Ejiod:

This is beautiful. Nice work

thank you Sir

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CapedBaldy:
please give me tips on this. I'm in school now and I need this. I don't want to feel awkward all the time

find a group of people u want to b free with ,it is your decision,if i go to a place where people socialize i quickly make decision and start talking before i think too deep and become quiet,and it has helped me.i was in a group with few people i knew we were going to work together for a while ,i decided to start flowing with them immediately i joined because i knew we have long way to go,but there was this other guy that kept mute b4 u knw it at our second gathering people started complaining about him,and i already sense his introvertion, currently some people in the group are making plans to accommodate them selves and they side line him,saying that he is immature i was kind of trying to defend him so that they can link up with him but most extrovert dont understand that different people has different personality.

when u know u will need peoples help try to blend b4 the time comes when u will need their help.

Helicobacter:
Few days ago. Left home to buy sth from a shop in the neighborhood on leaving the gate I saw a few people(ladies included) outside sitting at their corridors getting fresh air. Immediately I saw them I had this huge desire to go back in and shut the gate but I knew it would be worse as they'd notice. So I just moved on ahead to get what I wanted, it was difficult for me as I walked pass their field of view. All my discomfort disappeared as I closed the gate behind me when I returned (this of course isn't the first time I'm experiencing this). After sometime I just sat and thought for a while about my problem. I finally concluded the reason I'm not outgoing and always indoors is because I'm always ashamed of myself. This assumption made so much sense to me because in the past I'm quick to tell myself,ya I'm suffering from SAD and social phobia. I was more truthful to myself the day, and it really makes sense that I've always been ashamed of myself, explainig why I hate taking pics etc. My life ain't so bad, I'm academically sound and stuff, I'm at the uni and sometimes it feels like I'm somewhat ungrateful to God for feeling this way. I just wanted to know if anyone's also experience the same thing.

I feel it too, sometimes I monitor the activities outside to decide if I should come out or not. And most people gets uncomfortable when I am around. My facial expression is mostly serious and sometimes I have been confronted that "why don't I smile". When I try to position my lips in a smiling position for so long it starts paining me so I just forget about what others think and live my life the way I naturally feel like living it.

Kintomadit:

I’m feeling this way too and is getting me depressed. I need friends

Go and visit a friend, once in a while u may feel lonely, that's when having a friend or love one is important. If no one is available just go to a football house or social gathering and forget about Ur taciturn nature and be loquacious. Then come back and keep yourself busy, watch film etc.

Jobia:
hahaha funny thing is that I talk a lot of funny nonsense in my head, but then those thoughts go through a lot of of mind filters before being voiced out. Sometimes I even end up saying nothing .

Learn to block the thought sometimes and just pour it out, then you will discover a new version of urself.

vitmax:
Most times i do regret coming out my shell to socialize, because at the end of the day i just hurt myself more and also drain myself.
I met one dude last year,he knows I am an introvert and he taught me some basic survival skill "SARCASM" and best believe it works now i can walk up to anyone "whine" them and make friends with them.
Nothing deep tho, cause i feel they my see through my facade.

You are on point, when I discovered I think too much before I talk, which affected my relation with others, I started observing extrovert, I discovered that most of them don't have anything meaningful to say but they keep talking nonsense, I then decide not to think too much sometimes and just talk even though it doesn't make sense. That's when I discovered I could be funny too.

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Something that helps me during public speaking till date (when I unavoidablly can't dodge it), I get a piece no paper... Say a leaflet of 40leaves book... A leaflet, not the whole book. I cut it, and fold into half. I keep folding to halves til the 5th or 6th time (no matter its thickness, a paper can't be folded more than 7 times... That is if you can achieve the 7th time sef).
I conceal the foldered paper on my palm (usually my left hand cos I am right handed) and then I keep a straight face with my audience. I exert all my anxiety energy into the paper on my left hand as I press my thumb against it (remember it is concealed, so noone really notices it), and I try to make gestures wit my right hand, so the kinda juxtapose each other. I also look into my audience and pin point a particular person and focuse on him (I avoided ladies cos I am a male... Shy me...) and try to maintain a faze of say 30secs... The gaze is not a gaze really... Avoid looking into the black eyeballs, just focus in between them, just above the nose, it does the trick. You then look at another direction and fix on another person, youndo so through out the duration of your speech. If it is with familiar faces, avoid those faces you know will surely make you laugh, make you no go goof
Usually when I am done, the paper is usually damp and soiled, thanks to the exasperation from the thumb, and rechanneled enegry. I hope it helps you too.
Identify a teacher you discover address the students well, and ask for one or two tips on how to command attention
If a student tries to distract you, find a way of focusing attention to the students, such that everybody looks at the person (a tool I found highly effective during my nysc days). You can tell the person to come keep your company in the front and probably close his eye.. Others will compult. It works for secondary schools though.

