I have no idea why some guys cheat even when they've got a dream lady as a girlfriend?

Is it in the DNA or its a thing of Choice

I really doubt it that the rate at which ladies cheat is up to that of guys. Not sure of a certain though.

MAKES NO SENSE FINALLY SHA

This Year Nominees Happens To Be The Most Interesting For Me With Lots Of Deserving Artiste

WHO WOULD YOU RATHER VOTE FOR??


1. BEST RECORDING OF THE YEAR

A non-voting category for the best single recording by an artiste or group in the year under review.

1. Ojuelegba – Wizkid

2. Eyo – Asa

3. Wish Me Well – Timi Dakolo

4. Bez – There’s A Fire

5. Cobhams – Do the right Thing


2. PRODUCER OF THE YEAR

An individual responsible for producing the most acclaimed song or album in the year under review.

1. Don Jazzy – Godwin (Korede Bello)

2. Mastakraft – Wiser (Flavour)

3. Young John – Bobo (Olamide)

4. Shizzi – Fans Mi (DavidO)

5. Legendury Beatz – Ojuelegba

6. Cobhams – There’s A Fire (Bez)


3. BEST MUSIC VIDEO

A voting category for the best conceptualist, best directed and most exciting video in the year under review.

This award goes to the video director.

1. Jamb Question (Simi) – Mex

2. Crazy (Seyi Shay) – Meji Alabi

3. The Sound (DavidO Feat. Uhuru & Dj Buckz) – Sesan

4. Katapot (Reekado Banks) – UnLimited LA

5. Baby Jollof (Solid Star Feat. Tiwa Savage) – Clarence Peters


4. BEST R&B/POP ALBUM

A category for the best R&B/Pop Album in the year under review (by single individual or group).

1. Bed of Stone – Asa

2. A.Y.O. – Wizkid

3. King of Queens – Yemi Alade

4. Rich & Famous – Praiz

5. Double Trouble – Psquare


5. BEST R&B SINGLE

A category for the best R&B single in the year under review (by a single individual or group).

1. Heartbeat – Praiz

2. Baby Daddy – Iyanya

3. Say You Love Me – Leriq ft. Wizkid

4. Do the Right Thing – Cobhams Ft. Bez

5. Wish Me Well – Timi Dakolo


6. BEST POP SINGLE

A category for the best pop single in year under review (by single individual or group)

1. Ojuelegba – Wizkid

2. Collabo – P-Square Feat. Don Jazzy

3. My Woman, My Everything – Patoranking Feat. Wande Coal

4. Woju – Kiss Daniel

5. Godwin – Korede Bello

6. Bobo – Olamide


7. BEST REGGAE/DANCEHALL SINGLE

A category for the best Reggae/Dancehall single in the year under review (by single individual or group).

1. German Juice – Cynthia Morgan

2. Sanko – Timaya

3. My Body – Solid Star Feat. Timaya

4. Daniella Whyne – Patoranking

5. Cheques and Balance – Burna Boy

6. Bad Girl Special (Remix) – Mr. 2Kay feat. Cynthia Morgan & Seyi Shay


8. BEST RAP ALBUM

A Non-Voting Category for the Best Album By A Rap Artiste Or Group In Year Under Review.

1. Baba Hafusa – Reminisce

2. Street OT – Olamide

3. Chairman – M.I.

4. Above Ground Level – Modenine


9. BEST COLLABO

A voting category for the best R&B, Pop or Hip-hop collaborative track (including cameos).

1. Local Rapper – Reminisce Feat. Olamide & Phyno

2. Hold on – Joe El Feat. 2Face Idibia

3. Bad Girl Special (Remix) – Mr. 2Kay Feat. Cynthia Morgan & Seyi Shay

4. Shoki (Remix) – Lil’Kesh Feat. Olamide & David O

5. Do The right Thing – Cobhams ft. Bez

6. Sisi – Praiz ft. Wizkid




10. BEST RAP SINGLE

A voting category for a single (released on-air) recording of a rap.

