Pancakeey:

Occupy yourself with other things

like what please?

Pancakeey:

Oh that’s nice, that means you’re not in your pubescent years

yes please

Yellowblack:
Fasting nd praying..

Thank me later

thank you. It comes back when I'm idle

Pancakeey:

If I’m not mistaken, from what I read he thinks about sex only when idle. Not that he thinks of it every time
So yes he has control but not full control of it. And i bet he just started getting these fantasies.
You can’t tell me he just began puberty. Pleaseee
Have sex or get busy it’s easy as that.

And oh, I do have common sense. That’s why I’ll always call a spade a spade.

thank you

Chikarata2020:
How often do u masturbate, sometimes it can help relief sexual tension. But if u can get an understanding girl that's the best

one or twice a month, I have a gf

Pancakeey:

Lol my bad. The OP never mentioned if he was in his pubescent years or not.

Lol so what’s the assurance that if he haves sex at a later time he won’t be an addict??
I don’t know why people sugar coat things here

I'll be 25 by December

Pancakeey:
Just have sex and get it off your mind abeg

Why do we make things always seem difficult when there’s a solution?

and what happens when I'm not having it?

nwaezeemmanuel:
First, don't beat yourself up. Sexual urge is normal and thoughts of it will come.

Here is what works for me though.

I talk to people around me, and try to come out of my private space (usually my room). Loneliness can be your enemy.

If i must engage in anything else, it is usually something i enjoy. Reading won't take your mind off it if you don't love reading.

There is no hack, you will always have to put in effort. If a lady catches your eye, try not to stare. I also try to burn myself out by exercising and watching movies - that way my body goes to rest faster, giving me less time for my mind to wander.

thank you

DesignAssasin:
I actually feel you bro. But in my opinion, try not to really think about it but make sure you get a stable girlfriend that actually understands you in every aspect, a girl that if eventually she gets pregnant for you, you can take her home to your parents, a girl that is worthy of been a mother of your children and a wife you can be proud of, then go ahead.


However please, f*CK responsibly.

thank you, so much appreciate

J111333:
You don't need distractions, just some thoughts.

Some of us just remember that Mark Zuckerberg na just few months he take senior us. As soon as this crosses my mind, I go just wan kill anybody wey talk about useless things such as sex for my side.

lol, wouldn't this make it worse

ReluctantAdult:

No. I will make you see sex is overrated so you can focus on something else.

thanks for your input

Cutehector:
lmao... Getting caught will


try and think outside the box son.

thank you

21cents:
it's normal due to your raging hormones cos I believe you're still below 25. all those craze for sex reduces as you age and you'd notice a drop in libido towards your 30's. just thread carefully and try to engage yourself in something and try not to stay alone. it helps.

thank you

Cutehector:
Try having sex alot of times.

if you fantasize about stealing, would stealing a lot of times make it stop?

ReluctantAdult:
Go have sex then. Have lots of sex until it becomes trivial to you.

won't this make it worse?

sissoko89:
I doubt if this helps

games might help for a while, because my mind is occupied, but I can't be playing games all day

sissoko89:
Op just go n marry

remember the problem is always thinking about sex

Temmylee01:
Shooooooooooots!!!!!!!

Issokay.
Try and get like 10k find closest bet9ja shop to you and ask the cashier to punt visual games for you at the rate of #500 each tickets believe me in six months you won't like or think of puna.

I don't see how this helps

CoderX:
The best way is to pray and stay busy at all times. Once the mind is idle, bad thoughts aren't far away...

Make sure you avoid idleness by all means and also avoid movies and music with sexual contents, those ones are the subtle agents of sexual thoughts.

thank you, I appreciate it

Warlord2014:

Stop watching pornograph***

I don't

Uzomacharles:
Play games and listen to music man

Thank you, I do this a lot, but like I said once I'm off, it happens

I'll appreciate your inputs..

Lalasticlala
Seun
Please front page..

I need more answers

I need help!