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Thanks bro, I really appreciate. I will try it.

Is he the goal keeper?

mrsteel:

Lol
Is the school that big with many students?
But ordinarily when u are addressing your juniors u shouldn't be getting stage fright. Unless u are addressing a mix of older ages. U need to work on it

It's not that big, I can ask question on congregation of thousands but to stand in front and be the main focus, na there wahala dey, but I will work on it.

mrsteel:

Lol
But how old are u?
If u are still young, it is okay

I have another friend in the same sch I can say he is an extrovert or in between, he ran during his turn, so it is not an introvert issue but something like stage fright.

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DivineGrace123:


Lol. Very funny. My child is still a preschooler. So, I think they want to instill leadership skills in them right from an early age.

I am currently teaching in a sch, last term they set assembly time table for teachers, when it got to my turn I just dey run away from my duties, some female teacher were d ones that hlped me that week.

4-0

Hashimyussufamao:


Thank God you have not swore. The school is in Kaduna, right behind my apartment.

Lesson: Never because of stereotype, misjudge people. There are bad eggs everywhere.

Just looking at d ground I knw it would be north with those congeal nylon with sand. I love north.

pryme:


Have been there, and I must tell you it scared me, cos I was worried I was actually a robot (Prime - Pryme), that was soulless and without feelings.

But The first time I fell for lady I was really relived, not because of the excitement of being with a beautiful women (which is most times the case for many guys), no it was because it means am human and able to give and get love (cos one day I would like to carry my own kids and spoil them silly with love, but that has to start somewhere - the Mother.
Even now I don't like that word "love" cos in most cases its either it's a disease of the mind or it's a scam.
But when you experience true love from another woman, it could be bad cos it will ruin you - yes in a world filled dishonest people and where relationship is mainly for convenience, you won't last long in shallow relationships that is the norm (most times).
And for the fact that you prefer being alone means you will only be with someone that offers you something extraordinary that you can't give yourself.
But it will be a miracle for you to find a person
with a beautiful soul that loves you and only you,
and add something extraordinary to your life,
you love her back just the same,
at the same time living a comfortable life.

The stars have to align, which I hope it happens for you.
When it happens, you will fall hard and you will love hard and for a good reason.

I once fall hard, I asked her out several times but she friend zone me, now i just decide to be careful with my heart, even when I see some admiring me I keep a blind eye, I no want stress, being alone is sweet for now till I reach where I want to. I just hate asking someone out if I don't have true feelings. And I am not even ready to have that true feelings either.

Drizzle007:


Can I get your contact?
Maybe I could draw from your zeal and we could form up a team learning pattern.

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Drizzle007:


I used to have someone of the opposite sex. Our relationship was like yours. I learnt to be with the person all day and became pretty attached. But then when they leave you, man I haven't trusted anything that looks like her since then.
I have close friends (guys) but they are not like me.
All currently employed and extroverted.
It becomes annoying when you're chatting with them and the next question is 'you don get job? '.
That question repeated overtime can cause you to distance yourself.
No one wants to be reminded of his set backs.

I am in your shoes bro, I had to take teaching job, a job I detest the most, but it motivates me to learn programming because I want to leave there as soon as possible. When I was looking for job the morale to learn programming diminished I prefer watching film and playing game morning to night. But as I started teaching I become more conscious of my development and immediately I come back from school I learn something on programming.

Nothing bad in starting from small so far you have a focus.

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