1. King Kong – Vector

2. Bad Belle – M.I

3. Bank Alert – Ill Bliss

4. Local Rapper – Reminisce Feat. Olamide, Phyno & Stomrex

5. G.O.D – T.R




11. BEST VOCAL PERFORMANCE (MALE)

A non-voting category for the single male artiste with the most outstanding vocal performance on a single song or album.

1. Praiz – If I fall

2. Shaydee – High

3. Timi Dakolo – Wish Me Well

4. Cobhams – Do The Right Thing

5. Bez – There’s A Fire




12. BEST VOCAL PERFORMANCE (FEMALE)

A non-voting category for the single female artiste with most outstanding vocal performances on a single song or album.

1. Waje – Coco Baby

2. Aramide – Iwo Nikan

3. Asa – Bed of Stone

4. Simi – Tiff

5. Yemi Alade – Duro Timi



13. NEXT RATED

This category is a voting category for the most promising upcoming act in the year under review.

1. Reekado Bankz

2. Kiss Daniel

3. Cynthia Morgan

4. Korede Bello

5. Lil’ Kesh



14. HIP HOP WORLD REVELATION

A voting category for the best new artiste in the year under review.

1. Praiz – Rich n Famous

2. Yemi Alade – King of Queens

3. Skales – Man of the Year


15. LYRICIST ON THE ROLL

A non-voting category for the Rap Artiste with the best lyrical depth and performance on a single song or album.

1. Ill Bliss – Bank Alert (remix) Feat. Ice Prince, Eva Alordiah & Phyno

2. Vector – King Kong

3. Reminisce – Baba Hafusa

4. G.O.D – T.R



16. BEST STREET-HOP ARTISTE

A voting category for the artiste whose songs are inspired by the streets. Such song should captain lingua, which may also be originated by the artiste and popular on the street.

1. Reminisce – Skillashi

2. Olamide – Bobo

3. Small Doctor – Mosquito Killer

4. Mastakraft feat. Olamide, CDQ and David O – Indomie

5. Falz The Bad Guy Feat. Yemi Alade & Poe – Hello Bae


17. BEST ‘ALTERNATIVE’ SONG

A voting category for the artiste whose songs reflect any form or style of music which falls outside the mainstream of recent or past popular musical trends.

1. Di’Ja – Awwwwww

2. Bez – There’s A Fire

3. Asa – Satan Be Gone

4. Adekunle Gold – Sade

5. Ugovinna – Rain On Me

6. Simi – Tiff


18. ALBUM OF THE YEAR

A voting category for the best album (solo or group) in year under review, that meets judges requirements of excellence (Songwriting, production, rendition and promotion) and acceptability (Sales and popularity).

1. Rich n Famous – Praiz

2. King of Queens – Yemi Alade

3. Street OT – Olamide

4. Chairman – M.I.

5. A.Y.O. – Wizkid

6. Double Trouble – P Square


19. ARTISTE OF THE YEAR

Most critically and commercially adjudged artiste in the year under review. Overall most successful artiste for the year under review.

1. Olamide

2. David O

3. Wizkid

4. Yemi Alade

5. P-Square


20. SONG OF THE YEAR

A voting category for the most popular song in the year under review.

1. Ojuelegba – Wizkid

2. Godwin – Korede Bello

3. Kiss Daniel – Woju

4. Olamide – Bobo



 21. AFRICAN ARTISTE

A non-Nigerian award category for an individual African artiste or group with the most outstanding achievement, impact and infiltration into the Nigerian music scene in the year under review.

1. Diamond Platnumz

2. Cassper Nyovest

3. Sarkodie

4. Uhuru

5. AKA


Tunchi101

Adaeze003:


Have you been to lagos? Have you seen the number of startups that fold everyday??

Believe it or not, not everyone has the entrepreneurial spirit or should I say mind and giving someone 15m does not earn the person that. And need I remind you that some people actually work well under others? And in such people's hands, your 15m might go to waste?

Secondly, the husband giving 15m will not want her to grow a firm coz as we know, that will take even more time and there's allot of risk.

Now, the only sort of sure thing is trade. Buy stuff in bulk and retail and we know that's what the op is talking about and that's just as boring as my life can get ... I might just literally die of boredom...

