@myztikal
Thanks for ur post.
We all have experienced it. Sometimes when the load is too heavy, u just need to...drop it and away. Ur not useful to urself or anyone else when ur lugging baggage around. If we all reminisced about our past, I wudnt even start this thread.
Pls, forgive urself, forgive whoever...forget the past. If u can still remember, then its still ur present.
Ur 37. U shd be someone's beau.

@engrelvis
It is, sir. With an extra touch...its for singles. This is a coffee lounge for singles of 30plus to sit back, kick off their shoes and hang out with their peers. In the midst of it, find love, if it is their portion here.
That does not mean that ur not welcome...to contribute, to advise, to encourage, to share.
I wasn't pursuing u. My pankere is only meant for those who come here to pick quarrel like mushin olosha boys (apologies to the gents from there).
By all means, hang out with us. But don't buy market here....

@engrelvis
Ok.
If ur not single, then ur a visitor, passing thru to say hello! Lol
This thread is meant for 30plus and single.

@dexema
Don't worry, I was watching the guy ystdy when he was pouring fuel on fire. This morning, as he released fresh fire, I showed him that, even me, I know where filling station is. Lol
I've replied him fire for fire, and I've been waiting for him to reply me, so that I can come over to his house and thrash his bum with my seasoned pankere.
If u scroll up, u'll see my post addressed to him.

@engrelvis
Ur welcome, sir. Hope u'll enjoy urself here, and may ur dreams come true... The good ones I mean.

@dosunmu
Gdmrn dear

@toks2008
Gdmrn and how was ur nite?

@uche
Depends. How old are u?

@joe
Lol. Don't mind them. All this quarrelling has dragged the thread to 13pages. Lol
This one wey u dream of toks' wedding. Me...I dreamt of ur own wedding ooo. Lol
Pls sheath ur swords here ooo. Ur all scaring the children.

@udysweet
Gdmrn and how r u doing?

@donald
I permit u to enter, but sheeeesh. Sit quietly and don't say a orrd, u hear?

@everyone!
Isn't it a lovely saturday? After all that rain ystdy? What are ur plans today?

@everyone
Gdmrn beautiful people and how was ur nite?

@dosunmu
I slept off ooo. Lol

@damilola
I read all ur posts. I understand everything. And now I am going to add my own.
The 20plus girl ur looking for, which is wwhat started all this brouhaha, is reading all ur posts, and I know she is wondering, na so this guy be? Remember why u posted here in the first place, even though ur not up to the age stated. Ur looking for a bride. Now uve allowed urself to be derailed in public. How is ur 20plus lady seeing u now? A man who cannot walk away from a quarral, whether he started it or not? A man who must flex and have the last word in any battle? Let me tell u the diff btw a boy and a man. Boys flex. Men walk away.
That girl ur looking for, is reading ur posts. U slept quarreling with toks2008. U woke by 5am to launch more arrows.
Am older than u, and I've given u advice as if ur my brother. Now shape up and join the fun...or get out of my thread.


N.b. If u reply me with a nasty post, I will come to ur house and flog u with my pankere.
God bless u, dear.

Hmmm......

@dosunmu
I see very well at nite ooo, I even drive well at nite sef.

As una no wan make me sleep.
Pikin wey no want him mama to sleep, wetin go happen to am Lol

Na who dey market me sef? So una dey collect my bride price behind my back abi? Chai!
I wan sleep ooo. Today no fit be like ystdy ooo. I no gree.

@everyone
U are all wonderful nairalanders and only the best is good enough for u.
I want to appreciate everyone who has written something on this thread. U all set the ball roling, its gathered momentum and is now headed in the right direction. If u notice, our thread is top on the list in this section, and visitors love it.
To all the chairmen and chairwomen in the house, may u reign forever.
To all those ayonges who popped in and took a seat on the bleachers, to learn from the elders, stay tuned. Our wisdom was not paid for with garri.
To all those who gatecrashed and started insulting people, well...the breeze that brought u here, swept u out.
To all nairalanders in the house...may ur phone's inbox be jammed with excess bank alerts in credit, not debit ooo.
Its time for me to go to bed.
Sweet dreams and don't forget to pray.
Muahhhh!

Now recommending joebeckz...
Guys, pls post tangible posts ooo. Let's know u...

@toks2008
Ok.

I am officially fully recommending toks and dosunmu to any lady who is ready for a real man. This is bcs I've followed their insightful posts from the beginning. They are balanced, emotionally stable and grounded as men.
I know there are other eligible men here, and I request other guys here post thoughts that can allow the ladies in the house to properly assess how wonderful u are. Ladies may date guys, but they secretly want a man. In every sense of the word.

