strong766:
OP I support u here. I am a Christian but was once over religious and too spiritual. This affected my thoughts and actions up to the extent that I see things in the spiritual sense, instead of thinking otherwise. I changed my mindset concerning my over spirituality and it has helped me a lot. I now think outside the box before even thinking spiritual. 3 days ago we were hearing some sounds on our ceiling (rat sounds and movement). In my mind, I was setting plans on how to spray rat poison on that ceiling so as to kill the rats and prevent further disturbances but my elder sis on the other hand was like... Whitch rat..fire fire fire...back to sender, and I told her right and then that she is becoming too over religious o....

Does it make you any less Christian? No! Does it make you an atheist? No! Pls tell them !!!!
Has God become sooo sensitive we can't even have a discussion about him without being termed the enemy? Come on fellas, we're better then this.

Weah96:


There's nothing wrong with God did it, except that it cannot be proven and attempts to date have proved futile. The truth doesn't have to make sense. But it must be proved true. If your story sounds bizarrely unlikely and you lack evidence at the same time, I call you a scam artist.

Actually I think everything is wrong with God did it. Like I have said across this post, it is a lazy answer which is wrong by the way that we have gotten used to. If we can't explain something God did it seem like a very good explanation for a kid not a productive adult. Maybe you want to tweak the question to how did God do it, might make you want to be more inquisitive in the quest for knowledge I don't know. But If we don't understand things and rather that sort for answers, the best we can come up with is "it's God doing" don't check it. Wouldn't that just make us more ignorant? I think I have made my point and we don't actually have to agree. It's an impasse, no point arguing.

Touchnot01:


Exactly!!!

Atheists tell us what they think religion cant do, but will never tell us what atheism can do cos its will either be false or sound stupid.

lmao

I guessed you totally skipped the part where I said I wasn't an atheist. Can 2 believers ever discuss about their faith in God again? Once you do that you become an atheist?
Gosh, only tryna have an intelligent discussion here. I might be wrong accepted. If you have an opposing view share, we are eager to learn. Don't mock the process.

Weah96:

Everything you need to know about water can be found here.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Properties_of_water

You are not the first person to consider that question. Seek knowledge. Most chemistry and biology textbooks devote entire chapters to the peculiar properties of water.

My interest then might have been about water origin but here, it's about how people approach problems. Rather than seek knowledge like you said, God created water just seem a little lazy ain't it? Without critical thoughts, how do we learn these things? And that's my point.

An2elect2:
I don't understand sympathisers of atheism.
Why they never care to interact with humans in a humane way. Always talking down on anything that disagrees with them. No respect or true concern for others, proud and arrogant.

We are still waiting for the result of your creative and intuitive thinking ability independent of God. Bring forth your fruits and stop talking gibberish

You are an individual that puts one at cross road with God, "amuni she olorun". People would only understand issues from their own perspective/ point of view I get that. But how does atheism come into play here? I don't know. God is obviously not the answer to every phenomenon on earth and you know it. How is that gibberish? Folks lets me more rational sometime and leave God out of it, you think thats an inhumane way of relating? The result of intuitive thinking are you kidding me? I specifically gave the water example from experience so that we could see how some people wanna learn the mechanics how things work and some people just wanna pin it on God. For that alone who do you think is gonna come up with a theory or a knowledge that's gonna change the world or make the world a better place. The more we know the better right?

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She prolly never even said all this things and people be bashing on her already. I wish people understood how easy it is to manipulate the media. I could sit down in the corner of my room and write up this stuffs nobody ever verifies nothing , they make for good attention which People like. Page visits more ad money etc. I could be wrong, just saying. And yes, I did check for other sources for the gossip, I didn't find enough credible sources to back up the story.

Originalsly:
Guy... don't ever expect a lady to bring it on. As a guy... is for you to turn her on... get her up to that level...Cloud 9... when she would lose all self control and lay it out on you without mercy. Why say the car is slow because you don't know to shift the gears?...only know to drive in first gear?

Even if your guy doesn't initiate sex all the time you shouldn't bring in on? This one the guy that one the guy. Ok ooooo I wish you the best and good luck. But really I ain't saying all the time just once in a proportionate while return the favor come on ain't y'all talking about equality/ equity?

Aderola15:
Op, don't generalize abeg.........

I ain't generalizing abeg. In fact s/o to the ladies from some part of Nigeria that brothers being ailing about their sex game.

When op's boyfriend sees her post

kobosmalls:

95 percent of men masturbate so stop lying to yourself.
Masturbation is whimsical.
I do it a lot even when I have a lady in my house, but I have to hide so she won't know.
You guys should grow up and accept responsibility.
Most of us do it.
Its nothing to be ashamed of.

