Abba114:
i have never get sex with ease the rare times i get they cost me money abd the whole sex isnt worth. i have never had sex that is more enjoyable than wanking

But why is that tho?...why do you feel you don't get sex easily?

dontai:
Uti said it all:

I swear UTI Nwachukwu just dey spill red pill shit lately...e be like say this island girls don show am pepper.

Zabiboy:

So guys, i have another Self-Evaluation topic for discussion....This might be the last because it seems most people are more interested in women talk...But that's fine tho...everyone and his interests....
The question is "How do you overcome/supress your sexual urge?? Or How can a fellow guy addicted to porn and or masturbation control his sexual urge without watching porn or masturbating??
Practical and Readily accessible methods/activities ONLY..
This could help one or two people out there..

Brother I understand there are monk mode and MGTOW movement and so on within the red pill, but I'm definitely not in support of such things.. we're humans, hate it all you want you can't deny nature...money and so called success is man made...but your urges to be with an opposite gender is hard to shake because it's nature.. confidence leads to success. Alot of Alpha's that are successful with woman watch how they excel in their other activities.. believe it money is not everything..when I was in Awka(unizik)...the high and mighty deputy director of anti-cult, Na me dey help am find woman...tall huge guy, because he used to see me and my guys how we were playing around with women, not only him many others like him Wey I chop their money tire that year.. successful guys with good cars and houses yet they melt in the presence of a 18 yrs old girl..it's a shame..
I believe everybody have their goals in life but guys you have to balance your life's...you can't spend all your days chasing money and no time for fun and when you realise it'll be too late and you may end up like this guys I mentioned.

Sex is a necessity in an adults life.. forget what religion is telling you..you can't suppress nature..or you'll just be some sad, lonely hor*y dude with money. Like a lot of people I know.

Elliot2:
I don't care about deviant women, they are too minute to challenge 'the all women are the same' statement. In fact these deviant women are even the greatest weapon for the women folks and they are the excuse that create a safe haven for the rest women to send their missiles from. They hide under the cover of 'I am different' to perpetuate evil while disguising as a sheep.

Na the same so-called different girl I banged yesterday..I just knew her for three days oo..got her number on Saturday and she came my house yesterday night..
They're all the same..it depends on you, if they don't find you sexually attractive just move on..no matter how alpha like you are, there must be a girl that don't find you sexually attractive, so when you jam those ones just move on than making excuses why she is different..

Firstnebo:


Thank you Bloody. I know that you are a young guy and may not have an answer to the following question, but let me ask you anyway incase you do.

What about a thirty something year old guy that is super intelligent, but has been decimated for 13 years in both learning ability, and industriousness, and confidence because of extreme porn addiction?

BLOODYSPERM:



It takes 21 days to form new habits and break new habits, uncontrollable habits become addictions, extremism of anything included sex, food and even porn is very dangerous , I can't directly give a quick fix to a systematic problem, but my advice is that is you foremostly develop genuine desire to change that habit, without these the problem can't be solved , after genuine desire you must fill up that sexual void with something productive as it's your testerones uncontrolled that's driving you,get new habits and hobbies so you can channel it creatively, interact more with people and the opposite sex in a healthy manner,start with a 21 days plan to break these habit and develop new one , I used these to defeat my onetitis mindset for some of my ladies crush when I was in scarcity mode,I gave myself 21 days to spin plates and be an effective gamer, I overcame my fear of rejection and emotional weakness of pedestalizing women and started gaming even though I lacked the social ,material status and confidence, I met several ladies, forced my shy self to approach them, got rejected and moved on to new ladies, these became a new habit that is now active on a subconscious level , in the 21 days I had accountability system which was a friend who was also a gamer, I trusted him and we kept each other in check, you need an accountability system to keep you in check as you avoid your bad habits and develop new ones , even after having several successful games I sometimes develop onetitis for some of them, but since the desire to have abundance is stronger than the emotional pleasure of having an idealized soul mate, I quickly stop my internal stupid crush and get back on track without even telling my friend again, now I feel like a new man with control and purpose over a bad and negative habit

These my own little experience with regards to breaking my long term chronic onetitis habits since primary school and I hope it helps to break your bad habits too

Thanks for this reply.. growing up I was also a porn addict..good looking tall guy..then I got into the university and decided to change my life..thanks to my cousin and my senior brother..I went to them and explained my problem of shyness to them and they promised to help me..every evening after school.. we'll go to the school gate and they will force me till I approach females and we made a rule that I will never stop till I get a girls number..no matter how many rejection I got I still kept going..trust me this was one of the most hardest decision I ever made..at some point I started going out on my own to practice..I started coming home with 4-5 numbers some times...so my answer is determination..it's never too late but you have to be willing to put in the work..I worked so hard on this that if I had put that effort on learning a new language then I would have been fluent..I mean reading books, watching YouTube clips.. talking to the OG's I know that has multiple girlfriends..

1.The first step is to admit you have a problem
2. The second step is to open up to someone you trust.. don't be afraid of being judged.
3. And the third and hardest step is to put in the work.

It'll work for you bro. Just believe

Tonnyray:
Just imagine this:

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CMWeT9jBDqi/?igshid=2a5v35prbue4

What the f**k did I just watch..that's crazy

Martinez39s:
Before nwaezeemmanuel took the red pill, his topics and posts expressed simpish mindsets of the greatest order. That's why we are so surprised that he took the red pill. I hope he hasn't deleted or edited his past topics and posts.

My happiness is that if nwaezeemmañuel can take the red pill, there is hope for everybody.

Let me go and read his posts

Martinez39s:
As in! You hit the nail on the head.

Guys pls gist us naw..Wetin him do Wey una use brand am simp...gist us make we have the info too.

All girls are the same

Warrgidanairala:
my guy Can you elaborate more on the redpill for me

If you're serious..there are 300 pages worth of information here...have fun.

OGWILLS123:
I swear my brother , my friend nerly cut my neck off when i told him to stop spending on women. The idiot even borrowed 3k from me to give to a girl he just met 3days ago .

The thing is some guys are the problem also..why you go agree borrow am your hard earned 3k to give to a clueless girl..

I can't do such oo..fear no go even let my friends ask me for money to give woman. Smh