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Autos / Re: ****Lightening Fast RO/RO Vehicle Shipping From Any U.S Location Made Easy***** by williams20(m): 1:52pm On Jan 28, 2015
Good afternoon , please I want to find out if $2800 will buy , ship and clear (Cotonou clearing ) a Honda baby boy
I just called the Lagos no,
Autos / Re: BUY YOUR SHARP & NEAT CAR(S) FROM COTONOU ( @ THE BEST BET) WITH A LOW MILEAGE... by williams20(m): 6:07pm On Jan 22, 2015
Please what's the landing cost of baby boy 99 or 2000
Auto drive
I4
Autos / Re: Pre-order Your Auto From Germany And Switzerland and Belgium by williams20(m): 4:52pm On Jan 22, 2015
Good afternoon, pls can 300k land a sedan car with ac to Lagos
Autos / Re: ***Pre-Order Your Dream Car -USA & GERMANY. Exact Costs - No inflated charges*** by williams20(m): 8:55am On Jan 19, 2015
Good morning sir
Please I need German machines that can land to Lagos for at most 400k
Honda , Toyota, acura (sedan only )
I4
peter_ogundele@yahoo.com
Autos / Re: ***Point 'n' Kill - 800k Auto Bonanza. Every One Deserves A Clean Ride!!! by williams20(m): 8:44am On Jan 19, 2015
Good morning , sir
Please state the total landing cost if Honda accord 2000 I4
To.Nigeria
Education / Re: Full Scholarship For Degree & M.sc in Nigeria with Bursary for everyone! by williams20(m): 6:37am On Jan 14, 2015
Tena11:
Emails will be sent out today. With list of programmes for both the Associates Degree and M.Sc
Good day sir/ma, have you sent the mails' I'm yet to receive any mail yet
Agriculture / Re: Processing Of AgroProducts:Your FastLane To Making Millions And Wealth. by williams20(m): 11:12am On Jan 07, 2015
Good morning agrolanders , I'm sorry I'm posting this here
Please where can I get high starch cassava tubers for sale in large quantities
I don't want anywhere outside Ogun and Oyo state
Note : farmers must provide the pickup buses that will transport the tuberrs from the farm to the loadimg point

@mr lesgup I'll send you a mail now please respond
God bless you
Education / Re: Full Scholarship For Degree & M.sc in Nigeria with Bursary for everyone! by williams20(m): 7:47pm On Jan 06, 2015
Thanks for your kind gesture
Email is
peter_ogundele@yahoo.com
petertobi22@gmail.com
Properties / Re: CHERRYVILLE GARDENS ESTATE, Alatunse, Lekki (Promo price N1.5Million) by williams20(m): 4:03pm On Dec 27, 2014
Please send mail to de.diademconsults@gmail.com and peter_ogundele@yahoo.com
Is this property free from govt or omonile whala grin
Romance / Re: Is Marriage The Only Way To Secure A Relationship by williams20(m): 8:22pm On Dec 16, 2014
Hmmm, good evening nairalanders
Marriage won't prevent a cheating partner from cheating on you ......
Therefore the basis of every relationship should be on the commitment of the partners and not on the pressure of getting married quickly so as to track down your supposed spouse .

The rule is this , if you are not happy with the relationship , you won't be happy with the marriage
So you need to really ask yourself , is this lady worth holding me forever , Marriage is a forever thing and not something you can choose to leave anytime ,
Never let the pressure of your spouse push you into marriage if you are not ready for it and by the way , if your supposed fiancee / fiance can't remain committed to you and the love you have for each other and claims its because you both are not married , the same pressure of equal or greater magnitude will come when you get married and then it will be termed TEMPTATION ..........

If she is in haste to settle down and doesn't believe in the love you have for yourself , the. Getting married to her won't stop that yearning .............
Celebrities / Re: Is Jim Iyke Planning Marriage With Nadia Buariā€Ž? by williams20(m): 12:07pm On Dec 12, 2014
But you can help by wishing them well .


Wittylens:
who cares?

the marriage will not last anyways.

