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The advert I don't like is that So-klin advert where two naughty children very obviously stained themselves and the guy that was doing the barbecue(they rolled the fishes in sauce,then rubbed themselves with the fishes and nudged the guy with the fishes) .The guy was just grinning,and their mother also smiled happily at the mess.The thing is which sane mother will be very happy to see her children make themselves dirty like that and smile because she bought So-klin.I just don't understand the rationale behind these adverts self.Are there no better ways to tell us that So-Klin works?Mtchewww.

Very nice post@op,but i thought only girls feel the breakup more.Also,a scenario where one has to breakup with someone due to some issues(laziness,past,incompatibillity generally) of his partner but loves the person and doesn't really want the breakup but has to do it and is being torn apart by it,what can yhis person do to heal?

So true. Real beauty comes from within.External beauty is ephemeral.
I have seen not so pretty people who exude inner beauty and thus appear beautiful.

Wow,thank you all for your comments,i really appreciate all those who took their time to analyse this issue for me.@Ruq yes o,@sunnydayasaba I'm running,@MrbrownJay,thanks for the analysis.
@Van Lucius,i think i'll pass @sanb,No offense taken,you have some good points there.@samisparkle24,hmm thanks @baralatie,that's some real candid advice.

Emeralddeee: My dear you have to be careful, stop wishing or day dreaming you ain't in love with this guy, although it's obvious you're attracted to some of his assert (money) If a guy is crazy about you he's never gonna let you chase him he will chase you, also don't allow him brainwash you with marriage proposal,some guys will use marriage as a bait to get what they want from a lady. Also avoid mind games and complicated guys they will do you no good.

Thanks.I really appreciate this.

Thanks again@Nonso23.I noticed that our communication is stilted i.e we don't flow like I do with other guys.I actually feel it's because he isn't fluent but you've made me realise that i could really try harder to bridge the gap and also work on my peculiarities.

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Nonso23: From all indications, you, my dear, are not in a relationship with the man in question.
Another thing is ; that man is self-centered and immature.
Finally, try to define your feelings for him because from this post you seem like you just want to get married or maybe you are attracted to his money.
N.B: Mind games always hurt both parties in the long run.

Thanks.You really said it the way it is.I have been in a dilemma because i can't say i really love him but feel i should see where this will take us both.Yes,my head tells me that he is immature and self centered as you rightly said but my heart says otherwise.Is it too much to hope that he'll change?

Hi,dear Nairalanders,
I would like to have your candid opinions on this issue i'm facing.
I met this guy who though isn't a graduate or fluent in English,is well travelled, streetwise and doing business overseas( he is in the country for a short break).
I'm currently in the university and personally i would love to marry a graduate which he's not.
The issue now is that we went out once,communicated on phone severally but now he insists i initiate calls to him which i feel is not right(like i'm chasing him which i don't subscribe to as i am principled).I believe guys should do the chasing and not the other way round.
He says that girls run after him and that they are after his cash.
I refused to initiate calls and he too doesn't call.He is trying to see if i will call him first.
Recently,he told me that he wants to marry me and i didn't give him much face.
I feel he actually wants to marry me and i like him.I'm just tired of his games and wishywashy ways.
What do you think? Do you think this guy is sincere.
N.B-pls candid advice only.

My guy serenades me with his voice.

Heaven on Earth by Micah Stampley.