nekkyblues:


Hello, just seeing this.

I am no longer using WES any more, decided to opt for ICES. This is because the school I attended prefers ICES to WES.

Don’t know about WES stigmatizing certificates from Benin tho.

t00dugged:
You should be asking your mother who your father is ,since a dog is more loyal than your mother according to the person I quoted. , bastard

t00dugged:
And men are he goats in nature reason why they can even impregnate their own daughters and sleep with their own mothers,hence the phrase

" motherfvcker".

starkyniichan:


Nah you don't need to - mostly documents related to why you entering the country.. study / visit / work / PR

rs172:
Good evening everyone, I wanna ask that, does one require to show covid 19 test certificate after arriving at Canada airport

cococandy:
Bad people exist that’s not unheard of. You’re biased in favor of your brother so we may never know what truly happened but for the sake of this argument, I’ll take your word for fact.
How does their single case translate to all Nigerian American families being that way?

And the story still doesn’t show us how the approach of placing what he paid for as priority in the marriage favor them in the long run. If the relationship is to hang on how he brought her and paid for this and that, doesn’t it mean it’s over when she’s paid back?

Keep thinking about that.

WhyNa:
I honestly don't blame people who return home and say the cold is too much. I no blame them.

It's just 11 degrees here and all my triple clothing no dey work again

Basalt:
Goodmorning Ladies and Gentlemen.
I am Basalt by name and I came to Germany last year(2019) October for my MSc studies with a little amount of Money and a partially borrowed block account from my inlaw (his money and my money).
On arrival in Germany, I took only a few courses and got a job outside my city and also got a mini-job. I did all my monthly expenses from my Mini job and used my main job to completely pay back my debt within a few months of arrival.

Now, that's not the discussion at hand.
I need advice especially from people who have lived abroad or have many years of experience in life.
My visa still counts till 2022 and I can even extend it if I don't finish my studies by then.
According to German policy, once you graduate from the University, you will be given 18 months to get a professional job or return back to your country.
Returning back to Nigeria is totally out of my plan at least for now because I came from a very poor family without any job connection and I am really enjoying Europe.
I plan to buy land or start building a house (I saved millions of naira and will even save more as time goes) but my friend who is also a student here discouraged me against that saying that my root is not yet fixed abroad that I should wait and continue investing in myself and undergoing professional training until I get permanent residency before investing. That I should always keep saving because it is not certain that I will get a professional job after graduation since my course is not in Information Technology which is currently booming in Germany. That even if I don't get a job, I can use the money to migrate to Canada or any other country of my choice.
He asked What if you invest the money now and don't get a job after graduation, what will you do after the 18 months of post graduation visa since you don't have any backup from home who will help you out financially.

What do you guys think. I need opinions

maternal:


He's a typical Nigerian who doesn't care about his fellow Nigerians or the country. He couldn't see the full picture and as long as it didn't affect him, he didn't care. Now its affecting him, mainly his children, he's seeing it and wants to leave. But before when others wanted to leave because it was affecting his children he'd call them crazy.

Sanchez01:

Yes, I will turn it down. I veered off that path years ago and I haven't been happier. Well, travelling abroad wasn't the problem, even though I never saw myself travelling. The issue for me is travelling when you have no particular skill set or value to you.

Anyways, Nigeria is spoilt beyond redemption. Disintegration, at this point, is inevitable. It is only a matter of when, just as a matter of when I would be leaving and not look back. I wish I picked up the skills I have now earlier and made up my mind about leaving a long time ago. That is just the only regret I seem to have right now.

Sanchez01:

Protest ground oooo. This government changed my orientation just last month. A man is leaving next year.

Sanchez01:
Somewhere in June, I declined a United Nations' offer of working as a Journalist/photographer abroad and I became a 'fool' in the eyes of people for not grabbing the opportunity. I have never considered travelling abroad though, and settling there for me is a big NO NO. Okay, maybe I could for my honeymoon, should I get married, that is.