@cokeranne
Uwc
Tell the house abt urself, and they will respond.

@toks
Who is ur number for specifically? The house

@Joe
Lol...eiyaa....that's so sweet, dear.
Do follow me...even as I follow Jesus ooo

@ariyebaba
How was ur day?

@sihom
Lol. Ahh, ur one of the flagbearers here naa.
Muahhhh! God bless u...

Great to meet u, princess!

@notttty
Ur in the right place.

@joe
There was a young man, born of a wealthy family. Well born and well bred. But along the way, he went astray. He started sampling funny stuff. He lost it all. Then one day...he came to himself. He retraced his steps. Found his way back home. And do u know, there was a loving father, waiting patiently, for him to get it right, to come back on track...
It doesn't matter how far u went off the tracks. What matters is that u can find ur way back...

This story goes to everyone who has ever missed it relationship-wise. Its time to come back home. U may have been hurt before. Or maybe ur the one who did the hurting. Maybe u can't find that person, to say am sorry. Maybe u can't find that person to forgive. But today, 6:49pm, is a good time to settle it with God. Take all those past experiences and just hand them over. Then walk away....
Its a new day for u...new relationship..new love....new hope.
U'll be glad u did.

To remind everyone...
I started this thread as a chat for 40plus, and it was suggested that it be reduced to 30plus.
Now, I noticed that a lot of younger people are here, even making snide remarks and disrespecting older people they dared not disrespect on a face2face, just bcs they are online.
Pls, if u know ur 33 below, this thread is not for u. There are many threads on nairaland addressing various ages and needs. U may listen in though.
Posting cheeky and rude statements, making personal attacks on people as if u knew them from ur village meeting, is unwanted here.
Let me say it again. This thread is for older people.

@isabel. Its the truth.

@sihom
Lol

@isabel.
Yes. And am sure they are doing it...assessing and saving it.

@toks
Is that u in that pic Oya remove it pronto! Haba! U want to have an upper advantage over the other guys here? Lol
I am 42.

@everyone else
Actually, for all those guys who are lamenting on how tough it is to get wifeys, there are lots of wifeys on this thread. I've not met anyone personally, but I've followed their posts closely and I have a sixth sense of this. The ladies here are mature, cool, calm and wised up.
If ur truly serious that u want a lady u can settle down with, someone u can plan the future with, someone u can build a dynasty with...pls look no further. Just hook up with one of the ladies here ooo.

I just want to say this here and nobody shd take offence bcs am not pointing at anyone. As Papa Adeboye once said, iif u feel am talking abt u, then am talking abt u.
Pls I said it clearly, I ate my 40th birthday cake. I even ate after that. If ur nowhere near 40, do not mail me. Let's keep all talk here. Pls. Really, if ur 27 and ur chatting me up, how do u want me to see u? As a person with serious intentions? Everyone who says age is just a number shd try and marry a woman who is 12yrs ur senior. One day u'll wake up and accuse her of jazzing u. If u want an older woman, go for someone in ur age bracket, so that when people see u both in public, the age disparity will not look ridiculous.
So, how did everyone's day go?

@joe
Well said.

@boboyekini
Am glad uve gotten that off ur chest.
I didn't need to reply ur post bcs this thread is for people who don't diss others. But I will tell u this, a man who cannot put food on a table, has no biz talking where marriage is being discussed. Financial stability is a relative term. U don't have to own a Lexus to be financially stable. U just need to be able to put a roof over ur wife and kids, put food in their bellies and pay sch fees. In short, be a man.
I don't think I've disrespected anyone on this thread, so don't disrespect me. Talk like u were well brought up or get out of this thread and go to where juveniles are flinging mud at each other.
Have a lovely wkend, bobo.

@boboyekini
Am glad uve gotten that off ur chest. Have a lovely wkend ahead.

@everyone
Hi all,
I had to run some errands, how's ur day been?

@alexx
Ur welcome to our coffee lounge... lol

@guests
Am sorry I haven't seen ur email. Maybe its the ntwrk? I'll be on the lookout for it. Is there anything u wanted to say to me?
Its cool to be an introvert. It just means that u weigh ur words before u speak. Its not cool to be a talking drum, u know.

@ amanze
u shd know that the criteria for a gf is diff from that of a wife. If ur looking for wife material and ur wearing the glass of a 'gf-looker', u'll have double vision.
Of course, we hope u urself are a husband material. Why shd a goldsmith mix gold with panda naa?

@eightsin
Hmmm...........

@joe
Spot on.

@dosunmu
Hmm.....