Hello Cocoa my sister.

Both parties are to be blamed. When the woman forgets what an African home is supposed to be like and forgets what a wife is meant to do. The husband agrees that financial responsibilities should be borne 50-50 and agree to wake up in the middle of the night to change diapers because white people do it. When you do like the West do, you'll get the same results, DIVORCE.

Damn, this is just plain stupid to say.


At one time Africans were not even using diapers, little baby's ran around wearing nothing or wearing something home made. It was much easier then. You are the one who is always going on about change and how good and necessary it is and how many of the white mans ways and ideas are beneficial. Now you are blaming the white man for the change in African families?


You can't have your cake and eat it to, you can't blame white people because Africans are now using diapers and the husband wakes up at night to help in the changing of the diaper.


I see many Africans in America helping each other with the responsibility of the child or children, you know why? Because the situation now cause for it. Both the man a woman are now workers who each work at least a 9-5 jobs, they are both equally tired and they both share in the responsibilities.


It is not the diaper changing that is breaking up the marriages. If it is anything, it is the added stress in America compared to the stress they had in Africa. It's not easy adapting to a foreign system, I don't care how much better or good the money is.

Both parties are to be blamed. When the woman forgets what an African home is supposed to be like and forgets what a wife is meant to do. The husband agrees that financial responsibilities should be borne 50-50 and agree to wake up in the middle of the night to change diapers because white people do it. When you do like the West do, you'll get the same results, DIVORCE.

Sounds like your just blaming the woman.

wassup ucche?