mizzbouqui:

Your responses are like you are attacking tho

My relationship was not in a good state until I left the banking job (I couldn't create time for him, not even to chat with him, i use the little time i had to sleep or for church activities, people who enjoys banking are the ogas at the top, if I hadn't quit the job I wouldn't have known what romance section is on nairaland, the job is stressful)

Have a nice evening!!!

sorry but cause it didn't work for you doesn't make it a general rule,just like someone said its an individual thing

AfroKnight:


Don't mind them. They are trying to shift the focus from the fact that he taunted a particular ethnic group. It is not so much about whose name was given to the dog but that he painted it and paraded the animal.

Maybe if he painted his father's name on the dog and walked it in front of his siblings and neighbours, they would applaud him.

pls what law did he break

Fabulocity:
Now I'm hungry for some jollof.

Hot Jollof rice with fried plantain and roasted chicken, with a cold bottle of coke to step it down. Choi!!!

o lawd

freshvine:


Slowpoke let me educate you again.

The woman left her matrimonial home without telling the husband her whereabouts for a whole month(highest state of disrespect). Most women goes into this overdrive when their husbands is seemingly worthless to them cos of financial state of his or lack of love for them.

She came back to her matrimonial home and wish everything remain the same but the husband says "hey no! I don't trust you to remain married to you except you prove your Fidelity while away we can't remain in the same house and be married" and wife out of guilt and knowing the consequences of her actions refuse to take the oral admission before an Oracle or whatever. Instead she threatened divorce and the husband said that's fine by him.

She sued for the dissolution of the marriage since the centre can no longer hold. Husband was invited to state his side of the story and he table it the way it is and restate conditions for which marriage would still hold. Remember, magistrate court are instituted to administer justice and find resolution to conflict not necessarily terminating marriages... It is not that easy as a suit can last 2 years after every possible solution had been exhausted to bring lasting peace.

Now, when it was her turn to speak, she went on the defensive alleging and cropping up things that are immaterial to the case at hand. The marriage is just less than two years and so she shouldn't form ignorance of the family she married into moreso the people and their circumstances she's propping up as excuses are elder brothers to the husband. She has been there long enough through her University days to understand the sort of family she wanted to be married into and eventually married into.

We should not always play gender card in all of this things cos at the end we've God and our conscience to look up to

really? @the bolded...did do you even read my post at all,anyway won't banter words with you at all

freshvine:



You just read without a mind of your own to reason.

Let me interpret for you very well the likely scenario that's playing out.

They were once a happy family until the man lose his bank work. The wife started disrespecting him and even moving out of the house without informing him for that long a period. She later came back to her matrimonial home and the house refuse her insisting before he integrate her, she must swore to a deity that in her absence she had remained faithful to their matrimonial vow.... Maybe the man is afraid of sleeping with an adulterous wife which could've it consequence since he is a traditional believer.... The wife refuse this pact and instead plead for status quo or she divorce him. Maybe since both stuck to their guns the wife has no choice but to drag the husband to court.

The report has not stated any of them want to keep the marriage. The all have their conditions but why then you single out the man to vilify.


Read and comprehend, Nigeria youths won't!

haba pls you should also read the woman's side of the story of why she left the house,if the husband doesn't want her back why force to swearA normal man would gladly want to do away with an adulterous woman.....none of us can actually even state who's saying the truth and who's not except we know them personally.

So pls you should also read and try to comprehend without being biased

Missmossy:
Both of them sound guilty. They should just divorce amicably afterall with all that has been said they ain't ready reach a compromise.


Marriage shouldn't be endured, still surprised that people still indulge in swearing an oath and all those barbaric traditional acts.

God forbid i do such, all these kind of issues though. It is well.

well said

0kp0nku:

Swear that she has not been fvcking around for the past 12 months that she left her matrimonial home without her husband's consent.

sorry pls where was it stated that she left her home for 12 months

JoNach:
you suddenly know his family history when he lost his bank job and not when he was sponsoring your education?? women shaaa!! the only like to be around when its rosy

sorry pls did you read the lady's side of the story or you just decided to focus on the man's part

RichDad1:
So many misinformed people here. Lol
Can some one tell me how many KM of tarred roads in Mowe compare to ikorodu?
How many police station in mowe? (The area N command HQ is at ikorodu btw. )
Electricity is everywhere in ikorodu. Can same be said of Mowe?
In terms of inter-state accesibility, Ikorodu-ijebu ode road is faster with no traffic whatsoever unlike lagos-ibadan exp way that cab be a nightmare during religious activities.


For those that are not familiar with Ikorodu, cases of militancy is prone to Ogun state area(Ogijo, Agbede, Ita-oluwo, Igbo olomu etc) than Ikorodu town itself.

Anyways the choice is yours.

so if I want to go to Lagos from ikorodu I have to go through ijebu ode road Btw the person is not even asking about the whole of ogun just mowe...im not saying mowe is better than ikorodu cause they both have their advantages and disadvantages

omololu2020:
the last time I was there was 2014....it rained on that day,and my car got stuck

pls go there now

omololu2020:
mowe that is so disprganise,no good roads..the way them build house for there sef,with the kin houses I see for there,fear catch me

lol pls when last did you go there?