And for those who work when their husbands are wealthy, it could be because it gives them satisfaction you know? Heck me sef, even if I marry dangote, I'll work oh... only maybe not under somebody sha. Believe it or not, being just someone's wife is not enough for some women. Hope I'm making sense?

Anyway, me I'll take your 15m oh! Provided you won't tell me what to do with it. Abi who no like better thing?

now you are making a whole lot of sense. More reason I'm giving would be giving a lady with brains ; whosoever she might be. A lady that can thrive

MrsPhyno:

Lol. But it's not an objective question at all tho. You can ask anyone "would u rather collect 15 million or ____", and no matter what fills in that blank, they would 9 times out of 10, take the money. Because it's free money and a lot of it.

That's why I find the question unrational, because your asking ppl to make an obvious choice. So the answer would not prove any point, is what I'm saying.

well, I myself know that most ladies would go for the money before posting it. If u look at the comments from some ladies, they maintained that they can't allow 4 years of their education waste cos of just 15million. It's not like I believe dem but it's possible. Not everyone is after d money dear

Now tell me how much more objective my question can be?

Diddyydiva:
Not everyone is business oriented gentleman, Giving your wife 15 million doesn't mean the business will be a success.

Moreover passion is one of the foundation success is built on.

if your wife lacks the passion for business and knowledge of it, don't blame her if the business fail.

well I understand you. We are all entitled to our views

Acidosis:
Any woman that rejects 15m in place of a white collar job would find it very difficult to make it in life. Such women are categorically, intellectually and perpetually lazy.

N15m is enough to build your white collar job (dream job). If you don't know what to do with N15m, then you shouldn't be hustling for any job at all cos you will kill and destroy the handiwork of your employer.

If you can't work with N15m, how then will you build someone else's business? Even if you work with a federal agency (level 8-9), you can't save N15m in 15 years assuming you save 40% of your income monthly.

Employers don't just employ people to sit their lazy asrses down and take selfies. You're employed to work, and make money for your employer.

NB: if her reason is based on lack of experience, no feasible business plan, or fear of failure, then an understanding husband would certainly see reasons with the wife.

Majority of career women whose husbands are very rich however only go to work to 'show face,' they spend more than they earn. They earn very little, but spend extravagantly from hubby's purse. Such women do not deserve any job. They do this to "belong" and escape (1) house chores (2) loneliness.

thank you my brother. Please tell all diz pretending ladies in d house

MrsPhyno:
OP can't ask a ridiculous question and expect a reasonable answer..... If 15million was offered to any person, in almost any scenario, they would very likely take it. Just because the sum of money is so great. So the question/comparison is unrealistic & silly.

Anyways, I agree with misspicy and Adaeze003. I want to work a "white collar job" and run a business, in fact work at my business (which wouldn't involve just selling things). A successful and happy career of one's choice is one of the main constituents of a satisfied life. People go to school, and when they're done, they get a job. Note I said people, not men. Being an entrepreneur is supposed to be abnormal, stop trying to pressure women into thinking it's the better choice.

lady, all diz ure write up ain't necessary. U over thinking it

The question is an objective question n I have no idea why d question is an unreasonable question to you I have my reason for asking the question I posted. So just don't jump into commenting on threads if you have issues comprehending or don’t know the person that posted it.

Thanks for your contribution anyways

Adaeze003:


I think the op would rather the woman set up a trade like cosmetic sales or something... you know, so she can have time for the home. He's forgetting that a some people can turn 15m to 150m or more, build a firm/company and be more busy than the average 9-5 woman.

what's wrong if she chooses to use d money I give her to establish a multi million naira cosmetics enterprise?? . U sure u know what you saying??

Adaeze003:


I think the op would rather the woman set up a trade like cosmetic sales or something... you know, so she can have time for the home. He's forgetting that a some people can turn 15m to 150m or more, build a firm/company and be more busy than the average 9-5 woman.

are you getting the point at all? Who is saying anything about time? I reserve my comments abeg

jackpot:
i like this, especially the last part. Evidence of the 15million before I crack my brain on this.

how am I supposed to do that??


You don't have to believe me dear. Just tell yourself there is no way I can have that

There is in fact no excuse to be poor if you've got the organ know as the BRAIN. MONEY happens to be the major precondition for ladies these days before they get into any RELATIONSHIP.