.

bigjackass:
neither will short sightedness get you anywhere

seems you're ravenous...

REST!

bigjackass:
see them
Y'all don't even know what she looks like, whether she's albino , midget , anorexic or baby whale. You want to marry her because she talks tech

body shaming Will get you nowhere

Untainted007:
God knows best. He gives and takes whenever it pleases Him. Please take heart Ma.

Shut up! God does what? Gives and take to make parents grief? Are you normal?

Change your moniker first

Currently studying ict, but I'm building my skills and honestly not planning on relying on the cert after school

iLegendd:


Lol. Drop an album first. Laycon dropped an album with empty stomach and today he is a star.

well I'm not a musician, I'm a chef, so I need food stuffs to cook, so that's why I want to drop my details

iLegendd:


No, don't drop your account number, drop an album. I want to listen to your songs.

But I can't sing on an empty stomach. Drop something for me, I'll provide hits more than Davido and wizkid combined

At this point, all you can do is to move on with your life, forget about that man, try to make your life meaningful and care for your mum and siblings.

iLegendd:
If You're Hating on Me, See This Before It's Too Damn Late [Picture]

The truth is bitter, but I'll bluntly say it — as I always do. I want to expose myself.

If you're hating on me, just know the following truth:

1. You're making me more popular

2. With popularity comes my product (books, PayPal exchange, etc.) getting a better visibility and getting to more people

3. When the products get to more people, I make more money

4. When I make more money, I share more recharge cards, invest more, help more (offline), and buy more cool things (private info)

5. When I buy more things, I come back to flaunt 2% of them on Nairaland (only) to infuriate them

6. When I flaunt it or talk about it, the haters get angrier and jealous and this triggers them to talk

7. When they get angry and jealous, they become engrossed and addicted to me as they keep coming to all my threads to abuse thinking I'll reply or it will hurt me (no, it doesn't — and never will)

8. When they realize their abuses didn't hurt me, but it's making me even more popular and generating more fans and money than before, they get more jealous and depressed just because the person they hate so much is progressing so much

At this point, I can confidently say, "Frustration is not an achievement, depression is."

Now you've achieved your aim, "depression," it's time to commit suicide.

Drop your account number let me transfer you 200 Naira to buy sniper so you can go meet the demon, the man who made you harbor so much hatred for a man you can never see in real life.

Look at how you've wasted your precious time making another man successful with your jealousy. Aren't you a lazy youth? Isn't Buhari right?

To me, it's all a game to better my life financially and help more people read my books and improve their lives. To them, it's all about "bring that motherf*cker down," syndrome.

Remember this:

My fans are important
My haters are importanter
My clients are importantest

My fans generate me clients — my haters generate me more clients. So, in summary, I love my haters more, but love my clients the most.

I "may" end up sharing recharge card to one of my fans, one of my haters, and one of my clients in this post. I said "may," not "I will."

This thread is just for fun while "bluntly" telling you the truth so you can use your time wisely next time.

Unfortunately, I'm too addictive, so haters can't get enough. They're gon' hate for life and I'm gon' torment them for as long as I'm active on this forum.

Fortunately for them, my deactivation day is fast approaching. Then, they can have peace of mind from my torment and exploitation of their precious time.

I'm the definition of humility, arrogance, loud, calm, strategic, focused, serious, and at the same time, nonchalant/unbothered.

I'm the Devil that worships God and He blesses me through your precious time.

Time is money and money is fun and I'm using mine wisely.

I'm using my time to make money and I'm using my money to catch fun. What about you?

This post may offend, hurt, or motivate you, but remember, time na money and it's previous. You have less than 97 years left on Earth, so make a good use of it and put a smile on the face of your generation to come.

That's all and don't forget I'm not perfect (and never will be) — I'm just strategic, so don't try to be perfect, but focused and strategic, else, see the below quote awaits you.

Frustration is not an achievement, depression is.

You're doing well sir, should I drop my account number?