folake4u:


What's so special about fish head?

I hate that thing with every fibre in me.

Me too.. I dislike fish head, chicken head, chicken/turkey feet, and strong meat bones; except soft chewable meat bones (biscuit bones)..

I am not a lover of fish, but if I must eat fish, it must be the kote fish (middle piece preferably).

If you do mistake cook any other fish apart from kote, na only you go chop am.

NaijaGoBetter20:
Two of my friends (who worked with different companies) resigned from their work recently, not because of their salaries but their claim was a bad boss and toxic environment.

My question is that which one should come first salary or the environment?

Mental health. I wan resign from my own too.. Tired of been lied to and maltreated. 5yrs and 6months of inner pain.

bodybuilder:
Why do Nigerian guys always think they were rejected 'cause they're broke.
Why do you have this mentality that your brokeness is your only flaw.
Might be another reason. That's girl you think rejected you cause you're might even be dating someone broker than you.
Sometimes you're not as broke as you think, it's just low self-esteem from comparing yourself with others.

It could be your bad looks, social awkwardness, bad hygiene, shyness and many other things.

Some guys underate the power of being good looking sha. So many girls can be gotten by just being tall and handsome, being rich is just a bonus.

It's the truth.. the pressure is too much from the female gender...

You know some years ago, I was dating someone who kept comparing me to her friends boyfriend who was staying in a 2bedroom apartment, had a car, bla bla, she was always telling me to go rent an apartment, buy car, bla bla, cos of that, like say na spit dem dey use run am..

We broke up, I got a place of my own a year or so after, through God's doing.

Not too long after, she started showing interest in renting her own place and she is lamenting that rent is too costly, this and that...

murphyibiam15:
I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.

It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.

(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.

(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?

Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.

Just my 2cents, bye.

Very true.. Just yesterday I was so stressed, it was heartbreaking...


I got home around 5.30pm, drop my bag, lie down for bed and I slept till 8.30a.m the next day..

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

Why should I?

She follow me work for am?

BeeBeeOoh:
The Commander, 14 Brigade, Nigerian Army, Brig Gen Mohammed Bello Wabili, spoke during the flag-off of the army exercise in the state.



http://saharareporters.com/2021/10/06/no-hiding-place-criminals-%E2%80%93-nigerian-army-begins-%E2%80%98golden-dawn-abia-distributes-books

Why don't they want to do shining kungfu in the north?

Why always the south?

Hurting the peace there but leaving the chaos in the north...

This buhari government ehn

Havesomesense:
It is the duty of a man to provide for the family, women consider financially buoyant men for relationships.

Imagine if you lost your job/business or your income reduced drastically.

Will your wife love you?
Will your wife be jovial with you?
Will your wife give you her palliative as usual?
Will she disrespect you in front of the kids and others?
Will she watch you starve when she has food in the kitchen?
Will she keep reminding you that you are not contributing anything?
Will she start seeking other mens' attention?
Will she Change?

I need honest answers.

I'll tell you a short story..

I had a girl long time ago, that we had something going on.. the day she found out she earned more than I did.. Her affection dropped drastically...

Long story short, relationship didn't work out after that day..

I am in a better place now and I hope she is too..

vybzkartel:


Meaning?

Getat.. Go make more money and when you have made that, make more money and when you have don't that.. guess what?

Make more money. Na she go dey beg you to come back

Efe42:
She called me this morning and told me we ain't meet for each other even when I tried my best

Come junction, make I beat sense into your brain...

Efe42:
My girlfriend just ended our 8 month's relationship with no suitable reasons. When I asked her, she said because I don't give her attention anytime she's talking and she mostly talk about celebrity and social media life style which I don't find interesting topic on.

I'm so tired this evening feeling down about this!!

You dodged a bullet and u are saying she broke your heart?

Kiwi

johnsonmartina6:
i have done that already,, i habe a new one now

Better.. I'll tell you what experience and my father told me.. love with your brain, make money with all your heart

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

If you are in Lagos, come sit with me over a couple of beers and talk it over...

Pidaa:
Admin please post in on top page.

Today I was at my first lecture in my university at the UK. We were told to do introduction by the lecturer of the course we attended and after that the lecture began, at some point we have to take break for rest.

Then the lecturer offered to buy drink for all the students that were in class at the school canteen. We all followed the lecturer to the school canteen and grabbed a drink, even when a white boy was insisting not to collect the offer, the lecturer was begging him that he had already paid for every body that the boy should just take a drink.