95 percent ?? Come on bro stop embarrassing us we ain't like that. I ain't into moral or good or bad on this but you make it sound like its something you must do as a guy when in reality it's not. < 60 % maybe just a wild guess but 95 % is a no. It is common I agree but not that common. I don't even think 95% of all men have masturbated once or more before in their lifetime and that has a higher probability than 95% of us are currently wanksters.

Vanquay16:
WTF! Women don't masturbate....This is heavily flawed.

Onpoint. The statistic is for a demographic that is probably not African and definitely definitely not Nigerian !!!!!! Our gals rarely self pleasure although the same cannot be said of guys. But oh yeah women do masturbate a lot just not in this part of the world!!!!!

Ginaz:
I feel sorry for some guys, pornn have disfigured their prospective about sex. In our parents age, no body heard about our fathers saying "my wife is too stiff like wood, my girlfriend no dey jump on top me". Or my boyfriend no dey last, him prick too small".

They were sexually satisfied I believe cos no marriage palava in the issue of sex.

I'm a woman, I do what I like not cos of whatever rubbish someone says concerning the bedroom.

Awww, this so so sweet but unfortunately you're not being realistic. Besides, we are talking about something that can be learnt it's not a psychological or biological challenge like little dick or premature ejaxulation. Good shag is a skill that can be learnt!! Infact with the rate of polygamy in those days and their short skirt and Afro swag, I don't believe they couldn't tell a good shag from another.

olaleks007:
Honestly if they learn how to...........,,,we will start complaining there urge 4 it is too much or she is a hole

Just Lets try to satisfy each other,,,that's all

I'll refer you to @iamlegend1 comment. Make them Bleep back na, haba.

Sparksfly:
Okay. You guys should learn to stand past 5mins.

It's not a blame game nor a competition. One problem at a time. I am not denying that some guys can't last 5 mins but let's stick to the issue at hand first.
Infact my next thread might be 5 mins guys, but let's stick to the issue at hand first.

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fflamingo:
greatest evil in dis world..
ticket cast they will be consoling their self with wise word..

bros it is not just wise words, its the reality of business. The greater the risk the greater the reward and if you are too scared of failure you cant achieve the impossible. Scroll up this post and see how another user is surprised that someone predicted a 3-2 score line x2. That's taking a risk. sometime it fails sometimes it works and it never really works all the time. You only need one big break afterall.

onila:
showing my boobs on my first night is going to be challenging

i was watching love and basketball night love scene where she lost her virginity
she kept on covering her boobs throughout


so cute
that's gonna be me

not sure, if my husband will like my b00bs
considering they be falling lately due to my up and down weight loss

Come on babe, I gotta wait till our wedding night before I meet the twins!!!!
Btw I love that movie, no jokes! Hope you did too.

Arsewipemod:
So you are invariably admitting that Islam has no business being absolute like Mohammed and other frauds taking after him would want us to believe. If you liken islamic conjunction to scientific theories that keeps evolving from time to time, then its a confused and false religion.

I never said he is absolute or any other religion being absolute as far as present day science is concerned. Am just saying it is wrong to call out one when others are just as guilty.

Ranchhoddas:
This is one thing I find suspicious about religious people. They are willing to critically examine every belief except theirs. Nothing encourages skeptics more than this.

Boss, don't make this about me. Stick to the topic and just use google. You can come back and criticize me. More so, I didn't specify any religion you did!
I said most religions including the two major ones have some issues that conflicts with science. You want evidence, ask google. How does that make me skeptics. If anything you are the skeptic. Judging one religion by an offense all others are guilty of.

parisbookaddict:


So you agree that the quran is inaccurate scientifically. Please list the scientific inaccuracies in the bible..

Oh i have a tonne of evidence showing flaws in the quran.. look at my past topics..

Ok don't make it like am supporting one and speaking out against the other. Am saying both are. And for your answer, just use google. You'd be more than surprised a so much content you'll get.

Psteew! I thought it was going to be a matured discussion not mockery. People really wanna believe in God all you gotta do is try to convince them. Show them how you found light not stoop this low. Grow up!

Op, screen grab this page to show the world and call out those haters when you share your pre-wedding pics. You can remove the bottom belle part sha they don't want to hear the truth, but they still be checking your thread out. That's positive already, keep hope alive !!!
That somebody calling you out for using idiot as your username, lols ! Pls what are the do's and don'ts of a username ?

