elektra:


Okay.
At bolded.
I give up. Carry on.

I don't even know why you bothered such a person cannot be reasoned with and she's someone that's supposed to ne married,you should flee from people like that

schumastic:
@ireneony and @sc31 remember what I said about not trusting Naija police n how they can twist a story in favour of who ever pays the highest money, well this is one of such story...

yh I saw it,but trust me they wont get away with it except the other NGOs want to lie too which they would dare cause the family is not keeping quiet

elektra:


Correct me if I'm wrong. Are you implying that when two people are going out/dating and the guy beats the girl, tears her clothes and forces his pr!ck into her vag!Na, it is not rape?

pls help me ask her

schumastic:


I get your point no doubt and i love the way you approach the topic.
I thought of that as well but then i remember the kind of police we have and the poor system we operate, things might only end up to backfire ag him and am sure that is what he is avioding.
let's b realistic, is hard to see close child hood friends snitch on each other, instead what they do is cut of the friendship so they don't get into trouble. the same thing applys to girls as well.
am not happy with the op cus a Lil cough from him would have made a difference in the whole scenario that played out and this makes him an accomplice, which am sure he knows by now. the only reason I commented on the topic was because a lady said all guys were raised up to be rapist, which I cleared her on..thanks n i appreciate your point

ok

freshvine:


Forget all this no matter what, no matter the circumstances bla bla bla needless gender fight.

Did you discuss with the guy of your view on sex?
What was his reaction? If his reaction is not in Concord with your view why not cut off the relationship? Why test his reservation by visiting?

Look for a guy with low sex drive like you and stop taking from someone you're not ready to compromise your principle

now I can see your problem,Chao

freshvine:
If a lady go on a date with a guy and the lady found out he is not her type... It is morally right for her to end the relationship and look for one that fit her preference.

If she continues taking the guy for a fool after the first date by tagging around to benefit at the expense of the guy, one day she'll be raped... Force to pay for her greed.

The reason people go into relationship is for sexual gratification so one shouldn't be in it for greed.

In this case, the boy action is in correspondence with the girl's greed! Both should be condemned as she got served!

Had she been morally brought up, she won't find her self in this predicament.

pls what's your point exactly,so if I'm dating someone and I choose not to engage in premarital sex and I accept gifts from him(my supposed bf) that makes me greedy

And you're talking about morals condemning the girls action and justifying the guys action,like I don't get....no morally upright man would rape a lady no matter the circumstances

RennyX:

LOL! I laugh you @bold.

Are you a guy? So you can easily call up a girl and asked her to return all the money you've spent on her? Can you really do that? Be sincere to your humble self.

Is it not this same Nairaland that a guy created a thread about how he wanted to collect the phone he bought for a girl who played him. I couldn't hold myself from laughing at the insults he received that day. From the same set of Nairaland women and some pusssy niggas.

He was called "broke" , "stingy", and other words. Simply because he wanted to collect back his phone.

Now if you're a lady. How will you feel about such a guy? Be honest to yourself. A guy asking you to pay back all he has spent on you. It's still you that will settle down with your friends to insult and laugh at him.

Please let's be realistic.

so rape is the next thing?

I understand what you're saying. That's what you should have said earlier instead of the insults. I've called the girl in question this and we have arranged to meet today. I've equally apologized on my friend's behalf and I equally told her to please forgive me for not stopping it when I had a chance to. I'm equally prepared to compensate her with 200k and my friend is will to add another 200k so that she can forget about the whole matter. I know it's not easy.

you are a retard for such a statement,disgusting thing.

dickhead01:


Show me ur friend and I will tell u who u are
#RAPIST

thank you

schumastic:


let me say this to you so u will understand.

I read the story I was angry n my mood change u know why.

1.rape n molestation was committed
2.the op had the chance to stop it but didn't

everyone seem to be condemning the op but fail to give him the advice he seeks. not everyone here is matured so i expect to see childish comments as well.

even the op himself said he condemned his friend act n made it clear to him, if this was not bothering him, would he have typed it here in the first place?

he can't report to the police cus our Nigerian police can go as far as locking him up as well and things will get even worse.

if is for him to snitch on his friend that's not possible as well cus according to him they have been friends since chilhood.all he can do is cut of the friendship, meet the girl one on one and apologize to her for not coming to her rescue n pray she forgives him. nobody on this forum, I repeat nobody on this forum is a SAINT..let's learn not to judge but bring solutions to a problem..

we hear cases of ladies who a guy will train them to school n when is time to settle down she will turn him down with diff excuses, but bear in mind that her friends who are close to her will never snitch on their female friend or give her out..

so not snitching on your friend n a close friend at that works on both gender.

I condemn rape n molestation of both genders n will never b in support of it or defend it.

whether he snitches on his friend or not if the girls dares report to the police he's already an accomplice......if you say you condemn rape then your advice to the op should be to let the girl report and he should assure her that he'll stand as a witness,that's the only human advice cause who know who the said friend might rape in the future all in the name he spent on her


The op is a very disgusting human being,he saw his friend committing such act and he just turned a blind a eye saying he would offer the girl money and justifying his friends action,truly birds a feather flock together.

DTOBS:

Why Benue like to dey carry last for everything like this? Even for allawee sef, we dey back 4 playing our 5 without disturbance

My sister, how re you doing jawe?

lol.....my brother I dey fine o,you?