Some guys out there keep accusing such ladies as b*tches and all sort of names but I don't agree. What women want is comfort. Like they say these days, I'd rather be unhappy in my mansion . So guys, if she says she can't date you cause of your FINANCIAL INCAPACITY , please try and understand her by placing yourself in her shoes.


However, there is something more valuable than money that is capable of making any reasonable lady fall hopelessly in love with you Are you ready?......its called VISION

Any male with VISION and the BOLDNESS to pursue that VISION automatically possesses the dexterity to command massive wealth. It's rather unfortunate that most people don't know what they want from life while some are afraid of going after it.

Women are attracted to men who have got VISION and the BOLDNESS to pursue that VISION.

SO, FOR THOSE WHO ARE INCAPACITATED BY FINANCIAL UNAVAILABILITY AND LACK VISION AT THE SAME TIME, I'M SORRY BUT YOU DON'T DESERVE A P*NIS


Tunchi101 Says So.

misspicy:

common stop parambulating and acting like you don't get my point,am sure you did,you just want to lenghten your thread.
i have been repeating myself that doing white collar job is not neccesarily about the money,its is more about what makes one happy,some ladies love to give care to sick ones,they become doctors,some ladies love to build,they become engineers and so on and so forth,right from childhood,we ask children,what they wish to become,are you telling me that if your female child wants to become a doctor,you will not train her? will you unschool her just because you expect her husband to set her up in business because female should not be career minded?



btw read my first post where cutehector asked for my opinion and stop defending your insecurities,its not as if you have the 15million

. 'its not as if you have the 15million Seriously?

My dear, you win.

misspicy:

a whole lot of people will work a white collar job even if its not their father's company
you refuse to understand working is not always about the money,its about what you enjoy doing,what you feel fulfilled about

#fact

i type from realities,i don't just think up.stories

so it's me that think up stories??

Ladies born with silver spoon have got the money already. I'm talking about ladies below average which constitutes the majority.

Be realistic girl. Nobody is going to judge you. You allowing you hubby establishing you doesn't make you any less the fine lady you are

Estharfabian:
I totally get You...

Buh Some guys could Start feeling Highly of 'emslelves simply because they Know U Eat, drink, live from the hands....
These things could get Really Messy when They quarrel or something...

I for one Wouldn't Like To depend on Anyone for anything...

Uh,...Bout the Business stuff...I don't wanna ever venture into Business.... So, if I eventually Get the 15million? I'd Spend everything!

. you serious?

Well it's possible sha

misspicy:

Do you have this 15million you are talking about?

and yes a lot of women will turn it down,not everybody came from an humble family you know,some were born with a silver spoon so they don't even want money just the satisfaction derived from their white collar job

It's not moral to discuss how much money I've got dear

how many percent of d people born with silver spoon would even wanna work a white collar job.

Unless they are taking over their fathers company or something.

Estharfabian:
If it's not 15 million every Day....He should Go And sit down!


So, I wasted my Time in school, just yo come and collect Pocket ;money from one Husby? mbanu! I'm working my butt off too!!

So, he Won't start feeling Some typah way..."I own You" "I Own Your car" "I own Everything bout U"! Tufiakwa!!!

come to think of it sef,u real funny girl. 'if he is not ready to pay 15million every day, he should go and sit down

I pray you make it in life and find a husband with liberal views

Rone16:


Cardiothoracic surgeon or/and minister of health in this country.Not sure yet though

sounds interesting but I still don't believe you would turn down 15 million to establish yourself

Estharfabian:
If it's not 15 million every Day....He should Go And sit down!


So, I wasted my Time in school, just yo come and collect Pocket ;money from one Husby? mbanu! I'm working my butt off too!!

So, he Won't start feeling Some typah way..."I own You" "I Own Your car" "I own Everything bout U"! Tufiakwa!!!

a man that really loves a woman wouldn't be like that and by d way, if a lady is really industrious, with 10million she can make some really big in less than two years.

Don't forget that d husband is giving d money to his wifey not borrowing her to use to establish a business for him.

