I love...

Wow I love that sis..what reasons pls

What happened? Has he tried to convert you?

Everyone is an atheist first. before they get indoctrinated into any world theistic belief systems then that of their immediate families so??

Also generally, you find the most morally upright, smart, jovial & open minded people among so called pagans/atheist so if your theistic belief system wouldn't let you date an atheist, please run along in peace.

Zzor:
I can never date an atheist, I'm a believer

shut-up dia madam.
You just haven't met one.

You'd be the happiest woman to date a man like me

studentofTruth:


My preference if possible, especially an agnostic. If she must be a Christian, it has to be a Catholic, Angrican, or Methodist (any of the orthodox christians). At least, those ones can reason properly.

A separate question for you op, can you date someone from the brotherhood of stars or whatever they call it (Olumba Olumba people)?

I've liked them talkless of dating their member.

Kobicove:


So you want to dig for gold?

yes bro , my babe is a budhist i really dont care she is richer than me

Robertgreene1:
we were all born atheists...untill someone started feeding us lies nd myths nd super stories..where snakes nd horses talked nd men lived 4 969 yrs...intresting!!!

I love this.

pocohantas:


Nooo. Babe I am dead serious o.

That's nice to hear

God forbid that I date a carnal man talk more of an atheist.

Zzor:
I can never date an atheist, I'm a believer

indeed

Who cares! Religion is a farce anyway and reeks of deceit and manipulation. Dating an atheist will be one less stress to deal, no judgments and more enjoyable.