malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

Obviously,you are suffering from severe malaria.

A normal healthy man will want sex from a woman he is friendly with...
They always do.
Esp Nigerian men...
It's a way of humiliating the woman

What is remarrying for?
Has money ..has children.

Anything that makes me and my husband part ways..I'm not remarrying oh.
Marriage wahala too much...not worth it except for having children

Surface2AirToto:
Men still dey marry? Na wahh ohh.

I wonder..
With the way the demonise marriage and women,generally ..
One would expect otherwise

If wife dies,they won't rest
Sharp sharp,they will remarry

Funny people

When it first started,they would have called it "malaria &typhoid"

Rotimi akeredolu was younger than his wife.
How come he died first?
Na wa o

So na toe toe end your marriage?
Na wa oh.

That aside...Many women in Nigeria are into fellow women.
They only get married to attain societal expectations and have children.
Low-key,they are licking and being licked.

Thundafireseun:


I agree stay off my mentions

A simple family planning would have prevented this "product of poor parenting"
Tueh!

Vinnie2000:

What's your Opinion?
Will God answer her Prayer? 🤔🤔


Mine: He will Likely NOT.😌
Couldn't she have gone home to Change her outfit?😒

There is no God that answers anybody's prayers.

And if you believe there is,you are not better than that lady

Thundafireseun:


Lol … Ode

A woman Will divorce 4 to 5 times and you say there is nothing wrong with divorce…

Why did she go into marriage 5times ??
She should’ve stayed on her own

Ewu have sense

Inability to make your point without resorting to being insultive...typical of a primitive man.
An example of a badly raised child.

simplypj:


You see that UK,
that UK,
that UK.
How many times I repeat am....
Marriage over their for a man is more than castration

It modern day slavery.
You have all the responsibility but no authority.
And the women have all the power without the responsibility.

Apart from UK...in a civilised world,adults with mental capacity can give consent, irrespective of their gender or marital status.

Thundafireseun:


Mstheeeeeew

You have a long way to go oga

Have you asked yourself the reason why the rate of divorce is the highest in the western world??

There is nothing wrong with divorce..
If it's not working,go your separate ways.
Better than live in bitterness and hatred....OR kill each other ,in the name of marriage.

Thundafireseun:


Mstheeeeeew

You have a long way to go oga

Have you asked yourself the reason why the rate of divorce is the highest in the western world??

There is nothing wrong with divorce..
If it's not working,go your separate ways.
Better than live in bitterness and hatred....OR kill each other ,in the name of marriage.

Have sense!

Thundafireseun:
lol
Family planning without your consent??

Are you sure she is not the head of your family

Lol...in the UK where I practise,a woman doesn't need the consent of her husband to do family planning.as long as she has mental capacity,she can give consent.
African women really have a long way to go

Jewessgratitud3:
Soft life to hard life.

I guess when he got there and saw the pile of bills staring him in the face he had no choice but to grab the next available job.

If you are gainfully employed in naija, you don't need to japa. Japa is for someone who has no hope of ever getting a job in Nigeria. He'll appreciate any kind of job he finds there.

Yes.. People like medical doctors.
My life became meaningful after I left Nigeria.
Started residency programme without paying or knowing anybody.

Useless cursed people especially the women among them.
Tueh

Hahahahahaha....

The gender that brags online that they don't fight over women,instead 7 women are rushing them...
That after 33+,a woman is not good for marriage.
That a single mother is not good for marriage.
That they don't marry older women..
The gender that insults women on a daily on social media ....


Wow! Fighting over a "double" single mother.
Married twice and now on the third.

With 7 children already from 2 marriages,a young handsome man..much younger than her,still married her.
Imagine...Snatching evening newspaper..Kai
See as the woman fresh na.

Nigerian men are clowns.


Social media and reality are two different worlds.

This is very funny!

Absolute wickedness!

Barbaric behaviour!!