But on a more serious note, I have never fancied travelling abroad, largely because of the way most Nigerians idolize 'porting' to some so-called greener pastures when most of them have little or no sound educational background. I became the topic among some of my friends simply because I turned down a once in a lifetime opportunity.

Call me a bushman with a weird ideology. I believe whoever is capable of making it in Nigeria can do so anywhere in the world. Moreso, I believe I have a fair share to contribute to the growth of Nigeria rather than invest my energy in some other countries.

Few days ago, while I went for a haircut at a salon, my baby sister called to tell me of one of her friends who had sold all his properties to travel abroad, all in a bid to make it big. According to my baby sis, he had planned on going to Spain but failed after the boat he boarded capsized somewhere in Algeria or Morocco.

This was a young man who was good at what he does. I felt bitter at the salon and somehow I kept muttering to myself how a promising young guy as myself would choose to end his own life all in the name of travelling abroad.

Somehow, my words became the basis of a debate between myself and some guys at the salon. Unfortunately, I stood no chance as the odds was six guys to one.

The six who debated with me had one thing in common; they would sacrifice just anything to travel out of the country, even when it is certain that what would greet them over there remains unknown.

They complained of how backward Nigeria is and how other countries are doing fine, even South Africa!

One of them said, he knows he would end up taking care of the old folks and cleaning their poos wouldn't be a bother to him.

It was obvious I lost the debate in the midst of youths who think of nothing but living on the streets of Harlem and London with little or no plans.

Please understand that I'm not saying travelling abroad is bad. But must it be the last resort simply because you are hungry or jobless? Must it be the only idea in one's head when you are hardly educated

I could remember asking one of the guys at the salon a particular question; 'you claim the country is bad, if we all run abroad, who will fix Nigeria for us?' His response was quite shocking and unbelievable; 'see, Mr Nigeria, I don't care. My own be say make I just comot, no look back again. To sleep gutter for yankee better pass our own gutter.' I didn't find it funny at all. I thought about his statement after leaving the salon and it was obvious that most Nigerian youths would gladly jump at the thought of travelling abroad when they have no skills or talents to sustain themselves.

If we all think of leaving the remains of Nigeria behind just because she is bad, question is; who will repair what is left of her

Most countries all over the world will have Nigerians to thank for their growth and economy. Yet, ours still stay the way it is. It is high time we understood that life itself is not a unicorn on a rainbow. If you cannot make it in Nigeria, you may never make it elsewhere in the world.

Hyland:

Yeah, a lot of folks in the entertainment industry are bixesual.

Johnsonsp:
I need an advice, I have about 3m own a car live in my own house, am thinking of relocating to Canada with my son and wife, or better still we invest in a business here in Naija.. My thinking is y going to another man's country to start afresh and it will take some while before I can save up 3m, please I need an advice..

Hyland:
Lol.......... Williams is not gay, he is bisexual just like a lot of folks in the Nigeria entertainment industry.

Etherealbeing:


Hi,Please did you eventually fly with Royal air Maroc? I’m seeing conflicting information online regarding them flying from Nigeria. If you did, did you take the Covid test?

some50686:
Hi Everyone, i got married in 2018, We are both working class.. I am in my 34 while my wife is in her late 28. My wife has been denying me sex, we rarely have sex. sometimes we can go for over a month without sex. Whenever i ask for sex, she just complains she is tired and that is it. Sometimes i would plead and try yet she wont accept. What pains me the most is the way she react when i try to approach her. She would yell and begin to shout what nonsense is this, who is this now? To the point i only could initiate sex, sat morning and even with that she still refuses. Before we got married I sat her down and told her about this issue, that i hear about it from my married friends and dont want to experience such, she assured me and said our wont be like that but our is now worse. I am not sure we had sex more than 12 times the whole of last year.

