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revolt:
you're definitely a fresh and fit supporter.. Myron 2.0

Not at all

Boring
I'd take tie dye maxi dresses and yoga pants over this anytime anyday

Alpha fùcks, beta bucks

As a man, you must memorize and ingrain this principle into your noggin/head

AF-BB dynamics is law

Guys always say that naija girls are slüts or whatever but for the most part, that isn't true at all

All women have that one man that they met, fell in love with and never forgot even after they broke up. Why she can't forget him maybe for a number of reasons.
Maybe he was just the prince charming she built in her head when she was younger
Maybe he blew her back out so hard that she couldn't get enough
Maybe he was the finest and tallest guy she's ever dated
Maybe he was a broke fine boy but he had insane potential for future growth.

I can't name it all, but the point is this. Women universally usually tend to want one man they met sometime ago.
Now the fact that they meet this man and love him doesn't mean they'll end up together. Why they may break up could also be blamed on a number of different causes.

The main point here is that she will spend her late teens and a good chunk of her 20s (so basically like 10-12 years) trying to chase and lock down that man or men very similar to him

The issue is that only a handful of them succeed. Majority of them fail and just get pumped and dumped (since they don't actually deserve those type of men... Like imagine a 4/10 girl chasing a 8/10 guy and expecting to lock him down, these men just see them as easy game, play along, pump 'em and then kick them back to the streets when their balls are emptied).

When the late 20s and early 30s starts to call her, she is clearly frustrated and enters emergency mode. She can't bear the judgemental eyes of her family and friends that isnt happy with her singlehood at this advanced age, so she is forced to settle for the beta buxx, that guy that has been in her friendzoned for 15 years, that guy that has been her emotional tampon when the men she actually wants to be with throats and ghosts her, that guy she has been keeping in her backpocket for decades.

She starts showing him a bit of attention, and the idiot is excited to finally get the chance he's been playing the nice card to get for years.
He hurries and wifes her up, not knowing that he just dug his own grave

Now that the simp has saved the women from society's judgement, she powers down from emergency mode and returns to her normal mode. She begins to see issues here and there, the guys dick game is weak, he doesn't give her the tingles, he is too nice and he has no backbone, he fails every shit test, she's not attracted to him at all etc

Then out of the blue, her alpha messages her and congratulations her on her marriage and then all her memories and butterflies
come rushing back. What she doesn't know is that it's all a booty call from the alpha who probably misses hitting that ass.

Before you know it, she's under him cumming buckets of juice
And before you know it, boom! She's pregnant for him.
She's a bit distraught but no issue, she can just pin it on the husband.
The alpha, happy to be free from the responsibilities, agrees wholeheartedly.

The unsuspecting fool at home is excited to hear the news and takes care of everything
She gets away with it all this one time and gains confidence
And then she does it again
And again
And again
And again
And before you know it, the poor mumu of a husband has 4 bastard under his roof parasitizing on his money and resources

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Rich4god:


Thats the problem... Let them go after ladies above 22 and leave this juvenile alone.

Imagine policing another man on how he should spend his money and where he should insert his dick
You really have no right to do that yunno.
The women want to have a good time and then get paid at the end
The men want to have a good time and are willing to pay for the company

As long as both parties are consenting adults, there is no legal or moral issue. Unless of course you want to bring religion into it.
Men like their women young, firm, fun and feminine
Even if you try to create 100 threads to correct and/or shame them, it will never change
Good afternoon

Two words

scarcity mindset

He sticks around because he thinks he cannot do any better and there might be no one out there who will either love him and love him like she should (although it's all in his head)

Another reason is that this is probably another case of oneitis.
Oneitis is a disease that affects predominantly men and the main symptom of this disease is the delusion that a particular individual is the ONE FOR YOU and is the person that was paired with you from heaven.
This may lead a man to make very irrational decisions, an example being staying in a situation that doesn't benefit you in anyway just like how the gentleman above is behaving

Oneitis is one of the many lies men were either told or indoctrinated into and I explained all of these lies in a previous thread of mine

Get a good pc and. Go into IT
Or move to places like Cotonou where processing oversea travels are cheaper

Uptheante:

I agree with your submission, but what of girls that are ugly & still dull (unintelligent)?

