premarital sex is a sin

eeyaaaaa,d lord will be ur strength,keep praying to him,dont give up now dat u r at d peak of ur breakthrough

ur prayer should be,God should open ur husbands eyes to see u and know dat u r his priority

ausbones:

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]well i can see some of us have some biblical knowledge however what we should not do here is to lift text out of context. we should also know that the scripture is complete and so when we can't make a doctrine out of a text. so we read other similar text for clarity before coming to conclusion. I will like to revisit the issue of first Corinthian 7: 15 (i suppose), in relating that scripture to this situation, the woman stopped believing in th marriage an so left or decided to end it. Since it came  from the woman the man automatically become free. now someone said divorce is not allowed for whatever reason except fornication that is true . but either party that left man or the woman is under bondage as long as the other partner is Alfie. the bible also says its better to be married than to (burn) or lust.  we do not go into full scriptural interpretations here. its  clear enough the woman left him. she had  issues with the country and would not stay not Even for her marriage an so left. i believe the man did the right thing( whether a minister of God or just a layman) right is right and wrong is wrong . and one last thing i will say on this  is whatever you do someone will condemn you (before now a lot of gossips have flawn around ah! no mind am e don divorce e wife , e no fit marry , him get mistress etc ) now he is married ( why him marry him not suppose to marry) on this note i sign off and rest my case. KEEP IT REAL NA IRALANDERS.[/font][size=8pt][/size][i][/i]

abi oooo,u have spoken well

Gamine:

@Rampant isnt it apparent yours is choked with dust

if you dare clean it, na hurricane biblica be that o!

Anyways i have time to answer you now.

One, I don't know what Chris Okoties case is, exactly.
i have stated the conditions and where divorce applies,

The woman didnt leave because she was unfaithful, she just left
and along the way she met the so-called long lost lover and got married, she is an Adultress.

Now, on Okoties part, he could divorce her now for marital unfaithfulness.

if she didnt meet any long lost lover, there is no ground for divorce, that is just what im saying

BTW, The Bible i read is not complex, it is very plain.

was it plain to u?i doubt it,cos if it was plain,u would have quoted it well

u just dey read d bible like a novel,before u judge or quote d bible on smone,try to find out the reason behind watever that person did

d wife was already having an affair whilst married to him,she starved d guy for years,is it not enough for him to divorce her?

then why were u saying that the man is not supposed to remarry even though if d woman is adultress,its either he remains like that or continue wt her,no be wetin u talk?

seriously gamine you're confused

SAM MILLA:

Ozioma, This is the second time you are saying this.
I guess you want to know what i do.
Well you will not unless you politely ask.
Meanwhile, you are publicly condenming the guy here,
As if you wont jump all over his money if you are opportuned to.

YOU ARE WATCHING TOO MUCH MTV.
NOW YOUR JUDGEMENT BTW WHAT SHOULD BE DONE
AND WHAT IS BEING DONE IS BLURED.
TRY OTHER CHANNELS.


And you are the HOMO SAPIEN.
The leader of the naked generation.
The world has been and will always remain.
Plus we will look back someday and
Judge all the things we are doing now.

THANK YOU. THE WORLD IS STILL WORKING TODAY BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU AND ME.
THE DESIRE TO SEPARATE GOOD FROM EVIL WILL NOT REST UNTIL WE ACHIEVE OUR GOALS.

y r u thanking him?he said a diff thing from what u replied

u said she did the right thing for love by loosing d contract,4play is saying that she should dump her yahoo yahoo man and go get a good career

so ,why r u thanking him?you're just confused,seriously

d simple truth is ----------love has no definition,it comes wt feelings that connects your heart, u can never describe or define d feelings

Ruby_Pearl:

rotflmao

and you would not believe how long I've been asking 4Play to show his pix, but bobo no wan do. I wonda why

dnt tell me uve never seen fokplays pics ?

anyways i don't have his pics here but i have his look-alike,once uve seen this man ,uve seen fokplay

who talk say naija girls wowo?

na dis kain tori,information minister of nairaland(fokplay)dey like to post

onye o'jo

Gamine:

