angeltolly:


Confirm in ifako ijaiye general Hospital, if they don't have LASUTH is your best bet

okay thank you will do that ASAP

angeltolly:


Lie him down, Try and do that bicycle motion for him with his legs. He will possibly pass gas in the process and he will become comfortable. Worked well for my son back then, he usually pass out gas in less than 2 minutes of doing it and he's relieved

waow thanks I will do it for him thou he passes gas regularly

naylor:

There's around 6weeks and around 10weeks.
You can check their vaccine cards to see what was written. Are you using PHC?

ive checked the cards they’ve not taken o pls who knows where I can get them to take it around Abule egba, ifako ijaye,agege axis my babies are 10 wld now....pls help a first time mom I be novice abeg

Ajokeomo:


My baby is having the same and she’s only two weeks. Grunting and stretching a lot while sleeping ...but she doesn’t cry. I googled it and it says babies do this when they are learning bowel movements and passing gas, that it’s normal and will stop overtime. I still find it disturbing as she appears very uncomfortable when she does this.

oh I thought I was the only one on this,exactly the discomfort they display is what is disturbing me I really...and I notice it’s becomes more if they don’t poo for like 2days especially my son. What can I give or do to make him poo easily?

chisun89:
Hi mama twins, how una dey? I have the manual one but looking for electric breast pump. Thanks

awww we are doing great thank God

naylor:

There's around 6weeks and around 10weeks.
You can check their vaccine cards to see what was written. Are you using PHC?

yes am using phc and mg babies are 10wks now will check oo thank you

Good day mamas? Pls help a first time mom,,what makes babies to have this type of struggling movement especially when they are asleep, my kids does it especially my son like he’s fighting sometimes does it and cries..am kinda scared I thought it was the navel thing I’ve been treating it as I was taught with lamp and cloth..any mom with idea of what it could be and how to manage it?

naylor:

I use a Primary Health Centre here, I was arranging my baby's wardrobe when I looked at his card and noticed that the Rota part was blank.
7500 Chai,
Thanks so much for this information.

at what age would they need to take it I mean this ROTA vaccine?my babies are 2months old now can they take it now ?

chisun89:
Ok thanks, I’ve asked her before, she doesn’t have

Hello ma’am is it breast pump you want to buy? I have a manual one never been used I bought it from zaynie I thought I was going to need it...Incase you want to buy I can sell it at 3000 instead of 3500 I bought it

Awesomemama:


Aunty is on vacation in your house
Since she seems older than you I'll advice you just ignore so it won't look like you're disrespectful. When she's tired, she'll leave.
Even DH sef can as well be tired and then make her leave, it's better it comes from him and not you
My love to the ibeji

yes ma thank you so much I really appreciate your advise will take to it

Rocktation:


Hahahhaa....na really headquarters.
Everybody is different, surulady. I don't know how good of a wife you have portrayed yourself to be to them, otherwise, all it takes for some people is just to smile less often, to pass some message across. And it's always better to maintain a good name, if you can help it. However, if you can't, you still should not start off resisting with fire fire oo. Just work on your husband...and with sense as well.
In all, to make her presence bearable, just keep reminding yourself that she will not stay in your house forever.

i did not portray myself to be better than I am I maintain my side as wife I don’t do clinching,it is just this Aunty that is making things different others don’t do that infact there’s a particular one that comes around when she’s with us I sleep like a baby she would take care of the children and even prepare food for me ,and leave as when due but this Aunty is such an opposite was thinking she would leave since last week was surprised she did not...despite the fact she knows she not of use to me and the children...DH was using style to ask her did she miss her children she said her children are grown,so there’s nothing I can do

angeltolly:


I will advice you let her be and ignore her. Face your children and be happy. Soon nobody will tell her before she leaves and am sure your husband will soon be tired. People like that are only looking for avenue to cause trouble. Looking for a chance to say "you chased her from her brother's house" despite all she's doing for you. Even though she has not been useful to you in any way.

ive done that infact I don’t see anyone else except my children even my husband was asking me why I concentrate on them like that I told him they are my priority not anyone else..Mama was just there playing game and watching movie...she’s not moved at all.

nnekaike:
Ask her when she is going back that omugwo have finished.
I don't know your personality or relationship with her and the family, but if it was me o she would have left sincee,report me for all you care.

Haaa it’s hard to say to Yoruba people oo I can’t even ask or say anything like that to her I don’t have any too friendly relationship with them oo I maintain my side as a wife abeg no friend zone..