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Nairaland / General / Ten Golden Rules To Keep Your Marriage Blissful by williams20(m): 10:14am On Dec 12, 2014
Pastor Ezekiel O William

Commandment #1
Build your home and marriage on the Christ model of marriage, remember Christ's bride is the church .
It must begin and end in Him.................

Commandment #2.
Love your spouse more when they don't deserve it!
As humans with behavioural differences , times come when we are not lovable, when in essence do not truly deserve to be loved but that's where friendship stops and love begins ,
Love is not only tested and measured when everything is rossy but the going gets tough : love means forever admiration and care. Your spouse needs your love the most when they least deserve it............

Commandment #3.
Let no one come between you and your spouse .
Your marriage should have three circle one at the centre and two on the sides , God at the centre and the couple on the sides, let all communication , suggestions be directed to Him and not a third party ,
Third parties sometimes may listen and show concern but matter of factly, 70% of them are happy that you have the problem. Your spouse is your best friend and Christ is your guide , let Him lead you all the way through thick and thin...

Commandment #4.
Don't take your ego along with you.....
Take everything you've learned and owned but drop your ego' in your father's house before joining your spouse .
Leave that feeling of being too big or being better than everyone behind , face the reality with your spouse, you are in this together to help each other and the truth be told , There are better moments and bitter moments , oftentimes bitter because you feel insulted by remaining in the union , not being able to revenge , arrest or return the insult ....... Remember , until you learn to see your spouse and yourself as a work in progress you won't stop over-rating yourself and under-valuing your spouse.

Commandment #5
Disagree Agreeably : it is a fact that no two people can live together without finding something to disagree on , but when you do especially in relationships and marriage , Resolve to talk together about it and the way forward , don't hold on to your side and neither should you discount your spouse's opinion , rather discuss the matter neutrally together and reach a common point .

Commandment #6
Don't go to bed angry.
The devil has no other strategy for breaking homes than to instigate quarrels between the two and no one will be willing to take the blame or apologize . when such times come , remember your marriage vow and allow peace reign and oftentimes , Marriage is the place where accepting blame for an offence you didn't commit works fine .
Protect Your marriage , keep your home ...

Commandment #7
Your Spouse is Your Best Friend
Your Husband/Wife is the most important personality in your life so treat them as such.
Trouble often stems from treating our spouses like our friends , your spouse deserves that honour of being treated as your best friend ...... Remember your spouse chose you above several persons , so treat them well...


Commandment #8
Don't Neglect Your Home!
Oftentimes in marriage this simple fact brings great problems, we get carried away with everything we are engaged in especially we the servants of God , we are always on the mission field forgetting that the greatest and most powerful mission is to build Your Home.

Your Home is your Primary Ministry , if you neglect it , you can't succeed working for God , never abandon your home while you claim to be working for God...... Your family needs you remember Eli's Prophetic Ministry was truncated because of his failed Home Ministry.
You'll not fail in Jesus Name .


Commandment #9
Always Remember Your Family Needs You
In your daily assignment and tasks always remember that your family needs you around
Your money and or gifts can make them smile but your presence adds more flavour to the equation
The greatest gift any man it woman can give their family is their presence and attention ......


Commandment #10
Keep the Rest Nine Commandments........
Having explored the nine vital commandments of lasting relationships , the most important part of the rule is to remember and practice it all daily like the words of Joshua 1:8
Read the rules everyday and apply them in your homes , marriages and relationships

All thanks to God for the completion of this series , I'm sure you and yours have been immensely blessed by this great piece .........
I have been blessed too.......
Good morning and have a blessed day
Pastor E.O.T William
Whatsapp : +2348064822538
Bbm : 7F3A3AE1
Twitter @OgundeleWilliam
Blog @ www.eotwilliam..com
Romance / Re: A Counsellor Is Needed by williams20(m): 10:33am On Dec 10, 2014
I don't think you have to be pressured into accepting the new guy just because of the love claims between you both , frankly speaking You ought to relax a little and define what exactly you want , allowing every tom, dick and harry to date you isn't too right , its the recipe for heartbreak, when you know what you want , you determine who submits their CV smiley and that will guide your actions
The first guy is a cheat , a cheat is always a cheap except for divine interventions , and please don't assume He has changed .......
Its all about You and God , that's why in say your Purpose should influence your choices of partnerbcos he would be your helpmeet not your antagonist.......
Romance / Re: The Ten Commandments Of Lasting Marriages by williams20(m): 9:08pm On Dec 08, 2014
The Ten Commandments of Lasting Marriages
Pastor E. O. T William
Commandment #9

