AntiBrutus:
This question here is one reason, women will/should continue to marry up and men will marry down. It is good for everyone's sanity in the long run. Everyone is 'happy'.

May one man not return you to lack, all because of his ego...

Amen o, but these your words are strong o...women should marry up while men marry down.... Biko, who marry down epp, Na to marry up o...

lifedynamics:
I don't see anything wrong with it... If you like call it "westernized cultutetor mentality"... See Ehn I'm a very simple guy who lacks this toxic African masculine pride (I have pride ooo and self esteem, but not a toxic one).That being said I would even prefer moving in with her so we'll have two houses. I would even prefer a richer wife cause all I see is more money and not less submission.
I don't want African submission(Slavery), I would've married a slave if that was the case... I need a partner and best friend.
Cause some of us will want to do man of the house, Iron Man... Sole provider and when you're tired and burned out you'll start pouring aggression on your wife and kids, all because you want to do superhero
Why would I want a broker wife, when we can use our money for a holiday or to buy stuff at a Gucci shop.
Don't let pride( toxic pride, cause pride is good)ruin your chance at a peaceful life. It all depends on your mentality and Sense of reasoning.

Hmmm
One thing is we have helpers God has channeled to help us be it male or female to make our journey to the top worthwhile. Guys wouldn't mind marrying girls from wealthy home or successful ladies if opportunities come. Normal connotation is the rich marry themselves while the poor make do with the leftovers, and why would a man allow pride becloud his sense of reasoning and not secure a better future if there's genuine love from their two while he's not wasting off either. There are two sides to a coin and I feel it is dicey but there's nothing wrong in it, so long there's love and understanding. I feel if a woman would respect you or not, even if you buy her heaven and it's not in her nature to respect, she still wouldn't, she would still tell you, what have u done that no one has done before.

tosyne2much:
There won't be problem in as much as the man is ready to relinquish power and become a wussy husband

On a very serious note, it doesn't dignify a man. Reason being that this is "NIGERIA" not England or France .. You are probably going to lose your respect as the head of the family and will most likely become tantamount to a loaf of bread in the presence of your in-laws.

Aside that, you know how women normally behave especially when they are shouldering responsibilities in the family (not to talk of moving into the house owned by a woman). Such a man will have to tolerate all sort of manners from the woman. This is just the bitter truth!

Why get married in the first place when you know you can't house your wife?

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So u would advise the house is sold off right? But when two are married, they were suppose to become one as whatever they own become theirs or is it whatever the woman owns is hers alone while that of the husband is theirs?

swiz123:
This is a difficult question to answer, considering the fact that woman rarely build a house in this country .Those who succeed in building one leaves it for her parents.

If the lady built a house, then it would be foolish to move to a rented apartment with her husband.

However, the lady must always acknowledge that the man is the head of the house.

I quite key into your point, most important thing is understanding and submissiveness from the woman's side..... But do u not think, Maybe later on when misunderstanding sets in, she could bring such into her cheap talks to score points?

Burgerlomo:
There is nothing wrong with it as far as the man is ready to relinquish power, give up his authority as a man to become madam of the house.

Would you now suggest the house is sold off because of ego?

It's culture, norm for a lady to go join her hubby after marriage in his house but here, what if the bride has her own house and the groom lives in a rented apartment, so would It be okay for the man to move into his bride's apartment instead Or the bride should just move into the groom's rented apartment while the bride's apartment waste off?

Partners these days are becoming scary. Peace, happiness, good sex, humility, understanding, patience and God's love... Anything outside these is a no no for me. Not married yet, but with what I already see.... My answer is......till she......... If she does though

Fulaman198:


Thanks for the compliments, but the beating part is blown out of proportion. Have you ever seen it actually happen to someone? The coming of age flogging thing in Mbororo'en society does happen but that's usually at the age of 12 or so.

Nay, never saw a man beaten over a woman before over marriage. Are u Fulani?

Chai... So these ogbono kind of men still exist, if my lady is not making me happy and obedient, Bleep love...i won't stay long. I hate not been happy, not even one caused by a partner.

Fulanis are beautiful, sometimes their hand designs make them obviously beautiful and they're mainly light in complexion. That beating part, haha, they should keep their daughter.