The first time i sat her down, i asked her why she is doing all this to me, she complained i dont show her enough love, that she wants me to do more house chores, and also take her to eat outside and watch movies. I told her i will try. Although i knw am not the most romantic guy around, but i try the little ways I can, we sometimes go to see the movies. I do laundry on sat, help with ironing all the clothes she would wear during the week and cook a very few time. I ensured we got a maid so she wont be pressure by house chores. I also gave her my only car so she doesnt need to enter public transport, buy food from great eateries and even icecreams, almost every other week. But she has not changed, the last major fight we had was about 3months ago and it was about sex cause she denied me for no reason. Sex has always been the source of our quarrel. She was even telling me to go meet the maid since i am always so nice to the maid one time i tried to have sex. I really feel pained, like she is taking me for a ride because of my cool and easy going attitude. I have never raised my hand on my wife or even used abusive words. I even try to ask her how work is and gist with her to increase our bonding, yet all to no avail. I am someone who doesnt like going out to share and i believe the issue can only be fixed by the both of us, but this one is begining to drag for too long and from the look of things i am the one at the loosing end. I will go to my inlaws place and smile, nobody know how mean their daughter is to me, i too feel very ashamed raising the matter with my father inlaw. Last week i tried to initiate sex the same rejection, she is tired. I felt very frustrated and am now seriously considering cheating even though i am a Christian. Cheating is not right, cause it is expensive and emotionally draining, exposes one to STDs and it is against my Christian faith but what can i do? Sometime i have had to masturbate to suppress my sexual urge, but for how long can one continue to do this? I feel very ashamed coming to nairaland but what can i do. But dont get me wrong o, my wife has her good sides but this sex issue is really beginning to hurt and it does nt look like she would change anytime soon from the way she has been behaving.

Even if she doesnt find me attractive, should that be enough reason to continue to deny me sex after 3 months. Right now we are not speaking at the moment, cause i am mad with her. The next day after all she did, she come to greet me in the morning and acts like nothing happen. This is how she does and most time i always over look it, but the one from last week really hurt the most. I feel I have made a mistake marrying her. She also doesn't really care about my eating, most time she is only bothered about what our son and the maid will eat. I always have to go to the kitchen and look for what to eat, sometimes i get food outside. Even though i always drop food money. since we started quarrelling she has stopped cooking for me. Just very frustrated.

To the experienced married men in the house, what can i do the address this issue. I am considering collecting my car, not that it would be of any use to me , just to frustrate her

gungab:
Bro, what about video course on using vscode itself
And please, can you paste the download link of good html video tutorials on youtube.
It's been 2 years I have vscode on my laptop, I started with notepad, now everything just mixed up.
But with your comment am ready to revive my interest

Auxtan:
Dear programmer,

I just got myself a HP ProBook laptop and I can say I am very much ready to begin my programming journey. Now my humble questions please:
1. What online platform can I get quality beginners lectures free for my coding adventure?
2. What softwares do you recommend for this purpose, especially an interpreter software?
3. Any other advice dear pros for a beginner like me?

Thank you

Auxtan:
Dear programmer,

I just got myself a HP ProBook laptop and I can say I am very much ready to begin my programming journey. Now my humble questions please:
1. What online platform can I get quality beginners lectures free for my coding adventure?
2. What softwares do you recommend for this purpose, especially an interpreter software?
3. Any other advice dear pros for a beginner like me?

Thank you

sapphiere:
Men are greedy in nature. They want all to themselves.

Dande55:
How can you say dick is becoming the prize when there are more feminist lesbians springing up daily and with the production of sexual tools that can perform better than some dìcks without giving you infection or pregnancy?

Jannuxajj:
so earlier I shared this about a lady am living with
https://www.nairaland.com/6215283/guys-how-handle-girl

People then advised me to man up and bone the babe. for the past 3 days omo I lock up ooo. steady reading masculine stuff in my room. This morning I got a big surprise. This girl that usually find it hard to cook for me brought me my breakfast in bed, brought me water she even came back to pack it. I have never seen her this submissive. She even decided to stay back home with me rather than going out.The problem now is this doesn't change the fact that am still a simp. How can I hold on to this dominance without spoiling everything. Advice needed