Always Remember Your Family Needs You
In your daily assignment and tasks always remember that your family needs you around
Your money and or gifts can make them smile but your presence adds more flavour to the equation
The greatest gift any man it woman can give their family is their presence and attention ......
Good Evening
Romance / Re: I Need Advice On How To Avoid Fornication! by williams20(m): 8:13pm On Dec 08, 2014
Good evening op
Here are a few steps to help yourself out of the quagmire of fornication
1. Learn to take your eyes off ladies ,
2. Don't watch indecent movies, shows or pictures
3. Fill your mind with something productive, don't leave it idle
4. Pray about it everyday , ask God to take that thorn away from your flesh

You are in my thought and prayers

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Romance / Re: He Knelt Down And Apologised!!! by williams20(m): 4:41pm On Dec 07, 2014
2SWT:
l get ur point but am not angry cos he was with his ex. I have an ex but l told him dat we were still talking but when l asked about his, he said they no longer talk.but imagine he forgot to come because he was with thesame girl he said he doesn't talk with


Owwwww, that's the reason , he should not have told you 'we nok longer talk ' when they are not dead
They can still render help to each other but love between them has become a no no no go area for life, if that boundary is well maintained by both of them I seeno reason why they should be enemies and not TALK to each other again.
Romance / Re: <<<....>>> by williams20(m): 4:37pm On Dec 07, 2014
MaziOmenuko:




This seem to be the popular opinion. Good if you'd ask me; but why honor a meeting you already know its agenda and that you're going to give an unfavorable response? Would have been better if she told her pastor she's not interested and safe the 'son' from traveling down from wherever he's coming down from.



I quite understand your point but telling the pastor an outright No can bring some issues because the pastor may quickly change the purpose of the meeting if he feels the lady will expose him so the lady will have herself to blame for being took quick to resolve the reason , let her pretend as if its a casual meeting of a christian brother for missionary works
.......Wisdom is the Principal thing .
Religion / Re: Share Your Prayer Request, Nairaland Pastors Will Pray For You by williams20(m): 2:25pm On Dec 07, 2014
akomolafe2:
ALL I NEED FROM GOD IS TO LEAVE A RIGHTEOUS AND FULL FILLED LIFE SO THAT AT THE LAST DAY I WILL NOT MISS THE KINGDOM OF GOD


I pray you will receive the grace to live a life acceptable unto Him in Jesus name
Romance / Re: <<<....>>> by williams20(m): 2:23pm On Dec 07, 2014
MaziOmenuko:
Its crazy how some pastors want to control the life of their members; I've had my reservations about their excesses, but right now, I'm very close to getting pissed.

My girlfriend returned to church today and engaged me in a long chat. She informed me that after church service today, her pastor had asked her to wait behind after service. This is not unusual as the pastor is a cordial fellow and likes to get to know his members, which is quite good if you'd ask me. This is like the third time he's asking her to wait after service for a brief discussion, other days he asks after her studies and to find out if she's still an active member of school fellowship and try to encourage her generally.

So according to her, he asked her to wait and she waited in front of his office. She had to be patient until he attended to all other members coming to greet him.

When he got to her, it was the usual inquiries and encouragement. According to her, after the pleasantries, he told her there was a very good 'son' of his he would like her to meet. By 'son' the pastor was referring to one of his members either in the church or someone he pastored somewhere else. He started by vouching for this his 'son', how he is devoted, God fearing and hardworking. He told her he would like her to meet this his son and give him a listening ear. According to my girl, the pastor even teased her that he, the pastor will like to be the one that will join them in holy matrimony because the so called 'son' was too dear to him.