Abeg Rampant

you no dey coherent

u r d one who is just confused

cos na ur reply i reply to

make u try to dey read ur bible well well b4 u jump into conclusions

Gamine:



Rampant you are wrong.

leaving aint the same as marital unfaithfulness

read well, i can't explain anymore, im spent.

  so leaving her husband and remarrying a long lost lover is not marital unfaithfulness,? then what is it called?according to the story i heard,she already had a lover in the US,that  she even refused okotie sex for years before they got divorced,so for them to be divorced you're telling me dathe cannot remarry or what?what r u talking about?for her to remarry alone is called unfaithfulness,so i really don't get u?

no,you're wrong,because i quoted u.u said if she marries he should not remarry,u said he should wait for her or remain like that,and i am telling u that a man is free to remarry after divorcing his wife for a good reason,ok,he remained single and then she remarried,since you're quoting the bible,then u should know that for her to get married she hs commited adultery hence d man is free to remarry whomever he wants

she got remarried before her ex,hence she is already an adultress


you're d one not reading well,if she remarrie ,then she has commted adultery,hence he can as well divorce her and then remarry,it is a complicated issue

u read well

u people should learn to read d bible in between d lines and clearly,because its very complex,and has so many meanings to every word

Gamine:

She has committed adultery.

He is not to remarry, she should either go back to him

or remain like that.

Ideally, Christian couples should have no basis for divorce

you're wrong gamine,compare this wt your statement


KING JAMES

matthew 19:9

And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.


NIV VERSION

I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery."

poster go and carry kpom kpom

oloshi

SAM MILLA:

@oziomatv
I don't really get u here.
your idea of primitism is to stop some girl from posing nudely just to make money.
How about decency?
If in your own way of reasoning,
you are called up to chose who will be your mother between Mitchel Obama and Sharon Stone,
who will be your pick?

So since we are moving from primitism to modernism,
which you gave dressing as an example,
when is it  going to stop?
when are we going to reach the end point of human dressing
or will human race continue to dress modernly until we stop wearing clothes at all?

The topic here is that the guy felt insecured and thats normal as far as i know.
maybe you havent lost someone you love .

come r u sure you're not a yahoo yahoo boy?how come you're not even talking about d guys illegal business,d girls own is very much legal,so d guy should be d one leaving watever hes doing for her

and who told u she will be posing nude?

what is decency?all of them that cover their bodies and hairs like holy mary are not better off,they r even d worst,so what exactly is your point sir?

fiancee not wife

spirit007:

nawa oh! ar u that ugly? anyway text me on 07030803887 to see what i can do.

LMAO

Ruby_Pearl:

Seems to be you're the one taking it personal.

abi oooo,he said we should not take it personal and hes busy prying into our personal life,sm pple just copy english from google wtout finding out wat exactly it means

now i know u r still a baby,look at wat u just posted?full of shits

and u say we should not take it person,and u r here taking it personal

if e dey pain u say we know support that girls stupidity then go enter well

this is a forum,and i am free to state my opinion and anybody dat aint comfortable wt dat,should go take a dive into river naija,or thirdmainland bridge,starting wt u sam

SAM MILLA:

I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO POINT THIS OUT.
PLEASE DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL

NAMES THEY SAY MEANS A LOT TO OUR EVERYDAY LIVES.


2 OF THIS GIRLS SAYING THIS THINGS HERE ARE

1, MAD_MAX

2 , RAMPANT

Those are very unreasonable names for responsible girls
who are aspiring to live good lives.
its not late to change .

you're still a kid so face off,what has smones id got to do wt decency?do u know the reason behind d id?grow up

SAM MILLA:

What baffles me is that whenever some reasons against somegirls here, they just say you are thinking primitively.
Some of you here, i am sure your parents are divorced. Especially those from across the Atlantic.
Its this kind of rubish ideas that causes it. You want your husband to leave you in the hands of some other men who uses their opportunity as famous directors, producers and managers to abuse women.
My parents are still living together happily and i must do everything in my power to emulate them.

