thanks darling

@babe-: ignoring youuuuuuuuuuuu

even if i'm 36, so wat ode po ni nairaland yii shaa. anyway gudnite y'all

babe,must u be so rude and nasty.u r probably one of the many [b]NERDS [/b]on nairaland who av no life outside nairaland.i'm 25, started dating d guy at 17, lost my virginity to him,dedicated 8 Years of my life and everything to him.i don't need u to believe my story and i don't need to post pictures of myself to convince you.i guess liars never believe others do they? pls just quit d nasty attitude cos i'm not exactly nice too.

No Dear i'm not confused, i sure need a man but not to hold and to cherish, to drain and to dump.i'm just 25.i heard d eggs start ageing wen u r like 40

who says i cannot use a man,get his fluid and dump his sorry as*

wat exactly is ur definition of someone suffering from low self esteem? i attached 3 pictures of me, do i look like someone suffering from esteem issues? my dear i've had enough from men and i'm not doing d dating thingy again.i'll simply tell my son d truth and i'm sure it will make him a better man and teach him to respect ladies.

i don't even pray for anyone to experience it cos it really wasn't funny.i'm just a strong person dats y i was able to move n. but kokoye, don't u feel guys are cruel towards women??anywayz, i barely have time for men dis days.Thank GOD i av an interesting job to keep me busy. i don't need a man in my life. wen its time for me to av kids, i'll go for IVF.i'm not a lesbo though,i was just kidding but seriously,men appall me.

babe, i'm very sure u've never invested in a long term relationship b4(8 yrs to be precise). if u av, and u ended up being lied to,cheated, used and dumped,then u will understand better. maybe u r d happy-go-lucky kind of girl dat believes r/tionships are all about chocolates and teddy bears alone.wa to kogbon!!

@coogar,sorry i'm now a lady-lover

So u see nothing wrong with a guy dat abandons his fiancee on their wedding day??. i see, there's no point telling my story then.i don't av esteem issues, i'm a successful young woman(not bragging) and i didn't deal with my ex because i felt my life was over wen he left me. i did it(and will do it again) for my fellow ladies out there. i did it cos i felt dat men should be taught lessons dat women should be respected. i returned his certificate and we are close friends now(he even wants me back) but i'm sure he has learnt his lesson and d next time he is thinking of breaking a woman's heart,he'll think twice.

@kokoye and babe,Thanks for d insults.i let it pass.My prayer for you is dat GOD should allow u or ur sisters to experience wat i experienced then u will understand the real meaning of the saying "all hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".For now, its easy for u to keep blabbing.

coogar:

try it with me - i will make you regret the day you were born.

yeah after i must av chopped off ur magic stick,

Well, sometimes it's d guys fault.guys need to understand dat every woman has a fragile heart no matter how strong,independent or stubborn she is.well,i'm guilty of punishing my ex-boyfriends too .infact,it has become a principle for me,if u dump me, i deal with you. d last guy dat tried such with me lost all his certificates to me cos i stole them from his house in warri and brought them to lagos with me.it took a lot of begging from his friends and families before i agreed for him to come down to lagos to collect them(my initial plan was to burn them).it's not in my nature to be wicked,and i didn't just wake up and decide to be wicked,men taught me bitter lessons.To me, d word love doesn't even exist, Relationships have become a business venture with everyone seeking for d most profitable.i don't regret my actions,and i'll do it again and again,so guys BEWARE!! cos there are many angry gals like me out there.

Someone just suggested to me that i should start using dudu osun soap and african shea butter for my skin to help eventone my skin.i'm quite skeptical about it cos i don't want anything dat will darken my skin.pls i need people dat know much about dis products to advice me.thanks.

it's no suprise u were already a busybody at dat tender age.poking ur nose into other families affairs.i guess d aftermath is wat we are seeing now on nairaland.*smh*

i think u need therapy

is ur galfriend potbellied??

my skin needs urgent transformation from stretch marks and i also want to smoothen and eventone my skin.A lot of people have recommended dr sandra of perfect herbals and at d same time lots of people av condemned her products saying they contain steroids and other dangerous chemicals.i don't want to compound my problems by using dangerous products,so i need to hear from people that av either used this products or knows people that have used it.how good are her products?do you think they contain steroids? did it damage your skin after prolonged use?

lol.see how u guys are just going igbe dis,igbe dat, yuck!!!! dirty boysh and gehs

Thank u so much for all of ur responses.i think i'll just try doctor sandra.i hope it wouldn't be another waste of money.if u av brothers or friends dat wouldn't mind a gal with stretch marks though (i'm not ugly/overweight oo)

I've noticed the way people are quick to insult others on this forum so i wont be surprised if i get silly remarks but please for the mature-minded ones that really wanna help-
i have this hideous looking stretch marks on my upper arms as a result of a fake soap i bought and used during my service year.i have spent thousands of naira and used several soaps, creams and what-nots just to at least improve the look even if i can't totally clear it.since i cannot clear it naturally, i've been considering getting a tattoo on both arms to at least cover it but i'm kinda scared cos i heard tattoos are permanent.pls i need help cos i'm seriously worried.
i've been shying away from men and relationships just because feel no man will like to marry a girl with marks all over her body. pls advice me

Relax!!! Qui sera sera!