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Sports / Re: Choose One Player You Would Recall From Retirement (pics) by Qurungu: 8:43pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
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Family / Re: Am I Spoiling My 7-year Old Son? by Qurungu: 12:05pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
I was praying a few months ago and suddenly I felt like the Spirit of God telling me to bond emotionally with my kids. I got the message. Being a dad, I had priorly acted and likely thought (without me being conscious of it) that my only job was just to make sure my kids turned out right, and that the way to achieve that was through being the a disciplinarian. How wrong I was! I began to play more with them and do things I know they liked. I now want to make sure we have beautiful memories together. I knew that God wasn’t telling me not to discipline them, no. It’s just that in an atmosphere of emotional bonding, correction is taken in good faith. I also realized that day that if I didn’t bond with them, I will never be able to help them when they need help, because they’d have grown up thinking that I didn’t care, and so they’d never let me into their innermost struggles or joys for that matter. Bond emotionally with the kid, and correct him as needed. They way you’ve described your kid, if this goes on, he may have difficulty forming emotionally stable relationships which may lead to all sorts of problems and/or him being drawn to abusive people or him abusing others as the case may be. I really hope you get to read this. You are not alone in this, and you will win eventually, as you do things right. For all you know, other kids at school may be taunting him and you may then come across like them when you scold him at home. They may maybe be telling him hurtful things like encouraging him to be nasty at home. The way to short any of the above possibilities is to keep the door to his heart opened to you by being friends with him. That door must not be closed! And if you have issues with his dad, please keep them out of it and settle these issues when they aren’t there. Thank you, God bless you ma. |
Romance / Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Qurungu: 9:07pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
AGurlnoname: It’s a big lie. There are good men and women out there. |
Crime / Re: Robbers Drop Apology Note After Robbing A Lady by Qurungu: 8:31am On Dec 27, 2021 |
dan9ice: They were doing this where I once lived about 2 years ago. They mostly steal electronics. In one case, a man was watching his very large tv and they came in and stole it while he slept, with the remote control in his hands. When he woke up the next day, he began to press the buttons of the remote but no television. They also stole my neighbor’s inverter batteries that way. Some people say they bring a rope from the grave yard and lay it across the gates/doors of their victims and carry out their theft without any one waking up. Some others say it’s this strange powder. No one has ever been caught. The area had to meet and employ a private security company to help with security. |
Business / Re: Aftermath Of Next Cash And Carry Supermarket Fire (Photos, Video) by Qurungu: 11:25pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
UTILITYMAY: That is if the owner(s) can get over this loss and get it back up. Sad � |
Politics / Re: BREAKING: Sultan Of Sokoto Escapes Through Window As Bandits Invade State Mosque by Qurungu: 8:40pm On Dec 15, 2021 |
Health / Re: 8 Children Found Dead In Parked Vehicle In Lagos (Disturbing Photos) by Qurungu: 6:30am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Originalsly: If children can enter the car, they will also likely play with the steering wheel. If they play with the steering wheel, they will likely try to open the front door as soon as they feel trapped. I feel there may have been a 3rd and unknown actor who took advantage of the circumstance or that they may have inhaled or ingested a poisonous substance used in the car. As per the asphyxia explanation, I’m not sure I lean towards it because a bad car will not be air tight. Most cars aren’t. It is also possible that with the constant sunlight, dangerous fumes were released in the car. 1 Like |
Health / Re: 8 Children Found Dead In Parked Vehicle In Lagos (Disturbing Photos) by Qurungu: 6:21am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Originalsly: I agree with you, and I have another question to add: “how does a person die by just sitting in a car”? My theory: It is likely that a yet to be known external force acted on the kids OR that the car is contaminated with some kind of lethal poisonous substance which the kids may have inhaled or ingested, maybe rat poison, or sniper used to protect the car from rats or other rodents. All said, just sitting inside a car cannot kill a person. 1 Like |
Health / Re: 8 Children Found Dead In Parked Vehicle In Lagos (Disturbing Photos) by Qurungu: 6:19am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Buzx: It can be very uncomfortable, but how sure are you of the weather conditions that day? |