First of all, you don't go about taking oath with people regadless how much you love them, even if you can die for them, it's unscriptural. Funny part is, a young inexperienced lass hoodwinked you to leaving a wife material for her, it's highly unmanly. You could have dated a fellow Corper or someone almost graduating that has relationship sagacity with principles. Anyway, the deed is done, meet with a pastor, pray to get over the oath, the girl could be diabolical and aside that, get your sorry ass together and move on, after all, you earlier broke someone's heart. Graduates should stop dating all these 100l people sef, chances of marriage is slim, they engage in things u wouldn't believe esp when the girl is overly adventurous. Gracia

amiibaby:
are u high on them weed

Are u attacking me with buhari ni amii ...so no cold nah ...u go sabi abuse well well o

All the ones my secondary school computer teacher drew on the board then, How has that helped him.... Sorry Mr Biodun..even maker on Ubuntu didn't notice him.

Even amiibaby with her dislike for buhari would pamper buhari and never be this blunt but quick to attack him over the phone.

Despite the so much money Lagos rake in, they still came with capitalist policies....states needing to boost IGR should even be the one enacting laws of tax increment. Ambode for the money o

SweetLove0:
bubu sack for the first time

How about the departure from office of SGF and DG, NIA and not returning, aren't those sacking too?

I advise people to never stay behind a truck when climbing a hill or ahead of a truck when coming down a slope, also, at corners, avoid high speed.... When over taking trucks, ensure you're honking the horn at maximum rate to awaken the driver even if asleep.

TheOliveSeed:
Good. Would've been so cruel of him to leave her after 10 years of dating to chase after someone else. Congrats and hml.

Doesn't necessarily mean, some guys are heartless, would complain after all, I've probably known her completely, nothing new and would start looking outside for another impeccable and gullible openke. It's obvious this marriage would withstand all storms with God by their side.

That's commitment, loyalty at its peak. They're an emblem of patience, passion and desire. No Need to rush in this life! Happy Married Life

Some people ehn, their being asinine is top notch, what would warrant people pausing 15yrs of their relationship lives for whatever reason regardless of anything especially when they're of age? After you're done waiting, he ditches your sorry ass for younger babes. Better be wise. That guy must be a devil incarnate to have requested for such.

I still prefer Hyundai to this!

Abydokie:
Oh! Tnx

Been a while u commented.... I was waiting to see your comment...... How're you?

God saved the bus driver we entered his bus sometimes last month, he just changed his price in the course of the journey, God saved him he reverted back, same fate would have befell him at agege.... Nonsense, thinking old age concern us.

Heavance:
Is she now a widow?

Yes nah, isn't she wearing black? They don't need be lawfully married, she is already seeing herself a widow already.

Frz won't see this but ready to castigate testimonies by people made genuinely and has saved them.

octopusfreaky:
O ye of little faith, see them doubting Thomases. Get the sticker and try it. Put your faith to test.

No need putting his faith to test as it would fail, even if he was a witness in a miracle, he's been configured to condemn the church and anything from within hitherto, hence, he would still not believe. People like frz and their co-hosts are best at facing bbn where irrelevancies are the other of the day. One would think frz doesn't go to church or his parents don't... All men have a channel to God.... He dare not try this with Muslims, by now he would be long gone but we christans are good at criticizing ourselves... What do u expect?

This personality called abydokie is someone I wouldn't mind meeting but not in the house...... She hardly comments.... Her personality I'm interested in

quinSonia:



Bros tank u

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quinSonia:







no need..I don't know you

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Troublemaker007:


So if you know me u for agree to come?

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doyinisaac:
Na so ooooo...Even Donald trump sef know travel reach buhari.....and the annoying thing is the travelling is not bringing any meaningful contribution to his governance.....

Travel expenses that would be incurred when a US President travel to any country in the world is nothing compared to that of a sitting president in Nigeria. just some days back, US vice president was in Israel. Buhari traveling in and out of the country doesn't affect governance, Infact, that should have brought us more favor amongst comity of nations ,but this time around, where he's, it changes nothing, he's just so so inconsequential like many others. To speak like an astute, wahala, to speak frankly and change things positively, wahala...abeg! Anywhere he likes he go Biko, he is the PRESIDENT!

I have lots of clothes with my tailor but because he's close to me, he's playing playing with it.... Well, if not for my friend's birthday tomorrow...would have loved a new wear, but I've got go with the old ones. But he Bleep me up.. But na my guy... He's pardoned.