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Family / Re: Mother-in-law Wahalla! by Queenisha: 9:39pm On Sep 09, 2008
nalijah07:

@queenisha - no he is not a monster, but i know for a fact that he does not want to sell the house either.

I am wondering if the in-laws are really doing the talking for him He is not the assertive kind.


Let me go offtopic ,permit me
why can't they work on the marriage since it does sound like this man has a good heart.
Divorce is not as easy as it looks until one gets there.
I know
I have divorced friends.
The loneliness they feel is excrutiating
and the next mate may be much worse than what she currently has.
Let them try counselling.
as a friend,advise her so.
For the sake of those kids,they need to do all the can do to make it work.
Children of divorce have an uphill task,life is already hard for kids as it is.
As long as they are both willing,there's no problem in marriage that cannot be solved
Family / Re: Mother-in-law Wahalla! by Queenisha: 9:30pm On Sep 09, 2008
superstan:

it's a win-win situation for her.

this is america for crying out loud, not nigeria.

her statement of account will show she is the one paying the mortgage of the house so there's proof.

besides, it does not matter whose name is on the house.

as long as they have cohabitated for more than 6 months, even if they are not married, she is entitled to 50% of the proceeds.

a man can never win with a woman in the usa/uk. the laws are designed to protect women like her.

your friend is very safe.

Don't be too sure my dear.
Laws in the USA differ from state to state.
Some states don't have "common law" protection for co habiters in terms of property and some that do will not include property acquired before the marriage.
But in this case,the people were married.

I say she needs a very good lawyer.

I have a friend also going through a divorce,the man is asking for alimony and is likely to get it because she makes more than him.
Pathetic but true that a Nigerian man would tell the courts that his standard of living will fall because of the divorce and demanding for alimony including a lump sum initial paymet.
Family / Re: Mother-in-law Wahalla! by Queenisha: 9:24pm On Sep 09, 2008
HR.hotness:

Not having the house in both her and her husbands name in the first place was  huge mistake. .

Are there children involved? if there r, she needs to make it clear that loosing the house will affect the children. obviously its all up to the husband, he needs to put his foot down and get his mother to sign off on the sale.

your friends should be fully prepared to walk as the mother-in-laws tactic is to basically hold her to randsom and make her life hell

The husband is a generous man if he's willing to sell the house and share the profits if any with the ex-wife.
Most men won't be as magnanimous especially with the reality that if they end up with a short sale i.e sell at a loss, the woman most likely will simply walk away and leave them with the debt involved afterall her name is not on the property and perhaps mortgage.
The man doesn't sound like a monster to me.
Family / Re: Mother-in-law Wahalla! by Queenisha: 9:14pm On Sep 09, 2008
This is sad.
I hate divorce,but sometimes it may be the only option before people run out naked in the streets of this America.
It's difficult to see reason with bitter inlaws when divorce is on the table.
let them proceed with the divorce let the judge or jury decide on the property.

But why on earth would a married woman let her home be in her husband and mother in law's name?
Even if she helped to buy it,the title should have been changed a while back.
She may actually lose out entirely if this property was acquired before marriage ,especially if the mortgage is in the mother in law's name
and the son is just an additional.
Your friend may lose out big time.
but I'm not a lawyer.
she needs a good attorney.
Politics / Re: 32 Years For An Ibo President To Emerge by Queenisha: 9:05pm On Sep 09, 2008
Gamine needs to find an uneme man and begin procreating immediately
she needs to replenish her tribe grin
Religion / Re: Just 3 Words by Queenisha: 9:00pm On Sep 09, 2008
pilgrim 1
I welcomed you back in another thread and you just ignored me cry cry cry
I've been rebaptized since we saw last lipsrsealed
Travel / Re: Nigerians Living Illegally In China Are Now Going Through Hell! by Queenisha: 8:43pm On Sep 09, 2008
faakay:

They are not treated illegal, what do you expect when you are being caught when they find out your Visa has expired! you are kicking against the immigration rule, even in the UK, when you are caught with expired visa, you will be deported. The fine of visa expiration is JAIL!!! and they know it! so why are they going against the Rule,

If you got your Residence permit, they can't threat you anyhow[b]. Besides those stupid Igbos don spoil china for us, selling cocaine and other drug business, [/b] Nigerians dey always do past them self that why they are treated badly!! those ones been treated badly are goats with deaf ears,

Anyhow na God go help them!!! well if you got your papers! you won't be treated anyhow, So No Long THING!!!!

Una don come again.
Una don begin call the Igbo man again?
show me your proof that it's the Igbo man that's stopping you from selling your own cocaine that you carried to china in your anus
Idiot!
Travel / Re: Nigerians Living Illegally In China Are Now Going Through Hell! by Queenisha: 8:16pm On Sep 09, 2008
olusky:

My prayers go to all those Nigerians in prisons in China and everywhere else in the World. Please fellow Nigerians, its better to stay in the motherland than go to these countries that treat you worse than a "dog". I beg you, stay in naija. Naija can't be as bad as China, Russia and all those other racist countries. COME HOME!!!!

