my brother if truly u understand the religion u wud put into consideration the effects and consequencies of the show whether it involves opposite sex or not (but it will be aired to the public!). u know the stand of muslimma in the public dont be selfish u are only considering the financial gains of the show what about its effect on the public must u organise a show b4 u sell ur clothings u can design make a good art work or graphics or beta still a platform that is islamic ! may Allah assist us all make us understand the religion nobody is being rigid but only be candid

what a heartfelt story!!!!!!!!! very touching, empathetic and confusing but yet very simple in a holistic way!!!!!!!!!!
i took my time in reading this emotional story that has prompted me to contribute my own opinion to salvage the wrecking ship that was painstakingly built over a decade i cannot only read but lay my hands on my keyboard. My contribution goes thus:
if not for the job that was lost u wud av tied the knot wit this guy!!!!!! wud u av opted out of a marital life because ur hubby lost his job? PRETTY NO!!
the so called pastor was aware wen u were trying to forge a marriage certificate in the name of getting posted to abuja he never warned u against such from both moral and religious perspective even the implications of such.now he asked u to say ur mind about the relationship after saying it he then said there was a revelation that one of u wud die prematurely he is only working on ur psyche and emotion beleive me you!!!!!
@the so called HONOURABLE! from my little knowledge and exposure he might not ask for u now but he might av an ulterior motive. knowing fully well aw promiscous they are. aw do u pay him bak wen he asks?(however i salute ur courage on holding to this guy alone sexually keep it up! be faithful)why do u av to hide ur fiancee from the Hon some thing is fishy as u are no longer a kid feel free to introduce him to the Hon may be perhaps he may use his political influence to secure him a job.it is obvious that ur fear in this r/ship is his joblesness.He is no longer himsef because he is not in total control of the relatinship which is quite understandable that makes him over react pls reflect on the time u av both spent in building this r/ship neva let it break it all lies in YOU not the so called pastor nor family members nor HON.ITS IN YOU!!!!
Its just a matter of time to get a job and be in full control of the r/ship.he has felt remorseful pleading admitted his wrong doings u can as well overlook it and forgive him so u can forge ahead in life
Go bak to him tell him aw faithful u av been despite his assumptions and beliefs he wiil be glad to hear it and receive u with warm heart wishing u all the best in ur future endeavours may God guide u right in ur decisions.(i dont know this guy in question am only yarning m y heartfelt mind igbeyawo yin ko ni baje!!!!!!!)

salam alekun i quite understand ur plight from ur nature of work, the enviroment u find ursef  ur personal being etc  may Allah assist us all. my little contribution is  u must be strong willed that u av to keep to times of salat appropiately  as its very important  as quoted in surat baqqqarah. since there is a mosque or a mat around u wen its time pls just try as much as possible to stand up.Ur love for music cud affect ur iman unconsciously and unknowingly but try to do away wit them though its hard but since u know that its haram u can substitute that for islamic lectures,  reading islamic literatures.also th kind of friends u keep also affect u try to be amongst those u share the same faith ideology and orientation that is aw they can always remind u that its time for salat weneva u are together. practical ways to being steadfast (i)constant reading of quran meditate, reflect on it,feel sober about it ponder over it act accordingly(ii)listening to good lectures sunatic ones that will elevate ur iman ( iii)always be amongst the truthful ones  act according to islamic tenets this will make u to be mindful of Allah . may  almighty Allah make it easy for u and us over look our shortcomings and forgive our sins!!  amin  maa salam

dis is to wish all muslims a happy jumah may we witness more of it on the earth surface accept our prayers and forgive us our sins!!!

may almighty Allah give u the fortitude to bear the loss. may He forgive him, overlok his short comings and grant him aljanat firdaus aaaaaaaaaaminn

@tem01 from my little experience ignore the doctor that said ur husband canot impregnate a woman!!!! na lie !!!! if he has a low active spermatozoa due to infection it can still be corrected by taking antibiotics. there are some other drugs that may still be taken to boost the active ones which must be at least 50%before impregnating /conception cud take place.vitamin e 1000.i.u , vitamin c are very god drugs in this aspect.but however keep on praying for God is there to answer ur prayers!!!!! also try to visit a good hospital if u dont mind a general hospital (lagos island maternity hospital)

@toba wat exactly do u av against muslims? u av only come to dis forum to misinterperte and misquote the quranic verses as all d verses quoted by u were just turned d other way round may u be forgiven Q8:34-36, Q4:94 Q 69;33 etc pls try to argue logically and free ursef from mental enslavement

helo nairalanders i just stumbled on dis thread pls need an assistance on oracle 10g i wud really appreciate if any one culd post a soft copy of oracle 10g to me i av bin trying to download thru google but nt getting d needed/required one pls its urgent u can pls send thru my email saidjide@yahoo.com or any possible arrangement in lagos via phone 08033431535

indeed it was a gathering of the pious, lovely interesting and memorable!!!!!
@majoroller may ALMIGHTY Allah reward u abundantly grant ur heartfelt desires plant ur feet firm on this path of alislam
@remii ur professional advice was highly and indeed appreciated!!!!!!!
@el garuj,haboosa, bizpreneur,fxskye,nicesoul,talk2keke,alimat2 abu-hanifa,jarus, tunyus u are all wonderful u made it unforgetable one !!!
may Allah accept it as an act of ibadah accept our prayers aaaamiiiiiinnnnn!!!

