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Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 5:21pm On Aug 29, 2019 |
inception101:Swap with far cry primal or need for speed; rivals |
Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 5:17pm On Aug 29, 2019 |
ShopNextDoor:Are the games still available? |
Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 12:00am On Aug 29, 2019 |
Sholzbankz:Swap call of duty with far cry primal |
Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 11:58pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
Gameboyy007:Available for swap with far cry primal? |
Career / Re: Isaac Adewole: Not All Medical Graduates Must Practice, Some Can Be Farmers by Priest69(m): 9:02am On Sep 22, 2018 |
Chai! My former VC! We don't have enough medical doctors for our massive population and you advice the ones we have to go into farming |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Sales Girl Urgently Needed At Isolo by Priest69(m): 8:59am On Aug 21, 2018 |
*Attention!!!* All the Premium BAs that want to work for the Golden morn puffs activations should be at ideasHouse Agency. *Wednesday 22nd. August, 2018* *Time- 9am* *Address - 1 Brooks estate Magodo, off CMD road,after ikosi ketu. Magodo* Please Premiums BAs, Beautiful, Hardworking and Smart. Pay very Good. |
Agriculture / Re: Vanilla Chocolate Plant Can Grow In Nigeria: $67/kilo, Local Price by Priest69(m): 5:49pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Are you for real? |
Education / Re: Girl Child Education: Key To Development by Priest69(m): 11:38am On Jul 30, 2018 |
BIXYBABE:Why should the parents let the boy child do nothing in the house? Even the house chores the girl child does in the house are valuable skills that she can earn money from. The boy child is left alone without learning any skill at home making him a dependant to his family and community and roaming the streets |
Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 7:20pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
StPete:Sure contact me on collziwuchukwu@gmail.com then I will send my whatsapp number to you. I stay in Lagos |
Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 7:16pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
neo18:Yes it's arkham knight. 8k, contact me collziwuchukwu@gmail.com I stay in Lagos |
Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 11:12am On Jul 06, 2018 |
pinkyruledworld:What's the subtitle for uncharted4? |
Gaming / Re: PS4 Games Exchange by Priest69(m): 9:32am On Jul 05, 2018 |
I have The last of us The evil within Batman FIFA 16 ..... All for sale or exchange |
Romance / 10 Reasons Smart Guys Fail With Women (and What To Do About It) by Priest69(m): 5:26pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
Written by David De Angelo(double your dating) Are you buckled in? Is your mind open? Awesome. Then let's get to them: REASON #1: You're Wrong But Won't Admit It I mentioned that smart guys are used to being right in most situations. And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they're wrong? They find a new situation... one that fits their strength. They know they'll be right next time, so they just walk away... knowing that it won't be long before they're right again. (OR they let the problem situation destroy them... more on that later.) Well, the problem about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is there's nowhere to run and hide. There's no quick "I'm right" around the next corner to make you feel better. It only takes failing with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern... and realize that something isn't working. Solution? Think harder. A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good... so he just keeps thinking harder.But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult. Accepting that you're wrong is a very hard thing for a smart guy to do. Accepting that you're not only wrong, but you have no clue where to even start is even more difficult. Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion: I am a smart guy, therefore if I can't figure out how to be successful with women and dating, then the problem must not be solvable or worth solving. Try that on for a self-defeating idea. REASON #2: You're Blinded By Arrogance In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable answer could come from someone dumber than them, so they discount any idea that comes from an obviously less intelligent person before trying it. Let me ask you a question: If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50... but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that wanted to eat him all his life? It's an interesting question. Now, hopefully you'd like to have the guide who isn't the smartest guy around... but who has escaped from many, many dangerous situations with deadly animals... But now let me ask you: If you'd like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating, would you take advice from a guy who isn't very intelligent, but who knows how to attract women? There's something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than them. Well, any smart guy can see the folly in this particular approach... once it's examined closely. If you've been making this mistake, then you need to stop it. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes. Look around. Learn from some dumb guys... and let them teach you how to get what you really want. REASON #3: Poor Social Skills It blows my mind how many smart guys I meet that just don't get it when it comes to basic social skills. It's as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games... and not worth the time it would take to learn them. In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around this planet who don't even have social skills and be a cool guy that people like in their mental model of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating. Social skills are just that... skills. They're not social information. They're not social theories. They're social SKILLS. And you don't get them by thinking about them. You get them by getting them. Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans... and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women. REASON #4: You Psyche Yourself Out Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me... They come up with all the reasons why everything won't work when it comes to women and dating. They actually figure out why what it is that they would like to do will probably fail... They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of horrible pictures and scenes... and then they use those imaginary outcomes to create negative emotions... which ultimately stop them from having success with women and dating.They don't even try. Now, if you've thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right? I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail? It is sound logic, but horrible thinking when it comes to the real world... and success with women. Because smart guys don't understand women, and they don't understand what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad figures. They're wrong before they even start figuring! Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won't work in this area of your life leads to ultimate failure. You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it. REASON #5: You Seek Only "Informational" Solutions What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out? He looks for information to help him solve the problem. More information is always the answer. Information is the friend of a smart guy. Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the Internet and search for how to eliminate it. Don't know how to change the alternator on your car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page 147. Don't know the definition of a word? Open up your dictionary. More information solves the problem. So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women? They want more information. They think the answer lies in learning just ONE more technique... or one more magic concept. Well what if there were a situation in life where the get more information strategy actually made things worse? How would you even know that it was making things worse? Now, I don't want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. It's not. But if you have a problem that is emotional or physical in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn't going to help you very much. You need to get out in the real world and try some stuff! You need to look at the real problem... the root of the problem. When it comes to women and dating, there's a very good chance that you have more than enough information. Smart guys often use more information to distract them from taking action. I've heard this referred to as Creative Avoidance. Nod silently if you've ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life. Good, thank you. REASON #6: You Focus On Logic Instead Of Emotions News just in: Women don't feel attraction for men who make them think. Women feel attraction for men who make them FEEL. So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman? Exactly! They get into a logical conversation. Smart men try to engage women in logical conversations and interactions because that's where they feel comfortable... not knowing that they're shooting themselves in the foot by doing it! Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel attraction for you by engaging her in logical conversation. When you start a logical conversation with a woman you've just met, you are basically taking out a neon sign that says, "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head. Typical logical conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing politics, religion, weather... and anything that has to do with math, science, or intelligence. On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say, "Ok, so tell me something... Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish, bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) Now you're having an emotional conversation. If you don't know what I'm talking about, KEEP READING. You need more help than I thought. Important note: If you just read this section, and you can identify with what I'm talking about, then I highly recommend that you read this right now. REASON #7: You're Not Used To The Challenge Of The Moment Smart people usually have time to think about things. If you're taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers. If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you've figured it out. If you're trying to fix something, you can keep working on it until it's fixed. Smart guys are used to being able to take at least a little bit of time to prepare and show off their good sides in most situations. Not so with women... If you don't know what to do at every step along the way, you'll be shut down very quickly. Women have an amazing "He doesn't get it" radar system. Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious tests that they throw at men to separate the get its from the don't get its. And if you don't get it, then you're going to fail one of these tests very quickly. But the worst part is that you won't ever know that you were being tested... or that you failed. Smart guys aren't used to dealing with complex emotional and communication challenges in the moment... and especially the women and dating kind. One of the keys to becoming more successful with women and dating is learning to handle all of the tests that women throw at you effortlessly. But before you can learn how to deal with the tests, you must first learn how to communicate on an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you have fundamental social skills, and how to keep your cool in the moment. REASON #8: You Think That Doing "Nice Things" Is The Smart Way OK, let me ask you a trick question: If I told you that you were going to have a date with the super model of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a smart way of preparing: Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be wowed. Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her. Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner... and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed. OK, time's up. Which did you choose? Now, I already mentioned that this was a trick question. The answer is none of the above. But WHY? These three options all seemed logical, right? I mean, why wouldn't you want to show up with her favorite flowers? Why wouldn't you want to talk about to her about her favorite places to travel? Why wouldn't you want to take her to eat her favorite foods so she enjoyed herself? Go with me here... Smart guys think that they're being clever when they do things like buying a woman her favorite flowers... and bringing them to the first date. Right? In their minds they're thinking, "I'm going to be the guy who is thinking ahead... and I'm going to show up with the flowers that I know she loves... and she's going to see them and like me more because of it." Makes sense... good math, right? Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that these smart guys make is not realizing that it doesn't actually take a smart person to think like this! In fact, any jackass can figure out how to kiss a woman's ass. And guess what? Women know this! And guess what else? Every WUSSBAG does this stuff. An intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will think he's being such the charmer by using this thoughtful approach ...and the woman he is chasing will interpret it as just another wussy who's trying to manipulate her. Ouch. Another blow to intelligence. REASON #9: You Always Need To Be The Expert Have you ever met someone who always needed to be right? Someone who would actually argue with you about something they knew nothing about... and make a fool of themselves because they just couldn't shut their smart mouths? Over my years of helping guys improve their success with women, I see this one pattern over and over again... Smart guys don't like to be beginners at anything. They don't like the idea of screwing up... especially if others are watching. They want to maintain this smart guy image of themselves... so they try to always be The Expert at whatever they do. Instead of saying, "Hey, you know what? I'm a beginner at this... how do I do it? What should I do first? What next?"