thats gross

Many people have lost their relationships simply because they
failed to use words, forgetting that the heart, especially a woman’s heart, needs the word-romance too,be it written or spoken.
Relationships fail everyday... in most cases; it first gets boring, then awkward before it crashes. The unfortunate thing is that many people cannot even place their hands on the real
reason why the relationship failed, and they blamed it on each
other.
But i am of the opinion that a lot of relationships fail because the power of words is replaced with
silence and not-so- convincing action.
Actions may actually speak louder than words, but the heart especially a woman’s heart, needs the word-romance too, be it
written or spoken. So, as a man, there are some things, some
sweet, romantic words you can dish out to your lover in form of
SMSs, just to remind her every now and then how important she is to you.
Here are a few
1. I love you so much Ican't even explain it.
2. The only thing I don't want to change in my life is you because you are perfect the way you
are.
3. Baby, I sent an angel to guard you at night. It came back a minute later. I asked why and it
answered"Sorry, angels don't guard other angels."
4. I feel so happy just spending time with you.
5. Pictures tell 1,000 words is what they say. But when I look at your pictures, I see only 3
words"I...LOVE...YOU."
6. If you hold up 11 roses and look into a mirror, you'd be looking at 12 of the most beautiful things
in the world.
7. I miss you when I'm not with you. When I'm not with you all I do is think about you.. When I think about you I just want to be with you. And when I'm with you,
it's like all of my dreams have come true
8. I can conquer the world with just one hand as long as you are
holding the other.
9. Every day, I try my best to be a better man just so I can be more
worthy of your love.
10. I always want to see you laugh because you look so cute when you laugh. And when
you laugh, I am happy.
11. I'm lucky to have you. If you were a gemstone for sale, I
would never be able to afford you.
So guys, activate this audio-textual romance today. Start with
number 1 and work your way down with one day interval and
you will surely leave an impression that would count for you in days.
The good thing about SMSs is that she can read it while you're not
there to remind her of
your love.
Try it, it doesn’t hurt.

An Office romance isn’t like what you see in romantic movies, it’s way more complicated than that. But you can’t decide where and when the love bug would hit you and we all know that the heart always goes for what it wants. If you find yourself seeking more than a platonic relationship with a colleague of yours, how do you handle your attraction and emotions?
There are pros and cons of starting an office romance, here are some factors to consider before you make your next move:
1. Office policy: Every work place comes with its set of policies which keeps the organisation together. Does your company encourage romantic relationships between co-workers? It’s better you find out before going ahead. Your job may be on the line for doing that, especially if it’s a well paying one.
2. Conflicting interests: A conflict between your private life and work is likely to ensue where you may have to choose sides or make decisions which may be unfavorable to your partner. Conflict of interest may lead to favoritism in the workplace especially when your romantic interest is part of your team. This decisions may in turn affect your work and company’s target. For instance, extending deadlines for your partner when you don’t give the other team members the same liberty.
3. Avoid office gossips: Rumours and gists aren’t new in office settings, but being the topic of discussion isn’t always funny.
Workplace romances give gossip mongers something to talk about.
There’s really no need to flaunt your relationship in anyone’s face, keep it as discreet as possible away from the office, especially if you guys are just having a fling.
4. Break ups and the aftermath: When things go south and finally breaks off between both of you, how would you handle your relationship from then onwards? After a breakup you both have to move on, doesn’t matter if you were hurt or not, lift your head up and take those baby step towards the next stage of your life.
5. Professionalism: Kissing, smooching and all the public displays of affection are a huge no-no in the office. Keep it all inside till you both leave the office. Don’t mix your business with pleasure. Keep your office mails and chats as formal as possible, it would do you both good.

