They should be a rehabilitation centre for young criminals such as these to rehabilitate them back into society because the youth are our future leaders. If care is not taken they will grow up to become hardened criminals. I wonder where the parents are of these kids. Some parents are highly irresponsible leaving their kids without even knowledge of where they are. Smh

herbie27:
mind you.

All the characters men exhibit in marriages were already coherent in them, u jst failed to see it while dating him.

My husband can't lay a hand on me, and the day he does it by mistake or otherwise, i will make sure he learns never to lay a hand on me.

Okay I believe the same thing goes with cheating. Isnt cheating also exhibuted during dating? Why not deal with the husband too?

KingCheezyPuff:
°Yesss! She shoulda beat the hell outta him!!!
He clearly had it em when he cheated! Yes!!

Herbie 27 and cekhoe. If for example your brothers wife is cheating on him. Would you advice him to go and beat the other guy as he is a homewrecker. Or would you advise him to beat his wife so she can get sense. Or will you blame him because he was not doing his husband duties? I know you women will give different answers for this same exact scenario

herbie27:
I have also been with a cheating partner too and i jst walked away...becos he was jst a bf, i can't say same for a husband because i'm nt married yet n don't think i will end up wit one.

So we are much alike, jst dat u're supporting the wrong thing, which u are entitled to.

No beaf.

I am supporting the wrong thing how? Because I won't degrade myself by chasing and beating people? In civilised countries its called an assault and can land you in jail my friend. Secondly if my partner cheats I need to be angry with my partner because we are in a relationship and if he/she never allowed it then nothing would have happended. So married or not the blame still goes to them. like I have said fo the 5th time now. If you find joy in beating other women for your man cheating on u then kudos to u. Just make sure you don't meet or match one day and get beaten back that's all

herbie27:
if[b] ur husband cheats on u, u should blame yourself and not him.[/b]

It either means there's something wrong wit u sexually, or there's something you're doing wrongly wit him.

I don't realise that you were one of those type of girls. If your husband beats you its your fault. If tour husband cheats on you its your fault. I can't stand such people to be honest. Those are the kind who live miserable lives and end up 6 feet under.

Let me entertain you. So let's say there is something sexually wrong. So can't the husband discuss with his wife the issue. Would that not be the reasonable thing to do? So now if I decided to cheat on my partner my partner should be blamed. Is there any logic in that? Also when tour partner is not enjoying sex with you then you will know. When someone doesn't do something correctly then you tend to know. Besides cheating is not just about sex. I mean why do ppl cheat if its about sex when you can get it from or spouse. Its about many things as well.

Also if you believe a cheating spouse is your fault why then go attack the 'mistress'? Just a question let's say your husband cheats and then you go and beat his mistress up then he gets another mistress then will you also go and beat her up. What if the mistress is stronger than you and you rather get beaten or she is the crazy type and then you get stabbed in the process and die. Will it be worth it?

herbie27:
forget abt all these internet hypocrisy you guys exhibit.

Lets jst wait until it happens to you....trust me wen i say you will fight for ur husband either physically or otherwise.

What internet hypocrisy. I am telling you the truth. I am a civilised human being. I have never been one to go around shouting and fighting. I have experienced a cheating partner before and I didn't go around causing mayhem and screaming and fighting. Will it make a difference and the answer is no. Like I said before that if that's the kind of person you are then fine. Good for you I just find it distasteful.

herbie27:
There's no way any mistress won't knw a man is married.

Girls jst love going after married men, nt minding the consequences, wives build homes...they bring the best out of their husbands and even wen these men want to cheat, there's always an accomplice and is wrong to be a home wrecker.

There are cases where the other people don't know. What about all those married men who leave their wives in Nigeria and go and have affairs or marry other woman. Are they always aware that the man is married?
If a man wants to cheat he will cheat irrespective of whether the woman is a saint at home or not. If my husband cheats then the blame goes to him. He was the one that made the commitment to me not the third party.

Like I said you cant force people to be morally upright or feel guilty for dating others who are married or in a relationship. That's why you will find good and bad people in this world so for blaming someone and getting frustrated about someone else's moral campus is pointless and stupid cos at the end of the day the person did not force the husband/boyfriend to cheat. A man cannot be forced to do what he doesn't want to do. I will rather face him then run around like a mad hatter chasing and fighting other women. Its highly embarrassing just look at the woman for example. Went to chase and fight another woman only for her husband to side with his mistress and people will be laughing at her as well. Well to each their own. If that's your forte then who am I to stop you

herbie27:
You sound like you've been having affairs with married men.

Lol when they can't come up with a suitable rebuttable then they come up with the usual bs. Sorry to disappoint you but i dont go for men let alone married men but i am sensible enough to know that when a partner cheats on me the blame goes to my partner. I could care less who the other party is.

cekhoe:
If it is the lady coming onto her husband, then she is on track,as some ladies are just out to displace the wife she they can take over,but if her husband is the dog that can't keep his long thing inside his boxers,the she just wasted her effort and strength,such men are not worth it

this is the most moronic statement have ever heard. If the ladies are coming on to her husband its his duty to put a stop to it and put them in place. No woman can force a man to do what he does not want to do. That's a fact! If a guy approaches you and you don't like him. Will you allow him to continue or get close to you? You will tell him off immediately so why is it different now to blame the woman if your husband cheats. If the lady is a close friend or family member then you have reason to feel hurt but if she is someone you dont know then she does not owe you anything. In life you will get good and bad people. Some men don't care if you are married just like some women but its left to their conscience.

herbie27:
Why will any girl want to wreck another woman's home?.

#We reap wat we sow.

how do we know the lady even knew the husband was married? Dumb women blame and fight other women for their men's infidelity. The problem lies with him and not the so called mistress or girlfriends. She is not married to her so the mistress does not owe the wife anything. The problem lies with the husband. So if the husband gets another mistress she will beat her too. If he gets 50 mistresses than she will beat all 50 ladies? That's dumb ass Bleep cos there will always be more and more women that her husband can cheat with unless she is planning to become a profeesional mistress beater her whole life. The husband is the problem and he needs to be faced. Dumb ass agbero wife.

Did ngga short af

Russians always displaying their untoward behaviour everywhere they go.

Bunch of uncivilised hooligans!