Health / Re: 8 Children Found Dead In Parked Vehicle In Lagos (Disturbing Photos) by Qurungu: 6:11am On Dec 06, 2021 |
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Politics / Re: Jos Jailbreak: Names, Photos Of Escaped Prisoners declared wanted by Qurungu: 2:30pm On Dec 02, 2021 |
BH jail breaking their members out. Seems their members were distributed to prisons across the nation. Nigeria will win! |
Family / Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Qurungu: 11:16pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Pierocash: It’s a global feminine tendency. The female of almost every species is the more jealous and less generous one. Not all women are that way however. There are generous ones. Another problem is that some women seem not to realize that there is a distinction between home and office behavior. Many often conflate both. They behave bossy at home as if they were in there office. Home is where you let your guard down. Office is where you can be the boss. Trust me, our forefathers know a lot about this subject than we do in our age. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Qurungu: 11:12pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
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Family / Re: Her Parents Sponsored Our Wedding, Should I Be Worried. by Qurungu: 7:00am On Nov 15, 2021 |
remsonik: I, I, I, I, my, my, my, my. What happened to OUR which appears only once in your write up? It’s even “at MY wedding” You just wrote a me vs you note here. That’s not marriage, it’s competition. However, people should marry people they are comfortable with, wealth or no wealth. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Her Parents Sponsored Our Wedding, Should I Be Worried. by Qurungu: 6:46am On Nov 15, 2021 |
If you feel worried, then follow your instincts and pray. I feel there are things you didn’t write that may be fueling your concerns. The only way to win is to pray. I feel also that you may instinctively feel that there may be danger ahead. One important rule to live by: “don’t get into the habit of ignoring your instincts”. “..is any afflicted? Let him pray” Prayer will help you sort out any bend that may be on your road in the future. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 650k Salary Hybrid Work For A Start-up Or 350k Salary From Two Remote Jobs. by Qurungu: 2:38pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Opexzy: Hold all three. Test them for a month or two. Make a decision thereafter. This may be a call to increase your capacity. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Qurungu: 12:33pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
I beg you in the name of Jesus, please leave. You can just run away. If you go ahead with the wedding/marriage, you will just be signing up for misery. Please, please, please, don’t do it. Run away for some months and speak to everyone you need to from your hideaway. Please |
Travel / Re: Welcome To Balneario, Brazil, The Dubai Of Brazil(photos) by Qurungu: 11:14pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
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Travel / Re: Welcome To Balneario, Brazil, The Dubai Of Brazil(photos) by Qurungu: 11:13pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
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Crime / Re: Nigeria's Mafia, Cultists In Germany: A DW Documentary (Video) by Qurungu: 6:58pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
slawormiir: Abeg wetin be bombing and keyboarding? |
Phones / Re: Telegram Throws Subtle Shade At Whatsapp by Qurungu: 3:57am On Oct 05, 2021 |
julioralph: Linked to a whistleblower’s [Frances Haugen’s] interview about Facebook’s internal operations. More specifically about their algorithms; how they use it to ruin lives and ruin society. I now understand why China doesn’t allow western apps to function freely there. Unregulated, social media can be severely destructive. 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Can A Born Again Christian Be Possessed By Demon? by Qurungu: 2:36pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
greencard: No where in the Bible is there a suggestion that a born again person can be possessed by a demon. However, the Bible records that a born again person can be demonized. Simon the sorcerer became born again but was still demonized. There are other examples. In essence, a born again person can behave like a person who belongs to the devil because they allow the devil influence them. It doesn’t take away their salvation, but it does cut them short and makes them unuseful to themselves and to the body of Christ. These will likely be the examples of people who make it into heaven naked with no reward. greencard: |
Religion / Re: Ten Things That Make One A Failure - Prophet Gaisie by Qurungu: 2:16pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
FutureIsFemale: Actually, until he was 75 Our God is the God of grace. |
Religion / Re: Ten Things That Make One A Failure - Prophet Gaisie by Qurungu: 2:14pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Religion / Re: Ten Things That Make One A Failure - Prophet Gaisie by Qurungu: 2:14pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