There are scientific inaccuracies in most religions the two major ones not excluded. Same way we have inaccuracies in past scientific works based on new found knowledge. Gather more evidence next time if you're gonna accuse someone of fraud.

raayah:
Thank you for your post. I'm very glad that you brought this up! Let's discuss your main points. In regards to feminism in Nigeria.



The main reason why most women are chosen in fields like this is because women are better than men when it comes to customer service.
men are recruited into manual labour and armed forces because they tend to possess more physical strength on average than most women.
Now OP, would you let a female mechanic or electrician or plumber fix your assets? I'm pretty sure you might refuse in the real world even though the female may be skilled.
Isn't this discrimination against women?
Let's face it, men and women have strengths in different areas.



This is a straw-man argument. Both male and female are capable of being insensitive to any genders.
Research has shown that most of the women are ridiculed for their weight, are being ridiculed by other women.

In social media, especially in Nigeria. Thin girls are ridiculed with words like pelenge , flat yansh etc. While curvy women are praised.



Sadly, there are few to none child custody battles in Nigeria. Its not really a thing.
Besides, we can almost all agree that in Most Nigerian family settings, the woman is more active in her children's life than their dad.
That's why when we have issues where house-helps vandalize the kids, Career women are blamed. Its rarely the father's fault.

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In as much as I hate this. Ladies first has a long history. The reason why women are exempted from war most times or why ladies go first in case off emergencies is because, If for example , only one man survives in an island with 20 women. The island will be able to re-populate and grow back. But if 20 men survive and one woman, the island goes. This is where the term ladies first began.
I haven't met anyone termed a bad guy for not opening doors or holding doors for people. Its really not that popular.
Most people courteously hold doors open for others behind them.

About men and their feelings, you will agree with me that most men who are attacked for showing their feelings are usually attacked by other men. Try hugging your male friend and they will say stop being gay or feminine.




Using american tv shows to describe Nigerian feminism again? You will notice that most Nigerian movies always paint women as nagging, prostitutes and runs girls in the university. Who later have regrets.
Even the working class women always tend to have some kind of weird relationship with their oga's.

Most men are shown to be in a position of power or extremely rich and being used by the females.

These are very biased stereotypes also. Why aren't you talking about this?

After all is said and done, both parties have a say and you both have raised very good points. The goal here is equality and not really whom does the gender bias favors most. We should actually be looking towards solutions and not playing the blame game because at the end of the day, you being a male or female would have a loved one who would be a male or female that could be a victim of this bias so we can't afford the blame game about this things for personal interest. "Equal opportunities without a preference for gender and compensation based on productivity not gender".
I grew up in a household where the guys had a different chore than the girls which I realise now that is wrong. At my cousins however, everybody took part in every chore. I remember my aunt telling my mum one time when she critiqued her for making my male cousin stir amala. She said " would he stir it with pe*** or does he need a va**** to do it". Because we as a society already have a skewed notion of roles and what duties male and female could perform, it's definitely going to affect equal chances for both at such roles when in reality it doesn't affect productivity. Similar thing applies for the double standard too.
Personally, I think we need a major change in our perceptions to some issues in our society, Most of which have roots in the mixture of religion and culture. Most cultures naturally put the place of women below par to men, some religions too. Our way of life they say, well the simple truth is we can't afford to live in the past and change is inevitable. Our parents lived in a time when the whole village used to gather round at night to share folklores, I lived in time when we would get back from school and play around the street this days children just stay indoors and watch Dora and co. It's a new world, don't be left behind, we need a change. EQUALITY for all regardless of your gender,skin colour, nationality, tribe, sexuality, religious views etc. We are all humans first remove the case and check the bone structure . #1love

divinehand2003:
Same answer to this question, " can there be too much food? ''

Their can be too much food actually, which can cause obesity.

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luv2luvu:

And u should as well know this is not a porn site.

Whatever your choice of colloquialism, it would still mean Pe*** and we all know what it means. I just don't get y you can't say pe*** seriously. Now you have more people talking about joystick the hardware than the joystick itself.

sinaj:
yes o! I remember.



But I cnt tell them coz it happened in the dream.

Tell us about the dream then....

Yuneehk:
It's been really long since I last saw one o. I was in primary 3. Mr.Salami our computer studies teacher brought it to the class for us to see together with the mouse. We were told it is used to play games.

The joystick I actually meant is "Pe***" and that's what I wrote. nairaland system automatically moderated it to joystick don't know y or what's offensive about saying the real thing I thought we were all adults in this section. So stop being funny playing dumb and share

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Please don't believe everything you read on the internet.