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Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 2:36pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: Never mind then. |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:35pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: Lol, go you. Suddenly, the bolded just made you less attractive as I was beginning to think up names for our future children |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 2:26pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: Just do it yourself on the link I provided you. I'm guessing an Aries moon with Scorpio mars or venus. If you have that, I'll marry you today |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 2:18pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: I'm not sensing Sagittarius in you at all. I'm sure you're a Sagittarius with a Scorpio venus, moon or mars. Mind doing your natal chart here? https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php&ved=2ahUKEwigt86jj_zoAhVQXsAKHdPAD4QQFjAAegQIAxAB&usg=AOvVaw0KmVpBg329ypjqbK-YszKb |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 2:09pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: Spot on @ bolded. What's your zodiac sign? You're giving me a strong Leo, Aries or Scorpio vibe. |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:04pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: So you're not afraid of a lady with a bit of a jealous streak? It takes passion & passion isn't necessarily a bad thing if you like those long, sweaty night sessions of hot love making |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 1:54pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: That's because I'm a private person when it comes to that. My sex life stays in the bedroom, so you're gonna have to get me between the sheets to find out No guy will ever control me lol. Do I like a guy to take charge & be the man in the relationship? Absolutely! But to control & lord over me? That's not going to happen. I will willingly humble myself to someone who doesn't try to dominate me, that's not a problem. But he has to be worth it. I'll not hand over my willpower to any average schmuck. My personality is too strong, so it requires a bit of gentility in order for me to put away the fighting staves & submit to my master 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:36pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: Looooool. I don't know about any of that but yes, I'm extremely possessive |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:20pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: That couldn't be farther from the truth. For one, I don't have a physical type if all the men I have dated are anything to go by. I'm particularly not impressed by looks. However, I prefer my guys to be above average in height & stocky. Doesn't mean I've not gone against that when I meet a viable candidate though because I have dated skinny & average before. So no, it's not about that at all. I want a good man like the next girl, but I'm not gonna settle for just about anybody if it doesn't feel right to me. It has to feel right & the man gotta live up to certain expectations (be smart, reliable, consistent etc) because I actually don't mind being single. |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 1:01pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
lefulefu: Lol, I'm still shocked by the part about meat pieces stored in the vjj for a week just to keep a man on a short leash. I can't get over it.
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Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 12:55pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: I can't put it in words, but I know it when I see it. I'm an intuitive person, so everything to me is mostly about feeling someone out. Listening to the unspoken so to speak. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 12:47pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: Good luck with that |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 12:42pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: He sounds like the one! Where is he? On a serious note though, it's not that easy because a part of me fears relationships. I don't fall easily but when I do, it's for real, which makes falling in love again even much harder, particularly once my feelings have been hurt. So yeah, it's easier said than done. That possibly played part into why I never pursued that relationship. Maybe my fears created some sort of resistance that translated into me being put off by the differences. After all, loving someone from a distance is different from having an actual relationship with them. Dreaming is my favourite part, but making those dreams into reality, that's when I start to tap dance out of fear |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 12:26pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rawhumper: The bolded, that's pretty much it. Marriage is no walk in the park, hence there're many who've married more than once. The 1st one is often a mistake because people are so eager keeping up with the Jones' or rushing against their biological clocks, to really take in who or what they're committing their lives to. |
Romance / Re: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 11:51am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Liliantalks: The problem with most so-called good girls is that they love bad men. I guess that's why marriage doesn't come easy to them. But you don't need to be good or bad to be settled in life, you just need to date accordingly. A "good girl" friend of mine is married to a pastor & they seem happy from the outside. The thing is, we're all viewing these things from the outside, but we don't know what goes on behind closed doors. It's not over until it's over. Meaning, those marriages could end due to irreconcilable differences, long term. Some people are just not fit for marriage & someone always ends up miserable in those unholy unions. I've watched many marriages fall apart because a leopard can't change its spots, making endings inevitable over time. So don't feel left out because someone got hitched before you did because you don't know the fate of their marriage. Just hope that you'll meet a suitable match & that your own marriage will stand the test of time. Honestly these days, very few marriages are enviable. They're mostly marriages of convenience where one or both parties are secretly unfulfilled. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:23am On Apr 22, 2020 |
bonnyhope: Ok. |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:22am On Apr 22, 2020 |
czarr: I also don't care what your likes & dislikes are, hence I don't see the point of this conversation, that you started. Dismissed. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Is That Bad Thing You Did,that You Managed To Get Away With Till Today? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:19am On Apr 22, 2020 |
oxiide22: No need. I'm ugly. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:18am On Apr 22, 2020 |
czarr: Unfortunately, your two-bit opinion doesn't matter to me. So basically, you just wasted your time, dumbo. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:56am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Ablemax: Just the things he'd say, I found them a little immature for someone his age lol. He also frequented seedy places/night clubs, which was one of the main reasons I figured we probably wouldn't gel well together. I don't like party animals because I have more of a demure disposition & a homebody that finds comfort indoors, so we wouldn't have worked out based on that alone. |
Romance / Re: Why Is That I Don't Get To Marry Him? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:18am On Apr 22, 2020 |
What advice do you need? Things ended the way they did perhaps because it wasn't meant to be. It's not the end of the world. Dust yourself up & try again. True love will find you when the time is right. Pray about it if you're the type. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:09am On Apr 22, 2020 |
czarr: It doesn't matter who I meant. The bottom line is, face front. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:58am On Apr 22, 2020 |
czarr: Some people do believe in those things, so live & let live. We don't live under your rulership here. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:53am On Apr 22, 2020 |
czarr: So why are you interfering if you're not a believer? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:52am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Karlifate: Yes, yes, yes! What's your moon sign? I already know you're a Leo lol. |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:36am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Karlifate: YES. Emphasis on "Never forget" or forgive for that matter lol. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:29am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Karlifate: That's correct, thanks 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Fall In Love With Your Neighbour? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:07am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Karlifate: Lol, okay. I can see you're well-versed in Astrology. What can you say about someone with my sun, moon & rising combination? |
Romance / Re: Penile Length (pics) by XhosaNostra(f): 7:43am On Apr 22, 2020 |
nisai: LMFAO stahp, it's too early in the day for all that filth. Jesus! |
Romance / Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 7:38am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Ok. Let me go & check again. |
Romance / Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 7:28am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Oh ok, I see. I hope you meet that awesome boy soon No, the sex wasn't amazing lol. Aries men are known for being one minute men in the astrology world & there's a grain of truth in that I can do without earth-shattering sex if it means emotionally I'm not disturbed. A peaceful home means everything to me, so yeah, we were good for a while. |
Romance / Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 7:01am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88: @bolded, where's your venus sign? I find that a little concerning. Girl, you don't wanna come home to a 100 cats, you better work on that I think you'll probably do better with air & fire signs because they'll give you the space to just be. The reason why my relationship with the Aries lasted for so long is, he had a life! He'd do his own thing, which gave me enough breathing room to focus on myself. However, there is such a thing as, "Too much freedom". You don't wanna know how that one ended But anyway, I'm not bitter because here I am still an advocate for the pairing because it truly had many highlights. That's my girl! That's what I like about our sign, we move the eff on as if nothing happened Morning to you too, sweetheart. I hope you had a fantastic night rest. 1 Like |
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