Any explanation for that?

The word ugly here was used freely so I don't know what type of ugly you're talking about exactly
A girl can have a 3/10 face but have a massive ass and you'll still see men climbing over themselves to simp for her. In that case, my write up still stands because she holds the power in those kinda situations
When I say looks, I'm not talking about pretty face alone
I'm talking about everything, face, shape, body type. The whole 9 yards

TimFisher2:




Wow. You must be intelligent.


You explained it all. In fact, you must be Chinua Achebe. It was as if I was reading an interesting novel.


Now back to the topic. I know you will have the answer to this since you gave us a comprehensive problem/ or root cause facing girls of these days.


Now what are the solutions?

Is it still possible for single guys to get married to girls with a high IQ, and if Yes. Where do we find them?


Or are we going to end up with all these dummies littering around?


What does the future hold for us?

Question 1
I already proposed a feasible solution at the end of my write up. I have others but they're basically impossible to implement in our current society

Question 2
Yes, it is very possible to get girls with a high IQ as a guy
The problem is that they're getting more and more scarce nowadays due to being pressured by the other low IQ ones to abandon their wares and then come to join them in their bandwagon of mediocrity
Where to find them? I can't say for sure.
Maybe go after the female doctors and engineers who spend all day staring at anatomical models and equations.


Question 3
Yes, society as a whole is going to end up having these type of women around and they're going to be old, bitter and combative because the entire crux of their life (their looks) has faded away with gravity making things worse by creating sags and wrinkles everywhere.
If you aren't careful you may end up having one as the mother of your kids

Question 4
What does the future hold? I'm not a fortune teller nor am I a magician. All I know is that these girls will be really sad and alone when they advance in age. And it's your job to try your possible best to avoid being in that situation with them because they will 100% try to make it your own problem

When young girls develop into their teenage years, they begin to realize more and more how easy it is for them to get their way with the things of life just because of their LOOKS

And when they finally realize how powerful that tool at their disposal truly is, they rely on it full force because
1. It's easy and
2. Their parents (most especially the mothers) encourage it and even gives them fine tuned instructions on how they can use it to get their way with daddy and the boys in her area/school. This will even make her mastery of her craft even faster and easier

However, this comes at a cost
Her total investment into mastering the power of her looks will make her (almost always intentionally) neglect the other more difficult but more rewarding and long lasting ways of getting the things you want in life e.g. becoming smarter and more analytical in solving problems

Why should she strive to become the top dog in her class and win the Scholarship money so that she can buy that dress/purse she's being eyeing for a long time when she can just latch onto one mumu boy that will give her all the money she wants just necause she's pretty and he doesn't wanna lose her? (Whereas he never had her in the first place)

Hence her higher faculties degrade and she gradually loses the ability to critically think.
She will increase in her mastery of craftiness in confusing men, but she will lose intelligence in other fields.
That is why you always see them around topics on sex, relationships.and so on. That's the only place they know whats up

This trend continues through their teenage years into their 20s and it blooms into the way they like to use SM nowadays to advertise their wares and seek attention

When they clock 27-30 and their looks start winding down, they will revert back to their original settings (since the power of their looks are gone now) and they immediately adopt a new facade to get their way, Religion.

A religious mask if well worn will make people not judge her and also trust and like her more, and that is a good thing because a person who trusts you will want to do favours for you e.g. suggesting marriage to the unsuspecting man who thinks he has finally found a gem whereas it's a game she's been playing since she was 13.

The only way to halt this Trainwreck of a situation from developing is if a strong external force (aka a highly disciplined father/father figure) forces her to stop depending on her looks to get her way and actually make her develop her mental faculties. This is why the geeky girls in medicine and engineering tend to be way less slutty than their counterparts studying fine art and music in the university (no offence to the artists and musicians out there)

FRANCISTOWN:

You have said the truth. Maybe the OP is very ugly and he hasn't ever walked in a really handsome nigga's pair of shoes.

A famous and rich guy will get a handsome guy's girl any time any day unless if the handsome guy is rich and famous at the same level as well.