LadySarah:


pls leave her.It is your husband that will notice and tell her before your matter will reach the headquarter.

he noticed everything oo even when I complained to him he did not do or say anything about it... thank you I will leave her and face my children

Na my own be this “OK”

luciouscookie:

I don hear!

best answer my own na “OK”

luciouscookie:

I don hear!

Good day my fellow mummies how are we all doing and our lo’s I believe we are all doing fine by Gods grace... pls how do I tell SIL to leave since she’s not been doing anything for me,I’ve been bathing my babies and dressing for them,infact she now sleeps in the guest room,leaving and my kids alone..2 days ago she went home to bring some of her cloths.like she now lives in my like a normal person she goes out in the morning comes back at evening bath watch movie and sleep...and am not comfortable since she’s not doing anything for me I guess she have to go...Note I’ve gotten a help that helped me at home and she was against it that I want to waste her brother money that why can’t take care of my kids and the house? I told her am paying with my money not her brothers money.pls what do I do in this case.. ?

LadySarah:


Nne its your period.It is irregular for nw and might delay or come suddenly.
play safe

chia this period no get sympathy at all me that thought I would rest for months before buying sanitary pads again thank sis I will play over safe sef to avoid story that touch

Lemonadewifey:

1. Please don't... My hubby's colleague wife gave birth to twins, boy and girl and the boy had eye issues, she was advised to put breast milk in his eyes, she did and that was the end of the boy's eye as it was badly damaged that they had to remove it...
Take baby to hospital if need be please.

haaaa sincerely I’ve been doing this oo May God help me sil will always tell me to do it and I will chai I won’t try again

missyblissy:


Congratulations!!!!? Twins ah mama I clap for you. Its not easy rara!! You are strong mama. The Lord is your strength. Abeg no go carry another twins my hand no dey oooo.

I don vacant that side tey tey doctor even tell me say if I try anything now till next year na 2again 3days now I never sleep imagine adding another one......

So fast :othought am not sure it’s less just few drops daily

keeki:



Your period is back oohhh.please play safe

Sure am so going to wait am not in a hurry ooo twins work is far more than enough to handle for now....this one comes everyday for 2wks now but not much

missyblissy:


Allow your body to heal ooooo. For me I wait for three months to avoid stories that touch. Make. The stitch no open. Please heal ooooo. I didn't count the days but I took more than a month and I saw my period 4 months later

Pls mums that had their LO’s through cs...when did you stop seeing blood..mine stopped before 41days and started again 2 was ago it’s stopped last week and on started it started again but not much...any cause to see my doctor?or what can I do?lastly when is safe to start the oza rum ministry again....am kinda scared

I’m also going through postpartum depression but not on babies feeding I thank God my babies are feeding well during d day I made sure I breastfeed them more with formula maybe twice but at night I go with formula with less breast feeding and they sleep well..even wen sis in-law says give them I will tell her pls help me give them food I don’t have strength I want to rest small ; I no get power biko....that baby is your child start taking your decision toward that child now else you won’t have a say later on they will be deciding for you on what to do with your child.....take charge and work on yourself

Lillianade:
Hi please listen to my story

I have a newborn and I am currently going through post parting depression which has weighed me down a lot over the few months. My mother in law is staying with us to help. Now with breastfeeding, it has really not been easy. I am in constant pain, It has physically drained me out and I also thinking it was contributing to my depression. When it’s time for breastfeeding, I would constantly cry and it was making me resent my beautiful child. Sometimes as a new mum you just feel like there’s nothing in the world apart from your breast and your baby, it was making me very miserable along with the other postpartum stress I have to deal with. I was just overwhelmed by everything. So I have decided to give my baby formula and at first I felt bad, but I noticed an immediate relief off my shoulders and my mood began to rise. My husband was also able to help me with feeding and I was just relieved.

Since I’ve started formula feeding my mil has been so abusive towards me. Calling me lazy, saying that I want to do shakara hence why I’m not breastfeeding. Calling me selfish and all sorts all because I don’t want to ‘compromise’ my sanity for breastfeeding. She also speaks in her native language (husband and I are from different tribes) saying all manners of things, all because I have switched to formula. I have discussed this issue with my husband, and he has tried to be supportive however he is just trying to please both of us, and he is encouraging me to do exclusive breastfeeding despite everything that I have been going through. He claims it’s the best for our baby. Now I’m back to square one and I’m just feeling so down, worn out and stressed. I just don’t know what to do.

comtem2011:
I taya my sister! So babies that lost their mom at birth are dullards. I wonder where this theory even came from. That's why some babies will just be crying not knowing it's hunger all in the name of exclusive.

lol exactly why suffer the poor child all in the name of exclusive

Fyngal1:


Hahaha! Your inlaw is very funny. But if you want to continue breastfeeding, then you should try lactation cookies. I heard they work wonders.