... and instead of being totally ok with screwing up, making mistakes, and making a fool of themselves in front of others in order to learn. They won't risk embarrassment, failure, or others thinking that they're beginners... so they wind up ultimately failing. But it's OKAY to be a beginner. REASON #10: You Can't Deal With Fear And Other Emotions A smart guy's strength is his mind. His weakness is often his emotions. Smart guys are often immobilized by fear. Totally stopped. Frozen. And since many smart guys aren't comfortable dealing with things they're not good at, they just repress or run away from fear. Many men would rather die in lonely isolation than admit that they don't know how to deal with their emotions ... or, God forbid, ask for help! I went for years like this. I know what it's like. But the reality is that any guy can learn to handle and even master his emotions (even fear)... if he just takes the time and effort to learn HOW to do it. If this is you, then do yourself a big favor... take the time. Take the effort. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks of you... it doesn't matter. What matters is you doing the things that YOU need to do for you. #copied 1 Like 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: George Weah Wears Nigerian Suit By Emeka Oparah Of Ethelberts In Abuja (Photos) by Priest69(m): 9:15pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Liberia will be better than Nigeria in 10yrs times |
Business / Re: Zenith Bank Partners Facebook, Mastercard To Pioneer QR Payments On Messenger by Priest69(m): 11:13am On Mar 06, 2018 |
fakuta:Lol why would you say that? |
Celebrities / Re: Miyonse, Princess, Bambam And Tboss During BBNaija Audition by Priest69(m): 2:21pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Brooke60:Are you just finding out? 1 Like |
Career / How To Get Millions Of Naira Worth Of Grants by Priest69(m): 12:31pm On Feb 15, 2018 |
Do you know you can get access to up to N10million Naira grant to finance your business and career be it agriculture, fashion, trading, transport etc simply by being a member of nongovernmental organization? The United Nations and UNICEF is empowering 30million Nigerians with grants to eliminate the high rate of poverty in the country through selected 25NGOs. Ishiba development and empowerment center is one of the 25 selected NGOs through which grants will be sent to empower Nigerians. Membership fee is only 500NGN (not up to the money for data subscription) To know how to get the grant contact 08060817105 (whatsapp) To know more about ishiba, visit www.ishibadcs.org |
Business / Re: Which Profitable Business Can I Start With 1 Million Naira by Priest69(m): 8:45am On Feb 08, 2018 |
Rolly22:Send ur whatsapp in a mail to me; collziwuchukwu@gmail.com |
Business / Re: Which Profitable Business Can I Start With 1 Million Naira by Priest69(m): 10:40pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
I am aware of the fact that, some people have the money and resource to start up a business but don't know what to do, also some people started up businesses recently but it failed @ first attempt all because they dint make proper research before venturing into the business... I will help you research Niches that sells like crazy, show you your competitors, to know if they are healthy or not, show you your market demand, how to get the products you need to sell for physical goods, where to get your market and all that. I make a validation test in any area of your interest... And give you a valid uptodate report on what to do and what not to do. Indicate below if you are interested to learn this |
Romance / Re: Buy And Sell Goods, Services And Products On Shop2taste.com by Priest69(m): 9:20am On Feb 07, 2018 |
Nice concept.... But y the need to provide account details? How can goods be delivered to the buyers? |
Romance / Re: Topic removed by Priest69(m): 7:12pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
CeeJay9ja:Ok chief, noted |
Romance / Re: Topic removed by Priest69(m): 7:12pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
OgahBohz:And what gave you the impression I don't? Do you have all the answers on the realities of life? I asked a question of something that has been in occurrence and ask of its normalty and not looking for advice on priorities |
Romance / Re: Topic removed by Priest69(m): 4:19pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
CeeJay9ja:So you find the issue I'm talking about fairly normal? |
Romance / Re: Topic removed by Priest69(m): 1:28pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
yarimo:Lol Abeg leave village people matter |
Romance / Re: Topic removed by Priest69(m): 1:27pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
CeeJay9ja:Not exactly, getting to know them before I dating is what I mean |
Romance / Topic removed by Priest69(m): 12:40pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
Topic removed |
Politics / Re: No To Cattle Colonies By Femi Falana. by Priest69(m): 11:18am On Jan 22, 2018 |
seunmsg:Oh! Everything is wrong with it. 1. This means cattle owners will have hectares of lands in every states in the country on a platter of gold. The fulanis will settle in these areas with their families and as we know in the past, these people aren't peace and law abiding they take what they want. 2. There will be periods in which the cattle and herdsmen will cross boundaries of their colonies into other areas 3. What will happen to the jobless youths in the state whose lands are given away? Why not the FG have agricultural colonies in every states and employ the youths in the state work on cassava, vegetables and rice farms 4. Colonies is a threat to the security of the state. How do we know what is being harbored or kept in those colonies? It could be ammunitions, missiles, bombs etc. will the state government have the right to know what is happening in those colonies? I can go on and on about your question on what is wrong about cattle colonies but I feel stupid already in trying to explain to you what you should have thought of or know 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Crude Oil: NNPC Account In Red As Petrol Landing Cost Nears N180/litre by Priest69(m): 10:54am On Jan 22, 2018 |
4pppp:If you are a youth, let's start. What's the first step boss? |
Politics / Re: Crude Oil: NNPC Account In Red As Petrol Landing Cost Nears N180/litre by Priest69(m): 10:52am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Why can't the government fund the "illegal refineries" in the south south order than bombing and destroying them and paying so much in getting our products back? Will the country crumble if we do that? I'm definitely going into politics next year if I fail, I'm getting a masters in journalism. I must be involved in this country's politics no more taking the backseat and receiving shits from the government 1 Like |
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