This ‘letter’ has two purposes: To Warn and to Advice.
The Warning Part
A friend once told me of how a guy was pestering her life with all manner of suggestive texts and suspicious gestures, trying to FORCE her into an unscrupulous relationship.
I was pissed because my dear was being threatened and more pissed because he was ignorantly stubborn hoping he could date someone like my friend- who’s got morals.
Some guys of today, go around with the malicious mindset that the size of their manhood can substitute the size of their “mindhood”. Simply put: Don’t build your life around No girl- It’s not worth it. Build around a worthy goal and all these other things shall be added unto you It’s plain illiteracy to go after a girl that way!
The ADVICE Part
This is like the body of this thread; REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER FORCE YOURSELF ON ANY GIRL, in view of a relationship.
Quickly, let’s see a few:
1. All ladies are the same
I’m not on the contrary… You see, it beats my imagination how guys move from one girl to another, does she have a different ‘privy part’ from the other girl? Because, that’s the major reasons guys cheat. Don’t FORCE yourself on any girl because there is so much more than meets the eye, so carefully take note of the nuances and unspoken words, body movements and gestures. Break Up is an unnecessary evil.
2. We are told to Approach and not to Encroach
In my little time around ladies, whether friends or crushes; I’ve discovered that you could actually be encroaching thinking you are approaching. Before getting too involved, be sure it’s not in vain. “Years Of Friendzoning Makes A Guy Look Like He’s Been Duped”
Approach her if you like her. When you discover her heart is elsewhere, dump her.
3. Girls Need Guys More Than Guys Need Them
Am I quoting Scriptures here? Before someone calls me a chauvinist, the Bible spoke about, in the ET, it will be seven ladies to just one guy. Take it or leave it, girls wish they could ask guys out . For many reasons; Protection, Financial assistance, Warmth, Leadership, Companionship etc. Guys, don’t FORCE yourself on any lady, whosoever please.
4. It Sends The Wrong Signal
Trying to get her to like you in a short period of time sends the opposite message. Good intention, yea, but it sends a “Desperate Call” to her. Not FORCING yourself on any accords you some form of honour and avoid insults too.
5. The “You Forced Me Into This Relationship” Speech May Surface.
If you didn’t understand the rest points, at least grasp this point, don’t FORCE a girl into your life and family. If you FORCE her to come, you’ll do same to get her to stay. Fine or Average-looking, they’re the same; same sexual parts! In fact, let her make the choice of choosing you without any coercion from anyone.
Forcing a girl into a relationship with you is plain stupidity. Who says you can approach?
You can but don’t use the law of Force saying, “If I don’t have you, I’ll die”— Lielie, is your name Laila?
To me, state your aim for getting close to her, watch her reaction for days. React based on those figures.....

1. Good night pals! (So make we
cry?).
2. Am back pals! (From... where?
Prison or cemetry?).
3. My heart is broken, I will
never love again (No be new thing).
4. Am gonna be off for a while
(Safe journey, no be force).
5. Am back! Did u miss me? (I
didn't even notice u had gone...Duh!).
6. I love my Boo (Tell him, not us).
7. Lagos on my mind (Ehen? Why
u dey tell me? Na me wan give u
transport FARE?).
8. So Angry (Go fight who provoke u na)
9. People are wicked (Na today u
just dey know?)
10. Am in love (No be news).
11. I saw an angel (Na demon u
for see b4?).
12. Money on my mind (Na so!!
Here resemble CBN? Go rob
bank).
13. Oh God my flight is delayed
(Take molue or keke).
14. New look (Wetin be our business?).
15. Am tired of this life (Who send u come b4?).
16. Church tinx on my mind (Na baba lawo tinx dey ur mind before?)
17. Cooking tinx uploading 99% (better hungry never beat u)
18. Abuja Loading (U be conductor?). # Lol

1. Free yourself from negative people.
2. Let go of those who are already gone.
3. Give people you don't know a fair chance.
4. Show everyone kindness and respect.
5. Accept people just they way they are.
6. Encourage others and cheer for them.
7. Be your imperfectly perfect self.
8. Forgive people and move forward.
9. Do little things every day for others.
10. Always be loyal.
11. Say in better touch with people who matter to
you.
12. Keep your promises and tell the truth.
13. Give what you want to receive.
14. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
15. Allow others to make their own decisions.
16. Talk a little less, and listen more.
17. Leave petty arguments alone.
18. Pay attention to your relationship with
yourself.
19. Pay attention to who your real friends are.
20. Ignore unconstructive,hurtful commentary.
Pick at least one of these to focus on TODAY, lets start making a change not just reading about change.