Look at what Rugger did to a lady fan the other time . Rugger o, one eyed.

Then some people are here spilling junks.

If you're short and ugly. Make MONEY.

The first item on the hypergamy list is Money( which is a misrepresentation of success).
Even guys are attracted to fellow successful guys and some wanna be in their circle.

I am making points about how the average guy down the street sees and experiences life and this guy is here countering my stance by mentioning Ruger, a celeb that is known nationwide.
Seems you can't imagine the fact that there are men out there who get the best of the best of women not necessarily because they're rich, but because they're ATTRACTIVE
The one who doesn't know what the life of an attractive man is here is you. Because a person is describing it right before your eyes and still you deny it for some reason

FRANCISTOWN:


Stop preaching the message of doom to people.

Well anyone with half a brain cell wouldn't believe the blackpill crap.
This is one of the reasons I don't follow the redpill, but the redpill is even more truthful and realistic. At least, the redpill stresses on self development and all round improvement. What does the black pill does? Once you are ugly and short, just accept what life has given to you and stay disoriented. What kinna message of doom is this?

So an ugly/short man should just...man! This is intellectual murder.

Your messages lay emphasis on looks but I can tell you with full authority that in these dating scenes and market, success comes first.

Ned Nwoko is not half as attractive as Somadina or is it Samadina yet (y'all know the story). If looks were everything?

Rema is not half as handsome as B.Red, but at the mention of Rema's name,some girls reach orgasms, live! He has more females crushing on him both home and abroad more than B.Red would ever dream of.

David and Wiz are not the most attractive musical arts in Nigeria(short buddies), but these guys have the largest fan base in Nigeria.

For anyone who has ears and is ready to use them.

Number one thing women are attracted to is SUCCESS.

SUCCESS somehow begets MONEY and FAME.

That's the reason women are attracted to famous and rich people because it's a definition of success in this real world.

Did you guys know Stella Obasanjo who died years back? Many would wonder what a woman like that was doing with the ex military general. My dear, success.

Have you seen Ned's wives, those women are jelly. Success is attractive.

The only things I see in this message are depressions, frustrations, lack of motivation and disorientation.

Does look matter? BIG YES.

But I can tell you that if you're successful and wealthy, you'd become automatically attractive to women.

Don't you see very ugly men with their very beautiful wives?

That's a lot of words for just describing a beta buxx
Inb4 check Lie number 50 lmao
The truth is very bitter

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:
Some of these things you said here are kinda depressing bro
I know it's kinda true but... Omo

Even the Bible says the truth is bitter

Nyascobar1414:
Depressing words are fvkñ true

Real talk

CosmicGoat:

What struck out to me was the part about men who are balding
Sometimes I look at their photos of when they still have hair Vs now and there is a STARK difference
I dunno why they can't admit the fact that balding will make a man lose his level of handsomeness for the most part

They lie to themselves so as to not deal with the negative thoughts and feelings that come with the acceptance of that fact
Some even go as far as comparing themselves with DeRock or Jason Santham (who are world class celebs btw) just to prove a point.
It's quite a sad sight to see

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YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:

Op is describing relationship based on genuine attraction
Not relationships based off transaction as you have described
The rich guy is unattractive, but is able to get the girl to sleep with him because he gave her money or something else of value
Buts that it. He will only get sex and nothing more. Which is why a lot of Nigerian men feel unsatisfied in a relationship.
Nigerian men really don't know how to differentiate between transactional relationship and that based on genuine attraction
Sure, the man will still give something even if it's based on genuine attraction, but the dynamics will be very very different

The redpillers always say that you cannot buy nor can you negotiate attraction. And it seems op agrees too

You couldn't have said it any better my bro
Nigerian men has been inculcated to believe that money directly translates into love and attraction.
And they are inculcated by the women (who push this narrative because they're the only ones it benefits at the end of the day) and so you have millions of men like that other guy who believe money is everything (spoilers: it's not)

theophilusj31:
All the jobless blue pills and redpill guys,...bunch of bitter men who have be burned and hurt by women.

