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Re: Would you date an atheist? by Vulcanheph(m): 8:10am On Mar 17, 2021
milann:
Zzor whats your say
Sorry bro but if you think that hoe will have any tangible thing to say in an intelligent conversation then you are gravely mistaken..... If it's a thread about Gold diggers who follow men for money , then I'm sure she would have commented before you.
Re: Would you date an atheist? by techtechh: 8:11am On Mar 17, 2021
Tonalphs:
I know I'm neither a Christian, Muslim or an atheist. I'll rather call myself a spiritual person. I don't believe in a sky God but I believe in a force. I call it source or the universal subconscious mind. although I study the Bible, pray, read law of attraction books and harness my powers. But maybe because of the religious country we're in, I'm unable to take a stance. cos when I tell people, naaaa, I don't go to church, they feel like I'm the devil.
most people feel I go to church. after all, if they ask me how's church, my response is positive. I just don't want that look sort off. but those pretty close to me who don't judge me to my face, I make them understand that I don't do church.
Mehn Nigeria is such a backward country. they've refused to live and let me live.
This is exactly me stand
Spirituality with some element of Christianity
Re: Would you date an atheist? by pocohantas(f): 8:14am On Mar 17, 2021
ednut1:
you single Con marry me. We don break up -irreconcilable differences grin

I no dey single. Lol @ irreconcilable differences. Quite surprising though.

masterP042:

you've said it all, we just need good conscience and brains. cos without critical thinking, atheism can just be another form of religion.
your posts always have a touch of extra wisdom, I admire your personality and class, although I may have a few difference, especially on your views about men especially Igbo men.

Pele... smiley
Re: Would you date an atheist? by techtechh: 8:16am On Mar 17, 2021
Tonalphs:

not really ma'am. I read the Bible because most law of attraction books quote the Bible. if you study Neville Goddard books, he made reference to the Bible. I guess he explains the Bible better than any preacher so far and he's not a Christian. I don't believe in heaven or hell. I believe in the present moment. I read other books too like I mentioned. and mind you, law of attraction books maybe someone else Bible sort off. I'm more of Oprah Winfrey school of thought.
funny enough if you think it's only Christians that study the Bible. you'd be amazed if you do your research.
Most atheists are bitter people. They will not understand your point of view. I used to be one(atheist). They are as toxic as the religion people they criticise
Re: Would you date an atheist? by femi4: 8:18am On Mar 17, 2021
milann:
You meet someone, got along well (you two almost dating). Next thing you found out, s/he is an atheist. What would you do? Would you quit? Would you go ahead? Would your belief in God hinder you from marrying a great person? Share your thoughts.
No, they are heartless and heart breaker. Nothing guides them
Re: Would you date an atheist? by techtechh: 8:23am On Mar 17, 2021
1Sharon:


Lol why are non religious countries more advanced?
They were once religious countries and the era when they were religious was actually when they got their breakthrough of advancement. Surely when will return back to God. You can see now that they are advancing slowly now as compared to when they were religious. There is nothing wrong in Christianity. The problem is the people that practice it wrongly
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Tonalphs(f): 8:33am On Mar 17, 2021
techtechh:

Most atheists are bitter people. They will not understand your point of view. I used to be one(atheist). They are as toxic as the religion people they criticise
I haven't met an atheist before sir. I don't think they are bitter and toxic either. I feel they feel they are misunderstood and they portray a defensive mechanism cos of that. I don't blame them either. it's just the society they find themselves.

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by Nobody: 9:00am On Mar 17, 2021
tobstarizhia:


I am an agnostic, but I must correct you. I don't believe Jesus was useless. If he existed truly in the past then his heart was in the right place. Sure he might have been deluded into some grandiose idea but he genuinely cared for the poor the sick, etc. Not many people, Atheist or Christian do that these days.
I believe whatever his claims were, he was a good man. And I'd carry on well with my proposition that he was a philosopher and his philosophy was, Be Kind to others and do to others what you'd like to be done to yourself. That's a good character. Forget all the son of God talk for a moment and reason it
Makes alot of sense and i agree, if Jesus even ever existed.
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Nobody: 9:01am On Mar 17, 2021
I'm an atheist and would most likely marry one... cheesy
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Nobody: 9:05am On Mar 17, 2021
techtechh:

Most atheists are bitter people. They will not understand your point of view. I used to be one(atheist). They are as toxic as the religion people they criticise
I can bet my butt you have never met any Atheist, grin you may have being an Atheist as you claimed perhaps you were bitter as an Atheist, well...Not every Atheist are like you when you were one of them. How can you make this kinda ridiculous assertions? grin Ridiculous!!

