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Natasha,,: Good for you! and No to the proposal. Ms. Potato: You are being extreme. |
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Pweety4me: This was just a "hypothetical" topic for my "ideal" wife, but swiftly turned into a bashing match. So much hatred toward positivity! So much negativity towards high standards. |
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smh@all the negativity |
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10k - thats $10,000 usd right? |
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mirob: If he spending 3k for your cab?(however possible) Then obviously 10k is just pocket change but I'd suggest at least 3 months before you asked for 100k. |
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Mrs, Chima: I've seen people do this right and I've always been impressed by that. So if that day ever comes then so be it. |
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upendo 98: I definitely regard the inner character as indispensable in terms of finding a mate. I love a chocolate woman, they are the most beautiful females to me. However, I plan to be with my beautiful wife through thick and thin, accidents, or any misfortune. I will push her wheelchair around like it was the throne for a queen. Know that! |
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minhaz: You sound like you have good moral judgement and are on the right track to being a success man. Know that you can only do the best you can, never force anything! Instead, focus on improving yourself and supporting your girlfriend the best way you can. I also encourage you to work and go to school. Save your money and invest in things like a car. Good Luck! |
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As my wife she would without question have my complete attention during her opportunity to be completely transparent about these phone calls. I would really hope that the math all adds up! |
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Its okay to love and lose love. Be happy for her but keep your eye on the prize(your future career). Don't be so focused on somebody that doesn't want you whereby you can miss out on the ones that do. |
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You story as a whole gives me the impression that she's not ready to be 100% faithful. If you lead with your heart, then approach with extreme caution! |
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I was born and raised in America and I hate to sound ignorant but hygiene especially orally probably ranks as one my top fears also. |
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Richvkunt: smh@"this is my last post to you" This post was your opportunity to say what you want in a Nigerian bride BUT YOU OPTED it better to make conversation with me about my defense of woman combined with my interest in them. Laughable! I love womennnnnnn! And will protect them, from my grandmother on down! Know that! I'm very direct. My compliments are direct. My support is direct. My positive thoughts are direct. However, you are so misdirected that you seem to ONLY believe in direct negative behavior with no shame. |
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Richvkunt: Busted? on a public forum. LOL. I have nothing to hide. I'm SINGLE and AVAILABLE. Yessir I am! I love educated women and no shame in expressing that! I was raised to respect women. Yessir, guilty as charged! I speak my mind and I hate people that prey on the weak! Guilty again! Now, your "finished with me", you were finished when you started! Grow up. |
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190: Richvkunt: You wasn't born yesterday but you should have been because you are out of touch with reality. You have invested in so much negativity that you can't fathom the motives of people that do the opposite( invest in positivity). I'm single and available. I'm not denying that but you must be a fool if you think I'm going to let you guys disrespect these women on here without reproof. Never that! |
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cold: NO. No resting. The strong never sleep. ha ha! |
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tunnytox: More importantly is to be a productive contributor to the common good of all my brothers and sisters. |
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Richvkunt: Another feeble attempt to undermine a mature and positive brother. I love and respect women. Point Blank! I believe in strong independent women those are the ones I prefer to date(yes I'm single ![]() I will always speak against womanizers and abusers without shame! End of Story! |
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tunnytox: thats for my potential future wife to ask and discover |
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Richvkunt: Actually, I started this thread because I was appalled by a pattern of threads that seem to degrade women. I made this thread as an opportunity to say something nice for a change. |