You didn't read a word of what was written up there
You just entered, gave a default reply like a robot (who hurt you?) and left thinking you did something
Bring out one bitter thing I said about women in my post. Come on, do it

Speedy0420 will never ask you to buy a book or all that bs they do in the redpill spaces
I'll give you the complete truth 100% free

Whew! That was a lengthy one!
Took me a while to get it done. Anyways, if you've read it up to this point, kudos
I'd like to hear what you have to say
Feel free to comment

My next thread would be on looks and how to know where you stand on the attraction scale

Lie Number 36: A man who truly loves his wife will forgive her for cheating.

Reality: This also shows he doesn't truly love himself for letting unacceptable behavior slide.


Lie Number 37: If your girlfriend says she wants a break from the relationship, you must give her as much space as possible.

Reality: More often than not, she won't come back, or if she does, it's because the guy she wanted disappointed her


Lie Number 38: Always pay for the date as a man.

Reality: Women have been working and earning money for a long time. There's no excuse for them not to share expenses.


Lie Number 39: A long-distance relationship is just a test of strength.
Reality: Long-distance relationships are often a compromise and a balancing act. It's also a fools errand. What are you in, JSS2?


Lie Number 40: When a woman says, "He's just a friend, you've got nothing to worry about; he doesn't like me like that."

Reality: If a girl is attractive, just about every guy will be trying his luck. Keep your eyes peeled and your ears open


Lie Number 41: Always follow your heart; don't follow your brain
.
Reality: This can lead to mistakes if you don't think things through properly.


Lie Number 42: You should let your partner sleep with other people.

Reality: This is delusion; intimacy becomes less precious and less special.


Lie Number 43: Never tell a woman she is wrong; instead, ask her how she feels and what you can do to comfort her.

Reality: If a woman does something unacceptable, you must hold her accountable.


Lie Number 44: Don't make your life about your relationship.

This is the only bluepilled mindset I actually agree with

Now, let's move on to the final six points, all about coping with rejections:


Lie Number 45: If you get rejected, you should be proud of yourself for having the courage to ask her out anyway.
Reality: There's nothing else to say here on this point other than the fact that this is a form of coping.


Lie Number 46: There's nothing wrong with being a virgin.

Reality: I believe every year past the age of 20, it becomes a bigger and bigger cause for concern in the eyes of most women.


Lie Number 47: I am happy my wife has had lots of partners before me as it means she's really good in bed.

Reality: The intimacy will actually be less precious and less special. Only weak men will actually believe this


Lie Number 48: Getting friend-zoned is no defeat; you should be happy as she sees you as good enough to be her friend.

Reality: If you do this, you are compromising for something less than what you originally desired.


Lie Number 49: When a man tells himself, everyone in a relationship right now is just in the honeymoon phase, they'll soon snap out of it and come back down to earth.

Reality: For me, the most productive and fulfilling times of my life have been when I've been in a relationship with a girl.

Finally.

Lie Number 50: The person who runs this account is just a bitter person who's stuck in his ways and loves spreading bad messages.

Reality: Nope, I actually know what I'm talking about, and you should follow this account now for more future black pills

So I've identified the first 18 lies you may have been told when you were younger as a man.


Now moving on to the next nine points, which are all about the lies based on the denial of the importance of looks:

Lie Number 19: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Reality: 95% of female likes on social media go to the top 40-50% of men, showing a clear bias in favor of some guys over others.
The bottom 50-60% of guys are lucky to get 10 likes from guys like themselves, talkless.of a girl



Lie Number 20: Looks only get your foot in the door, and it's personality that makes a relationship last.

Reality: If you don't maintain your attractiveness, she will lose attraction for you. Even if you have the best personality in the world, the moment your 6-pack athletic body begins to get buried in the grave of obesity, she will lose attraction to you gradually and start looking at the buff guy that trains her at the gym


Lie Number 21: Age is just a number.
Reality: Every passing year after around 28, your looks will get worse – hairline receding, wrinkles, gray hair, and so on. This applies to men but it is more important when it comes to the women. Your 20s are your prime years. Don't let the redpillers convince you that your 40s are your prime years. It's all a big lie to console themselves to the fact that they get no bitches in their 20s



Lie Number 22: Height doesn't matter.

