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Nigerian women are eager to get married before they turn 30. Women in their 20s are still regarded as desirable in our society,they have options and can be justified in their 'shakara' toward suitors. But once they cross the 30 mark,desperation sets in and more often than not,she becomes any man's game. Here's a look at four types of men Nigerian women readily settle for:

1.Tall,Dark and Handsome:
Believe it or not. Most Nigerian women dont like light skinned men,especially the 'pretty boys'. Why? Well,Nigerian women share same pattern with their male folks which considers light skinned people to be very attractive. But while Nigerian men rush to marry light skinned girls,Nigerian women get intimidated by them cos they feel that once married,other women will not allow their husbands rest. However,the tall,dark ,handsome male is relatively a safer haven for Nigerian women,i still dont know why though, another irony is that most of these women still prefer having light skinned children.

I dont agree,I actually think,tall,dark and handsome men are the bizness,they r the front runners,light skinned brothers takes the back seat.


2. Heavily Built:
We are not talking about fat boyz here,but well built ,strong looking Nigerian men. Most Nigerian women like men they can be proud of in public,hugely built men are a must have any day. It gives the Nigerian woman a sense of protection and security.

NO, i dont know any single lady that prefers heavily built,maybe heavily built with another attribute,


3. VERY RICH UGLY MEN:
Some Nigerian women believe that marrrying a not so goodlooking man who happens to be very rich is the best thing that can happen to them. They erroneously believe that since their hubbys are not so good looking,other women will not disturb them ( Boy,are they sooooo wrong).And even if her hubby is becomes wayward,she still has his money to enjoy. The only sad part is that Nigerian women who have opted for this option prefer attending social functions alone,in their work place computers or BBs,you'll never see their hubbys' picture as screen savers. And if they happen to give birth to children who look like their husbands, well,thats a very sad mother!

Ugly Or Goodlooking ,as long as he's rich,then a lot of female will fall into that, it just happens that most very rich guys r Ugly,

4. Men of God.
The 'chistian' Nigerian woman will do anything to be the wife of a born again christian or pastor,especially the successful ones. The main reason while this pattern is gaining popularity is due to the ease at which such a relationship is consummated. All they need to do is 'hear from the lord' and every other thing follows. And if these men of God end up becoming 'really' successful,that's heaven on earth for the Nigerian women. Also,many Nigerian women believe that men of God are less likely to cheat.

Yeah,men of God= Peace of mind,and u have to be equally very religious ,cos it comes with a lot of responsiblities

MRbrownJAY:

if you mean BORED then i suggest you pick up an English dictionary and learn some few sin there. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  will help you in your future threads.

jennykadry:

Fine dear, how is you doing?

Please don't waste your time with this poster, she is posting from a cybercafe in Nigeria her IP shows naija, it's a nigerian IP

sadboy:

Oyibo abi na imari,

Do not take any advice from nairaland, even with advise you will still do what on your mind in our back so what the need. I have see many people brake up with their love[/b]r with big fight and later still come back but the [b]people who fight along with them became the enemies .  these are peoples opinion from their own look of things and i still believe their are other things you still have not told us, n[b]o body knows or very sure of what they are saying[/b].

There is always a lies in a relationship, in nigeria our girls do cheat or play one or two lies/crock to their own boyfriend whom they claim they love so much but only to extract money  to settle one or two personal need,

now imari is your turn, we are learning from you now. will you call this a scam?

you are pointing it over and over again that the guy is having sex for 3years, is this the issue?  [/b]Can you tell us  you have not had sex for 3years now?

She didnt say that, , go back and attempt to read it again

[b]Cheat in a relationship is normal. Get that into your head.

There are alot of love-peddlers joint in nigeria where people do had sex, only to clear sexual urge or conscience. probably your boy might be doing this with part of the money you have been sending to me. Mind you to had sex in nigeria cost 30$ above. it varies on classes.

If really your boy dont have any money as he claim to you. He cant have any girlfriend in nigeria not to talk of wife, You can confirm from the ladies here. If you can tell us the age of yourself and your boyfriend, maybe it will change the topic so far to another level for a new contribution the past topic so far will be waste.

I might not be supprise if you are even older than the guy with 50 years.


Where i personally do not see scam, he didn't lie to you that  he is the younger brother or relative to  president of nigeria.  He admit no money and jobless and you date him.


 Go to abuja you will see all this young girls claiming to love old politicians but only to tell lies [/b]and eat their money. Will you call this scam? [b]There are alot to this, when it come to love matters.

Take care,
I dont know much. Am still learning

Mrs.Chima:

Koyoke makes me sick sometimes! (rolling eyes at him)

OP-----

That is perfectly normal to get annoys by the excessive requests for food/cooking. It will be times where you just don't want to bleeping cook and you shouldn't. What was the boy doing BEFORE HE MET YOU? They don't think about poo like that. Men are such arseholes and it always about THEM.

kokoye:

Yes you are wrong for getting annoyed.

An active man must refuel. EAT!

are you angry about the fact that they are hungry . . or that they are telling you about it?

If you dont like to cook, then get some guy who enjoys cooking or likes to eat out.

but dont get mad cos guys like to eat

M M M:

good food leads 2 good sex

Tingles:

I like you.


Nice legs, what time do they open?

Mr, Cork:

Sweeery. forget New Yuck!!! am from London. Can we nyansh?

M M M:

what should be her qualifications.

Meldrick:

After all said and done, I hope say you no go send am mail for the email address.