spartan50:
What's all this.. mod please post reasonable things we don't need all this.

lol, why did u open it, at least there are other topics on the front page, I am sure u open this one b4 them

merieam16:
so er u sayin people born into poverty dont make it in life or becos dey er poor dey should die cos dey ve suddenly become an outcast?

exactly my point, look at China they are trying to depopulate by recommending at max of two children, in which their economy is even better than ours. Why must u bring children to suffer them. Life is short. To make it from scratch is not easy.

merieam16:
Okay buh d truth is d poor will always b among u. at least u helped out dat wat matters

You can choose 2 remain poor by nt doubling ur hustle buh der some people hustle or no hustle dey er destined 2 b poor.Not everytime u see a poor person nd u say he or she is lazy or hasnt taken steps buh time nd chance happen 2 dem all. They will still av 2 get married nd do wat oda people do cos dey are still humans


ti o ban ri se, ma se pe padi e lo lè

and give birth to the nuisance, robbers and kidnappers, which comes from inability to cater for there children. If you wan marry, that is good, but bringing children into precarious poverty. Is wickedness on the part of the children

anungangampu:


So true, she is looking for Love where there might be more pain.

material achievement is different from love. He needs someone that he can truly call his. If the rubbish step mother has truly shown motherly love to him. There won't be much pain looking for his mum

Godlovesyou28:
I type this with so much pain and sense of loss. I found out about two years ago that my step mum is not my real mum (everyone keeps wondering why am just waking up to the obvious).

I grew up being hated by my mum's (now step mum) family, usually beaten, overworked and deprived; but I was told that I was being trained to be strong since I was the first daughter by my mum (now step mum). At age seven I cooked all the meals except my (dads soups) and did all the cleaning. By age ten I cook every single meal at home, wash all the cloths and Iron, clean the house and run all the errands while my siblings both older and younger play and watch TV. I always felt my mum (step mum) will love me just a little bit more if I worked harder; she always told me I was special (and different) and that she loves me so much but does not know how to show it. . It hurt me deeply then that I was different so much so that its expression translated to pain; but that's in my past now and I have no regrets.

Fast forward, am all grown up and fully independent, then a distant relative I helped told me two years ago that my mum is not my real mum with facts. For me it was a relief (I thought there was something wrong with me that made me unloveable and to be treated different and given less, but I know better now). I am more confident knowing she never loved me and that it was no fault of mine.

Now, I just can't move on knowing I have a mother and I want to meet her and ask her questions (why she would dump her child for another woman to raise? Why she never came back to take me? Etc). And also if we could catch-up and be friends maybe.

The problem is that no one wants to tell me anything since most of my family members fear my dad and keep referring me back to my dad; I visited my dad and begged him to tell me who she is (I cried so much that he had to beg me to stop), he asked me to go so he can discuss it with my mum (step mum) but now shouts me down each time I bring up the topic.

I want to find my real mother . l don't know why I can't sleep or think about anything else. I need closure. I have been advised to sue my dad and am considering it. Please help me, I can't bear knowing I have a mother out there and not know who she is. Please help!

instead of going to court, get your Dad and ur fake mother pix here, and place some rewards on who can help u find. Believe me. Just a week u go find her

chii8:



Don't let the devil push you out of your settlement stage(celebration), endure a little more, ignore your sisters in law and keep on greeting your brother's wife.Infact in some occasion, buy the ladies little gifts or snacks and patiently wait for your final settlement day.(the more gifts you get them, the more you win your brother's heart).

u get grudges with someone, d next thing u buy gift, u fit collect such gift

RedPhoenix:



Stop being stupeeeeed

you are the more stupid here. The guy is saying the truth

Richie6:
How did we get ourselves into this mess?
Can't there be a realistic date?

wen you voted an illiterate bad luck, it is better to vote for naira Marley than voting buari

Omakraid:
Help me too, I'm a private school teacher. Good bless you

ladies are not inclusive. They naturally have other sources of income.

abobote:
Corona has come to stay, but it's not a death sentence. I just recovered from it, after taking some malaria drugs while isolating for about a week

na malaria u recovered from

nwosukingsley366:
my dad is not an ncdc official bt two of the people i know came bak from italy and start having the symptoms.. And died..

why did u say 4 before. Think next time b4 u lie. 2 people from Italy died, in your house. U can lie

IKUBABAYEYE001:


Why don't you take just 5mins to read through the piece and have a better understanding of the subject matter. That 5mins won't kill you pls

he understands than you do, osinbajo is ambiguous in his statements. Deduction from that epistle is that he is not pleased with the way the corruption is handled, but didn't want to be précised about it.