If she likes, let her seek a divorce a week later, it's up to her

misspicy:

This i would never agree with and I think you are begining to come clear as another chauvinistic man i have always agitated against.


women are suited for anything they want to be,be it engineering,banking,medicine etc,been a career woman is an added advantage,it gives confidence,ones choice of making money is a matter of satisfaction not what a gender is suited for or not.

infact me been a business woman is not your usual selling of wares or foodstuff,am a producer,a processor,and its a business i enjoy doing.


well like you said its your opinion which matters only to the an in your life since your opinion does not work for all men ans women

And my dear,lets be honest, I really doubt it that any lady would turn down 15 million I offer her for business to some salary job.

Just being honest

misspicy:

This i would never agree with and I think you are begining to come clear as another chauvinistic man i have always agitated against.


women are suited for anything they want to be,be it engineering,banking,medicine etc,been a career woman is an added advantage,it gives confidence,ones choice of making money is a matter of satisfaction not what a gender is suited for or not.

infact me been a business woman is not your usual selling of wares or foodstuff,am a producer,a processor,and its a business i enjoy doing.


well like you said its your opinion which matters only to the an in your life since your opinion does not work for all men ans women

yeah. It is my opinion not a fact.

Xslaze3xd:
Today is My Birthday
Show me love

happy birthday man. Wish you many more years to come

Rone16:
White collar dream

permit me to ask. What is your white collar dream

sinaj:
yea

Will love to practice as a full time Psychologist

you want to be shrinking your hubby abi?

It's your choice anyways. But don't forget dat it easier said than done

misspicy:

its not a matter of being honest or not,its what they want,some women wants to be a career office women while some wants to venture into business not because they did not go to school,but because they excel in business,its all about making money and the satisfaction one gets from following your dreams

Besides my course of study is more of a practical thing like business hence my passion for business,and i love to be my own boss,set my own time and work at my comfort.

it is of my opinion that women are more suited for business ventures

sinaj:
Office job of my dream

seriously?

misspicy:

lol,so you are through with your woman wrappering





well to your question,am more of a business oriented person,i love to be in charge of money making venture,so i will rather go for the 15million setup,use it,make my profits and return the capital to my husband,so the business can be solely mine,we all need someone to get up there,if it comes in the form of a husband,why not?

at least you are being honest unlike the ladies in https://www.nairaland.com/2824934/guywould-allow-wife-work-white

JudgementHammer:

How many hubby can afford 15million op. Be real. Except he's a big daddy who married a young wife

Bro, for me, a man that is ready for marriage should be able to afford that if he has got vision.

Even if he can't, d questions still stands. Would women allow their hubby establish em with a tangible amount of money??

Ladies this century have got different white collar dreams; and some of them have even said that they would allow their hubby deter them from their white collar dream just because he wants to establish them.

Now I am being more specific. So I want the honest ladies in the house to turn up

WOULD YOU ALLOW YOUR HUSBAND ESTABLISH YOU WITH 15 MILLION OR GO AFTER YOUR WHITE COLLAR DREAM??

Adanna28:
It depends some girls smell fishy down there, I don't blame the guy if he makes excuses not to eat it.

Vice versa some guys may smell or get so excited want her to swallow but his cum makes her want to gag Lol.

I personally see nothing wrong with mouth action down under as long as we are both fresh n clean downstairs.

daretodiffer:


Okay

You are still going to have issues with it

All I want you to know if that you can't stop her from cheating.

like I said, it's a free world. Two can play d game

daretodiffer:


Doubt?

Your are already thinking about it

Small thing now.... You start feeling uneasy... You start with the usual false allegations

I happen to be a very liberal person.

White collar job isn't my first choice ;dat doesn't mean I won't subscribe to it if it's what she desires

daretodiffer:

How can you plan to limit another human being because of your own psychological problem?

Do you really think that would stop her from cheating or getting hit on? What will you do if men still come after her? Put her in purdah? How on earth would a sane and confident woman respect and adore a man with trust issues?

You will find your type of woman sha

easy ehnn.. I never said I was going to stop her if it's what she really wants. All I said is dat I doubt it. Who I'm I to limit a human? It's a free world after all