Family / Re: I'm In A State Of Confusion, Moderator Please Help Me Move It To A Front Page by soomedics: 7:44pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
ibechris: As young man where ever u are in the world.
Avoid women who are busy going from one church or the other. With all Nigerian problems pastors and imams can't solve one major problem we have as a people,na marriage wahala them fit solve.
How can a pastor advice this woman to marry the first husband when it is clear here that she hasn't even been married properly?
That pastor is an enemy of progress take it or leave. He asking u to leave where u are happy to fire.
Yes.. that is just it |
Family / Re: I'm In A State Of Confusion, Moderator Please Help Me Move It To A Front Page by soomedics: 6:56pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
jazon: Remain with your current husband. Don't mind the pastor. Ignore your in-law. Or else you'll further complicate your life Hmmm.... Thanks |
Family / Re: I'm In A State Of Confusion, Moderator Please Help Me Move It To A Front Page by soomedics: 6:55pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Starz825: Salvage actually..not savage*
Wow Your marital life seems to be all shades of wrong.... You need to calm down...you are already troubled.... don't add more Your three children should be the most important to you rn in your pursuit for happiness.....not a man Don't think about a man right now,
Just relax.... Plan on how to take good care of your children...
With time, yeah give it some time...you will know what to do about your relationship..but for now...take good care of your kids Don't rush into making a decision now so you don't make another terrible mistake....
And pls stay away from raw sex for now, so you don't give birth again until you are settled
Thanks
Thanks... May God bless you... But as for the last man, they said our Star does not match each other and we love each other, is there any way out cos my first husband is a turn off cos I have gave birth to two children, so I can't go there again |
Family / I'm In A State Of Confusion, Moderator Please Help Me Move It To A Front Page by soomedics: 4:24pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Hello nlanders, help me with advice to savage this marriage.. I had my first son back in 2013, so I left the marriage with the son I gave birth to for the family of that man, when the child was 2yrs Old due to the fact that, I'm not comfortable... After some years, I met another man, wch was fruitful with a girl and just because of beaten up and down, I had no option than to left also but I took along my daughter, so I have bin taking care of her with the little I have... Now I met another man, some years back, wch we love each other despite I told him I have had two children for the previous marriage, he loves me with everything and two years into our courtship, we had a daughter again but we have bin together loving each other but my husband in-law victimized me that made me to sought solutions before pastor, they prayed and they asked me to leave the marriage again But where I'm confused now is that they told me if I'm to achieve, it's either I go back to man I born for or I should remain without having husband forever, please advise me cos actually, the first Guy I had my first born for is yet to marry up till now, will that be possible as that is a shame... or I should forget about having husband or I go should pray over the last man that Loved me even with Having two children... Thanks |
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by soomedics: 3:35pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
JapaProf:
You will have to send a lot of emails to researchers in your field and be on the look out for scholarship programs. It is going to be a long, arduous task but you will have to check for schools individually and the ones that will likely meet your need.
Cost of Attendance
Yes, you can. In your SOP, let them know what you intend to achieve with your degree and how it will help redefine your career. How bro? And meaning of sop? |
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by soomedics: 10:44am On Jul 03, 2022 |
Hello!! please, a person of 28yrs of age that wants to run an undergraduate admission in USA, what chances does the person has to secure study Visa... Thanks |
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 21 by soomedics: 10:42am On Jul 03, 2022 |
Hello!! please, a person of 28yrs of age that wants to run an undergraduate admission in Canada, what chances does the person has to secure study Visa... Thanks |
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by soomedics: 5:30am On Jul 03, 2022 |
Jaysleeves: Was smooth. I booked for 1pm or so. But I Sha got there mid day. Came with payment slip, guarantor form , application form , state of origin , 2 passports and birth certificate, NIN. I was given a form to fill at servicom to photo copy and fill for FREE. Did the court stuffs for 500naira, was given a pink file. I was fortunate to meet an officer from same state and she helped me a bit pushed for my file to be signed and stamped easily without delay. Got to the captured room saw a massive crowd sitted outside I just ignored everyone and walked to an officer inside and told him I want to capture. Baba just asked me to sit down among people inside the room instead of me going outside to await among the huge crowd lol .. I was captured and given a slip containing my enrollment number .. I spent less than 2 hours there.. I guess I was fortunate cause I later learned people have been there as early as 6am, and still not close to getting captured. I only spent 500 naira and some change for photo copy .. the migration officers were all friendly to me and I didn't give any 1 Kobo.. You won't have any issues if you have an NIN cause thats what gives people problem and try book for afternoon session .. Please the state of origin and the birth certificate you went with, is it photocopy or original? Then passport photograph, Red or white background? |