I don’t understand the concept of being a couple with someone, yet they cannot access critical things about you if they really needed to.

I am glad my Wife and I don’t have such issues.

Meanwhile, this post is also a reason, why Wives (as well as siblings and other relations) need to have their own money.

For those who think it is normal not to share intimate information with your marriage partner, do you think it is normal to partner with someone that you can’t trust ? I think this is where most of us get it wrong. A relationship with a low level of trust is not an ideal one.

flokii:
Yoruba lokan..

PBAT tried by giving Umahi Minister for Works.. what else do the Igbos want?

Was it an Igbo Man speaking? You guys must sha show your tribalistic tendencies. Such foolishness.

Botragelad:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ndtv.com/world-news/syria-claims-israel-strikes-on-damascus-aleppo-airports-4474850/amp/1

I am reading some very bigoted and hateful comments from sympathizers of the major religions, and @nairaland is not cautioning this people?

Bliss52:




Lebanon, Syria, Egypt, Palestine

Isreal is on its last kick suicide mission

The best part is Joe Biden and Rishi Sunak won't join Natayahun this time


Death toll

Palestine 400, Isreal 700

Naso Ukraine Started in SouthEast and Donbass region, Putin talk, they signed agreement at Minsk, Jewish Zelensky still went to war thinking as usual US will lift a finger

Isreali are throwing missiles recklessly at Civilians target, building with family sleeping, airport with travellers , pilot and staffs

Hypocrite should not call Anyone terrorist when a response is giving

Go and read up what Adolf Hitler and Germany did to Jews during Holocaust, 5 million Jews wasted

1: Jews in Labor camp under Adolf Hitler Germany Nazi

2: How Jews arrived Middle East Palestinian land

3: how Isreali Army now treat their host


.

Please clarify your point about Zelensky.

Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnY6NVi_rLs?si=f6ZppUDi3kYRrsIA


RCCG worldwide stand by you’, Adeboye backs Israel

Pastor Adeboye



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/10/video-rccg-worldwide-stand-by-you-adeboye-backs-israel/

Hmmm Influential Pastors like this should be careful about takings sides between two sons of Abraham ooo. Let us not come and be facing repercussions here at home, especially as we may not be able to distinguish between RcCG members and other Christian denominations

hakeemhakeem:


While not come to the train station and see if it going to get electricity to run or not

Someone has already updated me on the plans for electricity. I wish The blue line rail all the best.

TemplarLandry:
Thank you Uncle Reno.

So because you don’t support Peter Obi you are thanking Reno for this senselessly inflammatory post?

tolue42:




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=phicef6QjaY?si=vc9L6SirJIZGFl3V




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgZDUjdM9sU?si=O8Aqp6ae9kxs_WEE

Which Electricity? The one we have not had for the last four days in this same Lagos?

24brains:
I always get confused and don't know what to reply when people greet me and ask "How family?". the question is usually thrown as a mode of greeting to know of the wellbeing of a married man's wife and children. How do you respond as an unmarried man?

Well, even when I was single, my answer was always “fine” because I have family, parents , brothers, sisters , uncles, aunties , cousins , nephews, nieces etc

OLAADEGBU:


Daily Mail

They discovered her secret account. 😳

She should apply as marketing manager for only fans.

Eddodoh:
I am currently considering a job opportunity with QNET. But where i have issue is about the pay.

I was told that no basic salary. I will be paid base on my performance i.e. sales i am able to make as it's a direct sales role. Moreso, i live in one of the Norther states and i will need to travel to the job location in the south west.

My fear, what if i am unable to meet the performance benchmark? How do i cope in a far away location?

Pls, advise.

It doesn’t make any sense that there is no basic pay. You might as well get your own product and start selling right where you are rather than spend your money traveling to go and sell for someone else.

My 2 cents.

ganisucks:


Dr. Olisa Agbakoba SAN

I concur Sir, the polity is being overheated and we need to re-examine the rules of engagement.

1x2x3:


You sound a bit naive.

First, as an adult. If your partner tells you what doesn't add up, you should be able to figure out it doesn't add up.

You mentioned about being an adult who could go anywhere before she met the OP. So if she's goes to strippers club at 1am before she met him, she can still continue because she's an adult? As married person, there are habits you have to change once you are married.

Well maybe I am naive about this specific situation. That is why I am asking the poster questions to enlighten me further.

There is nothing i said that implies he can’t figure out things that don’t add up for himself. But how is telling her not to go out going change anything. Just as with subordinates colleagues in the workplace you don’t get your partner to flow with you by Bossing but by leading and influencing , by communicating.

Finally, as per your last point I think that it is the person who married someone that goes to the strip club regularly that is being naive, if they think to the person will just change overnight because they said so. That is the definition of naivety.