PresidencyRec:
Mediocre are now in charge of Nigeria, from the Buhari of this world, to the Ganduje of Dollarama to the Wike cultist in riverside, to the Tinubu the thuggish boy from iragbiji to Oshiomole the sura the tailor and many others and of course a Malami a corrupt impostor who would never have become a Lawyer if the academic system was functional
Mediocre are everywhere in Nigger Area

you are saying nothing but the truth. you forgot to add retired olosho of Minister of disaster and doom

nwosukingsley366:
honestly speaking covid-19 is real i have seen 4people who died of the virus

4people only u, not even contacted but death. Is either your Dad is NCDC official or you have problem

One0Random0Girl:
This is a really good and strong woman. I wish to be like her soon.

amen, I pray challenges in your journey of life will not later change u to olosho

Confirmedzombie:
Now we can all see why i have been clamouring for a Total lockdown.

I call on the FG to urgently enforce a TOTAL LOCKDOWN till further notice.

Let everyone begin now to stock their homes. There must also be a Total lockdown of the economy while we focus on defeating this virus.

The military must be deployed to enforce the total lockdown .

eleribu, lazy pikin

Ordinary to send transcript from unilag to ijebu ode. Since Jan 3rd, which country is this self

nwosukingsley366:
Corona virus is real i have seen 2 people who tested positive so those saying is not real better be careful and stay safe

u no get brain, 70% of people in Nigeria will be tested + because it is malaria like. We are only saying real corona is not in Nigeria. Not about their covid19 enabled testing machine. Be wise, do not move close to that their rubbish testing machine

richybanky:

At least their own face mask was under their neck, come to ibadan and you will be confused bcus nobody is putting on face mask to the extent that I keep questioning myself if coro is actually in Ibadan
May God help us bcus I don't even know what to believe again

corona is not in Nigeria, otherwise nobody suppose dey preach or encourage anyone to protect his/her self.they have dared coro for too long, and nobody is dying except the politicians. Except that the coro in Nigeria, is different from the one that massacred the hell out of Italians

Afospecialk:
Upon all the billions this man looted so you can send to all the 36 states nd fact?

What about our #500 billions you spent on cassava bread project that never produce a ordinary a loaf let alone bread.


Tell madam patient we are waiting for her own palliative package too bcs she also embezzled ad many as possible bcs all the billions EFCC confiscated are just chicken change compare to what you really looted

Theris God oo


Jonathan no feel send to Lagos ? You still tbh fear Tinubu ?

curse carrier

Emmalex65:
When will schools resume.because students are really tired of staying at home.corona virus abeg leave nigeria alone na.

is it in Nigeria b4

jarawa:


https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/flights-resumption-no-more-vip-consideration-at-airports-says-sirika.html

if you believe this, then u can believe anything just like believing corona in Nigeria. Corona is not yet in Nigeria

Confirmedzombie:
Now tell me why lockdown is not necessary. The virus is now spreading increasingly day by day.

I urge the FG to have a rethink and lockdown the country for Three months.

Reverse the lifting of interstate travel and close down all airports.

Shutdown all markets and places of wirship.

Everybody must stock their homes and not wait for pallatives

With this measures we shall defeat this virus.

lazy youth, shey anybody drag u commot for houz, las las na ur type corona dey kill

linearity:


Bros take a chill pile....

About 150,000 people died today world wide....more 90% of them were positive in their confessions and never wished to died.

The words from their mouth, their thoughts, etc was to live, but they still end up dead!

Now, if 90% who were positive end up dying, and only 10% who were negative died....by every scientific measures....it means, one stands the chance of survival if they are negative.