Reality: In the modern world, height is an advantage in dating.
Tall girls are for tall guys
Short girls are for tall guys
Short guys can have each other.
Majority of girls will agree to what I wrote above. Only a select few women don't care about height, but there isn't enough to go round is there?
The shortest girls also have the highest standard when it comes to height.


Lie Number 23: If a woman rejects me because of my height, it means she's shallow, and I've dodged a bullet.

Reality: Women want to look up to their partner, both emotionally and physically.
You MUST be taller
You MUST be stronger
You MUST be smarter
If she trumps you in these categories then what are you as a man?


Lie Number 24: Women love a dad bod (Dad bods are basically the body types of the sugar daddies and so on)

Reality: The ideal body on a man is around 10-12% body fat, a large chest, shoulders, arms, a six-pack, and a slight tan.
You must keep your body fit, or you perish


Lie Number 25: Personality matters more than looks.

Reality: Most guys struggle in dating because they lack the looks needed to attract, not because they lack personalities.
A guy I know has the best personalities I've ever seen. But he's rejected at every turn because he is short. Personality is useless when it comes to dating if your looks are shit


Lie Number 26: Balding won't affect how women see me, they will still be attracted to me and it's a sign of maturity.
Reality: 47% of women surveyed found bald men less attractive. Hair is life. Don't forget that. Elon Must isn't dumb


Lie Number 27: Size doesn't matter.
Reality: Do I really.need to explain this?


Now, let's move on to phrases providing false and endless hope:

Lie Number 28: There's someone out there for everyone.

Reality: Unfortunately, there actually isn't. The ratio of men to women in Nigeria doesn't favor everyone.
Recent statistics show that there are 102.5 men for every 100 women in Nigeria(Google it). Meaning if one woman were paired to a man in Nigeria, by the time we run out of women there would still be 20-25 million men left unpaired. Where the the women for these men? Are they going to fall from heaven?
And quash that stupid myth that there are more women than men in Nigeria. Wake up


Lie Number 29: The only reason I don't have a girlfriend is that I'm not looking for one right now.

Reality: Even if guys like this did try, let's be honest; they wouldn't have much of a chance. Like I said, it's a lie to help you feel good about an otherwise bad situation


Lie Number 30: Everything will work out in the end.
Reality: There's no magic force guaranteeing a future partner. Stop living in fantasy land


Lie Number 31: When you stop looking, the right person will show up.
Reality: There's no magic force guaranteeing a future partner. It's not like your future spouse will just fall out of the sky.


Lie Number 32: There's always plenty more fish in the sea.
Reality: It doesn't matter if there are plenty of fish. If you're not attractive to women, you're not. C'est fini



Lie Number 33: It's just not your time right now.
Reality: For a small percentage of guys, it will never be their time, and this rate and number of these type of men seems to be rising.


Lie Number 34: Karma is real, and if you're a good person, your dreams will always come true.
Reality: There's no such thing as karma in dating; the market always wins.
The attractive men will take home.the women whilst the unattractive ones jerk off and play video games.


Lie Number 35: Romance isn't dead; you just haven't found the right person yet.
Reality: Romance might be on the decline, and not everyone finds their ideal partner.

Next, I'll be moving to relationship advice:

"Welcome back guys

Today I have 50 Bluepilled lies and phrases you'd have heard as a child as a man.

What is the bluepill you may ask?

I will define the bluepill as a set of lies and half-truths that are designed by society to help other feel good about otherwise terrible situation whilst blinding them from seeing things as they actually are


I will split these bluepilled lies into each of these categories,
1. Dating advice
2. Importance of looks
3. Relationship advice

I will be starting with dating advice:

Lie Number 1: Just be yourself.

Reality: You can only afford to "just be yourself" if you're attractive enough in the first place. For anyone who's unattractive, it will be irrelevant because they'll get rejected based on their looks anyway. For anyone average, jestermaxxing (behaving like a clown to get the attention of women, and no you're not funny) will be required to get any attention.


Lie Number 2: Be someone you yourself would want to date.