Then my mind returned back to Nigeria to those days when I was still doing my bachelor degrees and remember what those witches and demons lecturers did to students. I was just like why? Who did Nigeria offend that we are so cruel? even when I met police last week after I lost my way, you can see how their police was polite and showed me road. Them nor ask me anything for the boys. We need to start to get things right from our foundation and not blaming the government always.

You no go show us way to be like you?

johnsonmartina6:
She said she wanted some space because we had some quarrel,, i gave her the space and added another extra week,, now she cries of heartbreak on her WhatsApp status ,, i don't understand,,, what should I do

Give her some more weeks and while you are at it, find another babe. Her head never correct.

Halo22:
I meant the MD.

Oh.. I'll advise you abort mission carefully..

Pere and Angel are going back into the show tonight.

Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.

In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.

After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.

Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.

I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.


Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.

I thought you said she was married with a kid?

Some people go just enter thread dey troll.. if you do not like the show, leave the show for people wey like am and mind your business..

OBALOLA55:
DON’T YOU HAVE A BETTER THING TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE


YOU SEE WHY WE NEED STRICT SHARIA LAW IN THIS COUNTRY

Then why you click the thread, dem force your hand click the thread.

Don't be daft jere

This people just believe they are doing us favours by constructing roads...

Klass99:
The right person for me will be;

1. Someone I like, who likes me back as well. The feeling is mutual and not one sided.

2. Our values, life and world views pretty much align and we are not poles apart in our thinking.

3. He shares valuable resources/information on things that matter like finances, real estate, trainings etc.

4. His life and work habits not only impress me, but they also ginger me to be a better for myself and him.

5. Conversations are enjoyable and not tedious.

6. We like being around each other, but we also value time alone and we are comfortable being by ourselves.

7. Contact and communication, picks up from where we left off, without drama or annoying comments like - you abandoned me, you don't call me, so if I don't call you I won't hear from you blah blah blah blah

8. He is mature enough to understand that there's always a reason for missed calls and I will get back to him asap, he also understands the concepts of space and individuality.

9. He is a reasonable and responsible person, I genuinely respect. Not for what he has but for the person he is and the way he generally conducts himself.

10. He understands my love language and I understand his as well, hopefully he is also a dog and nature lover too,

What's your love language?

donbachi:
Someone dat will fight with you,remembers it and laughs,.and not someone dat will remember it and begin to plan on next evil to carry on you.

The latter be my ex in summary

yusufdayo1:
A friend of mine was retrenched in one of the bottling company and was paid 1.8m for his gratuity. He wants to collect loan and add to the money in order to buy Corolla for uberbolt as a side hustle but his family wants him to get a land and build a house even though is a room.

Your advice is highly needed.


modified: Currently he is a fashion designer and needs additional income.

Start Uber/bolt..

Betboss:
Hello fellow youtubers!

For the past three months now Google has been deducting US tax from my YouTube earnings. That's after I filled the tax form. I don't know if I didn’t feel the form properly. They deduct as much as 24% of my earnings and it's really sickening.

They don't deduct any Tax from my Adsense earnings, but they do on YouTube earnings.

I just want to be sure that I'm not alone on this. Has Google been deducting US tax from your YouTube earnings?

Your YouTube channel link?

Ammishaddai:
Bros, the bible clearly says a man who can't provide for his home is worst than an infidel(1Timothy 5:8.). Mr man , why are you not providing for your home and wife ? Can you see you're the one using your own hand to destroy your house ...? If your wife leaves you for greener pastures, she'll be justified because you can't provide for her and the children . So better go and beg her and start looking for a fvcking job !!!

Are you daft?

unbitchable:
The English media is trying hard to repackage the old fraud with the highest form of exaggeration. Gary Neville is a member of the old cult of Manchester United that used media influence to get rid of Mourinho and brought in another member of the cult
of '99 in Ole as a replacement. Despite Ole's shortcomings, to them, he is the best thing after slice bread. Ronaldo being a member of the cult is also enjoying the image laundry despite struggling in the bottom ten of world footballers for the last four seasons.
Throughout his time with Juve, he never made the podium of top 3 and no hope he would make it staying at Juve. So, he had to leave angrily to England, hoping the English press would come to his rescue despite his poor performances.

Bitterness will get you nowhere

ERCROSS:
What you need is not a solution. What you need is self discipline.

It's not that simple or easy..

Me sef dey struggle with alcohol addiction (Gin and whiskey to be precise).

I just dey take am 1 day at a time.

saphiere:
Mine: Abacha

lalasticlala over to you.

The same person that's in power now..

shegxy9:
She allowed a guy to sleep in her room in just two weeks she resumed to school... Hope am not deceiving myself cos I really want to settle down with her... Am a serving corper!!!

Move on