Family / Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Waspy(m): 5:04am On Nov 22, 2019 |
LewsTherin:
Seeing as this thread has been well derailed by those bashing men and those bashing those bashing men, I'll modify my post.
Your husband has just lost the most important thing to any man - self worth. He is depressed, he is frustrated, he is lost. He may come out of it tomorrow, he may never recover. You can take the easy way out like many so-called feminists will say and kick his behind to the curb...
...or you can honour your vows of "for better or worse till death do us part" (I am assuming you said those words).
If you choose this route, my advice (which may not work by the way) is 1. Pray for him. Constantly. That he find his way back. 2. Keep the house going to the best of your ability. It is difficult, I know. But it is possible. 3.Talk to him like there is nothing different. Ask his opinion on anything and everything. Leas him into discussions that will make him say "if it was me, I will do such and such" or "the best option would have been to do this and that". Something that will help him begin to think again, to plan again. It may help him out of his hole. 4. Keep trying to get his mother/father, closest friend, pastor he trusts to talk to him. But do not under any circumstances involve any other people that it can be said "you went to spread my news round the world". And very definitely no one from your family.
I actually have first hand experience of this so I have an idea how he feels. God help you. |
Politics / Re: Obaseki Should Kiss APC Ticket Goodbye If Oshiomhole Delivers Kogi & Bayelsa by Waspy(m): 4:41pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
What does "deliver" Kogi and Bayelsa mean¿?
Youths seem to think they'll eat their cake and have it. Na Nigeria and hin future una dey watch dey spoil dey go so oo
God have mercy and help the just |
Crime / Re: When Sanity, Logic And Common Sense Come Under Attack by Waspy(m): 3:51pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
I was boiling based on an issue I had with an Okada rider today.
Now, login into Nairaland... almost a similar story.
Sanity is dead in Nigeria and the early we realize that the better 5 Likes |
Crime / Re: Eleje Chukwuma: Trial Of Slain Jumia Delivery Agent Stalled by Waspy(m): 2:14pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Our judiciary is nothing to talk about.
Such a case languishing about. One wonders why the delay? |
Education / Re: Photos Of Kids In Public Schools In Different Countries Eating Lunch by Waspy(m): 8:19pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
Somebody help me with Buharis tooth picking pic |
Car Talk / Re: Update: issue with Autoelectng resolved by Waspy(m): 7:36pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
More drama in Car Section these days...even Romance and Politics sections would feel inferior 2 Likes 1 Share |
Car Talk / Re: Advice Getting Camry 2001 (fishlight/droplight). Users Please Come In by Waspy(m): 8:52pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
What is your estimated cost of the drop light?
Do you plan on getting a good grade tokunbo or a naija used?
Are you planning to sell your Primera to make the upgrade?
Have you considered any other alternatives... 2000/2001 Corolla, 2003 Corrolla, Big Daddy Camry etc? |
Politics / Re: Sanwo-olu Writes Assembly, Seeks Approval For N250bn Loan by Waspy(m): 8:31pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
Politicians over-ridiculed millions.. It's now like satchet water.. Now, they moving on to billions 1 Like 1 Share |
Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by Waspy(m): 5:08pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
ernie4life: So I was doing a quarterly review of my portfolio and my numerous fund managers, I decided to track all fund performance for the last working day of September which is the end of last quarter, so below is a rank of how our fund managers performed that day.