Reality: This phrase is in direct contradiction to the last one. First, you say "just be yourself," now you say "be someone you would want to date." Which is it?


Lie Number 3: Just be confident.

Reality: Your looks are your confidence for the most part.
Confidence won't get a broke short man who is balding a smoking hot 8/10 gf. The guy who is rawdogging your crush is likely more shy than you are.


Lie Number 4: If I ask 100 girls out, at least one of them will say yes.

Reality: By the time you've asked out two or three, your reputation will be in tatters, and from now on, you'll be forever known as the man who hits on every girl. Contrary to the redpill, dating is NOT a numbers game (strictly speaking). Avoid poisoning the well as best as you can



Lie Number 5: Always reply to a woman's text as fast as possible so she knows you're available and interested.

Reality: Responding immediately every time a text comes through is probably the fastest way to make a girl lose interest. You will come off as needy and attention/pussy starved.


Lie Number 6: Don't be too eager in the early stage; otherwise, you'll scare her off.

Reality: In direct contradiction to the last point, which was what? Be patient or respond readily and fast. The bluepill is a gospel of confusion.


Lie Number 7: If a girl doesn't respond to your texts, send a follow-up; she probably just missed it.

Reality: I guarantee she did see it but just didn't care enough to respond. Do you know how much these chicks check their phone on a daily? Never double text under any circumstances, guys.
The only compromise I can off is if the conversation is a very important or heavy one. In that case, follow up once and never do it again if she refuses to respond.



Lie Number 8: Just put yourself out there.

Reality: Any number multiplied by zero is zero. Putting yourself out there via either online dating, warm.approach or cold approach won't help you if you're not getting any interest in the first place. Any by now you should know that genuine interest from women heavily depend on your looks



Lie Number 9: Just tell her how you really feel (aka "toasting" and "applying pressure)

Reality: If a woman likes you, she'll make it obvious she wants to push things forward. You should never have to get to the point of confessing your love to her. If you have to do this, then she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.
This is one of the few things I agree on with redpillers. You don't ask her to be your gf, you begin to ACT like you're her gf based on the cues she gives you. You don't know how to read said cues? Get more experience.



Lie Number 10: If she flakes you on a date, she was probably just going for an emotional time, and you should ask her if it's okay for you to offer a second time.

Reality: Never tolerate a flake. The ball is in her court, and if she really wants you, she'll be the one to come chasing. It's either in or out.
If she flakes on you once, do not ask her out again. If she's genuinely interested in you and she was also genuinely not stable at the moment you asked her out on a date, SHE WILL be the one to reach out to you after the coast clears on her end


Lie Number 11: If she rejects you, keep pursuing her anyway; it shows you care about her.

Reality: If you do this after a woman says no, she'll get annoyed and angry with you for not getting the hint. Don't be a fool and listen to society who will tell you to "apply pressure" and "be intentional".



Lie Number 12: Humor is what women care about the most; just be a funny person, and women will start being attracted to you.

Reality: Women will voluntarily laugh at jokes from guys they find attractive. A joke from an unattractive guy will be seen as offensive or creepy.
I have living proof of this. A fairly ugly guy at my place of work wanted to joke light heartedly with a girl at work and she just ignored him and ran to her friends before gossiping to them later on how the guy was "creepy" and "smelly".
The attractive guy at work made a really offensive joke about her clothes and she laughed as if he said something funny. Another blackpill, the more attractive you are, the more you can get away with.


Lie Number 13: Always tell a woman how beautiful she is.

Reality: Ask any of the guys on TikTok, twitter, Facebook or Instagram who go under every girls post and tell them how beautiful they are just how many times they get to fûck. They have probably gotten a combined total of zero positive results.


Lie Number 14: Just try to be her friend.

Reality: If you do this, she'll likely think you were only being nice to try to get with her. And again, if you like a girl, starting with "being friends" with her is the worst possible way to go about it. The ",friendzone" and "brother zone is 100% real



Lie Number 15: Ask your female friends for advice.

Reality: Women don't always know what they're attracted to, and if they do, they're hardly going to tell you for fear of offending you. They are masters of virtue Signalling
You also don't ask a rabbit how you can catch other rabbits


Lie Number 16: Make it a priority to meet up with a girl's friends.