He went on to make it even look like he was about to do her a favor. He stressed that he doesn't want his 'son' to be 'snatched' away by ladies of questionable character as it was not wise to be equally yoked with unbelievers.

Now, during the chat, I asked her what was her response to the pastor. This is exactly where I'm finding it hard to understand. She seem to be 'fearing' or 'over-respecting' her pastor and couldn't tell him she's already in a relationship. I asked her why she didn't tell her pastor so and she said she doesn't know how it will sound in the pastor's ears. Can you imagine?!?!

Now she seem confused as to how to disappoint the pastor and his 'son' as the pastor went on to schedule a meeting with them next week sunday as the supposed son will be coming down from one of the church branches for the meeting.

She put the question to me during the chat and asked me 'what will she do'. I take it that she's already made the mistake of not telling the pastor outrightly. I insisted she should have told him.

What do you think she should have done or not done; and what do you think is the way forward? I need reasonable comments so I will just have to post this page link on her bbm.



I don't think there's anything too serious here , I think you should stop getting emotional and leave it all to your fiancee(I don't use the word gf or bf) 's commjttment to the relationship , if she is , its easy to escape the trap but its all based on who she is , if she is convinced beyond doubt I don't think her respect for her pastor will break you up....
Meeting him is nothing , they can meet for business but she needs to let him know without smiling and without deciet that there is NO vacancy ...
QED

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Romance / Re: He Knelt Down And Apologised!!! by williams20(m): 2:12pm On Dec 07, 2014
[quote author=2SWT post=28643845][color=#006600]l met this guy some time ago we started dating some months later now its five months plus and we're still together...no problems, his family members like me and my parents also like him though they don't know that we are dating and l love this guy very much


months ago, l asked about his past relationships he told me everything about his Ex and he said they no longer talk so l said okay

fast forward to last week


one sunny afternoon, he called me and said he's coming over so l cancelled all my schedule for the day, went home and freshen up. I waited for many hours but he did show up so l went to his house and to my surprise he was with the Ex he told me he wasn't talking with, this brought up a serious argument and l opened up to him that l feel he's still dating her....he KNELT down apologised and said he loves me and will never cheat on me



It is wrong to assume you and your Ex would never meet or have any cause to talk together again , you no longer date but you may remain friends , the Ed might need something from your fiance or vice versa . don't take it personal
An Ex is not an Enemy
Romance / Re: The Ten Commandments Of Lasting Marriages by williams20(m): 2:01pm On Dec 07, 2014
The Ten Commandments of Lasting Marriage
Commandment #8
Pastor E. O. T William

Don't Neglect Your Home!
Oftentimes in marriage this simple fact brings great problems, we get carried away with everything we are engaged in especially we the servants of God , we are always on the mission field forgetting that the greatest and most powerful mission is to build Your Home.

Your Home is your Primary Ministry , if you neglect it , you can't succeed working for God , never abandon your home while you claim to be working for God...... Your family needs you remember Eli's Prophetic Ministry was truncated because of his failed Home Ministry.
You'll not fail in Jesus Name .
Good evening ........
Romance / Re: The Ten Commandments Of Lasting Marriages by williams20(m): 2:00pm On Dec 07, 2014
The Ten Commandments of Lasting Marriage
Commandment #7
Pastor E. O. T William

Your Spouse is Your Best Friend
Your Husband/Wife is the most important personality in your life so treat them as such.
Trouble often stems from treating our spouses like our friends , your spouse deserves that honour of being treated as your best friend ...... Remember your spouse chose you above several persons , so treat them well...
Good evening

I'm sorry for the break in the posting for a couple of days , was a lil indisposed and occupied with work but I'm firing on all cylinders now
Religion / Re: 6 Things That Choke/kill Ones Spiritual Life by williams20(m): 1:57pm On Dec 07, 2014
AllNaijaBlogger:
There is an innate need to separate religion from spirituality.

Spirituality is for the individual while religion is for the masses.