check the punch newspaper wed 25th august 2010 top ex-militant leader, soboma george killed ! hhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmnnnnnn

just using this medium to wish u long life many happy returns may Almighty Allah continnue to guide and protect u grant ur heart desires aamiiiiiinn!! u no com tell us for iftar

insha Allah sign me up for next week

alhamudulilahi for making dat day a reality; to meet people of the same faith minds and ideology may Almighty Allah make it a ujjah for us and not against us amiiiiinn!!!!! also to the organisers' sponsors as well as those of us dat attended may Allah continue to protect n guide us enrich us, plant our feet firm on this path of al islam!!!!!!!! hhhmmmnnnnnnnn what else can isay jazakhumlai khairan

ma fi iku we orun i.e dont compare death with sleep it is worth resigning because firs being federal govt parasatals u are sure of job security,career development, no pressure or crazy drive,concerning renumeration for graduate, first bank might be higher but in the long run after scaling thru grade level 08 u will always smile home .for graduate entry level ie GL 08 ur take home pay will be around 70,000 plus federal govt approved allowances and firs is in charge of tax in nig which means ur allowances is gonna be very very applaudable.they are one of the highest generating revenue coy in nigeria they contend with NNPC Nig customs, DPR

am quite sure dat issues like this are always handled in a soft and matured way in this part of the country but remeba these are d causes of religious crises we hear of and see in the nothern part without knowing the cause, causing thosands of lives to be lost and we come out to castigate the muslims calling them all sorts of names and the media painting it in a provocative way i rest my case

@jarus i am in lagos pls include me maa salam

salam alekun am intersted in the iftaar pls include me may Allah spare our life beyond and then maasalam but me think dat money is too much 10k for ihr if its thru d day ok

may Almighty Allah ake us witnes more of it accept it from us as an act of iba'dah.

salam alekun just goin thru this thread now neva knew dr was somtin lik dis last year.this is a very good idea may Allah reward us all ease our task amin is there gona be somtin like dis this ramadan?may Allah make us witness it and more of it amin if yes pls feel free to post. u can as well reach me on 08033431535 or saidjide@yahoo.com

swiftycool am giving it to u!good job write up and good storyline pls lets av the end of the story in time as the suspense is too much to bear!the pride in ladies will always manifest wen they av upper hand

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@condomized my candid advice watcccccccccchhhhhh!!!!!!!!!! if u try to ask her she may deny giving it to her ex because girls are very smart when it comes to confrontation the ball is in your court try to look elsewhere for your future patner b4 u are dumped for the so called ex if not the top striker so wiseup act now!!! dont allow her to go free shey u don bosi fun wellwell hop u understand me try bosi fun wel wel b4 she goes

@condomized my candid advice watcccccccccchhhhhh!!!!!!!!!! if u try to ask her she may deny giving it to her ex because girls are very smart when it comes to confrontation the ball is in your court try to look elsewhere for your future patner b4 u are dumped for the so called ex if not the top striker so wiseup act now!!! dont allow her to go free shey u don bosi fun wellwell hop u understand me try bosi fun wel wel b4 she goes

i av neva been in that shoe but however i can imagine how u feel sincerely speaking but u just av to take heart pray to God to guide u take the child as yours may be in your home(though not easy) or let him be wit his mother but allow your husband to play his fatherly role the mistake has been done let him see how dissatisfaying u are

my dear u sound like someone who is  madly in love but are u ready to face the fact or reality the guy is arrogant talking like that b4 ur mum  it is an insult but however u need call him sit him down talk to his senses that u cannot tolerate this act of insurbodination watch his reaction b4 u jump into marriage and also pray very wel about it wshing u allda best in life

there is no big deal about this since it is not an issue for me i wiill attend and for her let her feel free to attend since we are not destined to marry there are no grudges against each other but my rule is never u go back to sinful acts ie ex

let them accept the results in gud fate for ngige whom ibeleive so much in him he should not giveup but by contesting in the next dispensation gov obi has convinced the people wit his present administration which has scored him a gud mark for u ngige your legacy still remains in our memory all da best inlife

if truly u av d opportunity u beta go for p&g being a multinational firm wit a gud workin condition n welfare package banking job is aslavery job my dear

pls do apply for post study visa all the best in life but meanwhile that does not stop u from applying for job here at home its just only a matter of time

using this medium to wish him a speedy recovery

guy u beta wake up from your slumber allin d name of the  lord be watchful all dis pastors u know who dem be listen to fela your parents are there

all u need do is to relax ur mind n nerves call him sit him down talkinto his senses dat u are not too ok wit the way u are seeing gals wit him if it den persists make a radical decision ''what will meet u will not miss u what will miss u will not meet u''