Good advice,if you have no work permit, no student visa, no offer of employment,no job prospects,abeg people stay in Naija.
I can understand if someone is going to USA , Canada or even Britain and other English speaking areas on a visitors visa hoping to "regularize".
Why would anyone in their right mind hope to travel to a country whose sentences are drawings and hoping to do well?
At least those going to Italy and the netherlands know that if all fails,they can join the booming "bottom "industry. grin
What has China got to offer them?
Do they need blacks to back them from place to place?
grin

na wa

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Travel / Re: Nigerians Living Illegally In China Are Now Going Through Hell! by Queenisha: 8:07pm On Sep 09, 2008
JeSoul:

ROTFLOL . . . . oh my gosh osisi you r crazy! lol cheesy grin cheesy

no be so.
How can someone emigrate to China when Chinese are coming to Nigeria?
Some people think anywhere is better than Nigeria until they find out how many dead bodies they have to wash with their bare hands in order to buy common ramen noodles for dinner.
I'm not even talking of the fear of being captured by immigration for washing dead bodi without valid papers.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Sarah Palin Is A Mistake by Queenisha: 8:01pm On Sep 09, 2008
richy sharrap!!!!!!!! tongue
Culture / Re: Ethnic Census In Nairaland by Queenisha: 7:43pm On Sep 09, 2008
oziomatv:

Funmi please don't tell me you're the cause of his diminishing career in football. Babayaro of all time is now struggling to lift his head high inside a DeepZone, only god knows how deep it is.

wow.
This is deep grin
Travel / Re: Nigerians Living Illegally In China Are Now Going Through Hell! by Queenisha: 6:45pm On Sep 09, 2008
Chinese die in their scores in airplane cargo compartments,as ship stowaways and in containers with no oxygen while being smuggled to the USA for a better life while Nigerians are flocking to China in search of Indomie.
We get issues.
Chinese are the most racist group on earth towards the black man.
That is the last place any black man would want to live at.
I'll rather move to Niger republic to milk cows with my mouth.

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Culture / Re: Ethnic Census In Nairaland by Queenisha: 6:40pm On Sep 09, 2008
Gamine:

So i am now Others, . . . undecided

Igbo people sef

unidentified minority objects (UMO)
Culture / Re: Ethnic Census In Nairaland by Queenisha: 6:39pm On Sep 09, 2008
hannideep abeg there's nothing like ibo
It's Igbo
I can't see my tribe there
unless you're yeregba? grin
Foreign Affairs / Re: Sarah Palin Is A Mistake by Queenisha: 6:35pm On Sep 09, 2008
David and tayoD e don do now?
haba!!
e don do
don't let this thing degenerate into this.
I will cry o
Culture / Re: Igbo Kwenu ! Kwenu Kwezo Nu ! Join Us If You Proud To Be An Igbo Guy/lady by Queenisha: 5:13pm On Sep 09, 2008
rampagain:

grin grin grin grin queenisha kedu? cool

bia jenny nwa nma,emere this thing eme?
kedu okija_juju ya na agbalanze grin
we have job for them
Culture / Re: An Adulterous Couple Unable To Disentagle: Truth Or Hoax? by Queenisha: 4:23pm On Sep 09, 2008
ah ah Seun.
This makes for interesting story now
Culture / An Adulterous Couple Unable To Disentagle: Truth Or Hoax? by Queenisha: 3:51pm On Sep 09, 2008
http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/news/national/2008/sept/09/national-09-09-2008-005.htm

Uyo, the ever-busy Akwa Ibom State capital was made even busier on Tuesday,[b] August 26, 2008 when the entire town was awash with a story that an illegal couple–a married woman and her boyfriend who were having sex in an uncompleted storey building were unable to disentangle after the act.

The couple said to have been found about nine o’clock in the morning by the workers in the uncompleted building were said to have been permanently hooked to each other since the previous evening when the married woman sneaked into the building to have a quickie before rushing back home to her influential husband.[/b]The story also had it that the husband, said to be a permanent secretary in one of the ministries in the state, had since suspected his wife to be a serial adulterer and had thus decided to lace her with the dreaded ekpo nka owo juju, the version that the Yoruba call magun.
As at when Daily Sun learnt of the incident by 3.30 pm and rushed to the scene which is between 111 and 113 Abak Road, the place had been taken over by okada riders, motorists and pedestrians all coming to see the hooked couple.

Daily Sun learnt that the police had on several occasions come to dispel the surging crowd which had taken over the building. Some young men even mounted sentry and collected N50 from each person who wanted to go in and see the show live. Daily Sun had to pay and rush in to take photographs before the twosome could suddenly disentangle to kill a possible front-page lead.


