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Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye: "God Created Adam And Eve, Not Adam And Steve" by toboy: 2:21pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
Midas01:Then in that case, Men should stop using God to interfer and justify the opression of others who are different from them. 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye: "God Created Adam And Eve, Not Adam And Steve" by toboy: 2:18pm On Oct 20, 2020 |
The question is now Who created Steve? I thought God created man in his own image and likeness, And that everything he created was good? Is he now calling God a liar? |
Crime / Re: #ENDSARS: Nigerians Protest In Michigan, Usa by toboy: 2:53am On Oct 20, 2020 |
Marching in solidarity from overseas. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 12:30pm On Oct 19, 2020 |
HuntSon:I have heard a saying that says opression continue to exist because it's in the nature of it to blind the blind the opressor. It's truly accurate. Alot of people on Niarand are opressors, potential murderers, rapists and tyrants. Why are they complaining about sars |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 12:14pm On Oct 19, 2020 |
lexy2014: Learned colleague, you got a great point. Yes, the laws of the land is important, meself I am a big supporter of some the laws of land. However you and know we live in a globalization age where people's interect increasingly with one another. Very few things has remained static in those laws land cuz the our society is dynamic and ever changing. If we based all logic for the laws on the laws the land then we'll be stuck. Really good point on drugs. Again, if you mean hard drugs, these are substance that have very powerful effect on the human body and can kill instantly in cases of overdose. That why governments and approved pharmaceutical companies are license to for the purchase. So in essence drugs are traded but not at consumer levels to avoid dangerous proliferation that again will kill people. I light of this consent is not a validating factor . However, the aspect of physical harm and damages associated with drugs are clear. Also one other side of it that Anti-money laundering is done using drugs as the commodity of exchange. Culture is not constant oo. Societies are dynamic and evolve from time to time. If we want to do culture, then we should be in the forest hunting, our women going bare breasted, or killing twins as evil. Those who wish to change will be left behind. I have learned from your points tho. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 11:38am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Brendaniel:I don't know which field you currently work in but I have a fell you should could excell in gender and diversity studies you seem to be passionate about it. You may build a fuilfing life career out of it. Imagine being the founder of the Nigerian institute for study gender , diversity, sexuality producing evidence based research that shapes human understandings |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 11:28am On Oct 19, 2020 |
maisams01:I like your use of the word impose in the case of hijab however it's clear you fail to see how the gay bill is being imposed on queer people. I hope you live forever to witness the change. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 11:14am On Oct 19, 2020 |
maisams01:I am NOT talking about legalization though. InCheck the difference between legalization and decriminalization. Decriminalization is removing sth from crime list so that you can't keep prosecuting it or opresssing others unjustly. For instance in casees where Marijuana is decriminalized so that people who were once arrested and jailed for it can be liberated. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 11:01am On Oct 19, 2020 |
maisams01:This a very arrogant comment. Point of correction, Nigeria is NOT your country. Nigeria does not belong to any single man alone. Plus, You too can leave Nigeria, and go live somewhere else. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 10:54am On Oct 19, 2020 |
lexy2014:Calm down. Let me explain what I mean. This Anti- gay bill was signed in 2014 by Goodluck and henceforth it became possible for the government to presecute gays. Everyone agrees this the reality but that does mean it's right. This bill was passed based on religious sentiments and I don't even know why he should have passed that law in the first place. in law when a crime is committed there must be a harm caused to another party as a result of the crime e.g in armed roberry, Yahoo Yahoo, kidnapping, bribery name it another person suffer damages or loss because of the action of perpetrator In the case sexuality, the question is now what crime has two consenting adults committed for doing what ever they're doing in their privacy and which they seem to enjoy. And most importantly does not cause harm or damage to anyone else. Literally, the act of intimacy between consenting adults no matter thier gérer dors not cause anyone to loose thier money not does it home food prices. In law, you cannot just sign sth into law based on religious sentiments and then you go ahead say it's now crime. Take for instance, Imagine Buhari passing a new law tomorrow making wearing hijab a law for all women in Nigeria. As soon the law is passed, it becomes a crime if you don't wear hibaj. But the question will remain what harm has someone done to thier neighbour for not covering thier head as a lady. Everyone cannot live the same in diverse country like Nigeria which is why we have govt and laws but that doesn't give people or govt power to opress others who are different. Just like in the case of sars opresssin youth taking all computer programmer to be Yahoo Yahoo. These are all analysis but I hope it makes sense to you That's why people study law. Human beings are not an easy animal to manage. But injustice is a no no |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 10:05am On Oct 19, 2020 |
