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Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by descarado: 1:22pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1:Both parents work, both train the kids. Each focusing on his or her strong points and the other knowing when to draw the curtain and allow the other to take charge. Wonder why this should be a topic. So you know not everybody is on Facebook, tiktok, Facebook etc and not every home allow their kids to do as they want on internet. Nor do every woman want to be like the K family or every man want to live life like a Nigerian politician or pastors. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by BalogunIdowu(m): 1:25pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
It's not selfish act, firstly it must be admitted that it is not their responsibility to spend on the family and if they would, it should be to assist and not an enforcement! However, we encourage they do |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by ImaIma1(f): 2:09pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Reex12: I think he's talking about a woman that also esrns money (works morning till evening too) but still comes back to do all the chores. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by ImaIma1(f): 2:19pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Incognito403: Lol...i work and I also do chores at home cos I don't have a help. Thankfully, hubby does chores too without being told; bath the kid, sweep, etc. Doing dishes is not his strong point though. And my money is not just mine...we plan finances together. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 2:26pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
sisisioge: It's not impossible unless there are unrealistic expectations of a lifestyle that is not sustainable. There are many families that survive on minimum wage or less. And it is not essential that a child must be sent to a school that is beyond the reach of the family budget. That marital discord thrives in the face of financial distress is still due to discontentment. Women can help more by being emotionally supportive when their husbands don't have much than by being made responsible for part of the expenses. I agree that different homes have different systems, but there are many ills associated with women being obliged to pay home expenses. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 2:34pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
descarado: No family can have two leaders. That is a feminist narrative. It does not work. descarado: When they both work, little time is left to spend with the children. They have little influence on the kind of values that the children imbibe; from a very young, impressionable age. It's not rocket science. descarado: That was an analogy. But true. Most people want to tailor their lifestyles to fit the expectations either of others or to be like those they see on screens/online. It matters little where they see these things. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by nick50(m): 2:35pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:..in Africa every male child is being perceived as 'born to suffer' while thier female counterparts were never allowed to work n hussle ,from taking care of thier parents,siblings and relatives to starting thier own family, after all the suffering most of them die young after laying a huge foundation n training thier kids in school then d wife will now take over thier vast properties n wealth, some of these lazy greedy wives will brainwash thier kids n turn them against thier father.. Honestly it's so disheartening cos with d way things are going in this present world the male folks will go into extinction soon 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by djon78(m): 2:35pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
It depends on each family's peculiarity I know some where the man brings in 100% the woman runs the home and they are ok with that Some both couple's work but the woman supports with her own contribution but the man also supports the woman in chores. He doesn't leave everything to her It all depends on individual family What works for each couple and doesn't cause friction so be it And it also depends on the kind of partner one marries Some women no dey play with there money oo, while some are open with there finances But honestly in many homes the man brings in almost all the money needed and doesn't complain If you married a woman that doesn't earn much compared to you, then you should take on the bills but she also should bring in something once in a while to show she is not selfish More about applying wisdom here in the Marriage |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by descarado: 2:59pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1:What has feminism got to do with my post? No need debating with you. U just killed the passion. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by descarado: 3:01pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
nick50:Where in Africa please. Be specific. Cos where I come from, females work. I and host of other ladies here work. I have few female African colleagues too. So do tell me, where exactly in Africa do this happen? |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 3:27pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
descarado: Feminism is the reason behind seeking excuses for getting women to abandon the care of their children and going to work. There is no other justification for it. Yes. Each parent should raise the children according to their strengths. The man's strength is his ability to make money, the woman's is the ability to train and nurture them from a young age. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by sisisioge: 4:21pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: Well, you wouldnt have been so far off in 1980 but this is 2021. What is the essence of exposing the girl child to the same education as the boy child if only to expect her to contentedly sit at home nurturing children for better or worse even though she has the capabilities of supporting the man to make things better by working? Remember the parable of the talent in the bible...she will be committing a crime against nature if shes not exploring her God given talent biko. In fact, let us stop ascribing a special consideration for gender capabilities, let's just say we are all working the fields to make our lives better. I will choose to earn a living for myself, support my partner by earning a living for us and just choose a better standard of living simply because I have the capabilities to foot the bill of that life. So simple. Meanwhile, let me let you enjoy the rest of your evening. Cheers papi. 2 Likes |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 4:38pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
sisisioge: Because that comes at a price. It always does. And there are special considerations for gender capabilities. Wishing there aren't any does not make them go away. And please stop this unbecoming postscript that you always sign off with. If you do not want me to respond, stop mentioning my comment. 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 8:39pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 8:40pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Jaqenhghar: 8:42pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
EvilNeedle:Dumb Listic |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 8:42pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 8:43pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Jaqenhghar: 8:44pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
EvilNeedle:You go tire. Continue |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Jaqenhghar: 8:44pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
EvilNeedle:Dumb Ology |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 8:47pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar: I'm just getting started. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 8:47pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Jaqenhghar: 9:33pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
EvilNeedle: If you stop you are a conpound fool |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by 001spice: 9:51pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Ardar:U r a trash stupid poor ass hole idiot. lazy stingy bitch |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Princessogaraya(f): 11:08pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
milann: I know why will they always call Nigeria girls useless |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by 001spice: 11:15pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Ardar:Dirty poor ass hole |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by milann: 11:32pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Princessogaraya:Nigeria girls are not useless. I don't belong to that line of thought because my gf too is a nigerian. I believe every girl is unique in her own way. 1 Like |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by EvilNeedle(m): 1:43am On Mar 17, 2021 |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Realestbae(f): 3:00am On Mar 17, 2021 |
Oga, check ursef there is something U r not doing right. |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Nobody: 8:44am On Mar 17, 2021 |
Stockquality: Absolutely correct, I have nothing to add to this master piece...... |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by DedeNkem: 5:18pm On Mar 17, 2021 |
Any woman who is capable to contribute financially to the household expenditure but refuse to do so, is not worthy to be married!! |
Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by Yeecar(m): 5:35pm On Mar 19, 2021 |
Ardar: I wasn't seeking your attention in the first place, i was only trying to change your foul and bitter attitudes , which is obviously due to poor ubringing. Your attention doesn't take care of my bills and responsibilities, again, you goofed! You probably had typed this with your privates, because i cant imagine a reasonable human being of high standards stopping so low.... However, I insist you go back to my post, this time read it slowly with your BRAIN and thats assuming you've got any one functioning... |
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