For this quarter, treasury bills rate is dropping gradually and I don't see any reason for rates to increase anytime soon. I told a friend some weeks back that judging from the way that longer tenors in treasury bills was been over subscribed, that means the market anticipates drop in rates, if that is true that means rates for this quarter will be lower than last quarter Na wa oo... What investment options or plans seem to be reasonable for this last quarter or Q1 '20 pls? |
Politics / Re: Sanwo-olu Appoints Jubril Gawat As His Senior Special Assistant On New Media. by Waspy(m): 4:29pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Jubril the block head??. The honty donty sycophant
Sanwo Olu is not serious nor ready |
Politics / Re: N5.5bn SUVs: If Democracy Is Expensive, Try Dictatorship - Adedayo Adeyeye by Waspy(m): 3:53pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) Impulsive,Unrepentant, Egoistic, thieving bastards 7 Likes |
Crime / Re: Victor Ojionu: Yahoo Boy Who Bought N125m Houses During His NYSC, Confesses by Waspy(m): 11:28am On Sep 25, 2019 |
jayson87: the guy said he designed payoneer... LWKMD Poor reportage... He probably cloned it. Phishing |
Celebrities / Re: ID Cabasa Slapped By A Policeman by Waspy(m): 10:27am On Sep 18, 2019 |
alonzoiv: So, what now happened? Because you sang/featured in Totori, you are now a star? Indomitable crew spotted 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Female Painter's Methods Of Advertising Got Her Blasted By Nigerians by Waspy(m): 8:17pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Some hypocrite idiots rooting and voting for Tacha on Bbnaija are here abusing her oo 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Crisis Rocks Kogi PDP As Three Aspirant Set To Be Disqualified by Waspy(m): 8:00pm On Aug 30, 2019 |
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Technology Market / Re: I Need A Bin Database by Waspy(m): 11:18am On Aug 19, 2019 |
Just negodu Invictus 1 Like |
Politics / Re: INEC Sacks REC Frankland Briyai ‘For Joining APC’ by Waspy(m): 11:07pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
INEC is at its lowest under this Yakubu... Can't say maybe it's the Buhari effect tho? |
Politics / Re: Oshiomhole: Sowore Has No Right To Call For 'Revolution Now' by Waspy(m): 9:16pm On Aug 07, 2019 |
Oshiomhole is right... Only Buhari has the right to call for the bloods of the dogs and baboons ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Politics / Re: Soyinka Describes Nigerian Youths As "First To Comment" Youths by Waspy(m): 9:13pm On Aug 07, 2019 |
oz4real83: We have a lot of them on nairaland. when u ask them what the thread they just commented on was all about, they will be starring at u like the pics on nigerian currencies. He was actually talking with respect to Nairaland. What other forum or blog is as popular. All these Buharideens, BMC zombies and thier irkfolks are those he is referring to. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Herbert Wigwe Dedicates N1 Billion To Build Schools In The Northern by Waspy(m): 7:32pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
Money miss road |
Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by Waspy(m): 5:10pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
With the above, it looks like Stanbic MMF is doing better than the FBN quest oo |
Celebrities / Re: Gifty: Don't Die Of Jealousy Let The Contestants Shine - Gifty Shakes Bbn Tables by Waspy(m): 4:30pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
But SeeSea does not have a big nose na... Does she ![](/faces/huh.png) |
Politics / Re: Shiite NASS Protest: It Was Not Local Gun But AK 47, Says Injured Policeman by Waspy(m): 4:24pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
Seems I'm the only one without Ak 47 now oo ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) It's in virtually everyone's hands these Buhari days. God help Nigeria |
Politics / Re: RUGA: Association Of Pig Farmers Writes Buhari, Demand “pig Colony” by Waspy(m): 10:08am On Jul 08, 2019 |
The Presidency should accept whatever insults and embarrassments the people throw at it, since it did not respect common sense and the people when it was hellbent on putting cows and their herders over Nigerians 4 Likes |
Business / Re: 10 Biggest And Busiest Markets In Nigeria That Are Saving The Nation From Hunger by Waspy(m): 3:18pm On Jul 06, 2019 |
![](/faces/huh.png) There's no such thing as Onitsha market. The whole land space of Onitsha is a market in all entirety 4 Likes |
Crime / Re: Herdsmen Shooting Sporadically In Imo State - Vanguard by Waspy(m): 11:39pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: 9th Senate: El-rufai Shades Senators Shehu Sani And Hunkuyi by Waspy(m): 11:29am On Jun 12, 2019 |
faaz24: El-Rufai wrote on his facebook page :
KADUNA UPDATE: (1) KDSG congratulates Senators Suleiman Abdu Kwari and Uba Sani and wish the former senators Suleiman Hunkuyi and Shehu Sani a well-deserved retirement. (2) LESSON: Unless betrayed, our loyalty and fidelity to friends are permanent and pensionable. Unless reconciled, our opposition and enmity to traitors are also permanent and pensionable. (3) A new chapter for all of them begins today. ~ Nasir @elrufai Vengeful Dwarf |
Pets / Re: My Boerboel Dog Killed These 3 Snakes In 2 Weeks by Waspy(m): 12:56am On Jun 04, 2019 |
TheGiftedOne: Snakes we saw, dog we haven't. Is the dog a spirit? ?? abi o... Was about asking 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Only 3 Notable Igbo Billionaires have their Business In Lagos by Waspy(m): 12:03pm On May 07, 2019 |
Who the fûck now developed Lagos ![](/faces/huh.png) |
Religion / Re: Living Faith Distributes Relief Items To Eleven IDP Camps by Waspy(m): 9:24pm On Apr 28, 2019 |
Church has always being doing better than the government 3 Likes |
Health / Re: Man Dies Two Hours After His Wedding In Plateau State - Pictures by Waspy(m): 10:45pm On Apr 20, 2019 |
Hope he died after his primary assignment? |
Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by Waspy(m): 6:39am On Apr 12, 2019 |
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