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TV/Movies / Re: WANTED - Share Your Thoughts If You've Seen The Movie. by TOH(f): 3:39pm On Jun 30, 2008
Didnt think I would enjoy it Sisi as Im not big on action movies

But I was throughly entertained and would recommend it to anyone. Some critics (fan boys of the comic) complained it was a complete 180 of the comic which is GOOD since the main dude in the damn movie was actually a supervillian who killed and raped people randomly. and the moral was "humans can be evil" Abegi. Why would I wanna watch that?

Good movie. B+

Hey can someone tell me Fox's story again, how did she get in the Frat again, Im trying to remember but I cant.
Culture / Re: Why Do Nigerians Lie And Say They Are From Another Country In Africa? by TOH(f): 5:47am On Jun 30, 2008
CH3COO:

Well you can't blame her too much. She's still a young klutz.

true but its getting quite annoying I must say
Culture / Re: Why Do Nigerians Lie And Say They Are From Another Country In Africa? by TOH(f): 5:36am On Jun 30, 2008
I like how SeanT is kissing Hero & Exponent's asses and getting mad at those who reply to those two morons

To hell with your friends. You should all go and register on BlackPlanet instead anyway
Romance / Re: Cocktail Of Men: The Type Of Brothas Who Turn Us Off! by TOH(f): 5:03am On Jun 30, 2008
Lmfao.

I like you jare.
Romance / Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by TOH(f): 4:56am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:

whoa what 31!!! man that sure puts a damper on things. if it is true then you are like ten years older then me.

Hes one of those senior citizens you see driving a motorcycle all in the name of trying to act young

No mind him. I'll find fresh blood\ for you grin
Romance / Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by TOH(f): 4:48am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

hehe TOH, put in a good word to Onyinye on my behalf will you please? cool

So your wife can hack my head off? You're not serious

Onyinye. David turned 31 a few days back. In other words he's too old for you. Try Sly or Eldee.
Romance / Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by TOH(f): 4:40am On Jun 30, 2008
Ok you two. Enough with the corny talk.
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 4:16am On Jun 30, 2008
banned were we?
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 4:04am On Jun 30, 2008
Lol david if someone were to read that incorrectly they would actually think I am 35 and alone with just cats as my companions

E jo ooo tongue

I am just 18 like every other girl on NL grin
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:59am On Jun 30, 2008
Thanks for finally smiling in your pic, alagolo tongue

His posts have been better than alot of tripe I've read on this board, onyinye.
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:52am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye. Stop. kiss

Oprah isnt always right. It's good to be rich though. lol grin
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:50am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

I hereby submit two names:

a. Debosky
b. 4 Play

Debo is most likely clean. tongue

Give me 4Play's real name grin

stillwater:

Lmao!!!!!!! Always knew you were a policewoman. tongue

That is me o. I have no intention on being with someone who has sins of their father on their heads or one who has sins that can be transferred to my children. Nope.
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:46am On Jun 30, 2008
debosky:

@ TOH

can you get me info on the family of Birnin Magaji?

Lmao. No. Oniranu. tongue
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:42am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro, do you have to be so vulgar? Defining women by their genitals

Why?
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:39am On Jun 30, 2008
Yea my gran's, lol lets just say Jehovah Witness, what can I say

davidylan:

I don't resent the "play hard to get" type, the problem is mine actually . . . too little patience. tongue
However i believe that a woman gets to a point where as an adult she should be able to sniff out those guys who are in it because they are serious and those who just want to play around. To give a guy who is really serious the run around for no just cause is very unfair.

I agree with you. BUT you act like all "older women" are mature. Not the case. I assume you've heard of 28 yr old and older falling for playboys that even 21 yr olds would know not to take seriously. Being old doesnt make one wise wink

Even some playboys sef are getting good at pretending to be "serious". Let's just say it's a good thing I take my Ekiti roots seriously. Give me a name and I can give you the person's's and his family history and sins within 3 days. Shio wink

The importance of Iwadiiiiiiiiiiii ooooo.
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:29am On Jun 30, 2008
eldee:

C'mon, every woman should act like their mom? undecided

You are in severe denial so Im not even responding to you anymore. If you wanna deny alot of men subconsciously would actually like to MARRY their mothers in fact then perhaps you should read an actual book sometime. It's quite evident everywhere you go. But since you rather just argue with me, whatever

Glad you didnt disagree with the "overly spoiled and sexist" part however grin
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:16am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:

IShe should be saying to the next man " all you got is a year< if we are not married, I'm gone" Men need to be threatened sometimes.

Something is sincrely wrong with a relationship where you have to start threatening marriage, I think.

I see what you are saying but at the same time it's you same guys that will say "women are forcing guys to get married to them"
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:10am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

T, times have changed. I'm not advocating women go around saying yes immediately to just about every riffraff who comes their way but at least give the guy some clue about where your heart is leaning earlier on so he knows whether to waste his time or not. in the old days men could endure being played but not now when the competition is even stiffer.

I give an example - my ex gave me the run around for 2 weeks (i no get patience i know) but at least i knew 2 months well in advance where she was leaning to so i stuck in there. today's women sef na wa.

My mom has a faint scar on the side of her face. A mark placed there by my grandmother. When she did it she added pepper there Btw on purpose. This was done when she was in SS 2.

