bigmodo:
i finally bought sumec firman 3000ge. lets us see how it lasts.

Oga how is the generator performing. Best buy or trash?

Chaii, there is God. I go still dey expect. Keep hope alive. Chaiiii

somegirl1:



Does an Anambra person refusing to marry an Imo person make the Imo person less Igbo? or does an Imo person refusing to marry an Anambra person make the Anambra person less Igbo?

You can't use a single experience to judge not just one group but various groups of Igbos with different orientations.

There is no smoke without fire.

Deep thought

kelvin100:


Bro, your problem was because you were POOR!
Call a spade a spade and face the truth.

From the family's perspective, they needed to secure her financial well-being which you can't guarantee.
If you had played your card well and promised her marriage, she would have waited for you, after all, you have potential to make it in life.

In fact, i love your comment. But i am of a school of thought that believes in dating before marriage. 1 year nor reach to date my wife.
Though i agree with you, then i was wretched.
Owo na bastard

Mrbigman1:


How far?
Na tinibu weed u smoke?

FYI, too much Nollywood is not good for the brain

Tinibu? "Flolo the stlate load"
Village people done disturb the man say he marry from wrong place. Them done pursue the Ghanian with Ghana must go, you come here dey talk yan apata.

Bia nwoke, tekikwe time. Kpachakwa anyian.

wisdompraise:


TeamAnambra.

Nice to have you here, Ada.

Let Ada confirm if her parents are still together, or village people done pursue the woman and brain washed her.

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

wisdompraise:


TeamAnambra.

Nice to have you here, Ada.

Let Ada confirm if her parents are still together, or village people done pursue the woman and brain washed her.

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

ak47mann:
just to correct your spelling of ibos

Know before u talk na. There is Igbo and there is Ibo

redsquare:


Mumu, you started avoiding Igbos after your NYSC? As if an average Igbo person gives a rat ass what you think about him/her. Nonentity like you seeking online attention. Ogogoro drinking iiidiot.

Kia how would nairaland checkmate underage. This comment is purely stupid and uncalled for.

Like an underage u are, i expect u get back at me even when u have read this part of my msg.

CHM11:

Hahahahahaha...marry igbo?...DREAM!!!!....lmao...hahahahahahahahahaha

Nne please oh, not all of us isi lik that oh baby.

hope u be baby.

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

Notyourb1tch:
I really hate tribalism. In this day and age is really ridiculous. At the end of the day we are all black. We should try and not generalise by the bad encounters one may have encountered by a certain tribe etc. It does not mean every single igbo/yoruba/edo person is like that.

There is really no need to be nasty and hateful towards one another, I just don't get it...

No hate my brother.

Truth need be told. It's always right to correct a failing brother.

Call a spade a spade, and shovel a shovel.
Call a thief an oleh, and a crook corruption.

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

squaddy:


Hahahahhaha...what phucking life story? The nigga is a blatant liar. I dare him to tell me what part of anioma he hails from.

Issele-uku my guy. Onou onou

Ishilove:

Simple. Wisdom will save them a lot of heart ache in the long run.

You be God? Stop blaspheming.

SkinnyDude:

and this is my problem with you anti-igbos. na generalization go kill all of una. i have to point out where they came from, since the Op is mad and doesn't know she shouldn't judge a whole tribe with her cousin's BF or wharever!

Anambra like 89.7%, the rest are less rigid to speak the truth

squaddy:


FYI, my elder bro got married to fulani(believe it or not). I myself do not have an issue with marrying from any ethnic group and I know I speak for majority of the Igbos when I say so.
So for you to come here and agree with this hate filled assumption means you are either the myopic one here or you are j
ust another hate filled I.d.iat.z

FYI "ANAMBRA"


I only replied calmly because amidst all, you sounded girly. But if u are not a lady, please come out of your closet like charlie boy

waternogetemeny:


Just like the fulani will prefer a mohammed and the yorubas will prefer an Adewale.

If anything too many of my sisters are married outside their tribe. We are not proud of dat.

I nor understand you oh. I only replied someone who is justifying by giving an example of an Igbo lady getting married to a foreign actor. So i ask " if na your sister you go agree make she marry Charles Okafor instead? Charles Okafor na Igbo, incase you nor understand

enkay4love:
@ OP,tell ur cousin to simply move on,he simply was pitching tent with her when he had nothing,& now that he has"hammered" he has become over classy to marry her,using the lame cover of "my momma said I shuld marry from my tribe"like seriously? Tell her to ensure he pays her off to compensate her for the time wasted,so that she does'nt lose on both ends. They are very tribalistic & very cunning about marrying outside of their tribe.Imagine som1 telling me once that if an Anambra man marries a non-Ibo,he'll be deemed as being under a spell,hehehe like seriously.It was really a funny scenario cos one expected the person in question to reason differently based on education & exposure. Ibos should marry themselves alone abeg,so that they can understand their complex nature. Ur cousin should just regard it as a mistake & just move on,life is too beautifuul to dwell on disapointment for long.

Point of correction Ibo different from Igbo. Delta ibo see open

Sunnybobo3:


It's a pity that at the age of 26 your life is like this.

Pele!

N#gger grow up. If you be dangote you nor go deynairaland9 on a Sunday. So shut up.