maisams01:Law of which and whose land? Do you mean the one Goodluck signed a few years ago? Personally, I think just as Good luck signed that law few years ago it can get unsigned in the future years so brace yourself. Says who? I do something, I will continue to speak up and support my family whenever I can. Plus, I think those it affects most are protesting already thus the reason we are having this conversation in the first place. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 9:53am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Ahumanbeing:This may likely be true. He is also parading a picture of a random white dude for that matter. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 9:50am On Oct 19, 2020 |
maisams01:You did not answer the question as to what crime they have committed. However, I agree with you it's a crime in Nigeria. what do you expect, Nigeria is jaga jaga! |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 9:36am On Oct 19, 2020 |
nigeriansamurai:I think so, right from day one. I know this cuz I was raised by a loving family, I didn't pass through any single trauma as a child. He blessed me to get a good education at one of best University in the world. I know He is proud of me because am at stage where I am a bread winner for my family and other young people too. I think it's the will of the almighty for people to be happy as they journey through life. That's why He sent His only son to die for all of us. It's a shame because so many are sad people and think they will be happy or that God loves them when they hate and hunt thier kill thier fellow human beings. What about you? |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 9:21am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Brendaniel: What were the things you experienced in Life that made question your sexuality and at various stages was that? |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 9:15am On Oct 19, 2020 |
maisams01:Great. Let borrow you ideas. You should take that as a full-time job, open a United Church of Homophobia, recruit more members, then start the execution possibly from your family, your village, then all over Nigeria. When you've finished excecuting all the gays Nigeria, you can move your ministry to neighbouring countries. You're a man after God's heart and the Almighty will be proud of you. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 8:57am On Oct 19, 2020 |
hakeem4:Lol! Iz like you live overseas. In Nigeria, humans hunt and kill themselves for rituals, blood money, bad belle, cultism, witcraft, religion, tribalism to name but a few. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 8:49am On Oct 19, 2020 |
maisams01:This must and should apply to you too. Think about it. Sometimes you can take a leave and move to another country if sth is becoming intolerable to you. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 8:26am On Oct 19, 2020 |
osazuwa23:Oga conspiracy theorist. What about malaria, typhoid poliomyelitis and ordinary malnutrition that kills millions of Nigerians at striking rate. You should Google the numbers. Shebi they're part of population control nii |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 8:19am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Maskedme1:Good words! So we can all agree now that they are Nigerians shebi just like every other Nigerians. I wonder why our fellow Nigerians have been profiled over these years for nothing then. And when Goodluck Jonathan signed a law and crimimized them, did we forget these are our fellow Nigerians? our brothers and sisters, and family members. Sometimes, we in this generation forget another generation will emerge after us. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 8:04am On Oct 19, 2020 |
OfoIgbo:I have some questions dear; armed robbers steal people's money and belongings with guns, Yahoo boys and girls use internet scam to steal money. So, what crime did queer people commit? Did they steal anything that belongs to you? Don't bring up religion cuz Yahoo Yahoo is not there. If I am not mistaken, Christianity came from the west too. She I!, Muslims should wipe out Christmas because they have accepted an evil religion from the west. |
Politics / Re: EndSARS: We Are Also Fighting For LGBGTQ+ Community - Feminist Coalition by toboy: 7:37am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Abibabiba:It could also mean the other way around. The ego of over-religious country's men and women coming from a poor educational system who has been raised and conditioned to hate and be a intolerable to a group of people. Exactly the same way racism, brutallty and other forms of oppression works. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by toboy: 5:36pm On Oct 18, 2020 |
