Sikay19:

Oh my Africans. Large percentage of our problems lives within us. Heart is desperately wicked. As in how could a sane person perpetrates such maleficient act. Our leaders are just direct reflections of who we are. Spits!

Only this God I worship in heaven will bless you, thesame thing in recount endlessly, people don't understand!!! We are so wicked and mean set of people!!! So so wicked!!! I never see

onlinetomola:
Thats Sildenafil by generic name. Its a man power drug (Sex enhancer for men). The brands names could be Vega100, Vira, Tildenafil and e.t.c. That cant be viagra because viagra does not contain sildenafil but it contains a stronger active ingredient.

Why the mention sir? This is very uncalled for please!!! Stop disturbing me!!!

namiji2598:
Nigeria should be handed back to the British

We just can't rule ourselves , even British no go gree take, na unnecessary headache

fiercehillz:
You will soon graduate from people's girlfriends to people's wives...I guess you are using your financial status to entice them or maybe you are taking advantage of girls with relationship issues. I know how sweet it gets when you know you the baddest baddoo in town.


Drop this mindset...it will help you in the long run.

Try finding someone you naturally respect and start something decent with her...channel your energy to more productive things.

Thanks bro, am advice I'll keep to heart, I appreciate.

sauceEEP:
No be apostle aka paulkillerman be this, the Viagra master.....the earlier you put an end to the use of Viagra the better for you.

okay, thanks sir

oglalasioux:
I had a friend like you. While we were all in the peak of our youth he had no girlfriend; he was busy with other peoples' girlfriends and in the final straw, someone's else's fiancée. When the girl's fiancé found out, they broke up.

Crestfallen, the girl forced my loin hot friend to marry her. Marriage happened and the table turned; former fiancée and fiancé made up in secret and are still fvcking more than 15 years after the incidence.

Watch out, son.

The title of that movie is "When the table turn around" I saw it last year october!!! Nollywood!. Thanks for reminding me

Lucid1:
Keep at it.

thanks boss!!!

DoubleEngine007:
Dem don pack more for fridge ,but manage that one bottle below first my brother... He is dealing with commercialized and uncommercialized oloshos claiming to be in serious relationship.. Op with your money,you choose to become a side Dick,that's not very nice na.. I just feel such indecent girls aren't worthy of even seeing my d*ck ,not to talk of feeling it .. One man's food is another man's poison anyways.. Op keep doing it,till them bad boys catch you with their gutter (girlfriends).. If you survive am,u go stop hoeing by force...

that will never happen.

WilliamsTheGrea:
Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old

I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)

We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.

Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.

Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own

My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.


My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.

I don't know what to do.

Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.

She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.

I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.

Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father

I'm not comfortable in my own home.

A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign

Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.

Please I need matured advice

brother, I'll advice you to leave that girl. I'm a man of advanced age, and will advice you from the best of experience I have gathered over the years... LEAVE THAT GIRL.
You will always remember this thing I wrote here...

decatalyst:


I hope you are also getting interested in seeing your blood flow like river after deep matchet cut or gun shot?

You are not getting interested in things that brings honour to your family name, things that takes you above poverty, or things that glorify God's name, nah way of destruction dey interest you.


You even have the effrontery to come to cyber space to show case how perverse you are.

We are in trouble in this country! A youth of 30yrs that is supposed to be preoccupied with securing a great future for himself and the Nation is only interested in straffing other people's GF and probably wife

I am very secured financially, that's the least of my problem! And I don't force the girls, they come to me, their BF will never find out, it's just sex, I don't call or disturb them, neither do I big their phones!!! Just our underG things... I just like it that way, as we are sure no commitment.

Mymynd4u:


Thank God I gat no gf now.. My mind is at rest now, no cause for alarmu

I thank God for you too bro!!

saucerence:
Bro Bleep anything way come ur way if the ladies cannot keep their legs it show even if u re ready to settle now na still some kind loose girl fit come ur way........ njoy ur life see our musicians and their bby mama , some ladies re comfortable spreading their legs than thinking of a future right now# sweet in the middle

True, thank you!!! Appreciate.

concept65:
You just enjoy being a side bìtch for now - nothing wrong with that - just enjoy yourself. Time will come when you feel like committing/settling down - you will also act accordingly when that time comes. I see no issue here

I feel like that now, but cant really see anyone that suits me... not one.

damosade:
Go and marry and give your life to Christ..

Life is Short hell is real, heaven is also.

I am too old for fantasies, I deal with reality not wishful thinking!!!

Hi, I'm a man in my thirties, not into any concrete relationship, not seeking any commitment... I'm getting more interested in fvcking other peoples GF, or just flings, nothing concrete..
I am very well financially stable!!! So that's far from the problem.

How can you help me please..

I need good comments. I want to get settled.