Her offence? Talking to my dad after a party. All because this crazy Ekiti man who recently moved to Surulere decided to "stalk" her after a naming ceramony party. Seriously though he just wanted to chat her up, blah blah. one of her friends she went to the party with left her there and went him. Grandma asked for my mom's whereabouts, "oh she's talking to some dude". She went crazy when she got back and did what she did because she believed my mom cheapened herself for talking to the opposite sex. According to her, if he was serious, he would have seen my grandparents first and "proved his love"

At the end of it, she got married to this same man anyway. My dad is the one who told us the story of the mark. My mom doesnt discuss it.

Just saying you can't always blame these girls for doing these things. It's what they've been taught. You peopl,e keep screaming we're copying the Western World after all. I do see what you are saying though. Just have a heart for these girls na and quit resenting them wink
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:57am On Jun 30, 2008
eldee:

Here we go again
Did you skip the part where I mentioned 'opinions'?
Is that not being involved in decision making?
The final decision is what I was talking about, it's the result from listening to her side of it

And what's with you and 'only sons'?

Question is, is it to just LISTEN to her side or to actually CONSIDER IT. That's the True question

My problem with them? Hmmm

You mean other than the fact that a good majority are so bloody spoilt and such momma boys and they think every woman should act like their mom who has spoilt them to death thus alot of them tend to be very sexist, other than that absolutely nothing

cool
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:50am On Jun 30, 2008
Mesmerize:

Hon, this is what we're talking about.
dnt blame your single status on the excuse of "I chose to be single".
abegi!

Exactly. Infact he has turned me off completely with that rubbish

I wish you luck with that. Mr Negro.

You think the same way an unwed 40 yr old looks ridiculous to you isnt the same way a 65 yr old picking his first child from nursey school looks to us?

By the time the kid graduates high school Papa jnr is already dead. Disgusting.
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:42am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:

Good talk David. I agree with you, there is a cut off point and when a woman crosses that point, the sea of opportunities dry up very rapidly for her.

Look at this one. shouldnt you be married sef? Oniranu. Adie funfun ti o mo ara e lagba.

grin
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:39am On Jun 30, 2008
eldee:

That's the part they want you to see at your age
Infact, the major decisions are not being made in front of you

A perfect marriage is one in which the HEAD of the house makes the MAJOR decisions
Although, she's allowed to give her opinions, convince and all that . . . but they know who wears the trousers

You obviously don't know what you are talking about. Then again I don't take "only male in the family" guys seriously. They tend to spew alot of tripe. No offence.

How can any sane person be against a marriage where the couple discuss "MAJOR DECISION", Why even get married then if you're too much of an egomaniac to include the wife in the decision making process? And don't bother telling me that "she can say something but he doesnt have to listen". Some of you have severe issues with women. Get help, seriously.


davidylan:

no. But more often than not women tend to assume that if a guy is serious and is meant to be theirs he will stay at the door knocking forever even when she pretends to make a conscious effort not to be interested.
Women have to realise that times have changed, nobody has time to wait any longer.

I see what you mean but I guess that's their way of not seeming "cheap". After all isnt it the same Naija tradition that made them think readily saying "yes" to a relationship makes you seem desperate. Alot of families believe in this, mine included sef. Lol I havent/wouldnt make anyone go through the shit my dad did for my mom's hand. hahaha grin

Na True Love, abi? tongue
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:23am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

. Playing hard to get is about the most silly game a woman can ever play especially when she's clearly beyond the age when she can hide under the banner of "i'm too young".

In other words they should accept anyone, even if SHE doesnt believe the dude is her match?
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:20am On Jun 30, 2008
eldee:

The average nigeriand bloke wants the chick that'll stand by his side, but still knows who makes the final decision . . . c'est finis
It always becomes apparent when you see the people with dates at the dinners cheesy

even if the decision is stupid, abi?

I take it alot of you were raised in households where mom and dad didnt discuss serious decisions together and come to a compromise.

or maybe that's just normal families.
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:18am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

Certainly not. But you kill whatever interest may have come your way with the overly aggressive effort to propagate a false idea of being secure in your single status.
those who are truly happy being single don't need to announce it.


True but let's play a game

How would you perfer a female to reply to something like "Arent you afraid of ending up an unwanted old maid" or something like that

and dont justt give me "No" either
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:15am On Jun 30, 2008
Not Me. cheesy
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:12am On Jun 30, 2008
Looks like the head of a MAN to me grin
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:09am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

True. However to pretend to be "happily single", not "bothered about marriage" and the rest is all a bold faced lie.

Would you perfer to hear "desperately waiting to get married"?
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:03am On Jun 30, 2008
Sisikill:

Ladies! Ladies! Ladies! Please, don't argue with the men. We now know what their problem is. . . not that we didn't but it's been officially confirmed.

The next step is helping them work through their insecurities. Instead of getting on their cases, let's reassure them that when we go on a spending spree with our money, we will include them. Tell them the next time you go to the BMW Dealership, you'll get them their very own Beemer too, in fact you will do His & Hers Beemer. grin

Im a miser so I think at the dealership, I'll just give him a pacifier so he can shut the hell up grin
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:02am On Jun 30, 2008
davidylan:

Because deep down i know they are just lying to make themselves happy. Only very rarely do you find females who truly enjoy being single.

If you are coming from a disastrous relationship, the last thing on your mind is a new relationship.
Romance / Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:00am On Jun 30, 2008
My assumptions are always right. wink

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