In my own opinion bro, you must understand we are Africans and mostly Nigerians value age more.
Now, love is very hot in your heads; age may not matter so much as some friends on nairaland are pushing but ones marry her, signs of this age mistakes will certainly start showing.
In marriage, there are times it looks like "love" that brought couples together is not active anymore. Think about what those times will be like, but those are in marriage already they will understand what i mean here. its that period you will know the through colour of things and understand your mistake.
pls i beg, marry younger lady. We are not white people. It works for them but Africans haven't grown to such level.

When a married woman start hidding few things to her husband, things are not well and you need nobody to tell she is cheating on you.
From the whole thing, you wife is having affairs with the Boss.
Bro, confrontation will not solve this problem. Either you choose your wife and she resigns from that work. Or you leave her to go on with the work while the Boss ends up impregnanting her for you without your knowledge.
The solution is in your hands. Failure to act fast is at your detriment.

I am so glad for this topic and for some of the reasonable responses received. If am to comment i would say, everything is wrong with that. We are africans not americans that refer to their elderly ones by their first names like Mike, Jude, Stella, Lizzy, Richie, etc. Rather we are thought to use titles Uncle Mike, Aunty Stella, Mummy Joy(for elderly mothers), Papa, and to answer Sir, and Ma. etc
African have their culture. No matter how far civilization takes us, it will be so hard to civilized this aspect.
Language has a very big effect. There are better ways to ask an elderly person 'how are you' or use the word 'dear' as many do on facebook comments, than throwing it so sharply. Its belittling to an elder.

Please am having issues with my Honda hala ... When the engine gets hot, the car can't run as accelerated, my exhaust starts sounding as it was blown, my radiator reservoir can't return water to the radiator but instead put it away. please can anybody help?