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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 8:03pm On Sep 26, 2023 |
Hussen240: It's nice to have you back Hussen240, do you know if ministry of health is included? Thank you. |
Family / Re: I Feel Hatred Towards My Husband by Towma(f): 1:57pm On Sep 26, 2023 |
What about STDs? To the people telling her to ignore his cheating? 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 10:50pm On Sep 24, 2023 |
DearAminu:Ok, insha Allah. 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 8:17pm On Sep 24, 2023 |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 11:32am On Sep 22, 2023 |
Mohisah: Amin, thank you |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 4:19pm On Sep 21, 2023 |
kkkp: Abeg I no know jare, am tired. 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 2:11pm On Sep 21, 2023 |
Please is there any info on ministry of heath? I have the phone number of civil service commissioner but the man isn't cooperating, he is asking me to wait till embargo is lifted. I heard there was never any embargo for essential civil services like health. |
Family / Re: Am I Being Unreasonable Or Is My Wife Selfish? by Towma(f): 6:02am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Your wife wants more income than what she's currently getting and she doesn't want to depend on anyone for that. I don't know what your personal story is in your family but I feel her catering business isn't going as well as she hoped or it isn't yielding desired profits and she is not comfortable depending on you for her upkeep. If you two can afford it, hire the services of a good creche or carer for your kids while she does her office work. Let her follow it and hopefully, she would succeed or go far. It's not advice able for women to not have a source of income they can use in taking care of themselves and kids alone, in case something happens to their husbands. My two cents. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Gaming / Re: Rockledge Ozempic & Wagovy Weight Loss Doctor by Towma(f): 11:59am On Aug 31, 2023 |
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Business / Re: New Definition Health by Towma(f): 11:58am On Aug 31, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Towma(f): 3:25pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
addmole: Ok, I did not know all this information before, it was not included from the earlier write up. Secondly, if everything you have written is 100% true, I want to tell you that your wife has mental issues, probably depression. She is not reasoning normally. A number of people have come to this thread to suggest the same thing. She has some mental issues that affect her thinking and turn her bitter and negative everytime. I know people like that in real life, even if you might not believe it but some people function like that your wife, they are mostly negative, angry, stubbornly refuse to allow sunshine and happiness into their personal lives because they have mental malfunction. Most likely depression or trauma from the past but it's a condition that deadens her warmth and turns emotional and sexual feelings or any loving feelings someone should have normally. Sad thing is that if you leave her and find happiness outside with another woman, she will be devastated and secretly regretful but oddly enough she is the one deliberately sabotaging all efforts to return your lives to normal. If she is not willing to have mature and productive conversations about the issue then look for ways to make yourself happy without her even though you two are still married but show her respect but stop begging her for sex or discussing the issue, period. It's unfair to make you tolerate her bad and inconsiderate behavior while you suffer in silence. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Towma(f): 8:57am On Aug 24, 2023 |
In Nigeria and Africa as a whole, women are taught to hide their sexual nature and be chaste, be pure, etc etc, while men can sleep around and be naturally polygamous. This unbalance will definitely mentally program both the men and women to feel sex is mostly of benefit to men. White women DO NOT act like this. Women in western countries like UK and USA are allowed to explore their sexuality and be expressive without being shamed. I visited a sex forum on reddit and the men were actually complaining that they were tired of sexual demands from their partners in the bedroom. I am not saying women should be promiscuous, just that there must be a balance for things to work and for sexual compatibility to be possible. Also OP, you mentioned that you cheated on her in the past and threw remote at her and she fainted, how have you been treating this woman in the past? Please tell the truth and don't tell only the side that paints her bad. Because I know as a woman if my man sleeps with another woman it will be impossible for me to sleep with him without imagining if this thing he is doing in the bedroom is not the exact thing he does with other women. I know society doesn't favor women when it comes to husbands cheating but it's actually VERY traumatizing to find out one's husband cheated. Women are not robots that were programmed to forgive infidelity, we have blood running through out veins. If your wife slept with another man I am sure the idea of sleeping with her after another man has been there will be very irritating to you, xbut women who are naturally more emotional and softer are expected to just swallow everything and move on because it's "natural". May men have come to the thread and given male point of view, let me give the female point of view. How has your treatment o her been, truly? Are you rude, neglectful? Do you beat her, do you embarrass her outside? When sex life was still a bit good, before the timetable phase, was she achieving orgasm or the sex was just all about satisfying yourself with her body? I am not accusing you of anything. Sorry that the situation got this bad, but please try and see if you have been not so good to her in the past Women naturally in the beginning stages of a relationship treat you how they WANT to be treated then as time goes on, they treat you how you treat them. Good luck, I hope you resolve your marital issues. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Please Who Knows The Answer To This Question? by Towma(f): 7:36pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Good day all, please I want to know if anyone has any information on where to do affordable CT scan and MRI scan in Abuja. It is extremely urgent please, help me with info if you know. Thank you and God bless. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 10:30am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Good morning all, please is any agency is carrying out underground recruitment presently? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Review Needed For AI Generated Image I Did For A Client by Towma(f): 7:07am On Aug 05, 2023 |