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Politics / Re: Twitter Cracks Down On Nigerians Using Bloodied Flag To Mark EndSARS Anniversary by Qurungu: 6:14am On Oct 02, 2021 |
One of the only thing Buhari has gotten right. You try! Twitter made itself a tool for subversion of nations. The world will be a mess if every nation followed the trend of organizing riots via social. They need to exercise restraint. Burning a country down just because you do not like it’s leader is not really smart. Compare what Ipob now does. Buhari is a poor leader, but only few nations remain stable after violent take overs of power. 2023 is here in a bit! 10 Likes |
Career / Re: His Experience With Female Banker(marketer) by Qurungu: 12:23pm On Sep 23, 2021 |
At least employ her in a better job, that way you’ll protect her further from poachers. Good thing she fell into your arms (in the grand scheme of things; could have been in the arms of a worse man). She’s only one vulnerable woman, but saving one is significant. The ideal thing would have been not to fall for the pressure your friends put on you by agreeing to do what they suggested. I kind of feel you would have given her the account with no string attached if you let things progress naturally. But I’ve also learnt that God is in the details of life. Have you asked “why she chose you”, and “why she stuck to calling you”? It shouldn’t have ended the way it did but it may have been an inspired relationship all the same. Can there be redemption? Yes. If the feeling persists, then explore that relationship. It may lead to something beautiful. If it doesn’t, at least get that girl out of that place to a better place and get your account out of there too! |
Celebrities / Re: 2Face Idibia Rocks Muslim Attire, Preaches One Love Religion (Photo) by Qurungu: 9:42pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
We get your message, one wife, 3 to add! |
Politics / Re: Igbos Share Ancestry With Jews - New Report Says by Qurungu: 7:02pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
loveth360: [b][/b] Allahu Akbar!
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Romance / Re: My Wife Just Confessed That My Last Son Is Not Mine by Qurungu: 1:33pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
edochie12: No be lie! Sorry for the biological father (he isn’t fit to be a dad imho). 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Timi Dakolo: Two Good People Can Have A Bad Relationship by Qurungu: 4:49pm On Sep 09, 2021 |
Mmadu2: Not so. What do you understand by good? If it’s a Bible based definition, then two good people will make the best marriage. If your definition of good is based on say, wokeness, then you’ll get into ambiguity and begin to call bad good. Just because a person doesn’t steal or isn’t adulterous doesn’t mean they qualify for marriage, for example. Christian marriage has its rules, which two people should agree to follow before they tie the knot. Now when a part or both parts of the couple isn’t meeting the Christian standards for marriage, the union will likely collapse. Here’s the caveat: a “good” person will keep or at least strive to keep the rules. When they don’t (I speak in the context of a Christian marriage), I’m not sure you can call them good. This is because, marriage is a part of our general faith and faithfulness to God and man. It’s similar to this, when a praying or preaching Christian steals for example, people don’t call them good. In principle however, divorce or stealing do not make us lose our righteousness or passport to heaven as Christians. These can rob us of God’s best and the beauty of God’s best. They also soil our testimonies and weaken people’s conviction in Christ. (The number one reason why marriages fail in my opinion is a wrong choice of a partner; you cannot go anywhere with the wrong person but can go almost everywhere with the right one). |
Health / Re: Getting Over Addictions.. by Qurungu: 9:37pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
Dear Sister, Thank you for sharing. I feel inspired to sing this song for you; though I can’t, I’ll just write it’s lyrics here. The sum is this: the name of Jesus is the power and authority to break the hold those substances have on you. May His love find you. Much love. The Name Above All Other Names (By Keith Moore) There is a name above the heavens Higher than names of earth It is the name that brings deliverance It’s the name above all other names O it’s the name above all other names It’s the name above all other names And before it all must bow Every wicked one come down For it’s the name above all other names There is a name above all sickness Greater than all disease It is the name that brings healing It’s the name above all other names O it’s the name above all other names O it’s the name above all other names And before it all must bow Every wicked one come down For it’s the name above all other names Thank you! 2 Likes |
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