Reality: If you meet with her friends, they'll likely have nothing but bad things to say about you. Many of my entanglements and potential relationships have been cut off because the girl's friends didn't like me from the get go. You being all chummy with them will change nothing



Lie Number 17: Just get a haircut.

Reality: Simple haircuts only work on guys who are already attractive. If she's not genuinely attracted to you, even a 1 million Naira haircut won't save you. Same thing with clothes, phones, cars and so on. Please note that the keyword here is GENUINE ATTRACTION


Lie Number 18: Just take a shower.

Reality: Showers will improve your hygiene, but they cannot wash away flaws beneath the skin.


With this, I'm done identifying some lies we hear all the time as men from society.

Next I'll be talking about the lies we hear about the importance of LOOKS

FreeLine:
I can tell that you are defining 'entitlement' which is a narcissistic personality trait. So are you trying to say women in general have this personality disorder and that men are immune to it?

Women are overwhelmingly narcissistic and entitled.

If you can face me and deny this unrefutable fact despite the ills and effects this sort of behaviour has caused in our present society, I will gladly end this conversation and bid you adieu.

Men are also narcissistic. But there is a caveat. Most, if not all the emotions displayed by men are cranked up to level 11 (extremes) in women

Spite
Jealousy
Envy
Hate

You name it.

iTroll:

Very interesting
Can you expound more on this bro

I'll be making more threads on this soon

FreeLine:
Stress yourself not by trying to understand what shouldn't be understood. Live as you believe and don't try to impose you belief on others or try to mislead.
Human/woman behaviour is complex and cannot be ultimately defined. No two minds are perfectly similar especially under different conditioning and experiences. So, we can only say a particular individual or group has the tendency of behaving a certain way under a given circumstance. We must try to avoid unrealistic generalization.

You have to be true to yourself and your personal judgement of a person. Red flags are not to be ignored.
What you give is what you get, and if you are not getting the same amount that you are giving, it is best you redirect your focus.

Why do we have to complicate what is already complex in its nature?

Another misconception
Women are not "complex"
Liken their behaviour as to that of a person who wants the benefits of a child and well as the authority of an adult but with none of the responsibilities and things will begin to make sense

The "women is complex" fallacy just another farce they use to excuse away their bad decisions and choices

TradingGod:
it is normal for a woman to desire men that are above her level

That is why a short ugly man with lexus 350 will bang more bitches than red pillers with their 'game'

A short ugly man with money will only get cuddles and transactional sex with a women who will leave the minute she feels she's done enough for your money
Where do you think the rudeness of the prosties in brothels come from?
It doesn't matter how much money he makes. He will still be seen as subhuman and unattractive to.women

TradingGod:
na mumu dey chase woman over money




Because the dream of every woman is to marry a successful man, so become successful and watch them fight over you

Case study Adams oshiomole and ned nwoko

I hear Nigerian men say this all the time and it always makes me laugh low-key

Yes, it's a good decision to forget women and dating as a whole or if you must, relegate it to a position of least priority in order to feed the bulk of your money and time towards your desired goals.

And yes, success attracts women and it thereby increases the dating options for men.

But the problem is that for most guys, their thought process stops here. They never ask the necessary questions like

1. What type of women are they attracting in the first place? Are these women people who have GENUINE attraction to me? Or is she someone who is only in it for the money and will leave me the minute my wallet takes a hit for the man she's truly attracted to this entire time?

2. Am I her alpha fuxx? Aka the man she has the tingle for? Or am I her beta buxx? Aka the man she settled for when she sees her clock to timing out or a man she settled for to have the sugar baby lifestyle?

Adams and Ned are prime examples of the Oofy Doofy theory, which has the following tenets

- it's basically just betabuxxing in disguise

- a woman will resort to higly organised financially stable men when her eggs dry up (or is about to)

- psychopathic women will use them as a temporary crutch until chad comes along

- she will still lust after chads aka the men she's truly attracted to

- because an oofy doofy has more in common with a female than his own sex he might be tolerated for a while when she feels pressured to settle down (regina was pressured to settle down by her mother))