The first one is better, the orange color in the second one is too much, try changing the scarf color to something else. 8 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 2:16pm On Aug 02, 2023 |
Hello everyone, hope you are all doing well. Please anyone who can connect me to a good job please help me, I can pay with a percentage of my salary if I get the job for a period of time. Please help, the living situation in my family is not very good right now and me and my husband have received insults from people we asked for help in the past, including close family members. Please reach out and dm if you can assist me or even my spouse with a good job. Thank you. |
Family / Re: Will You Take Your Wife Back If She Cheats On You? by Towma(f): 9:32pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Uptheante:@bold, Still Typing with emotions. Oga I no follow you argue, I said just cheat on your wife and let her know then see what your marriage will turn to That's all. I didn't say she will divorce you or poison you, calm down. |
Family / Re: Will You Take Your Wife Back If She Cheats On You? by Towma(f): 7:26pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Uptheante: All this emotional response is not necessary. Try cheating on your wife then see the ugly turn your marriage takes even your wife doesn't leave you. It's not by making noise and bragging online. |
Health / Re: I Am Confused And Not Happy by Towma(f): 4:00pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Zulum: Please do giveaway for me, country is very hard abeg. 8029669133 Palmpay Thank you and May Allah grant you peace and happiness always. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 12:10am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Someone should pity me oo and help me with any govt jobs pls. I work in health field. Thank you |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 12:36am On Jul 21, 2023 |
Nwanyiogwashi: Please ma, abeg anything you can assist me with I need it. me and my kids are living hand to mouth. Please. Thank you. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 9:43am On Jul 13, 2023 |
worried222: Take it easy please,, nobody set out to be corrupt, the country forces people to act out of character. 4 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 9:17pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Insha Allah I too will secure good govt job before the end of this year. Amin. I won't lose hope 13 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Towma(f): 10:03am On May 27, 2023 |
Advision: This is actually very sensible advice, you should have talked your wife and told her to talk to her mom instead of letting your emotions take control and speaking rudely to an elderly person. You seem to get along very well with your wife for saying she is a sweet soul, why didnt you communicate with her instead of keeping grudges all these years and then blowing up on her mom? |
Family / Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by Towma(f): 1:41pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
She will still Harbour the resentment of all the years you treated her like crap and return that bad treatment to you, 10 Likes 8 Shares |
Family / Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by Towma(f): 1:27pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
MightySparrow: It will also be very bad to raise children in a home where the mother is always bitter and heartbroken because of her cheating husband. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Dad's Friend Willed 90% Of His Properties To His Daughters And Not His Son by Towma(f): 7:13pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: What Brings Out The Worst In People? by Towma(f): 10:10pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Power. Usually the type of power gotten from extreme wealth. 4 Likes |
Health / Re: Female Chorister Discovered To Be A Man After Death In Port Harcourt (Photos) by Towma(f): 10:32am On Feb 06, 2023 |
GerogeI: There is nothing like conflict between genitals and gender identity. Gender itself is binary, you are either a man or woman; either male or female. Now whether the male or female in question finds it easy to conform and adapt to societal stereotypes for males and females is another thing. A man might not like typical "male" activities like football or goofing around with the boys or whatever society attributes to males, that does not make the non conforming man a female, it simply means he is a man that does not fit societal stereotypes. Same goes for females. Transgenderism is nonsense. |
Health / Re: Female Chorister Discovered To Be A Man After Death In Port Harcourt (Photos) by Towma(f): 5:51am On Feb 06, 2023 |
A lot of people on this thread don't know the meaning of transgender. Why are many Nigerians so ignorant? Good God. Transgender individuals are not born as half man, half woman. They are born as the opposite sex and then decide to live life as another gender. Eg a man born completely as male with male parts, male voice, male physique etc, decides to start wearing female clothes and makeup and fake breasts to lok like a woman. That's a transgender. The ones that are born with both male and female parts are hemphrodites. Transgender are born 100% as male or as female. The ignorance on this thread is mind-blowing. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 9:25pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
Padosky242: They hardly do it. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Towma(f): 11:01am On Jan 18, 2023 |
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