Health / Re: Soldiers Rescue Woman From Committing Suicide In Lagos Lagoon by SILVERLINES: 10:16am On Nov 06, 2023 |
mbaise1000: In Iraq after rescuing her from commiting suicide, they will then give herthe the death sentence and kill her by themselves. Some religion will give anything to murder and spill the blood themselves you mean those demons in disguise called Islam |
Politics / Re: Navy Personnel Beat Women In Abia: Navy, Abia State Government React by SILVERLINES: 6:44pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) This is one of the reasons some of us should own a gun in this country 10 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Burna Boy: I Turned Down $5M Dubai Gig Because Smoking Of Weed Is Banned There by SILVERLINES: 6:22pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: HAMAS Rocket Just Hit A Residential Building In Tel Aviv by SILVERLINES: 3:19pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) trust Israel will wipe them out in no distant time when Israel are done with them, Gaza will remain a desert 3 Likes |
Education / Re: "Converting HND To Degree Is Absurd" By Punch Editorial Board by SILVERLINES: 6:28pm On Oct 26, 2023 |
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Family / Re: Husband Thanks His Wife For Putting His Name Under Her Father's House (Pix) by SILVERLINES: 7:43pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) good girl with betta waist the husband grind her so well to keep the love aflame advantage of having a good dick 2 Likes 1 Share |
Food / Re: Nagiko Threatened To Kidnap & Kill Me Over Erisco Tomato Review - Chioma Egodi by SILVERLINES: 2:02pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) too bad |
Politics / Re: ‘I Won’t Reply Idiots In Democracy’ – Ahmad Gumi On Calls For His Arrest by SILVERLINES: 10:04am On Oct 23, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: Gumi, your days as a free man are numbered. Your arrest is near. shut ur fuccck up and remember Gumi is an APC allied same terrorist party u wail every day here trying to defend their ineptitude |
Politics / Re: ‘I Won’t Reply Idiots In Democracy’ – Ahmad Gumi On Calls For His Arrest by SILVERLINES: 9:51am On Oct 23, 2023 |
![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) one Nigeria my foot the greatest affliction ever happen in the history of man kind is this contraption called Nigeria He equally stressed that it was dangerous to entrust Nigeria’s national security to the hands of Christians and Southerners. in whatever u do in life always know that Islam is ur greatest enemy 17 Likes 1 Share |
Nairaland / General / Re: LASTMA Finds Wandering Girl Under Bridge by SILVERLINES: 7:11pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: American Lady Reveals Why She Loves Dating Nigerian Men Over Her Countrymen(vid) by SILVERLINES: 5:44pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: From USA, is It Real Or Fake (photos) by SILVERLINES: 12:17pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) yahoo boyz wan use you as a pay loader just escape 35 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Wife Complains When I Touch Her by SILVERLINES: 12:15pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
IamReallyboy: Help a brother,
If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.
We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.
My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this. that may be due to her hormones sometimes it happen like that |
Politics / Re: Rufai Oseni, Oladotun Hassan Argue On Air Over Tinubu’s Certificate (Video) by SILVERLINES: 11:44am On Oct 05, 2023 |
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Politics / Re: Rufai Oseni, Oladotun Hassan Argue On Air Over Tinubu’s Certificate (Video) by SILVERLINES: 11:42am On Oct 05, 2023 |
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Events / Re: Nigerian Woman Who Ordered Guests Without Asoebi Out Of Her Party Apologizes by SILVERLINES: 11:38am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Agbado woman |
Properties / Re: My Tenants Refuse To Pay Me by SILVERLINES: 1:48pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Preservedfish: As a landlord, these are tough times for me.
My tenants are pushing for a rent reduction in October, with some even suggesting late payments.
I urged them to submit the full rent upfront before October to avoid story that touches the heart, but they decline.
This is my livelihood!
How am I supposed to weather this storm without their full cooperation? poor facts; landlord - a Nigerian
tenants - Nigerians
both country of residents - Nigeriathe question now is: who will corporate with who? |
Travel / Re: Which Country Will You Like To Come From If Given Another Chance To Be Born? by SILVERLINES: 1:22pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Ireland 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Mohbad: How Police Picked Up Sam Larry From Lagos Airport On Arrival From Kenya by SILVERLINES: 7:09pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) bad people 1 Like |
Politics / Re: We Are Neither Terrorists Nor Bandits: NNPP to report Justice Anya to NJC by SILVERLINES: 8:06pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) This can only in Nigeria 1 Like 1 Share |
Computers / Anyone With Dell Latitude XT Moatherboard For Sale? by SILVERLINES: 6:55pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Please my Dell Latitude XT motherboard got spoiled last year and since then I have been searching for the board, I’ve gone to several computer shops and dealers but couldn’t get it. So I bring it here to know if there is anyone here who have it for sale.
Please! Admin please help me take it to front page |
Politics / Re: CBN: Cardoso, Deputy-Governors take oath of Office by SILVERLINES: 3:30pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
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Politics / Re: Cross Section Of Kogi West Reconciliation Meeting With Gov Adeleke, Dino (pics) by SILVERLINES: 3:25pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Urheadmaster: Dino malaye will never become the next governor of kogi state ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) na ur papa go become the governor of Kogi state instead |
Politics / Re: 'Tinubu's Transcript Has Implicated Him' - David Hundeyin by SILVERLINES: 7:06pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
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Politics / Re: Photo: Transcript Of Bola Tinubu From Chicago State University by SILVERLINES: 3:41pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) yeye this not official transcript 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Lawyer Ousted From NBAs Whatsapp Platform For Calling MC Oluomo ‘Executive Thug’ by SILVERLINES: 3:39pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
this is thuggery government
you can come against them |
Phones / Re: Apple Launches iPhone 15 Pro And iPhone 15 Pro Max (Features & Prices) by SILVERLINES: 10:24pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) slay queens go take porn to the next level just to get this |
Religion / Re: Burial Photos Of Pastor Taiwo Odukoya by SILVERLINES: 4:29pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Where's righteousness2 |
Politics / Re: Soludo Rescues Victims In Ghastly Motor Accident by SILVERLINES: 3:02pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) There's no big deal here Every spirited individual with empathy can do this 1 Like |
Family / Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by SILVERLINES: 10:51am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him. I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.
We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.
He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives. Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.
He is a chronic gambler. No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble. Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.
To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself. My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work. Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.
I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.
Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy. I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house. We had two children and I don't intend having any other. The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much. School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.
We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.
Are these not enough reasons to divorce him? During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me. I see that as way to make my children suffers.
What can you advise please?
I just want peace of mind.
I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.
If all that you explain is true then I have my full support to divorce him. But, please make sure u take ur lovely children along with you. And also I will say u seek spiritual solutions for him on his behalf cos it takes a serious spiritual problem for a man to behave that way 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Pastor Spotted Praying For A Yahooboy (video) by SILVERLINES: 8:09pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Even the pastor na yahoo man |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Are Generous And Last Long In Bed - Kenyan Socialite Shakila (vid) by SILVERLINES: 8:17pm On Sep 07, 2023 |
Jeon: Why this?
Common Nigerian Men, you have to be famous for something else. If we no sabi fuccck u u go still complain Allow us breath 3 Likes |