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

SkinnyDude:
i see tribalistic fools here, ganging up against my tribe. fools! i know igbos who married outside their tribe. they are many. even my friend's mum is from delta. the other one, her mum is from edo. one of my relations married a hausa woman. and these men are from Anambra.

That's my problem with you. For you to remember their route is tribalistic and racial to me.

Who cares where they came from after wedding. But una, any small thing una go refer to their route.


Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

squaddy:


You are just a fellow who has lost his way. Continue in your foolery.

I refuse to be among the myopic few who lacks exposure and see clouded with their local sense of reasoning.

How Nigeria go progress if some people like you still dey life?

Na only una dey bring spiral binded wedding list.


Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

ACM10:


Nna mechie onu ure gi. Ain't you ashamed that a spare parts dealer is smarter than you. You were outsmarted and schemed out of the game, and now you are bleating like an Xmas goat. If anyone is proving an obstacle to your ambition, you better quietly load the girl. I bet you that the spare parts dealer is richer than you. . .
more educated than you. . .
has more swag than you. . .

Rise above you bitterness, love is not blind when it comes to marriage in Anambra. Our girls go for responsible men that can live up to their duty as a husband. That's why they prefer their fellow Anambrarians. Stop whining! you were outsmarted. Get another girl and stop hating. We don't care if you choose to identify with the Kanuris or Gambaris. But stop behaving like a kid. With this quality of yours, I'm glad the fortunate girl dumped you. Quit boring us with your hateful epistle

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

I am married oh, not underemployed, infact i thank God for my life. Because this family i marry nor get stress, no family shoving CV into my throat or giving me someone to train. Me and my family alone.

Ekenedili chineke

Hhn hnn hnn (Pete edochie laugh)

waternogetemeny:



Pics Anambra Nnamdi Asomugha married to American Kerry Washington

If na your sister you go prefer her to marry Charles Okafor instead?

Igbo's are wise, no doubt.

jmoore:


Osi Umenyiora(Anambra) engaged to Leila Lopes(Angola)

[img]http://4.bp..com/-Q9vP2zQzSzw/U7sEMNyl1tI/AAAAAAAAzxM/UeQW510kZD4/s1600/osi+umenyiora+weds+leila1.jpg[/img]

Engagement na marriage? Tell that babe to drop the handcuff, its uncalled for.

squaddy:


Oooh shut the hell up with your stupid lies. Ofe nmanu masking as igbo. Where in anioma are you from? Bloody Arrow!

Akpala gbakapu isi èba é nò.

Tribalistic and racial nkapi

fowowe411:
Stop sounding pathetic like you are courting sympathy.....dont read too much meaning to things

@Bigfrancis21

Trying to observe nairaland rules, else i would have rained it on you.

You don't have to justify your culture nor comment on every post you come across.

If you don't have real experience, hold your peace. Am from the ibo speaking part of delta state and also a victim of such relationship.

Even being from the igbo-speaking part of delta state did not help me, as the particular family in question told my girl that it will be over their dead body.

On hearing the news i took time to strategies how to tackle this challenge, but to my surprise the babe made a shocking revelation.
She told me that the mum has actually being informing her of one spare part dealer who is from Anambra who she wants her to marry (true story), and that she has visited the guy severally (ehn ehen?).

On hearing this people i change am for hear. WHAT DO YOU MEAN? WHAT NONSENSE? WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN? YOU VISITED HIM WITHOUT MY PERMISSION? Screaming at the top of my voice. I angrily went home that day from our meeting joint.

To be fair with her, she later called and tired to calming me down asking; "what do i do"? By then i have already Googled the dude from the names she gave me (serious under cover sh#t). And my people Wetin i see nor help matters oh, the guy already has a car and am still using my most trusted two leg slabaquin.
I told her to follow her heart, which is the most stupid advice i have ever given. I tried analysing it for her as a wafi man,
- you Stick with me we try make it in life together, i graduated top in my department, a chartered accountant, currently doing my msc in accounting, though no job yet but tomorrow MAY be better.
- you go with them, married the guy within the next two years, and thing may blossom between you two.
I decided to ask her one question which i didn't get the answer till date- do you love him? She replied that he is a cool guy (ukpabiokpabio okpokicha, cool guy).

I discharge her that day thinking say my qualification go save me and thus decided to give her the silent treatment. Two weeks later she finally broke the silence with an outright personal invitation for me to their wedding (i die stand) this is a girl i have dated for the past 12 consecutive months, no break. See Wetin first silent treatment bring me, i almost poisoned my friend who gave the silent advice.

Well, that's about my experience with an Anambra babe, she is now married with one issue, leaving happily.

So bigfrancis21, i do not give what i don't have, this is my true story. That our forefathers are corrupt does not mean you should be corrupt, that everybody is going left does not mean you should go left (check ur boko alert before you move oh), that ever tribe is tribalistic dies not been you should be.
Further revelation from her on the negative pressure she received from her parents and siblings (whom i chat and play with every visit)was so shocking that i didn't even bother to go discuss with any of her family members.

I tort i was igbo until i met a lady from across the niger. just one bridge made me realised that there is difference between IGBO and IBO. Today, if you referred to me as IGBO i might slit your throat.

ADVICE: tell your friend to ask the guy directly if he is serious, thereafter discuss marriage possibility. If you must be a relationship ref, you have got to be good in what you are doing. Life is too short for wasting around.

PEACE OUT