Girls who are shouting here are definitely unlucky ones who could not love or be loved.
There is nothing stronger than love.
career or not, especially some useless career that could destroy the love.

The question is ,
would you leave your husband and your kids to pursue a career in nude modelling simply because your husband doesnt support it?
Or would you sacrifice your nude modelling career to sustain your lovely marriage?

which would you sacrifice?

now you're going off point

husband is quite different from boyfriend or watever,atleast if she refuses to do it because her husband does not like it,then i will even support her atleast shes been submissive to her man

but for her to do it for a lover,a 419 LOVER AT DAT;ITS CALLED STUPIDITY

na2day?:

i guess its because of the blind love of the 50s that make they last longer in their relationship than the smart love u guys/girls have in this 21st century. my queston to u, how many boy friends have u ever had? better still are u married? r u sure your relationship will last?

what kind of question is this?what has this question got to do wt d thread?

since you're going back to the 50's wt me,then  tell me why u go out to look for girls yourself?why don't u allow your parents do arrangy marriage for u,afterall they all lived a good life,since loves in d 50's lasts longer than now

can someone tell me what kind of love will make a girl not follow her career or destiny?d last time i checked ,blind love used to happen in d 50's and not this present time

d girl is indeed foolish,why can't her boyfriend leave that illegal job?her own is even better,this same man that she sacrificed her happiness for,what if hes arrested or sthg and ends up in jail?what will she do ?

Ruby_Pearl:

Is someone jealousssssssssssss?

is somebody wishing?

Okija_juju:

ara ga gba indi ara, nwa nne'm.          

okwa ur signature,oga gba gbusi fa ncha ni'ne

Ruby_Pearl:

You want me to toast you too?

zimbabwe ko,24 year old ni

Okija_juju:

Make person toast/grill/boil or deep fry me too o!

First Name; Okija _{(as if you didn't already know)}
Age; Old enough to drink, drive, marry, and join the Army.
Sign; Leo
Location; It depends, but right now I am at Okija shrine.
Sex; I love it alot <sub>(different styles)


Interested applicants should submit two passport sized photograph, a full size photograph showing all views, the curriculum vitae and $500 processing fee to me. Hurry, offer lasts while stock is avaliable</sub>

rotflmsgbo ,onye ara

gbenga_tk:

@ruby
y don't u post your details so prospective choices can crop up?
who knows, i might just b your choice,
lol

na so internet toasting dey start small small

Okija_juju:

Your foolishness is beyond compare.
You just came in here and just because the internet has given an idiot like you the opportuinity to chat with people that are head and torso above you, you think you can just waltz in and start throwing around curses.
I really do not blame you.
Ignoramus.

rotflmgsbo

Mad_Max:

Well, if you weren't so busy thinking and saying nothing, you'd see the things I did say all over my post. I asked questions that are important to me and mine, and you can see by the quality of the responders here that it's something they've thought about and have an opinion about too. Post your opinions and thoughts on the questions asked if you have one, instead of merely taking up space someone with something more valuable to say will occupy. There are other posts than mine. Why don't you take yourself off elsewheres?Thanks.   

now u have sthg to say,before u had nothing,i can see u r coming up,more knowledge to the little one u have already


as for leaving ur thread,i will leave wen i want to

Yisraylite:

@ Everyone other than Mekaboy

Wow ! you people are down right daft . You Nigerians let  European religions  and foreign Gods brain wash you into marrying one wife, after that you secretly go  having affairs and mistresses, lying to your wife and trying to hide evidence your willful dishonesty. How Typical !!!!!!!! of a brain washed Christian . I dare anyone to refute my prior post !!!!

Isa 8:20 To the law and to the testimony! If they do not speak according to this word, [it is] because [there] [is] no light in them.  

Isa 30:9 That this [is] a rebellious people, Lying children, Children who will not hear The Law of YAHAWAH !

HalleluYAH !!

Yisraylite

wat is all dis one

@gamine

i tot paul said its better to marry than to be inflamed in passion?

@okija

work it out urself,dats why its called reading inbtw d lines