In your view Atheist are bitter christians are joyous people. grin grin grin

What makes you think you are better than an Atheist? undecided

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by BePrepared: 9:25am On Mar 17, 2021
descarado:

I and my husband don't do religion. Our kids are perfectly fine even in foreign country. Very well behaved.
Parenting values are not coded in any religious books. That was what you were deceived to believe. Before middle East religions, there are ethics that govern where you came from. Have they been replaced by foreign dogmas?
Your parents and culture handed that to u, make use of that.
Ma'am who is the originator of those objective values u teach ur children?

Re: Would you date an atheist? by Nobody: 9:27am On Mar 17, 2021
Too many judges, saints, sanctimonious self righteous people and hyporcrites on here. Labelling their fellow humans Atheists. grin grin Right, you know what? don't do business with an Atheist, don't buy from an Atheist, Don't board the same bus or train with an Atheist, don't sell to an Atheist. Stay the fucck away from Atheists if you hate them that much.

Total bulshiit!! What makes you think you are better than an Atheist? undecided get on with your own damm!! religion!!

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by BePrepared: 9:28am On Mar 17, 2021
gypsey:
I can bet my butt you have never met any Atheist, grin you may have being an Atheist as you claimed perhaps you were bitter as an Atheist, well...Not every Atheist are like you when you were one of them. How can you make this kinda ridiculous assertions? grin Ridiculous!!

In your view Atheist are bitter christians are joyous people. grin grin grin

What makes you think you are better than an Atheist? undecided

Many atheists are really bitter o, always aggressive and insulting.

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by Nobody: 9:29am On Mar 17, 2021
BePrepared:


Many atheists are really bitter o, always aggressive and insulting.
Acording to you! grin grin
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Limassol(m): 9:42am On Mar 17, 2021
StoneColdBiceps:


That's the problem with we Nigerians. We always compare two unequals. Comparing America and Nigeria! Instead compare Nigeria with Ghana.

How about we compare apples to apples in this case Nigeria vs Brazil?
Re: Would you date an atheist? by SlawG: 10:37am On Mar 17, 2021
BePrepared:


Many atheists are really bitter o, always aggressive and insulting.
Lemme understand something!! An atheist will see you and start insulting you? I just don't get it, like i'm lost here sir/ma'am...

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by Emperorlanky: 10:47am On Mar 17, 2021
HellVictorinho:

Born!!!!!!
Did you have faith in any God at the age of 1

I thought atheist believe humans evolved from non-living things. Am surprised you said we were All born.
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Emperorlanky: 10:48am On Mar 17, 2021
HellVictorinho:

Born!!!!!!
Did you have faith in any God at the age of 1

I thought atheist believe humans evolved from non-living things. Am surprised you said we were ALL born.
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 17, 2021
Emperorlanky:


I thought atheist believe humans evolved from non-living things. Am surprised you said we were ALL born.
The first humans were not born.
They just appeared.
An appearance is a structure that shows an arrangement of ageless indivisible objects.
An appearance happens by chance.
Since the first humans appeared,they have been reproducing.
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Cousin9999: 11:15am On Mar 17, 2021
Yes. As long as they're not weird or overly vocal about it, or so ignorant that they think it's outside the realm of possibility for a creator to exist.
Re: Would you date an atheist? by 1Sharon(f): 11:34am On Mar 17, 2021
techtechh:

They were once religious countries and the era when they were religious was actually when they got their breakthrough of advancement. Surely when will return back to God. You can see now that they are advancing slowly now as compared to when they were religious. There is nothing wrong in Christianity. The problem is the people that practice it wrongly


Nigeria isn't religious as it is? With 4 churches on one street?

oya ...so when will Nigeria get their breakthrough when they are far more religious than Europeans used to be
Re: Would you date an atheist? by virago(f): 11:34am On Mar 17, 2021
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You sound so ill informed

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by 1Sharon(f): 11:36am On Mar 17, 2021
Emperorlanky:


I thought atheist believe humans evolved from non-living things. Am surprised you said we were ALL born.