Surprisingly, there was no couple inside the two-storey building. Our correspondent searched every room pointing camera like American soldiers guns searching for Sadam Hussien with machine guns, yet no love-making couple was in sight.

It was only after Daily Sun had struggled to get out of the choking building and asked those doing business around the place that it was revealed that the whole drama was a hoax.
A lady who preferred anonymity but who works at Ablaze Pharmaceutical and Distribution Limited, 113 Abak Road, told Daily Sun that the whole drama was scripted and acted by okada riders for the public to go crazy.

The True Story
The lady however said that that morning, the security man at the uncompleted building was accosted by a lady who accused him of putting her in the family way. “She started dragging the man but he took her inside the building to leave the crowd which had started gathering. “We never knew how the story of man and woman who could not disentangle came about. But it is the product of okadamen,” she explained.

Another man selling motorcycles on the same premises confirmed what the lady said and wondered “why people would leave they business to waste their time on false rumours.”

Hard Sell
But the true story was very unpalatable to thousands of pilgrims who had turned the building into a big tourist attraction. Even those who had entered the house and come out, still behaved like the “good men” of the Ali and the Angel story. “Chei! I have never seen such a thing in my life. See a married woman disgracing herself, her family, and her husband. She is even a deaconess on one church there,” a young man who came down from the building about 10 minutes after Daily Sun had done a painstaking search, exclaimed.

With such exclamation, others who had wanted to listen to the true story rushed and paid the gate money and went upstairs only to come down garnishing the rumour with different species of spices to make the crowd go wild with ecstasy.

The South South bureau chief of Champion Newspapers, Tony Etim, even called from Port Harcourt same day to confirm the story from Daily Sun. He was shocked when told that it was just a hoax. How news flies!

[b]To make the story even richer, the rumour mongers later in the evening said the police had carried the fornicators (or is it adulterers?) away to the hospital. But which hospital? Nobody could tell. Some said the police had arrested them and were at the state police headquarters at Ikot Akpan Abia.[/b]But the police public relations officer, Akwa Ibom State command, Mr Gabriel Ngban, said there was nothing like that. “I heard the story just like that. But there was nothing like that. We never arrested anybody. Don’t mind them.”
Politics / Re: 32 Years For An Ibo President To Emerge by Queenisha: 3:38pm On Sep 09, 2008
tpia:

I forgot to mention: the Igbo president can also be female.

Here am I, send me grin
Politics / Re: 32 Years For An Ibo President To Emerge by Queenisha: 3:35pm On Sep 09, 2008
Igbo president my bakassi.
Does producing a president help any ethnic group really.
OBJ ruled for 8 years,is the plight of the average Yoruba man, woman or youth any better?
Awusa people have been ruling from time Imo river, are they not still the most backward and most disease ridden bunch in Naija.
I don't care where the president comes from as long as he improves the lot of the masses, and vows to be be fair and keeps Nigeria a secular state with strong handed punishment for militants and Islamists
The governors in Igboland come from Igboland, have they helped Igboland or have they succeded in lining their individul pockets like their counterparts in Kano and Oyo?
This sort of thread is getting retarded
Foreign Affairs / Re: Sarah Palin Is A Mistake by Queenisha: 3:05am On Sep 09, 2008
Thank God they listened finally kiss
Foreign Affairs / Re: Sarah Palin Is A Mistake by Queenisha: 3:04am On Sep 09, 2008
I say make una stop!!
One more long post na me and you cheesy
Foreign Affairs / Re: Sarah Palin Is A Mistake by Queenisha: 2:59am On Sep 09, 2008
abeg make una stop the nastiness.
it's not tasty

I come in the name of love kiss kiss
Foreign Affairs / Re: Sarah Palin Is A Mistake by Queenisha: 2:58am On Sep 09, 2008
MCain was flying fighter bombers When Baracks father was milking goats in Kenya
How the man no go get more experience?
Food / Re: Ewa Agonyin by Queenisha: 2:56am On Sep 09, 2008
If I be man ,I for chase and marry this amakaone girl.
Her contributions on the food threads are delicious

Amaka I need to come to you for private lessons.
I want my cooking to be just as good as my other wifely skills lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: Women Are Gold Diggers by Queenisha: 2:29am On Sep 09, 2008
4/5th of the men here don't even have hay to speak of talk less of gold.
Religion / Re: Story of Cain And Abel Another Myth from Islam Christianity and other religions by Queenisha: 2:25am On Sep 09, 2008
mazaje:

good. . . . . . . . . what part of naija are you from davidylan?

The new England area grin

29 miles from the bronx
Fashion / Re: What Are You Wearing Right Now? by Queenisha: 2:22am On Sep 09, 2008
*Morenike:

Who you dey impress on this thread?

@post
blue shorts and white T

Hmm morenike,looks like the enemy has done it again
He that is in you.
Is greater than he that is in the world

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