geni340:
I still cant wrap my mind arnd it. he buys me things but anytym i try getn him gifts or the likes, he lightly rejects it, but he does it in such a way it wont hurt my feelings though. I rily love dis guy and dat urge is always dia 2 xpress it but i just still cant scale his " dont worry boo, i shuld b d one 2 get u dis" fence...

Let things flow as it does- curtail your desires towards him - he has the driving force right now so don't alter anything- go with the flow.

iamchiddy:
why does her nose look like a compressed kpof kpof?

You go need go ask God. Person see you now- you go be like one atutupoyoyo.

^^^

lumeneng22:
It is high time Nigeria declare war on the Chadian authority for threatening our territorial integrity and kidnapping chibok school girls and keeping them for over 6months.

" declared"

We've got evil leaders! Real talk.

The wise-men saw this coming decades ago- Corruption ate deep into Nigeria - they had no time, no plans for what really matters and here we are...Bigots and nuisance taking over!!!

We have no weapons to defend ourselves - Many don't even pray- No physical self defense- Just bunch of pot bellied and fat butts running around the place looking for money every second of the day and night as if nothing else counts.


Deal with it Nigeria- the scumbags are taking control -

Shame on the greedy intellectuals .

Carpet bomb these lunatics back to stone age- the world will have peace for another 100yrs. Aspiring terrorists will have a rethink.

The world is bigger than these bigots!

To have food to eat is a form of blessing- Just like being alive, being healthy, having a job, having children.

Abuse of any form of blessing would be considered a sin. Remember many are hungry all over the world- It wouldn't look good in the eyes of God that you waste the food many are dying to eat.

Always take the food you are able to consume. I do not eat too much simply because i hate to waste food.

It's a blessing to have food on the table.

Merry Christmas

Another learner

lefulefu:
1:Pamper her with gifts
2:buy her 10,000 naira worth doll baby
3:Propose to her with iphones
4:if u fit afford am take her on a trip to dubai or london
5:never refuse her anything
6:be ready to sacrifice ursef 4 her like jack 4 titanic
7:stock her phone with recharge cARD accounts....
After you do all these i assure u she go say a huge YES! when you propose.

9ja girl open eyes pass your recharge card. You are a learner. Only trick that works na make you do better Complimentary Business Card say you be honorable for FCT.

Her legs go spread apart like say the two legs dey keep malice.

Suffokiss somebody

Tpia- acting messed up since 56AD

kccarew:
Ready for what, the word of God is the word of God, if u follow every word initially, he wouldn't end up with someone with a different goal...Amos 3:3, can two work together unless they agree, if u have same goal or if u obey the scriputers u wouldn't fall initially

Sir, you are getting it wrong. Op has gone astray and needs measures to lead him back home. You just tell him straight up to go back to his wife - I didn't do that- i gave him reasons to evaluate on his own to ascertain why he should go back to his God's given union. If a little logic is introduced into sermons and preaching, listeners will have a better insight and understanding- Logic does not take anything away from the word of God.

I see where you are coming from but you got my views wrong from the get-go.

kccarew:
What do you believe in, are you a christian or a muslim when you answer, I will know my responce to you next

Are you sure you are ready for this? I'm a Christian . Lets see what you've got.

Diesel1:
All I see is chelsea down fall

Mumu ---Go wear better glasses

BLUE BLOOD!!! UP CHELSEA!!!

juman:


We have a destroyed country.

A country badly managed by the useless and greedy "leaders".

The masses of this country are greatly suffering, so this kind of country is good ground as a breeding place for all kinds of insecurity.

There are several millions of almajiris in the north.

From your own perspective and in lieu of the forthcoming election, will BH be curbed if GMB is voted in?

A liberal needs a reason to vote-in right person. Eradicating BH should be this country's topmost priority .

I dunno why GEJ will want to rule this reckless country- Leave it to the usual freebooters cos if GEJ wins the election- these animals will unleash more havoc but who knows what to expect if they have total control. I can't understand the man in GMB but i believe BH will be tamed under his watch.

juman:


Bokos are angry people. But killing ordinary poor people is totally sinful, out of order and contradict Al Quran Al kareem.

Any idea why they are angry?

I dunno how some people sleep at night!!!

Boko Haram= No soul

kccarew:
Am sorry to say, but I would have to say it, foolish advise, what if all the good qualities is found in the other lady not his wife, u still advise he follows it, haaabaa! When he was doing for better or worse with his wife, he didn't know he would meet other prettier ladies out there, and its only a follish man that will set trap for his wife, the bible says woo unto a man that sets trap for his neighbour, for he will be the one to fall inside.be careful oga oo, for it is by ones advise you know who they truely are.

Pray never to be with a wrong partner. A lot of people marry wrong spouse for different reasons- and No- I do not share the school of thought that forces advice down a throat- i admire logic a lot - I need Op to be logical- it's the best tool for better understanding of a situation.

If you ask me, i would say Op's wife has those great qualities or he wouldn't have married her but someone needs to remind him and have him reevaluate his steps and life in general. Don't tell a man to go back to his wife because she's the wife but remind a man those qualities that makes the wife who she is.

You also talked about the general saying "for better or worse" That ideology works when both partners share mutual ideas- Will you allow your sister remain in her husband's house if you found out he is a ritualist or an armed robber?

