scoundrel:
Coincidence and selective bias. It means nothing.

Okaay.. I will search out more, and seek more opinions too.

Lorazepam:

A variety of things could cause that. Firstly is the blood mixed with the stool, is the stool tarry black, or is the blood bright red and not really mixed with the stool.
Depending on the other associated symptoms and further investigation , it could be any of the following :
Heamorrhoids (popularly known as pile)
Anal fissures/tears
Diverticular disease
Cancer of the bowel
Inflammatory bowel disease
A bleeding duodenal /stomach ulcer
Polyps
Etc etc
This is not an exhaustive list though as there are many other causes.

Kindly visit your doctor for detailed evaluation and treatment.

Any of them sexually transmitted??

Ebidosia:



It was a mistake actually. My wife before my Mum.

Ok.. I understand.

khaffi2:
Some of these superstitions are right, some are false, some happens coincidentally.

Please, tell me all those superstitions you believe that are right, and all those ones you believe are false..

scoundrel:
It means nothing. The baby is only playing. As toddlers they have amazing flexibility so they enjoy the priviledge of bending down to look between their legs.

Surprisingly, the baby coincidentally plays this kind of play only when someone very very close-by is pregnant.

Harllaby:

Bruv, this isn't joke o . I remember crossing a lady, she forced me to reverse my crossing

Does the crossing of a thing happens with only pregnant women??
E get this fine girl that I want her first child to resemble me whenever she decides to finally marry and born pickin.
..
I wan take style cross over her whenever she dey sleep.

Harllaby:
The popular one is if a pregnant woman is crossed over, the baby will bear the character of the person that crosses her

Habbaaa.!!
Na today I dey hear this one for the very first time.
So, if like five person cross her over, who de baby go come resemble again??
The first crosser?

Adblg0610:
Agreed,with this slight adjustme

NURSERY/PRIMARY SCHOOL STAGE
1.Mother

2.Female class teacher (Aunty)


3. Sister
In fact,the number one spot is too close to call, because of the overbearing influence of the female class teacher.

Aaahhhaaahahahahaaaahhaaahahahaha haahahahahaa
.. That Number-2,, I can relate well well.

Apparently there is a superstition that a baby looking through their legs (kinda up on all fours with their head down) means that someone usually their mother - is pregnant.

Has anyone heard this?
Is it confirmed to be true?
Are there any studies or researches about this?

I’m not superstitious, but sometimes it's fun watching babies doing that.

missimelda01:


Yes, why?

If you do post regularly on Facebook, I would like to be reading more of your opinions on varied topics.
You sound sensible to me from your comments here.

sheDD:
Especially those guys from Anambra state.
"My mummy said that.. I should break your heart"

Now You Are Generalizing..
It can happen to anybody..
Not Only In Anambra State.

etrange:
It is not by labels. You don't automatically assume the position of "most important" simply because you happened to be the mum or the wife. The man places you in your position based on where you place him in your own life....

Thanks for this contribution..
It is so great.

tomasi:
This is a hypothesis, all you need do is to turn it into a proper study by carrying out a research using these assumptions and come up findings that would contribute to knowledge.
Someone can take this work of yours and make a name for himself.

Thanks so much for your suggestions.
The truth is, if anyone who sees this and got the inspiration to research and write on it, the person can go on..
All I would need is for the person to give credit to this very thread, and then create a comment or post about the new book and and then mention my moniker, so that I can go and find the book and read it myself..
I may not be doing any researches on this anytime soon.
(Cc.. Explorers Ishilove.)

cameeeeel:
ur son will also love his wife more

Unless her husband is no more,, that's the only time she would be needing her son come closer to her every once in a while,, if not, she would prefer her son to show all the excess love to his wife..
She wouldn't even bother.
Her son's happy home is more important to her than seeking attention.

Airoflaw:
yes..you re a mother too

Unless her husband is no more,, she would prefer her son to show excess love to his wife..
She wouldn't even bother.
Her son's happy home is more important to her than seeking attention.

jericco1:
My mum definitely has no say in whom I'm gonna get married to

When you are married, just remember this thread..
And please, try to also remember the role your mum played while you were choosing your wife.

Hisincrease:
Rubbish!

Ever since I left home at 19, God and my conscience have been the only ones that influence my life.

My mother did her part then but I don't have a sister or GF.

We trust God and move.

When you are married, just remember this thread..
And please, try to also remember the role your mum played while you were choosing your wife.

missimelda01:
True to an extent.