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tutuwater: Run run run, you guys are very slippery when it comes to escaping the fallacy of oppression. Everything that America is doing wrong is NOT justification to stop everything America is doing right! America is a melting pot of cultures, nationalities, race, gender and religion. American laws are intended to protect Universal Human Rights(google that). If you are fortunate enough to become a citizen you'll have a vote, the ability to sue and protest. As a citizen from Nigeria living in America, you can marry a Nigerian woman that shares your views and live happily ever after. That's the beauty of FREEDOM. |
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190: LOL! I'm not mad at you. You have good taste. |
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[ I'm NOT looking but if I were - ] My "ideal" Nigerian Wife has to be a virgin or the closest thing to it! (of course, there's always an exception ![]() She needs a bachelors degree or higher. I LOVE educated women! She has to know how to dress and speak like a grown woman. (eye glasses are a plus, I love the nerd look ) She has to be a non-smoker, drug free, disease free(and tested). She will be small in the waist and cute in the face (No Acne). Long natural hair with good hygiene. She'll likely listen to a variety of music including Hip Hop, R & B and Reggae Music ![]() I'll consider it a plus, if she's a great cook! and I'd be mesmerized if she can sing! These are a few of the qualities I appreciate in a Nigerian woman. What are yours? |
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kandiikane: Lucky man! |
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Mynd_44: Thats for him to decide but I would encourage a woman that is clean, perhaps a virgin also. A virtuous woman that can match you in what you have to offer. |
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lari03: Its NOT intelligent to blame divorce on education. Its interesting how you point the finger at everything except FREE WILL. If you want to cultivate respect in your marriage then you have to plant that very seed into it. OPPRESSION isn't the seed for the fruit you're struggling to bear. |
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Mrs.Chima: One thing that I notice is the greater the need to FORCE people into hiding is indicative of the number of people that are actually in hiding. And when the walls come tumbling down(and they always do), I'd bet the numbers in Nigeria will be huge! I've also notice that "attractive quality" women tend to live in communities with the LEAST amount of abuse/disrespect toward women. For instance, the most violent neighborhoods in Chicago are predominantly males and they are very disrespectful toward women thus there are noticeably few women in those areas. In contrast, beautiful educated women tend to live in places like my neighborhood, Hyde Park (where Obama lives) because they probably feel safer and the respect factor dominates. There are slightly more men than women in Nigeria in particular and that disparity will likely increase as more women leave to less oppressive nations. It will take a war to stop this trend. Again, America does a superior job at reporting domestic violence compared to countries with unsophisticated law enforcement and cultures that turn a blind eye to abuse. |
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lari03: SMH@ womanizers supporting other womanizers that cheat on their women, while remaining married. A JOKE! In other words, just because Nigerians tend to stay married while they "cheat in the name of polygamy" doesn't not mean damage to Nigerians families & society hasn't been inflicted. Americans divorce all the time over "adultery"( another bible word, that Nigerian men don't seem to use ). I rather live in a FREE NATION that "divorces" adulterers than a nation that protects them. |
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emmatok: Honestly you are trying to compared America to Nigeria? Less than 2% (arguably) of the USA is homosexual. How many gay men hiding behind pulpits in Nigeria? America is filled with millionaire females. Filled with female doctors, lawyers, judges, political leaders and etc. America in NOT perfect but most Nigerians wouldn't pass up the chance to come here, so stop kidding yourself. I serious doubt violence against women is more prevalent in the USA. I think the American government does a superior job or prosecuting and reporting abuse than Nigeria. I bet if American laws that protect women from abuse were imposed in Nigeria that 35% of the men would be arrested within the first month, whether it be stalking, domestic violence, violating restraining orders, child support or something. Nigeria would have to build 50 prison a year to keep up with the all the arrest. Lastly, I don't hate Nigerian men. I hate ignorant people regardless of your nationality. Nigeria will continue to grow and develop while the old "cave men" mentalities will continue to be marginalized until forgotten. |
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I would report it. I think more Americans especially Black Americans need to be more vigilant about reporting illegal Africans in America. I think Nigerians are racist against Black Americans therefore illegal Nigerians should be reported immediately. Black Americans should also look for signs of Nigerian foreigners abusing our women for citizenship AND DEFINITELY have that abuser kicked out on his behind! ON THE OTHER HAND, black Americans should embrace LEGAL Nigerians especially those seeking an education. ICE toll-free at 1-866-DHS-2ICE |
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