Hmmm.

If it was last week, I probably would have been your customer. But you see, I've come to a better understanding that anything I dream about and don't understand I speak some tongues over them and go my way. I'm not the one that wakes myself up from sleep everyday after all.



God is the greatest!!!!

This is what church and Christianity is all about.

But wait, why is it only the Christian organizations that have been donating. I know we have 3 major religions in Nigeria. Christianity, Islam, and Tradition. I've not seen any Islamic body or any Traditionalists donating anything. As it is now, I'm sure if babalawo offers some people yams and chicken they would collect. Hunger is real

Xcelinteriors:

Please tell me the things to tell him because I don't know. I really plan to flog that stupid feeling away from him when we get home

Huh? Flog him that what happened? You really need orientation o madam.

She followed big dick and sweet mouth. As you lay your bed so you lie on it. You ma sef try hustle.

You copied this from facebook. Why?

Jesus. You did the right thing. For your sanity.

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

You did well

No. Just try to marry right. Okay?

We are not witches and wizards my sister. How I want take know that one?

saintandsinnerz:

That a good number of people liked your post clearly proved to me that many people on this forum are deluded. For a start, how do you come to the conclusions conclusion that she foots all the bills? She clearly stated that the man pays the house rent and their children school fees.
More worrisome was also the fact that you passed judgement on this man without getting his own side of the story.
Woman, your advice is devilish and will not be of any help in this current situation.

I wanted to Waka pass but you see ehn, the only deluded person on this thread is YOU. This woman posted her story some days ago and I gave my own opinion and you came here talking about likes and judgement. You are the judgemental person here calling my advice devilish. As in assistant angel Michael that you are right? How was I to know it would hit front page some days later? Ehn? You need help.

Even me sef dey speechless for this matter. Let me wait for others to come

FX:
I dont think u read d story properly. The man pays the house rent and also children school fees. My advice is that the man should travel out and come home once in a while to visit. They should give each other some space. Life is too short to be living angrily everyday.

I did. My annoyance is more with the lack of appreciation and bullying from the man.

verifiedlegacy:


pls OP. reject and unfollow this advice...na them

some of them suffers most in their own marriages but wil come and give u advice..

I have a married friend who was giving advice to another woman on howcto handle her husband..( I was inside a house wit tainted window.) so they didn't see me.. but this so called adviser is living in hell in her home.. but she was dishing puna for another..


OP.. pray
say I'm sorry just for peace to reign.
what ur husband is doing is wrong but we live in a Man's society.. where a man can cheat, but if a woman does it,village people wil b involved.

try and make that marriage work.. u r no alone in this kinda situation.

I'm not suffering in my marriage sweetie. It's not everyone that will pass through hell before going to heaven. For some of us its from heaven to higher heavens. I'm only advising her based on what she said. I didn't ask her to leave or disrespect her husband. I'm only looking out for her because:
1. There's some kind of comfort and assurance your savings gives. It takes away a certain level of worrying and pressure because you know there's something somewhere you can fall back on no matter what. (20%)
2. She needs to look after herself. In order to stay sane live a happy and healthy life first your inner man needs to be fed. How do you do that? Your self esteem and self worth level should be above average so you can even think well and make more money. (20%)
3. In no part of my post did I compare her marriage to mine. I only told her my reasons from shying away from people who claim to be very spiritual based on my personal experiences as a growing child in the church.
4. As a good citizen of the country, all you needed to do is walk past my post and give her your own advice. She's an adult and can differentiate weed from plant. No one expects her to take all the advice given here.
5. When next you decide to quote any of my posts, spell your words completely. Abbreviations give me headaches.
6. Thank you.

tunjilana:


What if he comes back too that his own salary has been reduced by half.

See the issue here is lack of appreciation on both side and serious financial tension cos they have bitten more than they should (4 kids at this time)

They both need to come clean on their earnings, plan their finances and draw up a budget that is optimal while they plan to invest the rest

Hanky Panky is not what us needed now...she stillhas the mindset that she is doing too much...yes compared to the income it is a lot but compared to the size of their family, it is what needs to be done...the man is also groaning under the weight of paying fees for 4 kids and rent. The only way to appreciate each other and lovingly improve their situation is via openness and budgeting to see where their funds go and who does what.

I believe the countenance of both parties will change once this oneness is achieved and they will grow faster

Toh. They need an extra source of income

igbowoman:


Lying and paying tithes
No to those 2 actions @ poster
Why should she lie
.If rapture happens in her lying state will you comfort her in hell?
Poster do you and dont lie about it.
Dont pay any tithes either you dont owe God any tithes.
Give as u are able

Toh. I hear you. May God forgive our iniquities. Amen.

don4real18:

Because, I don't concur with your advice.

It's my own opinion and not a must she should take it. I didn't claim to know everything.

sukieboy:


Paying tithe but also lying to your husband. Is this Christianity ? Too many fake people in the church today.

Claims to be born again but maltreating his wife. Since my advice is not good please give her your own. We are all hear to learn. Thanks.

Jellia:



I am sure you have a perfect definition of the "BROTHER " you are talking about. It will be great if we don't use conductive reasoning whenever we are analysing a population. It's not fair.

Did you or did you not see quotation marks?

don4real18:

Are you married?

Yes. Why?

Both you and your wife are funny people

Does she work? Be sincere. Just forget all these people on nairaland who badmouth the op instead of giving advice. If she doesnt, try to get her a teaching job in a govt school (govt worker things) she would thrive well there. I didn't say private because her loquacious nature might bring more harm than good, individual business owners are not so patient with their employers but the government sector will give her all the opportunity to do her job, jist as much as she wants, keep her busy plus steady income. She will also learn from her colleagues because in as much as people think teachers no hold level, na lie. You need to see the competition there. No one will tell her to step up her game.

Ogbo2020:
I WANT TO END MY LIFE.




LIFE HAS BECOME UNBEARABLE.

Okay. But before you do that. Kindly explain why though... At least we deserve to reason with you.

Why should anyone even think of that arrangement. One bedroom apartment? With a single man? You're trying to dress up and he barges in. Hehe. Okay

Chai. It not her fault. Guess she grew up in a communal household. E go hard to change that kain person o.

They should eat together. That way oil go enter everybody belle

Nothing actually because I no get shame

I'm hearing this for the first time. If it really happens then let's say they have poor orientation.

I'm finding it difficult to understand you. Please stop the abbreviations

You can always share things. Thank God Ileya is coming, use the opportunity to gift the family some supplies. Make sure it's something that can be used by the whole family so her husband doesn't feel some certain kind of way.



Omo world Don spoil. Gone are the days when uncle and aunty neighbour buys things for everyone in the compound and we the kids stretch our long throat

Lalalistical I got banned on this thread yesterday and got released today. Please is there a reason for that? I need to understand what crietrias you use to ban forum members. I wasn't fighting anyone.