Which atheist told you that?

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by 1Sharon(f): 11:42am On Mar 17, 2021
techtechh:

Most atheists are bitter people. They will not understand your point of view. I used to be one(atheist). They are as toxic as the religion people they criticise

You were never an atheist, stop it.

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by 1Sharon(f): 11:43am On Mar 17, 2021
StoneColdBiceps:


My friend put a cap in the "G" when you're referencing God your creator. be humble

Dog god
Re: Would you date an atheist? by Nmezor(f): 11:54am On Mar 17, 2021
Will quit o
Re: Would you date an atheist? by descarado: 12:21pm On Mar 17, 2021
techtechh:

Most atheists are bitter people. They will not understand your point of view. I used to be one(atheist). They are as toxic as the religion people they criticise
They are bitter cos of something not because they are atheist.
You are more likely to be bitter as a religious person cos of religious consciousness, obligations and restrictions. These psych your subconscious making you unknowingly bitter. The fact that you see me cozing up with my dude makes you a judge and judges of characters are very bitter people.
Re: Would you date an atheist? by finofaya: 12:42pm On Mar 17, 2021
I'm an atheist so I would.

I definitely prefer not to date a very religious person. I'm not saying that atheists are better partners or anything, since at the end of the day a person is more than just their religious beliefs and "mundane" things like cultural or social values, personality and financial sense are very important too. An atheist can be as much of blessing or a curse as a religious person.

I'm attracted to open-minded and tolerant people. A very religious person may have those qualities but I'm not going to wait to find out lol. In my experience they rarely do. If I meet two people with everything, I'm going with the less religious one. And more points if she's an atheist too. I mean, it would be nice to have someone I can sit around with and speculate about how the origin of existence is God coming from his penis. (abeg make una no vex embarassed)

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by manos(m): 1:05pm On Mar 17, 2021
Nigerian based Atheist male here, married to a christian female for about 2 years now, we dated for much longer than 5 years prior!
Before I got married, I had several relationships (about 10 ladies, mostly igbos and some yorubas, all christians) but I have never dated a fellow atheist for one simple reason, which is...just like diamonds, in nigeria it is very difficult to come across a female atheist.
My marriage has its ups and downs, like every other marriage, but one surprising thing is that our religious difference hardly ever leads to any issues. Also, It has never really been a relationship deal breaker, from the point of view of any of my previous love interests.
When I ask them why, they simply mention that I treat them nicely or that I am a nice person.

Note: I am not very outgoing and i don't have a fat bank account either, so my desirability to the opposite sex has little or nothing to do with them being lured by the promise of financial stability or charisma.

Summary: Under the hood, we (humans) are all the same, and we just want to love and be loved. If that feeling is satisfied, every other thing na jara!

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by virago(f): 1:33pm On Mar 17, 2021
simplesearch:
What greatness is there in a child who deny the existence of his/her parents. God called anyone who disbelieve or deny his existence as fools, and a fool isn't a great person by any standard.


God or your deluded slave masters

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Re: Would you date an atheist? by StoneColdBiceps(m): 2:13pm On Mar 17, 2021
Limassol:


How about we compare apples to apples in this case Nigeria vs Brazil?

May God annoint your wishful thinking, my brother. Rest in self distruct. Pls don't use your innocent friends and family as collateral damage, so ti gbo?
Re: Would you date an atheist? by RALPHOW(m): 5:00pm On Mar 17, 2021
My question to aietists-:
1. Do you believe there is juju?
2. What do you think Sunday Igboho and Igbo guy used to stop bullet from penetrating their bodies?
3. Reference to the above questions, do you believe there is devil?
4. If there is devil, why do you think there is no God?
Please answer all the questions with all sincerity and you will see that you may be STUPID.
Asiwere eniyan ni yo so wipe Olorun kosi!!!

budaatum:
You should go and start a thread of your own if you want answers to your questions. Alternatively, search for answers to the same question you've asked in the numerous threads where they have already been asked because that's really how you'd be showing you are not the stupid one here.



I know you can not answer the simple questions!
Just wake up to reality and stop deceiving yourself.

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