Take responsibility for your bad decisions.
You'll move on fast and feel better.

Young man, you owe no one an explanation.

Where's the pot?

The racism in America is something else.
They promote rights tolerance but it's bigoted.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Story. Very useless article and writer. Imagine how pathetic you'd look reaching out to the girl to beg her to stop sleeping with your husband. I have too much pride and I'd rather pour acid on my husband's face after all I made the wedding vows with him.

Let him dare cheat on me first

I will burn him alive while he's asleep

I honestly pity the man that'd end up with me because I can kill if I ever get hurt

I've sliced off a man's prick before and I can do even worse than that

They think you're joking. But I know you'll do it.

The thing with people is, when you give them an inch, they'll take up a mile. Bro you've to make it clear and set up boundaries or you'll soon marry your sister and her husband. Cut off support.

Well, it's time for him to dance to his tune.

This is terrible.
This government is something else.

Am totally confused, anyone is free to judge me but I need an advice on what what to do before I commit murder.

Killing yourself and your child will only make things easy for him. He'll celebrate your death.

Find a reason to live. If your can't then at least;

1. Sue him for child support OR
2. Give up your child for adoption.

Is he insinuating Africans are incapable of love?

Davash222:
The only thing I gained from dating a Nigerian girl is learning how not to love or date a Nigerian girl again.

But it's okay to collect giveaways from them?

MrSensor:
remember that after abortion you have to wait for sometime at least 3 months after cleansing without having sex. So 28 abortion is not possible.

What ‘cleansing’??

Guy, after abortion a woman may become pregnant again before her next period. And that's because ovulation resumes after 2 weeks.

Lmao. Are you intimidated??

Return the money.
It's not a gift. She's giving you an obligation.

MrSensor:
28 abortion is impossible.

Women ovulate once a month.
In a year, that's 12 times.

They were together, for more than 3 years.
That's 3×12=36 times.

As you can see, 28 abortions is possible within the stipulated period granted they engaged in severe acts of knacking (and creàmpie) without contraceptives with both parties being fertile.

You made that decision to spend on her in the first place. She didn't point a gun to your head.

I applaud you for coming back to your senses.

I've told him I'm not interested anymore but he never stops calling and begging that he will change which I know it's not possible. He's a very caring guy though cuz he has his good aspect but the bad part spoilt everything...

This is just sad.

It's obvious his psychological influence on you is simply deep rooted. And as long as you keep lingering on that possibility that he'll change one day, you'll NEVER be able to quit and break free.

You need to accept reality.

1. He'll NEVER change.
2. He DOESN'T love you.

Tell that to yourself and believe it.
Only then can you break the mental bondage.

Take active steps like blocking him on all social media and cutting off contact. Accept and seek for support from someone you trust.

Oluromantic:
Sorry to say this but as a matter of fact, did she tell you exactly what happened or how the rape occurred? A lot of girls say it but if you scrutinize the case, you'll discover it's not exactly rape... you should know that girls claim to be raped a lot.

So??
How does that invalidate her claim of ‘rape’?

You think a girl wouldn't know if somebody is defiling her body without her consent or what?

Something is wrong with you.

Even as married women, some still accuse their husbands of rape.

Sex without consent is rape.
Emphasis on “consent”.

Marriage doesn't mean consent for sex.
So rape happens even in marriage.

Only some of them have been fingered and carressed by some uncles or so that they lived with while they were young which is not rape.

You are wrong. Rape encompasses all other forms of sexual penetration without consent.

So how is fingering against a minor not rape??

Guy, you know nothing. Go and educate yourself about rape to protect your sons and daughters.

If you're both into eachother, there's no questions needed to be asked. Everyone will understand and family relationship will be safe.

STFU. You don't care about male rape victims.

You are only bringing it up to invalidate other female rape victims... An 18year old girl was gang raped but your aim was to divert attention.

Why is male rape funny?

Who are those finding it funny? — Mostly Men.

Why do we not pay attention to male rape?

Who are those not paying attention?? Still Men.

Did your father took any decision?
What about your uncles and brothers?

So isn't it obvious that the problem is the patriarchal society created by men like you?

If you don't build the support system for women, there will be no system to support men as well.

Bringing up stats about male rape on a thread concerning female rape only undermines issues that affect men. You have no defense to do that.

Now you're passively aggressive saying you don't care about female victims since male victims are ignored... Well guess what??

That makes you a rapist apologist.

GreatResearcher1:
Is this why boys don't get justice?

Is the patriarchal society fair to women?

How do you expect boys to get justice when you can't even lend your voice out to the voiceless??

So don't twist the narrative. Fight rape itself.

Men of wisdom have been trying to understand women since the creation of time and all failed.

Yes!! We must stop Liverpool from winning.

Early marriage has it perks but I don't fancy that.

Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.

Verbal abuse isn't something to condone.

Her apology wouldn't mean shit because she's egotistical. Guy, stop dating insolent women.