Christians can differ in spirituality. You can't claim that listening to Wizkid devalues one's spirituality just because you don't like it.

I can agree on going to church partially but not music. Music is spiritual in itself.

My Brother , who you follow determines what follows you
You can't listen to worldly and profane music and still claim to be godly

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Religion / Re: Share Your Prayer Request, Nairaland Pastors Will Pray For You by williams20(m): 1:48pm On Dec 07, 2014
To everyone that has poured out requests unto the Lord
I decree as a servant of the most High that your requests are granted in Jesus name .
It shall turn to you for a testimony
Amen!.

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Intact I don't know what to write but let me say in a few words
I've been doing business with him for over a month and I'm waohed by his top notch customer service and round the clock delivery system
Indeed he's got a great man inside of him , I've not met with him physically but he's among the few persons I'll love to meet in my life time
Keep it up
; smiley

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Romance / Re: Sex Before Marriage: What's Your Take by williams20(m): 2:28pm On Dec 04, 2014
There's no point doing it in secret before marriage when you'll have her all to yourself
What is wrong will always be wrong no matter the number of persons defying it
It is simply called PRE-MARITAL SEX = FORNICATION = SIN
Romance / Re: The Ten Commandments Of Lasting Marriages by williams20(m): 8:33pm On Nov 30, 2014
The Ten Commandments of Lasting Marriage
Commandment #6
Pastor E. O. T William

Don't go to bed angry.
The devil has no other strategy for breaking homes than to instigate quarrels between the two and no one will be willing to take the blame or apologize . when such times come , remember your marriage vow and allow peace reign and oftentimes , Marriage is the place where accepting blame for an offence you didn't commit works fine .
Protect Your marriage , keep your home ...
Good Evening
Romance / Re: The Ten Commandments Of Lasting Marriages by williams20(m): 9:55pm On Nov 29, 2014
The Ten Commandments of Lasting Marriage
Pastor E. O. T William
Commandment #5

Disagree Agreeably : it is a fact that no two people can live together without finding something to disagree on , but when you do especially in relationships and marriage , Resolve to talk together about it and the way forward , don't hold on to your side and neither should you discount your spouse's opinion , rather discuss the matter neutrally together and reach a common point .
Good Evening
Romance / Re: The Ten Commandments Of Lasting Marriages by williams20(m): 10:46pm On Nov 26, 2014
The Ten Commandments of lasting marriages
Pastor E. O. T William
Commandment #4.

Don't take your ego along with you.....
Take everything you've learned and owned but drop your ego' in your father's house before joining your spouse .
Leave that feeling of being too big or being better than everyone behind , face the reality with your spouse, you are in this together to help each other and the truth be told , There are better moments and bitter moments , oftentimes bitter because you feel insulted by remaining in the union , not being able to revenge , arrest or return the insult ....... Remember , until you learn to see your spouse and yourself as a work in progress you won't stop over-rating yourself and under-valuing your spouse.
Good Evening !
Romance / The Ten Commandments Of Lasting Marriages by williams20(m): 10:50pm On Nov 25, 2014
The Ten Commandments of Lasting marriages
Pastor E. O. T William
Commandment #3.

Let no one come between you and your spouse .
Your marriage should have three circle one at the centre and two on the sides , God at the centre and the couple on the sides, let all communication , suggestions be directed to Him and not a third party ,
Third parties sometimes may listen and show concern but matter of factly, 70% of them are happy that you have the problem. Your spouse is your best friend and Christ is your guide , let Him lead you all the way through thick and thin...
Good Evening ...........
#Abundance of Rain 2014
Car Talk / Re: 96 Camry Without Custom Papers by williams20(m): 3:50pm On Nov 12, 2014
GAZZUZZ:


stay in your state, do not travel. grin grin grin
Thanks for the reply , can I still go for the docs
Car Talk / 96 Camry Without Custom Papers by williams20(m): 10:26am On Nov 12, 2014
Good morning no auto dealers and users , pls is there any need for me to get custom papers for a Nigerian used , tokunbo bought Camry 96
The car has been registered in Nigeria for over 3years
Thanks ....

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