Ruby_Pearl:

Ok guys, maybe during the sex, she realized that his koboko was too big and she didn't want anymore. eh.

He was bruising her from the inside
How can I?
When I know the kind of man am getting into a bedroom with?

Then let her inspect his koboko before making a decision

If a woman agrees to sex and midstream she decides she doesn't want it anymore and the man refuses to withdraw his bulala, in my books it's not rape.
What does she expect ?
Is the man an inanimate object?
It's rape when it's forced from the get go,but if she says no and he pleads and she agrees and while he's in she decides she doesn't want it anymore, let her deal with it.
That's the prize of fornication
She should just give him a couple of seconds and the whole thing will be over.

Next time she should know not to go with a man willingly into a room with the door locked, onto a bed with the intent of sex.

dayokanu:

If its illegal to have forced sex in Marriage, then cheating in such situation should be made legal!!!!!

why should a man force himself on his wife?
How is he supposed to enjoy it?

While I don't agree a woman should not withold sex from her husband, it is criminal for a man to force his way through without consent.
It is rape

Happy Ramadan (especially to Olabowale and his wives )
I wish you could parcel some smoked ram to me when the feasting begins
I love you all with the love of the Lord

KarmaMod:

Depends osisi. While I agree on the most part. You have to admit some churches look down on their members asking question or bring up different view

This is just one of the examples of such

But I can assure you people will answer your questions with scriptures even if they don't give you the answers you're looking for
and you won't be lashed with bulala for asking them.

If I were a Muslim for instance,I would ask why Islam condemns lying and turns around and condones lying in 3 circumstances.
Let someone oppose me and I'll show those circumstances.
Infact what the heck!
one of them is that a man can lie to his wife in order to maintain marital peace (paraphrasing)
I guess it's now up to an individual or each individual sharia to define what extent he can go
How deceptive

see this http://www.thereligionofpeace.com/Quran/011-taqiyya.htm

Abuzola:

It is bluttant lie to say scholar re adjusting the age of Aisha before she married, this tradition continues forever

Please answer one simple question for me.
According to the hadiths, how old was aisha when she married Mohammed ?

Abuzola:

Why in some society polygamy is ban is because the men are not capable of dealing among their wives justice

Have you also noticed that the Muslim Yoruba women have the highest rate of divorce in Nigeria and the reason often cited in the divorce papers is "lack of spousal support" /abandonment.
So how could that happen if you'recapable of treating your wives equally.
Isn't it common knowledge that aisha was Mohammeds favourite wife and the other wives were often jealous of her?
If the man you tell us is your perfect example could not love his 14 abi 16 wives equally, how on earth do you think you can?

Abuzola:

in Islam the punishment of an apostasy is execution, check Quran 9:11,12 & 2:214, there is also a hadith on it.

So the verse you all parrot regarding "let your religion be yours" is all lies.
Pure altaquiyyah to deceive readers when it suits you.
How come a Muslim who leaves Islam is not worthy of living?
Who knows how many of you are bored and frustrated with the thing but stay on for fear of being beheaded even by your own relatives way before the sharia police hear of it.
And you wonder why some of us say Islam is evil?
If for instance someone killed Cat stevens for converting to Islam ,do you think it's justifiable.
To kill a man for making a choice ?

The problem is that most of you don't ask yourselves basic questions.
You're not encouraged to think
Infact you're flogged by your koranic teachers at childhood for thinking and asking questions such as these
They tell you asking questions about the Koran and Mohammed is evil
so you swallow these things then regurgitate them to your hearers who undoubtedly don't swallow everything they're told and you come off sounding crazy in public.
In Sunday school,we're encouraged to air our views and learn
That's why Christians tend to be more curious and innovative.
We're encouraged to reason and ask questions.
Just look at debates by Christians on Christian issues here on nairaland and you'll see what I mean.

ayinba1:

@Queenisha,

Any thing practised by muslims which is at odds with the Quranic injunctions is NOT a good thing for muslims or Islam, it is a good thing for/to you because you rejoice that muslims have began to be led astray as you are.

Now let me tell you one thing, the laws in the Quran are not subject to change. We cannot claim to understand every single verse and as understanding increases, insha Allah, you may find adoptions which you call "change". If you understand this, you will rest your mind.