1
Let it take some time.Break-ups can be tough. Even if your relationship didn't last that long, it can be hard to see the end of the tunnel. If you can feel like you're suddenly alone in the world, Try to remember that you've been single before, and you'll figure out a way to get through this in time.
*.Do the moping thing. Eat the ice cream. Watch the sappy Netflix movies. Let yourself be sad and go through the motions.
*.Don't let it go too far. Don't mope around for more than a couple days for every month you were together with this person. There's such a thing as over-reacting when it comes to break-ups.
2
Stop communicating with your ex.If you want to start recovering, then you need to stop pouring salt in the wound. If your broke up with someone, stop talking to them. If they broke up with you, definitely stop talking to them. Avoid all contact, at least for a couple weeks.
*.Unfriend or stop following this person on social networking. In fact, sometimes it's best to take a social media break if you're going through a break-up. Everyone's "I'm so happy on vacation" stuff will seem super-irritating. Don't make it worse by bingeing on Facebook.
*.The "let's be friends after" thing? It almost never works. But even if you think you're an exception, it's still important to let yourself be separate for a while. Give yourself a few weeks at least before you try to be friends again.
3
Celebrate your new freedom.Breaking up doesn't have to be a somber affair. Even though, yes, now you might be alone, you're also free. If you want to wake up on Saturday morning, play loud music at the crack of dawn, and eat Cheetos in your bathrobe, who's going to complain? Nobody!
*.Remember that thing that your ex hated? Yeah. Do that thing.
*.Cut your hair off, or get a tattoo. Make a big change in your appearance that your ex would have hated. It'll feel good.
*.Go out for a night with your friends and kick up your heels a bit. Live a little. Just don't go too crazy. Break-ups aren't a good excuse for getting nuts with tobacco, drugs, or alcohol.
4
Make the changes you want to make.Sometimes, break-ups can give you a great opportunity to better yourself. Find something that you always wanted to do, but couldn't because of your relationship. If your relationship was holding you back in any way, go for it now that you're single.
*. Get in shape. Start exercising and working on getting fit. It'll help you feel better and more confident.
*.Consider moving into a new place if you shared a place with your partner. There can be lingering ghosts there that'll be hard to ignore.
*.Maybe it's time for an even bigger change. Why are you at your job? Why do you live where you live? What do you want to do? What would make you happy? Maybe it's time to move to Colorado and do that wilderness training.
5
Talk about it with someone close to you.There's no solution to the break-up problem, usually, but letting it out can be really helpful. Find a close friend or loved one to open up to and talk about how you're feeling. Even if you're a normally private person, it can be very helpful to open up to someone and start the process of feeling better.
6
Spend time with your friends.You need to be with people right now. Go out with your friends, or have people over when you just want to hang out and have a quiet night at home. Just be together and talk to people about other things. Watch sports, talk about work. Just be.
*.Sometimes, you may just want to be alone. That's ok. If you really don't feel like being around a bunch of happy people right now, then stay home. But Try to recognize when you're being self-defeating, and when you're being honest with yourself.
7
Get busy.The more stuff you've got going on, the easier it is to avoid thinking about your ex. Sounds good right? Find something that will keep you busy so you can't slip back into depressive feelings.
*.Throw yourself into work responsibilities. See if you can work extra hours or take on additional responsibilities. Making more money and climbing the ladder at work as a grieving process? Now that's productive.
*.Find a new hobby. Sometimes, a break-up can be the perfect time to write that novel, or pick up bass guitar, or learn to scuba dive.
8
Start dating again, when the time is right.While it will seem awkward and strange at first, you'll meet someone eventually. Even if it doesn't work out, have some fun while you can and play the field. There are a lot of people to meet out there.
*.Try not to compare your new partner to your old one. That can be very difficult at first. If you're not ready to meet and enjoy the company of someone for who they are, then you shouldn't be dating yet.
*.To test the waters and see if you're ready, try dating online. It can seem intense at first, but it's also a good way of dipping a toe in the water and seeing if it feels comfortable. If it is, try meeting someone.

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