Ways Pride Is Hurting Our Relationships
Pride is a problem, but I’m not talking about the feeling of loving and embracing who you are. Instead, I’m talking about the kind of pride that keeps us from being honest with ourselves and others because we don’t want to admit defeat. We don’t want people to see us as weak or incapable, but our vulnerability is exactly the thing that could help us build connections and stronger relationships. Here are just some of the ways that our pride is doing us a disservice.

1. WE DON’T WANT TO ADMIT WHEN WE’RE WRONG.
This just shows the other person just how immature we are, and how little respect we have for them. While it prevents you from feeling bad, it ultimately just makes you look bad, and can really alienate people from you.


2. WE DON’T WANT TO ADMIT WHEN WE’VE FAILED.
Admitting we’ve failed, especially to our significant other, is hard because we’re afraid it’ll make us look week in his eyes. Fortunately, if he really loves you, failing won’t make him think any less of you, because everyone experiences failure at some point in their lives, and it’s what helps you learn and grow. It just becomes a problem when you refuse to admit it.


3. WE DON’T WANT TO LISTEN TO OTHERS.
Getting caught up in our own ideas can keep us from listening to everyone else’s, which then means we can’t see things from other people’s perspective. Acting as though your thoughts and feelings are the only ones that matter will only alienate you and make you look too egocentric.


4. WE DON’T WANT TO TELL THE TRUTH.
Pride may cause us to lie, hide, or cover up the facts. Eventually though, the truth comes out, as well as your motivations for not telling it to begin with, but at that point it might be too late. Honesty is always the best policy — you’ll only look worse if you lie.


5. WE DON’T WANT TO ASK FOR HELP.
For some people, asking for help shows weakness and vulnerability. We want to be able to do everything on our own, and when we can’t, we feel like we’re just not strong enough. But every successful person in life had help at some point, and not asking for it when you need it can make you look foolish because you’re trying to tackle too much at once. Ultimately, you may even fail because of it, and your friends and family would wonder why you couldn’t just ask them for a hand.


6. WE DON’T DO WHAT WOULD BE GOOD FOR US OUT OF SPITE.
Similar to not wanting to listen to others or ask for help, we sometimes avoid doing something that we know would be beneficial for us solely because it came from someone else. We want to think we know everything, and we don’t want to acknowledge when someone else has a better idea, even if it would help us in the end.


7. WE DON’T WANT TO ADMIT WHEN OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS FAILED.
This makes it easy for us to be in denial and to keep pursuing something we already know won’t work. If you were too proud to admit your relationship was failing, you’d end up being with someone who could never make you happy. Years could go by before you finally left him, and at that point, you just wasted half your life. It’s scary to leave a relationship you’ve invested a ton of time in, but think about how much more time you’re wasting if you refuse to acknowledge when it’s over and just take the plunge into singledom.

source:http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2018/05/ways-pride-is-hurting-our-relationships.html?m=1

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Women made themselves sexual objects.Trust men,they will continue changing from one object to another, irrespective of the amount of time, energy and resources expended in the chase of one object; just the same way they buy and resell cars.

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Few Reasons Why men Use And Dump Most Ladies
As a lady, you are wondering why men are
constantly “using and dumping” you. Today I wish to let you know of a few bitter facts, though I stand to be corrected. In this life, there are three types of ladies: the wife materials, sex donors and flower girls.

(a) Wife materials are never public with pictures of their body parts, making all noise on social sites. They love genuinely; they may not dress "attractively” at times but one thing they hold within them – the art of true love and loyalty.
Hurt them, they will forgive and still love. Play them, they will still forgive. To crown it all, run away from them, make them cry but upon a genuine repentance and come back, they will receive you with open arms.

(b) Sex donors are described as “sexy” anytime they post their pictures online. Men don’t see them but their body parts. The only reason for
which men pursue them is to have a taste of the shallowly hidden “worthless treasures” Men spend all the monies on them, take them anywhere but the reality, when the sun goes down, and sex is the gold being looked for. The funny thing is that these ladies are so myopic
with their future that they only see what their thighs can offer. They attach no value to morality.

(c) The flower girls are the updates of fashion.
New dressing, new walking style, new song, new anything just consult them. They also spend time online every time. The flower girls are meant to do PR. Just provided people see you with her, you “add value” They are pursued by
equally lost men who don’t know where they come from and where they go to.
Having said that, I wish to state the following bitter facts:

1. Just because you have CAPs (Chemically Accelerated Protrusions) whether in front or behind does not make you beautiful. Work on your morality and be a woman.

2. You may be beautiful and all foxes in the name of men are following you. You are so "expensive” that your minimum is an MCA but did you know the end of beautiful yet empty women like you? No man can imagine marrying a funny lady like you. That is why they take their
pinches and take French leaves. I know you imagine how expensive you are and the way you floss before your peers and roommates.

