This is sick., what adult in their right mind would want to sleep with a child, Especially your own child.

You say this happening in Nigeria? How?? I thought Nigerians are really family oriented! Now if that is happening this is time when you should stone someone to death,

Not just because a lady had a baby out of wedlock, Put it into prospective REALLY

Nico

I like your style.

I can't be sure but it seems like this guy has caught up like this before. The poor lady is just plain sick of him!

Bolarge
I think you should just give her some space right now.  Give her sometime to think.  She is angry and your honey, I'm sorry is probably getting on her darn nerves.

In the meantime, you need to do some soul searching, I may not be right but, somethings tells me you have been busted with other women before.  Your wife is tired, I know, I am there.

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inlovepda

Honey,

First let me say this. Respect yourself enough to not allow this man to have the best of both worlds. This guy is not worth it.

You say you are in love with him, I beg to differ. I think you are in lust with him. I think you find his status intriguing. You know, I Know he is married and has committed himself to someone else but I just GOT to have him. Having what you know you shouldn't. To some its enjoyment.

Why tell his wife? Do you think he is going to leave his wife, NO. I don't buy all this stuff about you being the first he's cheated with. It is a lie. That man is a cheater and he didn't and will not tell his wife, because like he told you He still loves her.

And about being his friend girl, walk away while you still can. If not, you are going to always be is stash on the side. I am not trying to be mean, but he is playing a game on you. He is doing his best to keep you in this position, 1) you are friends, therefore, you shouldn't be tripping about a relationship 2)that he is a honest guy, you know you should continue to sleep with him because his wife is so needy. Allowing yourself to be stuck in the above positions is not cool.

He'll continue to go on with his life. Have babies and etc. You will be the one cheated.

I am a married woman so I may be a little harsh,,,but above all I am a woman. All a married man can do for me is go home to his wife. Wife the needy, the one I'm not even sleeping with, the one I am going to leave her, I'm just there for the kids, All lies.