However, i don't think think there's anything wrong with your baby eating so much but you can ask your pead to be doubly sure.

Lastly, there's NO difference btw a breastfed and formular fed baby. Just make sure you wash the bottles and sterilize properly. If your power no reach to do exclusive, please add formula. Don't allow anybody live out their fantasies through you. One love

thank you for this last statement,someone was telling to do EBF with twins,she said she did with her son for 6mnths that I can also do that there’s no much difference.i did not argue with her I just said okay....I feed my babies with SMA GOLD and I breastfeed them well too infact people keep asking me how old they are if I say they are less than 2months they won’t believe...pls feed your baby well don’t let anybody makes you start what you can’t finish biko

Thank you capo for being so active and dedicated even when the journey was becoming tiring we all thank Gid it’s all ended in praise am still owing BS oo my twins are taking most of my time will still submit it even if it’s next year thank you so @Gloryne

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Thank you so much am, I’ve given pcm as advise d and I took them to clinic yesterday..but my son has be crying and giving some painful reactions since 2days now today was more people said it’s the navel I give nospamin for the navel thing and he doesn’t sleep at night at all am always awake pls na what els can I give for this navel thing his cries makes me feel depressed

giselle237:
Use a thermometer to check. Place an analogue thermometer in armpit for 2 minutes and then read result... it is fever from 37.5 and above, so if you get this kindly give paracetamol every 8 hours and increase to 6 hourly if not coming down.
Effective paracetamol administration will work only if given the right dose... the right dose is weight of child X 15 X 5 divided by how many mg is in the bottle...
for example where is written 125mg/5ml ... in this case you would multiply your child’s weight by 5 and 15 then divided by 125... this would give you the appropriate mls to give
Do this, if persists with cough and catarrh and noisy breathing... run to a children’s hospital close to you
Or government hospital with paediatricians

Remember that fever is not normal and is usually a signal from a part of the brain called the hypothalamus so visit the child doctor as soon as possible

Rbae:




Mama, you shouldn't be self medicating for this babies please. They are still small, take them to d hospital.

thank you ma’am,the pcm was doctors prescription,but I’ve taken them an ti the hospital they are so much better now....Thank Almighty God

lightedpath:
for fever, give paracetamol/calpol every 8 hours. You can do tepid bath too. Just put cloth in room temperature water and place on the head/stomach area. If the temperature persist after a day, please see a doctor. You don't have to wait till appointment day to see a doctor

thank you ma

D
Good day mommies,hoe are our LO’s, mine are doing great we are 1month old today.God has been soo faithful..but the stress and nursing twins all alone is killing but my joy is my kids are doing fine..pls ma’s my son is having catarrh and his body temperature is a bit high since last night I gave him 0.3ml of pcm and vit c,pls how else do I treat this temperature and catarrh I don’t want to add this to my stress because I feel so pity for for the boy...pls help me with clue
May we all reap the fruit of our labor

This is so helpful but ma my son is having catarrh and his temperature is a bit high. Pls how do get the temperature back to normal...my clinic appointment is still Monday what do I do ?

giselle237:
First of all, u should always remember that babies are still very young and as such their immune system is still fragile. Their organs are still getting a hang of things which includes their lungs.
Learn to protect your babies until their immune system has fully developed.

For cough give vitamin c three times a day for 5-7 days.. it might be a simple and acute respiratory illness otherwise known as flu..... flu or common cold will resolve on its own.. just keep the child hydrated and well rested with vitamin C... if catarrh joins... u can do steam inhalation when necessary

if symptoms dont resolve and you also notice catarrh, noisy breathing, fast breathing, chest tightness, fever, restlessness or even coughing so hard that it interrupts feeding you should visit the hospital to see a child doctor


It maybe a viral, bacterial or fungal infection affecting any part of the respiratory system which includes the nostrils, mouth, tonsils, pharynx, larynx, bronchi, bronchioles, trachea or lungs

If no doctor has certified that its an infection of any of the above please don’t medicate the child on your own with antibiotics so that you do not further create dysbiosis through treating a non existent bacterial infection with antibiotics and hence weakening their immune system the more