TheCongo2:I couldn't agree more. Currently on my way to protest zone in Montreal for today. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by toboy: 1:23pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
NeromAk:Do you plan to travel anytime soon? I recommend you go to a nearby police station and make a report about it. That way someone cannot misuse the lost passport. How did you misplace the passport? 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by toboy: 1:34am On Jul 23, 2020 |
hinograce:yes they can, if the job in ques requires you to drive or use a company car. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by toboy: 1:35pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Boss13: I think you're sharing an important point here and thank you you for critically stressing on it so that opposing views can judiciously asses thier opinion. From your post, I've drawn that 911 may not be of best interest for minor family issues that can be resolved thru therapy or councelling. However, if it's a serious cases of abuse when one is no longer feeling safe, then a radical approach is involving the police. I also agree with you that people should be humble enough to tell themselves the truth or at least re-imagine the demerits when they are ignorant on a topic, especially as an immigrant when you have too many things to both learn and catch up with. I am not surprised tho cuz Nigerians , especially the Nigerian men, are very proud people. When shoulders are too high, it's a sign of weakness if you don't get angry , raise your voice, and be superman even when you're actually ignorant. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by toboy: 2:42am On Jun 29, 2020 |
listowell:You heard! lol! Unconfirned information. Are you sure you are not spreading rumours or gossip 10 Likes |
Family / Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by toboy: 12:08am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Carchoice:I just emailed via your nairaland email contact. I'd like to connect with you man! � |
Family / Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by toboy: 12:04am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Afrocentric:Your argument lack any substantial point. When you don't have any supporting point to back or clarify your arguments, then, there is no need repeating insults on people. It's childish. Practice this in real life too I like your name Afrocentric tho. What's the inspiration behind the name? |
Family / Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by toboy: 2:54pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Carchoice:You've a good point. Lol. I like that. |
Family / Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by toboy: 4:16am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123:First of all, my deepest condolences for your loss. May your Dad's soul rest in peace! Eventhough your story is incomplete, I am gonna assume your uncles are the bad guys here because of a personal experience that happened to my own family. I have read through comments from people and you can see advices differ based on people's perspective and experience. Thus, you need to plan with your mum and siblings on what is best for you and for your family. My advice is as follows: 1: If it's possible, seize and secure all official documents about the properties belonging to your Dad. Without theses documents, unfortunately, you cannot proof ownership of documents even in a law court. 2: Read all your Dad's dairy, letters, messages or books. This can provide vital information and business deals. 3: Uncles are very good when it comes to conniving and anexing properties. Confronting them directly will put your life and that of your family in great danger. They can posion you or send people to kill. This is no lie. To avoid this, you need to mobilize people who will support you cuz you won't win it alone. First start by talking to the Aunt in the family (women are often knowledgeable and also more truthful, they have thier meetings and will spread the word for you if truly the preperties belong to your Dad.). After this, involve the village elders and youth age. 3, Since you are a final year student and don't have any means of your own involving police and lawyers will take up a lot money, energy and resources from you. But I encourage you to make a statement and court charges. This can serve as evidence and for future fight. 4: as some have suggested, you can go to your father's burial. Prapare a speech. Say it out and shame your uncles for trying to steal your father's properties and for making life unbearable for you, your Mum and siblings. Make sure someone videos it. This a good evidence . The person that suggested is a genus. Soiling your uncle's reputation and shaming them is a good way of calling them to order and also calling people to empathize and support. Use that opportunity! 5: If your uncles remain adamant. You and your mum should consider leaving the properties for them. You might be blessed in the future and accomplish greater things. From experience, the uncles that does this are the lazy and wicked ones who are fool at 40 and who has wasted all thier youth and dreams. At old age, they will get to regret thier actions. 6: Take care of yourself and your family All the best 1 Like |
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