300k! Cash at hand

Strongmercy123:
Good evenin everyone. Pls I need a word of wisdom and advice from matured minds here. I’m 28 yrs I will be 29 in 2days.

I feel I’m about to make a life mistake. I have been dating my bf for 10yrs now, yes I was young and independent as at that time, the love was so sweet that we could do anything for each other. My bf left the country 5yrs ago and since then it has been long distance relationships, our communication was good.

He visited Nigeria December last yr and left the first week of January. He Begged me to wait for him again and I agreed. I’m currently pregnant and I’m scared to keep the baby, I spoke to him about it and he was happy.

Recently he is complaining of not having money and all. he has suddenly change with the way he talk to me and he doesn’t even have plans for me. He hardly calls and hardly pick my calls. I have tried to talk to him about his recent attitude and he will always end up calling me nag.

I’m thinking about going for abortion but I don’t know if it’s a great choice. He is 34yrs, pls I need advice.

If u know what's best for you and your life, better abort that baby before it gets late, being a single mother is one very challenging business I believe u will not want to venture, especially in a place like Africa... to even see a stable date as a single mum is further compounding, everybody just wanna fork u and leave. Use sense so u don't get to regret it..
If u decide to go ahead, that's fine, but I can assure you, you will live to always remember this things I wrote here. All the best.

timesup234:
Lies! These are casualties from the Iranian missiles strike. America can only brainwash fools. They will never admit they were defeated by Iran

Brainless idiot

COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

God bless you bro, run for your life if u like yourself.

She has a problem u cant solve, that isn't your call, you will see a better person...

Lamanii22:
Hmmm... Where/how do people meet or find abroad husband lol..

Have you ever met this lady in person before?

I'm an abroad husband, u have seen one.

ekestic1976:
"Half the story has not been told"!

You are the only sensible person on this front page. Without hearing from the other party, I can swear with My Life, that this NEVER happened this way, I Can Swear with everything in me, that it NEVER happened.
The way people come online to write nonsense and discredit people is terrible, why are we like this?

I work in a hospital, and I particularly know how this nurses (especially the older ones) could be so mean, arrogant, insolent and violent with doctors (especially the junior ones) perhaps the believe that this one na small pikin, and they treat them with utmost disrespect.
This NEVER happened! A house officer, will never assault an ACNO, despite what this doctors face, I have never seen a case where any of them went physical. In most cases, those older nurses know many people in high powers, so the younger doctors stand no chance.
It just pains me so much what was written here, it's really hurtful. I understand the whole scenario and it's not alright when people distort a story against other people.

The story of slapping her for asking to document for not catheterizing a patient is even stupid, follow a HO outside to tell him how documentation is important, that will NEVER happen with those nurses. If them no use mouth finish u for patient front.

Please stop all this nonsense of tarnishing people's name, please, it's unfair.

Simplyleo:
So who are they guarding him against?

Okay, now that he has foreign body guards, can he now come to Nigeria along with them for his father's burial?

She does, I'll choose her over Tiwa

why is she beating the girl. Hope they get expelled soon sha??

Leonardemma1:




u wont regret watching Ozark nd breaking bad

lol, thesame was said for the previous ones I downloaded, now the guy that recommended them has disappeared

Ay04z:
See question. No wait till u earning. 500k.come see people wey dey earn 20k or 15 self dey get married

wahala dey this country oh!!! Kai, that's about 30 pounds!!! I mad...

virgoquin:
If you had stayed on your own and minded your business you will not be in this mess now.

It is not everyone you see that you will try to strike a conversation with. Sometimes you just have to watch some people from afar.

She wasn't interested in what you were saying but you kept forcing the conversation to take place.

But the two of you do not have any personal relationship before so what pushed you to put your hands on her shoulder, na from clap dance dey take start

My sister, I just tire for the guy, him preek just stand him dey find where to chook am, u asked someone to rest and join you to eat, she no agree... u asked again, she no agree... u still ask again, she no gree!!! And u proceeded to grab her to join u, someone u don't know, seeing for the first time, no relationship whatsoever!!!! Haba, even person when dey sell mama put no dey force people to come chop like that. See wahala... sex starved nigga, got served and he came to Naira land to cry!!! Hahahaha yeye man

djon78:





Men the thing tire me. The wife has no reason to disrespect his mother. It's an aberration.
The op allowed it from the beginning, he should have called his wife to order.
Imagine the issue on the wedding.
It's her sons wedding, she has a right for her guests to be on the list.

This issue always arises in today's marriages, but a man is meant to draw line in the sand right from beginning.
It should have been :
Wife never insult, quarell my mom, then mum don't make trouble with my wife, respect her for me. You protect your wife but on no account should she disrespect your mom, then when your mom falls out of line, deal with it not your wife openly showing disdain for your mom.