It still bothers me how a mother can reject a lady her son has spent time knowing, does it mean that she doesn't trust his judgement or something. Obi is gonna be a man someday and would need a mind of his own, women should know where to draw the line.

Please are you on Facebook?

NaijadrivaCars:
To most Mommy's boys/HALFMEN, it is one stage all their lives: a. Mother b. Sisters c. Girlfriends/wives
And their moms be like...

You got me laughing my head off..

Reelmii:
what are u trying to achieve with this....are we supposed to larf or wat exactly

Gerraouwtt.!!
You are supposed to read and understand,, or read and scroll past it.

Rozz:
make God the most important and you will live happily ever after

We are talking about women for now, not spirits, nor even the males..
No.
It's Just Women for now.

Ebidosia:






At this stage in my life, my daughters count before my mum before my wife.

Wooww..!!
Your wife came last here??

She must be so far away from you emotionally, and in family/marital communications..

TemmyT002:

This is deep

That's how I saw it.

Plead:


Trash. Stupid generalizations.

Is there any person who generalized anything here??
You just came here and showed how truly stupid you are.

Semaj77:



For most men , their daughters become number one once they are born

I'm telling you..
But when it comes to decisions, the opinions of the little daughters wouldn't count though

HeliotJ:


The question is ; can your wife prioritize you over her own mother?

It is very very possible too...
A good wife hardly seek the opinion of her people before she makes her decisions, but she would more likely seek the opinion of her husband.

ojun50:

Order of importance of the women in a man's life

What I wrote is the truth naa..
Or abi you no read am?

ojun50:
Wetin dis penis dey cause eeeh

Why did you say so?

Tpave:
Wey men own nah? Abi we too no dey important?

Let's finish eating rice first before we start eating swallow..
Or abi u wan great the thread already?
Then tag my moniker when you do.

Tpave:
Hmmm

Wetin dey smell u over there?? Abi I lie??

The final decisions of any man is being influenced most of the time by the opinions of the women in his life.

At every stage in life, the order of importance of the opinions of these women vary a lot.
With this topic, I tried to pinpoint these stages in a man's life and the order of importance of the opinions of these women in his life.
..
1. Long Before Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Sisters
c. Girlfriends
..
2. Close To Marriage.
a. Mother
b. Fiancée
c. Sisters
..
3. Immediately Into The Marriage
a. Wife
b. Mother
c. Sisters
..
4. When The Children Are All Grown
a. Wife
b. Daughters
c. Mother
...
...
5. Randy Husband
a. Wife
b. Girlfriend
c. Mother
..
6. Crazy Husband
a. Girlfriend(s).
...
Ok..
This now brings me to the argument about why mothers have a very big opinion in the choosing of life-partners of their sons.
..
Assuming that it was a decision that would affect the man alone such as business, place of work, investments, projects and so on, he has the liberty Not to involve anybody, nor seek anybody's opinion, and nobody would say anything about it.
..
But in the case of choosing a life partner, the man's family will definitely be involved. Both families will be involved. Kindreds are involved too.

The man in an attempt to carry his family along, would go to seek his father's opinion. His father would then discuss with his own wife and his other grown children (that is, the man's mother and brothers and sisters).

After that, the man's mother (wife of the man's father) who now knows what the problem of the son is, would now make out time to talk to him in a language he would understand better, which includes knowing more about the lady in question, and having her invited over at the house once or twice for series of one-on-one interactions with her.

And trust me, if the fiancée had not done her homework well, and it happens that the man's mother doesn't like what she sees in the lady, the mother can easily talk her son out of it, and the fiancée's opinion cannot do much at this point because the man's father will support his own wife (the man's mother), and the man in question wouldn't want to be against his father.
..
Meanwhile, a woman's family can also reject a man they don't like too., but there must be strong reasons for that to happen.

If a woman's family happens to reject a suitor and the woman went ahead to bring him home, they would reject the bride price openly, and there would not be any marriage rites performed again.

This particular topic about women would be discussed another day anyway.

I am more interested in the men for now.

Annie001:
Well!!
I think women who do last fling are weak and as for me, if I happen not to marry the guy I am currently dating, except he is living in another planet, there is no way we won’t have something together if we happen to meet, the love is just beyond me.

It means that you are also a weak woman, because if he ends up not marrying you, you will always find yourself having endless flings with him even in your marriage