3. Nothing changes the life of a woman than a productive and successful marriage. Stop cheating us with illegally acquired urchins in the name of children saying that you are ready to be a single mother. These are cover ups to breaking

people’s marriages while snatching people’s husbands.
4. The question I ask is this: You have all the money, all the SAW (Sexually Acquired Wealth) but with destroyed Instruments and shredded destiny, no name, no identity, what is the profit?

5. You may do all things to your God forsaken body in order to look attractive, up to including frying yourself in hot oil so as to be “always ready for eating” but a time comes when all these burden you and the truth dawns on you.
Go slowly and respect yourself.
I stop here for now but i know women are wife materials unless they are mislead.....

source:http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2018/06/few-reasons-why-men-use-and-dump-most_6.html?m=1

Love Doesn't Guarantee The Success Of A Relationship. A Must Read For All

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.
In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.
In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.
With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.
You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.
You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.
We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.
Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.
On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.
That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.
It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.
Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married and unmarried couples.

source :http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2018/05/love-doesn-guarantee-success-of.html?m=1

7 Tips For A Successful Relationship/Marriage


1) Relationship is not about getting what you want but wanting what you get, if you don't want what you get, then get out before you regret.

2) Shield your marriage & cover your spouse with a lot of prayers. Don’t let a day pass without mentioning your marriage & spouse on the altar of prayer. Daily pray that your spouse will have a heart that's open to God & ears that are responsive to His voice & eyes that are blinded from the disruptive things of this world.

3) 7 Keys to a great relationship: friendship,love, freedom, honesty, trust, understanding, and communication.

4) The most beautiful thing a woman can ever wear, is confidence.

5) Men when you tell your woman how beautiful she is every morning before she goes out, it helps the woman not to be too overwhelmed by another guy saying it to her.
They need to hear it sometimes.

6) please never think of settling down and raising kids when you know you are not living comfortably yourself, don't bring kids into these world to suffer just because you want to feel among the married.

7) A man will inconvenience himself for a woman he really love and not think twice about it.

source :http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2018/05/7-tips-for-successful.html?m=1

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What A Lady Needs In A Relationship
Understanding that a woman doesn't not only need your money but a caring heart will make you enjoy a worthwhile relationship.

~ Attention: nothing drive a woman crazy than sharing your attention with another woman. They are naturally jealous, don't ever share your attention with another woman to avoid her feeling insecure.

1. ~ A listening Ear: when she is mad at you, allow her to finish the whole talking don't ever interfere. She needs a sense of belonging, don't neglect listening to her.

~ Trust: when a woman loves, she needs to earn your trust. This implies you shouldn't cheat on her or make her feel insecure.

~ Understand her weakness: naturally women are weaker vessel, sometimes she breaks down out of life difficulties, give her hope to live again.

~ A Caring Heart: sometimes she needs someone to calm her down. Someone to discuss her difficulties with. Don't neglect this little things that matters.

~Complement her: Tell her how beautiful she is,renew it everyday and don't get tired with it.

~ Give her Assurance: don't ever leave a woman that stood with you through difficult moments.


Article Credit:©Nwosu Chinonso
source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2018/05/what-lady-needs-in-relationship.html?m=1

Five Things A Woman Can Offer In A Relationship Apart From Sex


I'm pretty sure you have heard a statement like this before "After sex some girls have nothing else to offer" well I am here to tell you ladies some things you can offer in a relationship apart from sex.


1. HUMOR
No man wants a girl with no sense of humor, some girls think a relationship is a one-sided affair, as long as he is making me laugh and happy am OK. Wrong. It should also be the other way around. A sense of humor is a necessity in life and you should enjoy using it to its fullest extent. Don't get angry over every little thing learn to laugh at yourself once in a while.


2. EQUAL CONTRIBUTIONS
You should be able to provide for your man as much as he provides for you because he deserves to feel safe and loved too. Strive to match his ambition, not stand on the sidelines while he does all of the work. No reason why you shouldn't be able to assist during difficult times, taking him on dates.


3. HUMILITY
A woman should possess the humility needed to set aside her own needs and give support to her man. This can be as small as giving him control over the remote or as big as choosing what kind of car to buy. Of course, you would have your preferences. You will voice your opinions. But overall, you know making your man happy will ultimately help you, and the relationship thrive.


4. SUPPORT
"Behind every successful man, there is a woman"
A man needs someone who has his back. A woman is great at this because she falls into the role of chief supporter. Women naturally encourage and support. They tell their men they are doing a great job, and that they are good at what they do.
When your man has issues with a co-worker, you should be able to help him understand how to deal with it. Give him the extra push he needs to take care of business. When he succeeds, you celebrate with him.


5. LOYALTY
You should be loyal to your man. Make dishonesty repulsive to you. If you make a commitment, make sure you stick to it. Mean what you say and stay loyal to your man no matter how far away you are.


source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2018/05/five-things-woman-can-offer-in.html?m=1

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