DTOBS:
Good morning house, please I want to know if this is general...
Our LGI told us at this month clearance that henceforth (starting from next month), NYSC directed all corps members to be doing a kind of assessment tagged "U-Report" where you get minimum of 5people in your locality to register with you.
Is this also taking place in your state?
Kindly give situation report.
Thanks.

lol we've been doing that from day one here

Mikollon1:


Then why was the banner there?

Or why didn't they have 2 banners - 1 for each gender?

ok

Mikollon1:


Look at all the pictures again.

only one banner specified,and it doesn't even prove that they were rallying for a specific gender

Mikollon1:
As expected, no one incorporated male rapè victims of female perpetrators into the march.

They all assume males can't be sexually or physically had by a female. What's worse is that males seem to be spearheading this very March. These guys come across as individuals with no self esteem so much so that they have to bend over backwards for a female to be relevant.

For those that are slow, I am not of the opinion that the March is wrong. The process is just sexist if it doesn't account for 100% of the problem as against the 50% it currently covers.

100% of the problem = exposing that males can be victims of sexual and physical violence and the hands of females and vice versa.

I know some misandrists will feel only few men are victims of female violence therefore, there's no need to March for them.
Well, my question to them is, should the male (the victim) have any recourse to the law?

Remember how people hated Dino for insulting a woman that insulted him?

Remember how people called Freeze a woman beater because he exposed his wife as a husband beater?

Think!

Men are people too.

but they never specified what gender they were rallying for

henrydadon:
the truth is bitter and the truth hurt

but i must say it things like these serve no purpose

u think pedophile , rapist in general give a fvck if u march under hot ?

these people have very screwed mindset

that allow them commit these disgusting act.

when i read about any rape incident..all i can think about it sharia law

just castrate them and send a very strong massage to other rapist

most of these rallies are not done to make the culprits stop but to make govt make more stricter laws against such act

Tallesty1:
All the phones that I have been using since 2013 were sent to me by the makers or marketers but you can buy from ibuygou.com (100% reliable) gearbest.com or aliexpress.com. I have buddies in the marketing department of the first two e-stores but things are cheaper on aliexpress

okay,thank you

Tallesty1:
The Umi london?

no phones generally

Tallesty1:
You seem to have done alot of research on the device. I can't vouch for it because I haven't used it but I have read some positive reviews too

pls where do you order from?

Cc tobbie247

MissGdope:
Those that keep shouting that girls bring rape upon themselves by the way they dress please come and explain how this 6 month old baby seduced a grown man.
A rapist will rape anyone when they have the opportunity to regardless of the age or they way the victim is dressed. These kind of people are sick

exactly,this was the first thing that came to my mind when I saw the news

Jcob:
Oga Op, God will elevate you to the position of an employer so you will understand how sweet the position is. You are just considering your own salary without looking at the compound picture of how many people to be paid per month, operational cost, maintenance, etc.

I can't count how many times have borrowed to pay salaries and employees would still think you are under paying.

When you have your own business, pay each worker N200,000 per month to justify their work.

No matter what the employee inputs, the employer still inputs more and to make the business a going concern, cost should be well managed!

so are you trying to justify 25k pay for a department head that would work 11 hrs per day for 6 days a week


Yes cutting cost is good at this point but don't now make people work like slaves

Isn't this supposed to be a syrup and not a sauce

Vision4God:
Dinner is ready.....

for only you?

.

holluphemydavid:
Lol, somehow Tru ooooo

not true at all,they are the exact opposite of what was listed

lawnreigh:
Sorry to say but you are a fo.....ol, on Togo our people are indigenous there and we ain't migrants there because native Yoruba's are there confirming the fact that our ladies don't marry outside our tribe or flat heads

can you imagine,doesn't that male you guys tribalistic too

9ja4show:


yes they are , followed by yorubas

thank you,any little thing Yoruba or ibo,Una no dey tire

Ghost447:
Delta girl is not an Igbo girl, what is so difficult about you people distinguishing SS from SE?

I don't get either

michaelandre:
no worry if your girl don be teenager your eyes go clear if she dates yoruba. Yoruba families are certainly the best families they treat there inlaws with love and respect and am not talking about fools on the street but real yorubas u will not regret letting your daughter marry a Yoruba guy. but as for Edo don't allow your daughter marry Edo because she might not easily find peace with are mother inlaw like 95% of Edo women advice there children not to marry an Igbo girl because it has been proven that igbo girl will take him away from his mother to his mother in law. and he would start hating his mother I know about that one welll

that is so not true

amodu:


No fun in Kano now

Too much restrictions

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

It amazes me when I see peoples comment about not hearing the second side of the story,how the woman doesn't like the boy,how she's wicked and lazy and the likes simply because she's a woman and the person in question is a guy but if its a girl you'll hear things like she's lazy,she lacks good home training etc like how did we get to this stage of being biased

And it would interest the guys to know that women actually treat their husbands relations well even more than theirs(not that they treat theirs badly) except in rare cases

balatukur:
wash dishes and fetch water rights? don't u think dt is ur work? don't expect any body to do ur work cos wen u do and he failed to u will always complain on ur own failure

and what's wrong in doing your dishes,fetching water you would use or helping out once in a while Doing them is not and obligation or right its just simple courtesy