Am not in anyway saying that, been negative somehow makes one not to suddenly pass...am only bringing in stats to let you know that, the data did not back your conclusion....they even appear to contradict them.

funny, but intelligent stats. Help us work on covid19 stats in Nigeria, I am sure it won't be up to 10people that has it in Nigeria

LearnITsmash:
Very so we will cross the 100k mark and people will start dying like flees, ohhh well let me cross my legs and Wait for the impending doom

dying like flees on my foot, this shit they are testing is malaria, the real covid19 is not child's play. Covid19 In Nigeria is not up to 20.

Dudotessy21:
Hushpuppy people I hail ooo

fresh girl, DM, I want to tell u sth

Help him or leave him die. It is better than robbery, I will rather kill myself than robbing.

sammysage:
I can say I have suffered from depression most of my life. And speaking of life, I have never really had one.

I grew up in a strict family background, though from a broken home. I can't really say me being the way I am was the fault of my dad due to the fact that my other siblings turned out well.

I'm very quiet to a fault, don't talk much. Always prefer my own company. I always get jealous and feel bad when I see people around me flowing well with each other. I have tried to make friends to no avail.

I have never had a close friend. Although I have had series of romantic entanglements that never seemed to last more than months. My girlfriends always ends up leaving because they feel i don't love them or want them around. Which is most times not the case, I just have trouble expressing my love to them. I stopped dating for more than 8 years now, I have been single since then. I am 30 years old currently, yet I am still single. I have so far lost the courage to even walk up to a girl or maintain a conversation with a girl online.

I'm really depressed. I am all alone. I have no friends, no love. And no close family ties as I'm not close to my siblings. Nobody calls me or chat with me. I'm all alone.

I have no job, never had a job in fact. Graduated since 2014, yet no job. I always flop at the interview stage not for being incompetent but for the inability to express myself coherently. Speaking with people I don't know tends to make me uncomfortable, tense and twitchy. I really don't know what to do. I have mainly survived on freelance jobs online which really doesn't pay much, but enough for my low key lifestyle.

I am highly depressed and lately thoughts of just ending it all has been entering my mind. I have tried various self helps, but nothing seems to be working.

I really need a life, but I just don't know how to go about getting it. First I need advices. I need a job. I need friends, close friends I can mingle with. Friends willing to call and check up on me. Friends to motivate me when I'm down and depressed. Friends to drag me out of my shell and never give up on me.

I need people around me or else I might just get mowed down by depression and end it all. I know most of you here would say suicide is not the solution, yeah I know that...but sometimes it just feels so easy to just let it all go.

Please come to my rescue, I would really hate to follow that path.

P.S I need a job, where I won't be placed on the hot seat at the interview stage. I don't mind the pay. I just want something doing, something that takes me out of the house everyday. A job that keeps me so busy that I don't have the time to entertain suicidal thoughts. A job that gives me the opportunity to meet and mingle with people and with time help me pull out of my shell.

Please if you can help in any way, directly or through recommendations. It would go a long way. I'm Lagos based.

let me see your pix first, if you are too ugly, i can't relate with you, and If you are too handsome, I can't as well

jawalis:
This preshieben lady. I read a thread from you today crying you are single. I bet you won’t find a man who’ll stay in your life with this silly attitude of yours. You are too loosed and you talk too much. I wonder how rascal you’ll be in reality. And to those hoes saying rubbish about Nairaland men. No one cares about the fvck you feel, keep your feeling to yourself. Just because some silly guys are worshipping you hoes on Facebook, some foolish men are Licking your dirty ass on Twitter while some dance to your tone on Instagram doesn’t mean guys on Nairaland must do the same. We are wired differently. No lady here on Nairaland deserves to be respected.

ur head dey there. send your acct no

Abso1uteZero:
Your father is a nuisance

lol, girls saying you are nice, is not a complement, rather, a confirmation of your stupidity and foolishness

iTroll:
Lol
You're a prostitute already

lol

ReorxTohGan:
what's wrong in raising her,regardless of her having a man already??...at least if he had surplus,will he die if he gives her the money??..some guys and their stupid logics ehn!!

mugun, it is better to throw the money inside unilag lagoon, than giving some girls your money, at least both of them are waste