Turkey is not an Islamic nation, at least you should know a little about government unless of course all you do here is fitnah.

I hope that you allow yourself to see Islam, if you convert, even better. If you die in this state, you will find yourself with the likes of Abi Lahabi. that will be such a waste.

Has that highlighted word no English meaning?
why is it that you bunch go off talking jibberish in discussions, do you suppose I know what fitnah and lalakatalam mean?
That is a little rude.
Speak in words that your readers can understand
Turkey of course has to be secular.
They want to join the EU as a full member and have to prove that they qualify to do so.

The laws of the Koran may not change but the humans can change those archaic laws and punishments to suit the times they live in.
Like someone already mentioned,a fornicator could be forgiven or punished in other ways besides stoning,(if she must be punished by her fellow sinful and fornicating men).
Likewise homosexuality should still be frowned against and preached against without the homosexual being stoned to death
Don't you folks say Allah is merciful?
Where are the mercies then when a sinner is not given a chance to repent

The rest of the Islamic world ought to borrow a leaf from Turkey.
The more the sharia lands emulate Turkey,the more peace we'll have.
None of you  are any holier than your Turkish brethren who choose to abide by the human rights codes and not amputate the hands of petty thieves or stone apostates in the village square.

Abuzola:

Let mukina say her view, its non of your business. she did not act upon it but only utter, Action speaks louder than voice

I happen to have read her views in our various threads over the last 2 years and I'm pretty much saying her own words.
I don't have the time but I could easily pull up threads where some Muslim men like yourself chastized her for saying she will not be one of many wives and will not let a man lay his hands on her in the name of correcting her.
Has she disputed me so far?

This is odd. All the Obamaniacs with their homo-erotic passion, hetero-erotic crush in your case,are absolutely convinced that Obama is more than qualified for the job,yet,they have never "set eyes" on Obama. Yet you think it's odd that McCain should be convinced of the qualification of Palin when he has only met her once?

Like I noted earlier,Obama isn't even aware of our existence. He never mentions Nigeria and rarely talks about his plans for Africa but we are supposed to be enthralled because he is half-black.

@ 4 play,I happen to be an American citizen and has been for about 6 years now and have offsprings that are American born.
I have as much stake in this legacy as anyone else.
He doesn't have to mention Nigeria in his campaign, he is an Illinois senator running for American presidency so outlining a plan for Nigeria should be strange.
The analogy between me meeting Obama and McCain meeting Palin was shocking
You gotta be kidding me.
You don't see it odd that one will choose a VP that couldn't answer simple questions on the issues her boss is parroting.
na wa!

Why Iran?It might as well have been sudan
It's equivalent to a doctor asking a patient to get a blood donor prior to his surgery and he seeks out someone with sickle cell anemia

cola:

Abraham Lincoln had exactly eight years of legislative experience in the Illinois state senate at Springfield and four years of service at the Senate in Washington.    sounds like Barack?

He took oath of office on the eve of a war.

He is still one of the most terrific Presidents Americans still talk about to date.

OK. Experience is crucial and it's good McCain called attention to it.

But then he turned round and put a near rookie, layman a heartbeat away from the Preidency of the USA.

So why has he been shouting about readiness and experience everywhere?

Self-centred political expediency!

Or is Mr. McCain just impulsive? I mean he has met this woman only once ever!
If this woman isn't "dangerously unprepared", as his ads say, I don't know who is!

My dear na wa o
how can you decide on a VP you never met then schedule a meeting to meet her for that purpose.
This is bizzare
it's like  4play hearing of this beautiful woman from Asaba and the first time he sets his eyes on her,he asks for her hand in marriage then the marriage is contracted and consummated the same day.

_{I wonder why I used 4play}

It'll be interesting to see the VP debate.
The woman may break out in hives by the time it's all over
If they like they can coach her on the issues and have her cram speeches from now till then.

all these people shouting experience should go and sit down.
This is a man who sided with bush and his policies 90% of the time,is that the experience we need?

I had been saying it since January that all Obama needs to do is tie McCain to Bush as siamese twins and leave the rest to the voters.
Glad he did that perfectly at the DNC.

cola:

I have been shocked with the naivety of many individuals here, just like many Americans are still shell-shocked!