Tellmeurmind:
Please I need your advice. I'm a married man with kids, and I'm also involved in an extra -marital relationship with a lady in my office.

She is an early 30s. I'm so much involved with her to the extent that I cannot sleep without seeing her in a day. We have both known that we can’t marry each other but that doesn't stop us from always being together.

Any slightest quarrel with her always affects my family at home. She is praying for a Husband and she always tell me about any man who comes her way but because of my selfishness and impure ambitions, I always condemn them.

I don’t always want to see her with any man or hear that a man is calling her. With all these, I still have a strong mind that I'm blocking her from settling down with her Mr Right. I always feel like letting her go but I find it difficult.

Please, what do I do to let her go?

Greed and sentiment aside, which of the Vjays do you enjoy the most? Who has the better ringtone- Who delivers more juice ? I blame your wife though- she must have been too carried away with other chores that she forgot to pay attention to your excessive waist demands.

Is the mistress more beautiful? Is she neater and smell better? Do you have more intelligent conversations with your wife or the mistress? Who cooks better? Who is more hardworking and supportive? Do you think the mistress would cheat on you as well? Does something tells you your wife would be unfaithful if opportunity presents itself?

Evaluate these facts and see who has the higher score then quickly follow that route . Stop when you are ahead before you get caught and wifey will lose trust in you forever.

NB: Lets play a game- let me start wooing your mistress and distract her from you a little bit. It works.

Many people do not realize how out of control these motherfuckers are: Any government that is not able to curtail this enemy of states causing so much menace wouldn't be deemed worthy in my books.

Just see this video - and understand what sorta fire is on this mountain , Nigeria.

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=ebe_1418914796

emperorchedda:
dude you were doing well till your last paragraph. Should he continue with the hoe?

Dude gave me attitude. Did you find it easy to read Op's epilogue?

Well, anger and sentiment aside, NO he shouldn't continue with the girl - but i was trying to make dude see beyond the girl and the next girl he might meet then he got defensive.

olamisegbe:
this is not a letter nor story to be documented, so english laws doesn't exist. Thanks for the epistle learnt a lot but I couldn't find an ans to should I or should I not?

Really? You don't care about the readers?

Nigga with this attitude , i understand why that lady left your sorry behind. Y'all come over here acting victimized but no one knows the other side of the story. Dude, you need a should or shouldn't?? I think you should get a Job.

Your mama sabi the importance of better yansh

hadizadeezy:
Imagine how he use to tell me he'll die if i leave
him.
Haba!! Its almost two years now yet he's still
alive...

should I conclude by calling him a liar or I kill him myself?

He figured his name is not Jack and you don't even look like Rose - plus there is no swimming pool in your house.

Sure we do!

Redeemed Camp , Deeper Life Camp , Shiloh Camp and so on

olamisegbe:
Hello Nairalander. I really need advice from you guys...matured advice thou. My gf (maybe my ex) cheated on me. The gist is this
There is this childhood friend of mine in my area that they skld together but she doesn't seems to knw him. Not untill I used her pic as a dp on whatsapp he didn't know we dating(although they done with skl and wrking).
Due to the kind of wrk she does we would only see during the holiday period. Due to the Ebola compulsory holiday we use the time to see. But pending that she left home to do her long overdue clearance in her school unknowing to me she first went to visit a guy in a Hotel( that's where my friend came into the equation cos he works there. That's same location with the skl) my friend called me immediately and asked after her and I told him I knew she was in skl for clearance and she's coming over to my place afterward, he smiled and said wen we see.I was beginning to think of diff tinz so i called her immediately but didn't notice anything. Afterward she was with me for a while and left(all happened in sept).
Fast forward to yesterday,I saw my guy and gisted I was shocked to the brim cos I never excepted that from her. I put a call to her all she shouted was MY LIFE i'll tell you the truth(she listed all her story, how she meet the guy, how he came to meet her,the hotel tinz and some unrealistic lies also).I asked her wat did I do wrong? Cos the clearance she did I had to borrow money for her cos I don't have a job, yet sold my phn to pay off the debt cos I though I would gt a job on time. Thou she admitted her fault saying it's Satan( I told her let satan be, cos all those time I was always monitoring u with phn) but there's no way I can ever trust her again. I forgave cos it's over 4 month but I can't FORGET. Pls advice and Help me. Thnks

Strenuous to read - what happened to paragraphs?

I read through and hey- you gotta go through these phases. Understand females wants good life- they function a lot better when they feel financially secured.( I kinda thing its a natural phenomenon for this specie of homo sapiens) During your extreme hustling state( like you should be right now) , its better to have an open relationship - do not expect so much from a lady plus your attitude and vibe will show any lady that comes around you what state of mind you've got at the moment.

Get that job, work on that career, step it up, meet people and expand your social network in the right direction- and pray to be successful in whatever you lay your hands on-

Come back on here December 21 2015 and lets see if you feel like you do right now. In the mean time, what's that girl's number- Let a kinsman talk to her.

Chronic Ignorance + Religious fanaticism= Boko Haram

MUKINA + SEUN = FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS = MONEY + BJ.

Op is so ugly nobody says Hi.