Paraman:


https://punchng.com/ex-militants-allege-exclusion-from-nnpcl-contracts-threaten-violence/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

They should go and talk to Asari to talk to His Oga BAT.

And if BAT doesn’t like it, he should tell His boy Asari as well as Asari’s boys to go and finish off those militants.

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

The question is why do you wish your partner not to go out?

And this partner , is she a child or a full grown adult who could go where ever she wanted before she met you?

Are you sure it is a partner you want? Won’t you prefer a slave, that will be saying Yes Sah! since you now want to become a slave master policing another adult.

That’s how you guys will now start suffocating someone that is supposed to be your partner, companion and friend.

turmacs:

Abeg which one be health-tech startup again? Can't you just call them a hospital, or a medical startup? Must you guys always try to associate every nonsense/un-related fields with computing/technology?

Google it before complaining about it

stonemasonn:
so what will you do if you are the president

I wont announce subsidy without getting a clear picture of what is actually on ground then engage with all stakeholders and citizens on the best way forward

jahsharon:
Pained idiots

The generational fraudulent fuel subsidy is gone forever

how does that change the fact that people are suffering with no end in sight

Zonefree:
As a young man coming up, don't waste your youthful age loving a Nigerian girl or even try to force her to love you. They are not created to LOVE.

Speak for yourself cos there are many great naija women out there

TemplarLandry:
This American is another uninformed cracker.

Please what exactly was untrue in what He said? You think the prof has time for our Nigerian political games. He is just stating the facts.

englishmart:
If a wife owns a restaurant, is her husband supposed to pay after eating?

This is a straightforward question.

My grand uncle owns a resort somewhere in Lekki. I remember going to visit Him there once, after many years of not seeing.


As we sat by the pool a waiter came and took our orders, attending to us like everyone else.

When we were done the waiter came with a bill, my grand uncle reached in his wallet and paid. Then the waiter reminded him of some other outstanding from earlier, and he paid. Even though he owned the entire place. That is how to run a business by not mixing it with pleasure or familiarity.

OLAADEGBU:


My Daughter, Greatness Was Planning To Travel Abroad For PhD When She Fell Victim To 'One Chance' Criminals, Abuja Hospital Negligence – Bereaved Father.

So sad. Sorry Sir. May you find uncommon strength and comfort for this time.

stasius:


Remanded for what?

Read the news and the charges for which they were remanded for 21 days- then you will know what for.

okoro:


Reno Omokri

Reno Omokri, should just shut up already. What’s with the trying so hard to explain Tinubu’s actions? How ass kissingly shameless can an old Man be?

ebubeson:
Which Country Will You Like to Come From if Given Another Chance to Be Born?

Say yours with reasons.

Japan but still as a black Man. But I am proudly African and Nigerian.

Why marry at all if you are not marrying a woman you can feel safe with. Marriage is not for selfish , and self obsessed people.

okoro:

Source: @renoomokri

Reno and mouth Diarrhea. Is it the job of the court to “Prove”? It is He who alleges that must prove.

Curse777:
Absolutely nothing


The appeal court justices already explained that to PDP, they are only wasting their time on frivolities

You just hear want you want to hear. Did Tinubu submit even SSCE certificate? Is there no longer any academic qualification requirement in Nigeria?

Even if appeal court were to say it doesn’t matter if Tinubu lied;does that sound like a sane judgement to you? Shouldn’t we all be baffled that Tinubu fought tooth and nail for His records to not be released?

https://www.tekedia.com/tinubus-baffling-desperation-to-block-the-release-of-his-academic-record-at-chicago-state-university/

https://gazettengr.com/just-in-i-didnt-attend-primary-secondary-schools-my-university-certificates-stolen-by-unknown-soldiers-tinubu-tells-inec/

ganisucks:


https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/10/01/updated-atikus-court-victory-in-chicago-useless-say-tinubus-lawyers/

Did he really say “masturbating over nothing”? Why Is He speaking like a Nairaland teen?

jmoore:

Rain can limit our movement, hinder some projects.

Do you check weather forecast to plan for your day?

Only when planning an outdoor event

Bnno:
What country can I migrate to with 2m.
I was thinking if turkey, Thailand or vietnam, maybe Brazil. This money excludes flight ticket

Ghana

theInfinity:
Why actually are the reasons why men change towards their wives after having kids. Could it be that the unwritten contract between them and their wives has come to an end after she has put to birth or what exactly. At that moment, no more sweet name calling, no more petting. They now see their wives as rivals at home. What is the cause?

now they are not just husband and wife, they have also become father and mother. And the tendency is for them to get caught up in this new identities of parenting that they forget lose the essence of husband and wifing. Those identities need to be kept expressing. They need to learn to go back to boy friending and girl friending.