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Nairalandwizerd:
grandma without husband, carry your frustration go meet your exs, na me use and dump u?

Fine bobo with wife, go face your family and stop ranting like a rabid bitch.

Nairalandwizerd:
Yes, it's a pity. When you are in your prime, you keep changing men like your underwear and now, the years are showing. Men business isn't as boom as ever,. You can't eat your cake and have it but God is merciful, shiloh to your rescue.

Oh please shut up.

while at it, you need the Shiloh more than I do.

then write coherently. what is "boom as ever"

iti boribo

Nairalandwizerd:
The old hags must swallow their prides, shiloh is calling the remnants of the proud ladies who can't date broke guys and officially at their early 40s without boyfriend talking of fiance, menopause is around. Shiloh is your last hope.

I hope life doesn't happen to you to the point where you will go to Shiloh as your last resort and your case will be hopeless and nothing will be done.

You lack empathy and its a pity.

cococandy:
More like pressured into reconciliation. She didn’t even look happy. What woman will say NO to the governor’s efforts at reconciliation? Without risking the whole world calling her a bad woman. The man didn’t deny her allegations so he’s obviously guilty and she wasn’t lying against him. ( that’s the part I was waiting to hear before giving my opinion).

It’s Easy to froth at the mouth dictating to her what she should have done or not done. Personally I commend her for coming forward. And I don’t judge her for agreeing to reconcile at this time. Being an onlooker, I don’t recommend it. But that’s from the safety of my home. If it was actually happening to me, would I be brave enough to say no the governor?

I’m human and I know what it would feel like to have the whole family on both sides, the general public and state government ask you to forgive. Saying no would require unprecedented bravery. Let’s pretend like we are all brave like that. Like we have all of life figured out.

It’s a woman sha. So there must be something wrong with her actions.
If she kept quiet and died, she caused her own death.
If she divorced him quietly, she wasn’t able hold down a marriage. Woe be unto her.
We don’t know how many times she’s cried in private to family and nothing came of it. Most likely more than once.

Now that she cried in public she is terrible for wanting to jeopardize his job as a journalist. We place His job and reputation over her life. We are more concerned about “what if he got fired? What will she gain? What will benefit her if he loses his job?” Forgetting that a trapped animal lashes out and she probably reacted how best she knew how considering that other methods may not have helped her in the past.

How about what if she died? Imagine sitting on someone’s pregnant belly and again after a major surgery.(he didn’t deny it). And what people are more concerned about is how she chose to talk about it.

This life sha

God, over to you sir.

You have said it all. What my eyes have seen when it comes to matrimonial matters/divorce proceedings, my mouth can't even say.

Her body language and the fact that she couldn't look her husband in the face speaks volumes.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

No disrespect but you are a foolish person.

Virgin with five years experience in what exactly.
let come and be going.

BlueRayDick:
I need suggestions for something special to cook during the hols this December. This year 2020 had been a very rough year; the year almost showed us shege but we survived . It is only normal for one to be appreciative and give himself/herself some treat .

Any food suggestion and recipe will be appreciated. NB : I’m not a fan of ogbono, and gbegiri..... and I’m not patient enough to knead dough to bake

Starters - Goat meat Peppersoup
Main dish - Gizdodo with fried rice, and coleslaw
dessert - frozen yoghurt and cake.

for snacks you can bake meatpie. it does not require much kneading since it is a short crust pastry.

TUFIAAAAA.
God forbid.

Saccharine:
NL is the most toxic place to seek for advise if you're a woman so take everything written here with a pinch of salt

Prepare to be blamed, await the righteous crew, the ashawo crew, the women are evil crew, the 'I'm afraid to marry crew,all women are liars crew, the prayer crew and the fight for your home crew

LMAOOOOOO.

You know this site very well

Didn't your Lawyer tell you that once you have filed an action in court, talking about it and making insinuations about the case is subjudice.

No wonder your name is adamu. it is not by asking for one billion dollars, you will end up getting nothing and bearing your cost.

nonsense. Be grateful your account hasn't been suspended. aridirin.

banmee:


Sisi yemi

Sisi Jemima

Zeelicious

Top pick is sisi jemima

Sisi Jemima is on another level when it comes to food blogging. From her ingredients to cookware as well as actual preparation, give it to her abeg.

Others I love as well is Matsecooks and Ify's kitchen.

Bonus is diary of a kitchen lover, IQplatter (deals mostly with traditional akwa ibom dishes).

Hathor5:


Isn't everyone a foodie here?

I just thought that the picture would be nicer if I didn't overfill it and the plate is also bigger than regular plates. I only eat two meals a day and healthy snacks in-between so the second meal is rather big in my case.

And then there are those cheat days ...
I sent a friend a picture of the ice-cream I got on my last cheat day and she said she could never finish such a big cone. I was too ashamed to tell her that I had two of them.

Finally. I can stop feeling guilty on the days I eat too much food.

this woman is finally loco.

Legitdimple:
Yeah,I'm fine thank you.
Oya join me let's enjoy this parfait made just for you.

Mehn...thanks so much.
I appreciate.

TATALoAlaMu:


Very little. Almost insignificant

When it comes to cooking, i am not so good with measurements but I am thinking the breadcrumbs you used wasn't enough. I may be wrong though.

TATALoAlaMu:

I did, I used an egg.

what quantity of breadcrumbs did you use?

TATALoAlaMu:


I think the bread crumbs wasn't enough. It didn't form into a ball. It's my first time though.

when next you want to make meatballs, use an egg. it acts as a binder and it will form a perfect ball.

TATALoAlaMu:
Tried Spaghetti Meatballs yesterday, the project failed.

what did you do wrongly. let's see if there's a way it can be remedied.

Legitdimple:
I know that feeling,sorry. How have you been? Its been a while

Hey babes,

Been good, work and other things in between hasn't allowed me post any picture, so all I do is to drool at the ones being posted.

hope you good too?

Legitdimple:
Pasta for dinner.

been craving this like crazy.

I came here to read happy stories but alas, poco was right.
look at how they descended on uju's post like vultures.
make I waka abeg. I no get strength this morning.

Akposy,

its fine if you want to take a breather. when you feel better, come back.

as for the person above me, smh in disgust for you.

blueraydick,

thank God for your health. if you want to cook with dried prawns, remove the head, legs and the tail before using same. if you are averse to wastage, you can blend same and substitute for crayfish powder.

Good morning everyone.

Big Fat Lie. All this gibberish is because you weren't allowed to spearhead the protests under #RevolutionNow.

This protest isn't about you. it's about every Nigerian that has experienced one form of police brutality or another.

Thousands ko, Billions ni.

cococandy:
Thai chicken curry

I am hungry. can I bring my plate?

To some extent I disagree with No. 3 of your article.

We all know nagging isn't a good thing but for her to nag about a particular issue(s) means you aren't doing your part to ensure that those things are done right. If you do that which is expected, she won't nag or talk too much.

then, you are postponing the inevitable by buying things for her to stop nagging. issues would have piled up and whatever love she has for you gradually turns to resentment and then indifference.

No matter how much we tend to sugarcoat things, communication is very important.

cutiereborn:
I love every fork full has some munchies

Exactly what I like. one forkful and you are chewing meat or prawns.
#unrepentantfoodie

kingreign:
i don't find it belittling & disrespectful. I can't tell about others.

Me too.