Obama should have picked Hillary: obvious, cheap, simplistic, maybe even risky, but definitely road-side beer palour analysis.

McCain selects Palin: Even republicans are shocked (but they call it pleasantly surprised).

McCain has been shouting from the rooftops that Obama isn't ready to be C-in-C and inexperienced.

Lets suppose that's true.

Now how does your choice of person you're trusting, putting one heartbeat away from being C-in-C tally with your age-old rooftop cries? McCain might have shot himself in the foot in this regard! At best this is hypocritical!

Is this Palin's selection in anyway in the interest of the country or solely in the interest of John McCain?

Is Obama's selection of Biden in the interest of both country and self or solely in the interest of Obama?

McCain and his advisers passed over Tom Ridge, Mitt Romney, even Joe Liebermann with all their credentials and settle for an individual with no credential beside being 2-year governor of a state with fewer than 700,000 inhabitants!

I heard a republican argued that Palin has foreign relations experience because her state is closest to Russia!

It could be argued that Joey plugs Obama's loophole and, most importantly, Joey is qualified to be President.

Pray tell! What does Sarah add to the ticket? And more importantly, is Sarah ready to be president. McCain obviously thinks she is.


It would be difficult for McCain and his supporters to argue that this woman's only qualification isn't the fact that she's a woman. To win some ofHillary's die-hards over, any woman will do! - Pandering! Also an insult!

This says a lot about McCain's judgement. His first presidential judgement, maybe.

If America is what many people believe it is, McCain lost the election yesterday.

But alas! America isn't what many people think it is!

Thank you!
It's obvious the 2 reasons sarah was picked

1.her gender
2.her young sassy looks

The gender issue obviously in an attempt to get women voters and some Hilary supporters and her youth to sway younger voters.male and female
Talk of playing dirty politics.
We now know the maverick is nothing but a senile,dirty old politician.
Democrats ought to register enmasse and put that senior citizen to shame.

He has something for former beauty queens 30 years his junior.

Are you a nairalander ?

Are you a US citizen?

Do you think Obama is the man ?

Do you want to make a difference ?

If you answered yes to the questions

then register to vote right here,right now
I just did it.
We need to rock that election day Nov 4th.

https://voteforchange.com/?source=sem-fo-google-ga-1-search-rtv-voterreg&gclid=CPDGipu_tJUCFRKLxwod_kQVQQ

bawomolo:

free healthcare for a country of 140 million people. the same bunch of people that love to evade tax. dream on

That's not even the issue.
Even if we start with just the most vulnerable (pregnant women and infants)
Can we even sustain it for any length of time

well she's Zimbabwean and she deserved the award as a gold medalist,her skin color notwithstanding.

KarmaMod:

*Semitic

OK.
They are still officially white

KarmaMod:

Abegi Armenians are semantic like jews and arabs. Mr Kanye

what do you mean by semantics.
Armenia is a country
They are white

OluwaKANYE:

she's not Arab

I think she's Iranian i.e persian.
They are not Arabs
On official documents,they're classified as white

Lighting can make people look different in different pictures.
didn't you see the quotation marks on white.
Moreover they are usually regarded as white generally and legally speaking
at least here in the USA

KarmaMod:

No foundation on that face osisi

Her made up face is alot darker plus you wouldnt be able to see the bags under her eyes.

Light foundation maybe.
Like those "natural" ones on QVC

no 'white woman' leaves home without a foundation.

davidylan:

she looks better than 99% of nairaland women with make-up.

Are her breasts sagging by the way?

david we're looking at her face

are you people blind?
who says that woman has no make-up on
do your eyelashes look like that.
she definitely has a foundation,mascara and lipgloss on
do you want to see ojuju calabar before calling it make up

Ruby_Pearl:

Iran of all countries.
This Nigeria just dey disappoint me

you can say that again
nuclear technology from a shady country to a dysfunctional one.
soon uranium and other teratogenic materials will fill the already polluted Nigerian air.
[b]Let's watch out for when women will start delivering babies with 5 buttcheeks and 3 eyes.[/b]We never start o

This is one facility[i] we want them to marginalize the Igbos when decisions are being made regarding it's location[/i].
Let them erect the towers of leukemia smack dab in the center of northern Nigeria.
Infact if Bayelsa wants, they can have it