Bullying simply because the child is young ,dependent and helpless

Check his sugar mummy's house.
He has gone to sample toetoe ..
Will be back when he is done

nwakibe:
Most of the times we think Drs are incompetent are not true. I can remember when my brother's wife was diagnosed of hormonal imbalance. The Dr gave her contraceptive drug among other hormonal drugs. When I saw the drug, I was mad. How can you give contraceptive drug to a woman that is struggling with conception. I took her back to the Dr., I was ashamed of myself after the Dr's explanation. To the glory of God, she has 3 smart kids now. Let the Dr's breath...

Hahahahaha...I am a doctor..your conclusion made me laugh.
Happy for your brother's wife..Cheers

Lol..foo.lish little girl

Just 100 L in university,you are carrying relationship on your head

victorazyvictor:


Wisest man on this planet

Woman, actually

okerekingsley90:


This your comment bros

Not Bros..
Sis,rather

Banbanna:
Omo, see the angle you're thrashing this matter from😊. Seems you've done this before or already doing it. Doesn't all these you're saying makes you a control freak?

You made a very good point sha. But the love and respect that you'd get from this is always a forced one because the moment that you begin to lack resources, her attitude towards you wouldn't be the same, it will likely beome hostile.

I'm a woman.
Not a man.
Just saying it as it is

Hungry girls are the best to wife.

Because you can easily control anyone you feed.

They are always at your mercy..You get that submissiveness that you crave and that keeps you in charge.

When you don't drop money for food,she begs

When you don't buy water,she begs

When you lock the kitchen after a misunderstanding,she begs.

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

If you meet a lady who calls and checks up on you,it's still you who will tag her desperate and take her for granted

Zonefree:
Like, of all species to fight for, you chose a Nigerian girl?

Same girl you died for, will come to your burial with another gbola and there's nothing you can do from the grave.

Social media and reality are different.

Rexymania:
See as "graduate" spell 'rejoice' lol him say na "rejoys" LoL 😆

And he is a teacher..
I'm sorry for the children he teaches
Sad

youngsum:
Hello nairalanders rejoys with me


Today the 5th of December I received my first salary in life as a fresh graduate which I was employed as a school teacher last month.


Do you think I will be able to get marry with this salary by next December?

Men and marriage sef.

Yet they claim they have nothing to benefit from getting married.

22k salary a month..less than minimum wage...and he is already considering getting married.

Tueh!

Antoeni:
Give Up One

Would give up sex comfortably

Caseless:
You heard him saying his parents are old - no one does that genotype test in those days. We were just lucky.

I'm referring to management of the case.
Or has the Op never followed the patient to the hospital?

Yemike:
I need people with experience on how to manage SS Crisis.
Both my parent are AS and we the kids are 5. I'm the first child and I'm lucky to be AA, the 2nd born AS, 3rd, 4th, 5th - SS.
I have 3 SS siblings and right now most of their responsibility and wellbeing is on me as the first born cuz my P-man is old already.
Just last week I have to rush down to my brother's school to bring him home cuz he called me in the middle of the night weeping cuz the pain is just too much and his roommate isn't around.
My question now is how can it be managed? cuz it's really affecting everybody cuz It's affecting their studies, I'm exhausted right now cuz anytime it happens it's ends with me borrowing funds to send to them and lastly it's sucks happiness out of the atmosphere as hearing a teenager weeping and knowing you can't do anything about it is saddening.

I've seen some people asking if they as AS can also marry AS please and please don't try it as you'll just be bringing innocent kids here just to suffer. The trauma of you seeing your kids in pain sef no be here.

How can SS Crisis be avoided/managed?

I'd have loved my write up to be well detailed but the little I wrote up there took up to an hour cuz my phone is bad.

You experience and advice will be well appreciated. Thanks.

Medical doctors will counsel and advise you people but No..you won't listen because that's not what you want to hear.
Instead,you will come to social media to ask laypeople in order to hear what you want..
Goodluck

Lee99:

You must be a clown to quote me for my personal preference, anyway if you must know I don't intend to raise kids in my old age hence my reason for having a personal deadline

Yeah..I agree I'm clown.
But then,you can have baby mama since your interest is in kids.
Marriage doesn't benefit men.
Marriage is for women.
Only women should give themselves deadline for marriage to avoid becoming evening newspapers.