Shebi you guys have a son now, when the time comes, your sons wife will repay back her attitude. Karma doesn't make mistakes at all

My brother this thing just dey vex me eh!!! This OP @E685, e just dey hungry me to shoot the mumu guy with gun make him die, what kind of weak asshole is this. If I succeed shoot the idiot I'll be very happy, as I'm sure the world has been rid of one less idiot.

**spit on you wimp nigga*** tufiakwa!!!

Candiesramah:
It's this your wife that will kill you. It's like once some of you men get married, you trade your sense of reasoning along the way. Just imagine the nonsense you defended. What was wrong in your mum requesting an addition in your wedding guest list? Would that your wife have rejected it if it had come from her mother? She should be happy she got a good mother-in-law willing to make things work out, else, she would have been shown what's like to have issues with mothers-in-law. I don't blame her sha, it's you I blame.

My brother!!! I just tire as I dey read the trash... people really foolish sha!!! I tell u, u can imagine... girl wanting you to choose sides between his mum and her? Who born her? Would that his yeye wife be with him if not for who his mum made him to be People mumu sha!!!

If na me, that stupid wife for dey her mama house dey cool of by now, I for don marry another wife that will be willing to see my mum as hers... rubbish idiotic fools everywhere online...mtcheeeew!!!

E685:
My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.

Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.

Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.

Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.

Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.

This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.

And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.

So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it.

What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Bros, u better use your tongue to count your teeth, u can have another wife tomorrow, but you can never have another mother.... think, think and think again...
I couldn't even finish reading the trash I'm seeing... any wife that refused to see my mum as hers and being stupid and disrespectful to my mum, wanting me to choose sides, will definitely land where she belongs (in her fathers house) rubbish...

Reading all this foolishness online just annoys me. Nonsense.

Them done come with calling foolish movies now!!! Mtcheew

sleemoon:


check Homeland...u won't be disappointed

are u sure bro? I don't want to be downcast after wasting over an hour on rubbish...

When I mean interesting, I mean something really captivating and death taking...

When his case ends, I'll start mine, I'll sue them for not providing women for me after I finish watching clips there making me rock hard to no avail..

DSHADOWWALKER:






24 is ur solution,you can try OZ too

yeah, have seen 24, it is a classic!!!

Riele:
Brace up , it's a long post on Men's wickedness




Today , I made up my mind to get a national ID card even though , it was no longer a requirement for Jamb registration .

When I got to the Secretariat , I met other individuals who also came for Registration , I took out a sit and waited for a form to be given to me .

While filling the form I was given , a girl my age came to sit beside me , and since I was bored , we started a conversation .

During the course of our discussion , I found out she had registered but the man in charge had refused to give her the ID . According to her , he keeps telling her to wait .

I felt bad for her because , she was one of the first set to register , I even tried helping by reminding the Oga in charge that she was yet to get her ID , the man's body language made me suspect his intentions .

After the registration , the Oga cornered me to a corner and ask me to settle him , we know the usual trend !

I did settle him even tho I read the big poster in Front of his office which says registration for National ID was free .

I met the girl standing outside obviously waiting for me , I enquired about her sudden decision to go home without taking her card .

And with tears in her eyes , she told me the man wanted something special from her and you'll know what it is .

She doesn't know what to do , her parents aren't too educated to understand the usefulness of an ID and so she considers forgetting about the Whole ID card stuff .

I'm so angry right now for two reasons .

First , for agreeing to offer some money to the Oga that has a sweet Jeep outside his office for a service that was made free by the Government.

And secondly , for his evil intentions towards a girl probably his daughter's age .

Like , why are men this way ??

I won't let this slide away , this is corruption Buhari was referring to .

As an ICPC member , this Oga must eat his humble pie .

This wickedness must end

Men , when will you all stop this nonsense .?

it's not about men it's about Nigerians and our terrible attitude, that is what is killing the Nigeria we keep talking about everyday!!! Everybody want you to oil their back before you do the Job u are paid to do, how do we think a couple try like that will function... absolute stupidity... it's just a reflection of who we are.

What u should do please take the case and go and broadcast it in a radio station, the girl should call the man, play along, record his evil intentions and mess him up... that's what you should do.

We are yet to understand it is our collective wickedness and selfishness that is keeping Nigeria the way it is , and that is the major problem I see...

Rights activist madam Ankio Briggs reacts to the viral video of Rivers governor, Nyesom Wike, insulting traditional rulers in a meeting he called that was held at the government house in Pprt Harcourt, the Rivers state capital.

In my opinion, Madam Ankio was spot on, hit the nail on the head and could never be more correct than she was. Well done madam.


Link to the video below

https://www.facebook.com/AnnkioBriggs98/videos/2613175065636398/