AyeeIdris:


That is why she is ANGRY and that is why it is a SCAM. The family told her this. Made us all believe that LUTH referred them to a U.S hospital, quoted price of 30k, when no U.S hospital has seen d file or agreed to take the case. When one tells lies, the whole thing becomes suspect. Now LUth is confirming that it is a lie, no referral was made and yet some people choose to blame LUTH? Seriously? No wonder people get away with everything here. Now it is no longer U.S but UAE. Did UAE also quote 30k too? We donated good money because we felt sorry but we expect accountability and transparency that my money is not being used to buy land for somebody instead of someone's healthcare

exactly

ndujekwu:


True... it's not a scam, but the surrounding foundation upon which help was asked (i.e involving LUTH management and so on) is faulty[b]
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But wait oo!!! Na human life we dey delibate scam or no scam? Make she go surgery quick quick abeg after her PCV is restored to normal so as to accommodate high altitude. Two things; survive or fight surviving.

You just hit the nail on the head with that,a Lie is a lie no matter how you look at it.....yes the family might have wanted to give Mayowa a fighting chance but why lie about it to get help,that was just where they were wrong and Nigerians should stop being sentimental by saying toyin and linda wanted a share of the money,how about the aramide kashumu of lifestake foundation that started seeing the discrepancies even before linda came out to the public

Sheggy13:

Linda may mean well for her but she spoilt it all by lying in her blog that the doctors at LUTH said her condition is so critical that she has only few days left to live and would still die regardless of anywhere she's taken to, when in actual sense the doctors have just confirmed with this Press release that they're yet to ascertain her problem definitively.

pls where did she say in her post that Mayowa has few days to live

MOFAZIT:
where is the scam in this story....?? Do the family need any confirmation to fly their child abroad?

no,but they said they got a referral from luth and a doctor was going to accompany Mayowa to the U.S. for her treatment

Ogbeche77:
Something isn't right here.. The family earlier made public a nemail exchange between them and a "supposed" representative at Emory hospital in Atlanta.. So why are they all of a sudden heading to UAE?
There is a difference between USA & UAE.. They should clarify that part, else the public ll remain suspicious of their actions

exactly

Hmmmm if linda ikeji was just looking for traffic,how about toyin aiyemakhu and aramide kashumu of life stakes foundation are they also lying

amodu:


How

when they win will they give them money ni,like what is it about

amodu:


Hmmmm, you want to be neutral or your eyes is pushing you?

Perhaps I am the one

lol my eye is not pushing me kankan and its not you

amodu:


Dearest daughter, don't give room for an canvassing, father already have a candidate in Iamkingsley.

Laveda, do ur job.

nawa for this Mr nairaland thing o

naijamakossa:
because he is
f;fantabulous
a;amiable
l;loyal
c;committed
o;obedient
n;nairalander
e;eligible
y;yori yori

Lols I have given u all the reasons to vote for FALCONEY

baby please naaa

lol,I don hear

naijamakossa:
doing just great my dear


so tell me who are u voting for on this mr nairaland contest

I will like u to join my team and support FALCONEY

please ......


waiting for ur reply

why would I vote for him

amodu:


Mention don't dear...

and where have you been all this while

been around o

naijamakossa:
hi sweet bae

what's up

amodu:


I laff ....

Who is yours

lol nobody

amodu:
SC31

awwww thanks

amodu:
SC31

lmao you're not serious

ojuolu:

Hi op, you may not get to read this but others will. I will start by telling you that relationship is a two way thing. "It takes two to tango", and the two that tango must have expectations and the expectations also have timeline. Gone is the era of love is blind...not in the present economic realities anyway, If your love have eyes defection, her can see! A woman ideally have following expectations 'ceteris paribus'; Finish secondary education (without getting pregnant), gain admission on time into higher institution, develop a fulfilling , marriage-bound relationship with a guy THAT HAS PROSPECT(prospect...not rich), graduate and get a job as not to become a burden (if possible), settle down and have a family with a man of her dream who can provide security on all fronts(socially, financially, morally, spiritually and emotionally). You might have been in her life when her expectation was at a stage where she need to develop a relationship, but you will agree with me that the expectation, like in Maslow hierarchy of needs theory, would have moved up in the past five years while you are still where you were when she met you. What she did was natural and noble. I wont blame her. She is sensible, practical, forward looking, honest and realistic. You should evaluate yourself and your life. Questions such as these should be answer by you: In the last five years, how have i improved myself? Can i sustain a family now? If yes, at what standard of living? Again when will i be ready to get married and raise kids? Where do i see myself in the next five years? All these questions are self focused. They are called critical self evaluation. Now ask again: this lady i am dating, does she fit into the 'me' now and the 'me' i see in the nearest future? This is called the evaluation of the impacts of your current and future factors on your partner(please this is equally important). She must have done an honest evaluation of herself and her future to arrive at this "painful decision". Please note, she is equally pained. At least, she has given herself emotionally, socially, psychologically and what have you. She had been trying to 'fit into you' in the past years. Please allow her to move on. Your plains are obviously no longer same.
Now i will offer you this advice. Critically evaluate yourself, identifying those areas you need to work on to be fit for a woman of your dream if you really want to be taken serious. The part i made bold in your write up were mere efforts for which you were adequately rewarded when she was with you in whatever manner you may want to look at it. Again, make a visible, concerted and realistic efforts at achieving your dream of being an ideal husband. Remember, to get an ideal partner, you have to first be an ideal partner yourself. Efforts counts for little, results matters a lot. Get results!

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Agfrank2:
Bro just take it easy and move on.. same thing happened to me and I taught I was never gonna survive it but I had no option than to move on... I tell u that d same girl that dumped for her new love came back begging me to forgive her.. thou I forgave her but now she's nothing to me but my sex tool bro.. she knows the girls I'm dating now is far much beautiful and more complete than her. In case she comes back forgive her and treat her like u av never loved her before.. no matter what she will definitely come back bro cos she will miss u more than u are missing her right now... urs is just 5yrs bro but mine was 6yrs... #move on

And you're pleased to be using her as a sex tool,what a shame